₦airaland Forum

nurudeen181:
Can a woman mostly take responsibility for a marriage union even if she has money?
No.
Can a man take responsibility for a marriage union, mostly yes even if he has nothing. So the blame must go to the women because only very few of them can take responsibility

Corporate2020:
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Stop saying nonsense. A man can marry as many women as he lives, just as God allowed and love Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Job, Daid, Solomon and others. I don't you where you go your one man and one woman from. I think I know, you prefer one man with one wife, but many side chicks like your Yahoo Pastors have been doing

zinaunreal:
Go try am na. In such civil society you will join them asap

VEE2010:
Capital, YES!
First, we have heard about the adulterous woman in the Bible. Why wasn't the man publicly denounced? For adultery to occur, there must be at least two consenting adults. Why wasn't the man publicly denounced or dishonored like the woman?

Second, it is scientifically proven that men are polygamous by nature and, judging by most of them, have mistresses while remaining close to their families, unlike women who become emotionally detached from their husbands and children as soon as they begin relationships with other men.

nairalanda1:
Adultery is adultery, both are evil.

But on nairaland, according to our red pill gang, women are the only ones that commit adultery, men are polygamous, and can sleep with any women even when they are married to five women, because men are polygamous.

Also, according to our red pill gang, all women are evil and devious, including their mothers and sisters and daughters.

Sometimes the reasoning on this site....

YourGFsnatcher:
A mam can impregnate many girls a day, a woman can only get pregnant for one mam in 9months... e get why

nairalanda1:
So, man go impregnate woman up and dawm without marrying them first, and bringing them into his house?

Adultery is wrong, whether man or woman.

pocohantas:
If I didn't enter any polygamous or open marriage agreement with you from the onset, then you would definitely return to the street if and when I catch you cheating. You are not going to infect me with sexual demons.

Kobojunkie:
Oh, now that women are finally fixing to embrace their polygamous side, your god wants all adultery to come to a stop? Abegi! 🥱🥱🥱

higgs:
Extra marital sex is mostly a man's game because it is men who spend most money in relationships including buying the women gifts,paying for weddings and footing family bills.Men also don't get pregnant. A woman who wants that priviledge must learn to foot her own bills and use protection with her side guys.Even with all that, if it is discovered, it may be the end of the marriage.

KayaMaghan:
In the Western World, all adultery is the same.

In Nigeria, where the man "pays" for the woman, it is not the same.

In Nigeria, the man is supposed to pay a bride price, and fulfill some cultural obligations. This is to signify that he's the head, and "lord" over the woman. So imagine "paying for something" and having someone else use it.

And as the head, the man can still choose to go for as many women as he can afford, because a man's worth is only measured by how much he can afford.

Even after the wedding, the man is expected to be the one taking all the responsibilities. You cannot talk about equality when only one person is expected to carry all the load.

This idea of "paying" Bride price and paying off some list will have to go first before we can talk about men and women being equal in a marriage, because it indirectly places the man over the woman, and patriarchy is what equality is trying to do away with.

I dislike patriarchy as much as I despise feminism.

We are all Equal, but we are NOT the same!

nairalanda1:
Adultery is adultery, both are evil.

But on nairaland, according to our red pill gang, women are the only ones that commit adultery, men are polygamous, and can sleep with any women even when they are married to five women, because men are polygamous.

Also, according to our red pill gang, all women are evil and devious, including their mothers and sisters and daughters.

Sometimes the reasoning on this site....

bukatyne:
Let's assume that women don't contribute financially in their marriages.

So you mean if a woman contributes to her marriage financially, it is 'ok' for her to.commit adultery?

pocohantas:
If I didn't enter any polygamous or open marriage agreement with you from the onset, then you would definitely return to the street if and when I catch you cheating. [b]You are not going to infect me with sexual demons[/b).

bukatyne:
To think I am listening to something in this line.

nairalanda1:
Abraham, ....was told that Sarah was going to birth the chosen one, instead he went for Hagar, and had Ishmael (and all of you will be yarning about how Ishmael is affecting you through the muzlems, not knowing that the thing you endorse brought it about).

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