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Poll: Which is More Evil?

Married Men Adultery Is More Evil 1% (11 votes)
Married Women Adultery Is More Evil 37% (373 votes)
Adultery Is Adultery: Both Are Evil 61% (609 votes)
This poll has ended

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Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by eniteden(m): 1:14pm On Jan 17
Omo adultry is not Adulty but is adultry! grin

Fact! That time when u need ur wife so much na that time she won watch that her favorite program, cook, attend to pikin, call her mama make them guest or ask u for that fine cloths wey she won buy and just do random thing in the process just to turn u off, this happen most times.

Guys cheesy i dey speak for una abi na for myself grin

Some go even tell u babe later nau let me finish this movie cheesy grin not knowing say na that time wey person dey hungry nai food go sweet am, my people when hungry don tear ur bele grin u no see food even the Bele go relax say no hope or coast no clear grin

And most time when eventually come cheesy baba bele no too need the food again, na to eat am because tank empty nothing else, all the want and energy/salivating is gone and dried grin

Now my guys them real men them, ones u call side bae lets see today briefly cheesy Omo them don wash pot/clean am, spray am, make sure everywhere dey smell good, baff, recollect ur favorite style for ground grin

As u dey enter room most time na grab them go grab ur spirit with the kind welcome/hug/skimpy lingering/already prepared hot soup wey as u shook spoon put everywhere na stew grin grin

Guys? abeg una well well make una no dey commit adultery cheesy as for me oo i no dey comit i get only 1 special restaurant wey i dey chop grin
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by nairalanda1(m): 1:20pm On Jan 17
oweniwe:
This is wrong

It was Sarah that was insisting and pestering Abraham to pregnant her slave girl.

Abraham didn't want to do it, but he was overruled
And it went against God's will.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by nairalanda1(m): 1:20pm On Jan 17
Kimo21:
Adultery is wrong on both sides both they don’t carry the same weight. If you commit adultery and get the woman pregnant at least you can cater for the child…but a woman can hide her adultery…get pregnant fo the man and make you raise a child that is not yours and keep it a secret for LIFE which scenario do you think is more grevious
If you are a Christian , there is no such thing as types of or grades of sin. Sin na SIN.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kimo21(m): 1:27pm On Jan 17
nairalanda1:
If you are a Christian , there is no such thing as types of or grades of sin. Sin na SIN.
If you’re a true Christian you’ll know that not all sins are the same. If not Paul will not classify sexual immorality as sinning against your own body while every other sin you commit is outside your body and not all sins carry the same consequences. Go and read your Bible properly before talking to me. By the way you shifted the goal post when I clearly stated that the consequences are not the same for the genders involved in adultery you changed it to something else entirely.You always like to talk as if you’re one Einstein meanwhile when they checkmate you you talk with both sides of your mouth.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by jrobbins: 1:34pm On Jan 17
Lol. Oyibo tell Una say man supposed dey with only one woman, but man fit marry another man.

Rubbish. Just like our fore fathers, man no get Adultery.

What if he's dating the said lady to decide if he'd marry her as a second, third, fourth or fifth wife?

Rubbish colonial mindset Una carry come here. My second wife will answer you people.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Mariangeles(f): 1:37pm On Jan 17
YourGFsnatcher:
A mam can impregnate many girls a day, a woman can only get pregnant for one mam in 9months... e get why
Your point being... huh huh huh
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Banhammy717: 1:54pm On Jan 17
Marry a virgin lady, she will never cheat on you, there's always sense of contentment in them
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Alive2018: 2:04pm On Jan 17
Hedonisco:
Wokeism is causing so much ridiculousness in Nigeria/Africa.

Men don't 'cheat'. They simply exercise their traditional rights. The concept of cheating or 'adultery' is exclusively for women only.

The fact that a man can acquire as many wives and concubines as he can take care of, even in the Bible (Solomon, David, etc), while women simply cannot, should answer the question.

A man, married or single, having multiple women is like someone washing his hands in multiple bowls. Whereas a woman having multiple men fucking her is like multiple people washing their hands in the same dirty bowl with contaminated water. Disgusting. End of.
Hmm, man having multiple women is not like washing hands, it is contacting all kinds of evil or bad spirit. There are bad spirit outer there. Avoid it. If you have a habit of Fornication or adultery, whether you are a man or a woman you are sick. Ask God to heal your heart.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by nairalanda1(m): 2:06pm On Jan 17
Kimo21:
If you’re a true Christian you’ll know that not all sins are the same.
LOL...you are excusing evil. Simple and short.

I end it here.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by nairalanda1(m): 2:07pm On Jan 17
Kimo21:
If you’re a true Christian you’ll know that not all sins are the same. If not Paul will not classify sexual immorality as sinning against your own body while every other sin you commit is outside your body and not all sins carry the same consequences. Go and read your Bible properly before talking to me. By the way you shifted the goal post when I clearly stated that the consequences are not the same for the genders involved in adultery you changed it to something else entirely.You always like to talk as if you’re one Einstein meanwhile when they checkmate you you talk with both sides of your mouth.
SO, if sexual immorality is sinning against one's body, that means both men and women are sinning against their body.

You are here justifying your sins. cheesy
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kimo21(m): 2:18pm On Jan 17
nairalanda1 such a coward..you didnt even let me see the comment you made before blocking just because you cant accept youre wrong.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by jidesp(m): 2:29pm On Jan 17
Questions of religious merit or divine reaction can only truly be answered by the Creator. While adultery is defined as a sin within religious doctrine, the real societal concern is not gender but consequence: does the act damage trust, family stability, and social order?

When morality is applied selectively, it stops being principle and becomes cultural bias.


cutecommend:
Several married men sleep with side chics and several ladies sleep with married men, but the society does not see it as so much evil as when a guy sleeps with a married woman or when a married woman is found sleeping with another man or guy. If a married man in a street is known for chasing ladies, the criticism may not be as much as when a married woman in same street is known for such......

Even married women may shame badly another married woman caught cheating. They may call her prostitute: but if it is a married man, it may not be so.

The truth is that all adultery are clear sins before God and God does not give any consideration to any.

Stop adultery today whether you are a married man or married woman.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by nairalanda1(m): 2:53pm On Jan 17
A lot of men and women here have to stop hating people of the opposite gender here. It's kind of painful to see that kind of hate out here and in the open.

If you as a man hate and despise women, then maybe it is time, if you are religious, to pray to God to help free you from such hate and bitterness.

But then again, they go call me simp. cheesy
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by virginboy1(m): 4:24pm On Jan 17
Hedonisco:
Wokeism is causing so much ridiculousness in Nigeria/Africa.

Men don't 'cheat'. They simply exercise their traditional rights. The concept of cheating or 'adultery' is exclusively for women only.

The fact that a man can acquire as many wives and concubines as he can take care of, even in the Bible (Solomon, David, etc), while women simply cannot, should answer the question.

A man, married or single, having multiple women is like someone washing his hands in multiple bowls. Whereas a woman having multiple men fucking her is like multiple people washing their hands in the same dirty bowl with contaminated water. Disgusting. End of.
Words of wisdom
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by descarado: 4:32pm On Jan 17
nairalanda1:
Men cheat. End of story.

Yes, men can acquire concubines and wives, only after they have done the formalities and observed the rites and traditions and paid the brideprice and so forth.

You are here justifying sleeping around like some form of gigolo in the name of polygamy. That is not how our forefathers and how even today, did polygamy. They did not just mount any woman they saw, they followed laid down precepts to get another woman into their house.

Yes, and sleeping around affects men and the women they sleep with. That's how STI's spread. Plus, the children. It affects the children. That is why we have marriage, be it monogamy or polygamy, so that by force man go dey him pikin life.

As for wokeism, woke also means rebelling against monogamous sexual norms, so by doing that, you too are as woke as the femminist who claims sleeping aorund as a woman is okay.
Its official.
Now I know u guys do not know anything about feminism.

Feminism and being woke have nothing in common.
A woke woman will tell you sleeping around is OK.
That has nothing to do with feminism.

The enjoyment women around you have today were fought for by feminists.
Feminists include me and women.


In the UK where I live, women do not vote. Yes.
Women anchors in BBC were paid half of what the mn are paid not long ago.
Pregnant women and mothers with kids have it bad with employment. Not only in the UK.
Feminism fought and today, women have voice.

In the olden days, women are not seen in the corridors of powers.
Men have mistresses whom they move around with than their wives. Example lord lugard and his mistress that named your country. Wives stay at home as slaves. No education. The mistress controls your family and man. Mothers train their girls to be mistresses cos it pays better.
Feminism destroyed official mistress. Feminism ga e birth to mothers who have voices. Mothers who can go to school and contribute to the society. Women who can actually rule. The best monarchs till date in the UK are both women. Queen Elizabeth and Victoria. They made the country what it is today.

Should I go to south Korea and china?

You guys know nothing about feminism at all except what some low lives name it here.
My granny, mum were all feminists. Infact, in my community, all the ladies are feminists. Its natural and we are all born to it. The reason you cannot come and claim any child as a man from my area as long as you do not pay the bride price or come and acknowledge the pregnancy and the lady before birth cos as soon as a lady is pregnant, her people must try to contact the father. Once you refuse to acknowledge her and the pregnancy, go to any court, the child is not yours. That is feminism. Can I say our men are feminists too cos they protect their girl child?
Women will treat your fkup if you abuse your wife and vice versa. That is feminism

Remember, being woke has nothing to do with feminism
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Chibuezem(m): 4:40pm On Jan 17
Kobojunkie:
Oh, now that women are finally fixing to embrace their polygamous side, your god wants all adultery to come to a stop? Abegi! 🥱🥱🥱
God (my daddy) has always condemned adultery


It is both ways

I've missed your tags lol
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:48pm On Jan 17
Chibuezem:
God (my daddy) has always condemned adultery. It is both ways I've missed your tags lol
The same daddy that has been quiet all the time that it took men to decree adultery their right in marriage, abi? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Chibuezem(m): 4:50pm On Jan 17
Kobojunkie:
The same daddy that has been quiet all the time that it took men to decree adultery their right in marriage, abi? 🥱🥱🥱
love what you did there

My daddy has never been quiet
He speaks to his own children and those who are open in the heart
Unfortunately you get olumo rock as heart with no desire to hear from your Daddy .
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by nairalanda1(m): 4:52pm On Jan 17
descarado:
Its official.
Now I know u guys do not know anything about feminism.

Feminism and being woke have nothing in common.
A woke woman will tell you sleeping around is OK.
That has nothing to do with feminism.

The enjoyment women around you have today were fought for by feminists.
Feminists include me and women.


In the UK where I live, women do not vote. Yes.
Women anchors in BBC were paid half of what the mn are paid not long ago.
Pregnant women and mothers with kids have it bad with employment. Not only in the UK.
Feminism fought and today, women have voice.

In the olden days, women are not seen in the corridors of powers.
Men have mistresses whom they move around with than their wives. Example lord lugard and his mistress that named your country. Wives stay at home as slaves. No education. The mistress controls your family and man. Mothers train their girls to be mistresses cos it pays better.
Feminism destroyed official mistress. Feminism ga e birth to mothers who have voices. Mothers who can go to school and contribute to the society. Women who can actually rule. The best monarchs till date in the UK are both women. Queen Elizabeth and Victoria. They made the country what it is today.

Should I go to south Korea and china?

You guys know nothing about feminism at all except what some low lives name it here.
My granny, mum were all feminists. Infact, in my community, all the ladies are feminists. Its natural and we are all born to it. The reason you cannot come and claim any child as a man from my area as long as you do not pay the bride price or come and acknowledge the pregnancy and the lady before birth cos as soon as a lady is pregnant, her people must try to contact the father. Once you refuse to acknowledge her and the pregnancy, go to any court, the child is not yours. That is feminism. Can I say our men are feminists too cos they protect their girl child?
Women will treat your fkup if you abuse your wife and vice versa. That is feminism

Remember, being woke has nothing to do with feminism
I'm aware of all of that, but there is a way you speak to some people
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:54pm On Jan 17
Chibuezem:
love what you did there. My daddy has never been quiet. He speaks to his own children and those who are open in the heart. Unfortunately you get olumo rock as heart with no desire to hear from your Daddy .
So, your daddy speaks to his children, and it seems they all don't want to hear from him at all because they all cosigned this way of men are entitled to adultery in marriage age we now live in? And your daddy did absolutely nothing all that while, only now, through the same children who refuse to listen to him, he suddenly wants us to believe women should not follow suit? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:57pm On Jan 17
blesdman:
➜The truth the society is not telling Africans is that until women start paying dowries to men, they have no business sleeping out when they have married. Money involvement and contribution is the determinant of evil in relationships. Otherwise, everyone should keep deceiving themselves...
Your own Africa is a place where men pull ridiculous ideas out of their arses whenever it pleases them, abi? Well, guess what? Women also have assholes, and they too can pull ridiculous ideas out of their arsese whenever it pleases them. Good luck! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:59pm On Jan 17
cutecommend:
IFeel free to do whatever you wish. Who is stopping you?
Indeeed.... nothing seems able to stop the wave of married men with their side-chicks and married women with their side-dicks. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 5:04pm On Jan 17
nairalanda1:
➜If you are polygamous or monogamous, sleeping with someone outside marriage na ADULTERY...it matters not the gender of the person doing it.
Yes, and all those red pill guys who go around saying 'men are polygamous' when a man does the adultery thing, are comedians.
I think every religion is clear about that....but some people self...
Every religion is clear about what people in every religion out there do not abide by? 🥱🥱

2. The redpill individuals are also religious, and many of them utilize religious doctrines in pushing their ideas as well. So, this matter is definitely religious/traditional at its core. And this isn't a some people issue, as the numbers are large enough for all to see that maybe religion is just good at pushing rules that even the religious do not care much for. 🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by YourGFsnatcher: 5:16pm On Jan 17
Mariangeles:
Your point being... huh huh huh
Women are not made to be promiscuous
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by YourGFsnatcher: 5:19pm On Jan 17
nairalanda1:
So, man go impregnate woman up and dawm without marrying them first, and bringing them into his house?

Adultery is wrong, whether man or woman.
It's wrong, but nature always has natural balance.
The same way we want to advocate for equal gender roles, even though we know that by design, there are things that men or women can do better in natural frequency.

That's why as a married woman, the society by default expects you to keep your purity.

Imagine your dad has a side chick
Now imagine your mom has a side dude.

Which one will pain you the most?
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 5:22pm On Jan 17
YourGFsnatcher:
➜Women are not made to be promiscuous
You don't seem to understand the meaning of the word promiscuous, do you? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by YourGFsnatcher: 5:26pm On Jan 17
Kobojunkie:
You don't seem to understand the meaning of the word promiscuous, do you? 🥱🥱🥱
What is the meaning of promiscuous?
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Hismajesty44: 5:27pm On Jan 17
As a married man has the right becoming community dicke naturally, also applied to his wife. Cream around with other people wives and want to preserve your own at home...? Madam Puccini na for others too.
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 5:31pm On Jan 17
YourGFsnatcher:
➜It's wrong, but nature always has natural balance.
The same way we want to advocate for equal gender roles, even though we know that by design, there are things that men or women can do better in natural frequency.
➜ That's why as a married woman, the society by default expects you to keep your purity.
➜ Imagine your dad has a side chick. Now imagine your mom has a side dude. Which one will pain you the most?
1. What are some of these things that men

2. Your logic is not logic-ing at all. Why again does society think it deserves a woman's supposed purity and not a man's purity? 🥱🥱🥱

3. So, because children have at this point been conditioned to accepting their fathers stabbing their mothers in the back by way of adultery—the betrayal hurts all the same, but helpless about it and choosing then to console themselves with the fact that they were probably not even emotionally bonded with their cheating father, children typically resign themselves to accepting him for the douchebag that he is— you think that means their father's adultery hurts them less? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Kobojunkie: 5:39pm On Jan 17
YourGFsnatcher:
➜What is the meaning of promiscuous?
Society's own definition of the term can be found in the dictionary.
pro·mis·cu·ous
1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.
2. demonstrating or implying an undiscriminating or unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual.
As you can clearly see, it has nothing to do with women carrying only one pregnancy at a time, nor does it have anything to do with the gender of the party. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by Chibuezem(m): 5:40pm On Jan 17
Kobojunkie:
So, your daddy speaks to his children, and it seems they all don't want to hear from him at all because they all cosigned this way of men are entitled to adultery in marriage age we now live in? And your daddy did absolutely nothing all that while, only now, through the same children who refuse to listen to him, he suddenly wants us to believe women should not follow suit? 🥱🥱🥱
I guess you've been hungry or bored today

Do you believe in God ?
Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by nairalanda1(m): 5:47pm On Jan 17
YourGFsnatcher:
It's wrong, but nature always has natural balance.
The same way we want to advocate for equal gender roles, even though we know that by design, there are things that men or women can do better in natural frequency.

That's why as a married woman, the society by default expects you to keep your purity.

Imagine your dad has a side chick
Now imagine your mom has a side dude.

Which one will pain you the most?
Well, it would pain me equally if both my parents, when I was younger, slept around. Simple and short.

You guys should stop excusing your sleeping around, because it makes you sound like the sluts you deingerate for sleeping around.
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