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drstranged:
➜This is not a gender war. I am specifically referring to women, and I want honest discussion. I find this behaviour hypocritical and two-faced, and I’ll explain why. A woman accuses her boyfriend of “disturbing her for sex,” says he’s too sexually demanding, and uses that as a major reason to end the relationship. Fine. She has every right to leave.
But after the breakup, she goes on to date other men and ends up having the same sex she complained about — sometimes even more. Those relationships don’t work out. Then she comes back to the original man.A lady broke up with my friend because she said he was disturbing her too much for sex. After leaving him, she entered two separate relationships at different times and had sex with both men. Both relationships ended badly. She later tried to return to my friend.
The issue is not that she dated other men — that is her choice. The issue is this: How do you accuse a man and blame him for wanting sex, end a relationship because of it, and then turn around to willingly give even more sex to other men?
➜To my friend, this came across as dishonest justification for the breakup, a clear case of blaming him for something that was not really the problem,
➜ and an attempt to return only after discovering the grass was not greener elsewhere. Naturally, he no longer saw her the same way. Respect was lost, and attraction died.
➜ So my questions are straightforward: First, Isn’t it hypocritical to condemn a man for wanting sex, only to offer the same or more sex to others?
➜ Second, Why expect a man to accept you back after treating him like the problem?
➜ Don’t actions like this damage how a man values and respects you? This is not hatred. It is a real pattern I’ve observed, and it deserves honest conversation.

illicit:
The issue she had with the other men might not be too much sex

I have excused myself from a lady that could fvck all d time but she waits for u to initiate it


D moment u do mistake touch her, u might end up blaming urself sha

I could have died

illicit:
The issue she had with the other men might not be too much sex

I have excused myself from a lady that could fvck all d time but she waits for u to initiate it


D moment u do mistake touch her, u might end up blaming urself sha

I could have died

drstranged:
The point is, why break up a relationship with a guy because he asked for sex, only to enter another relationship and give sex freely to the other guy without blaming him. Why break up with your first guy simply because he asked you for sex and you felt it was sinful to engage in sex with him, only for you to meet another guy and freely give him sex without finding that sinful or without condemning that new guy?

illicit:
The issue she had with the other men might not be too much sex

I have excused myself from a lady that could fvck all d time but she waits for u to initiate it


D moment u do mistake touch her, u might end up blaming urself sha

I could have died

illicit:
Because every guy wants sex

But every guy dont want a d same quality nor quantity of sex

drstranged:
The point is, why break up a relationship with a guy because he asked for sex, only to enter another relationship and give sex freely to the other guy without blaming him. Why break up with your first guy simply because he asked you for sex and you felt it was sinful to engage in sex with him, only for you to meet another guy and freely give him sex without finding that sinful or without condemning that new guy?

illicit:
The issue she had with the other men might not be too much sex

I have excused myself from a lady that could fvck all d time but she waits for u to initiate it


D moment u do mistake touch her, u might end up blaming urself sha

I could have died

drstranged:
To maintain her integrity she should have avoided sex with another guy until marriage. At least she would have proven her decision to leave her first guy because of sex correct if she abstained from sex in subsequent relationships until marriage. But diving into sex in subsequent relationships shows she lacks principles

Sonnobax15:

Women are insatiable.

Na we dey overestimate dem

Once you get close to Dem,it's then you'll realize they don't worth the stress we,men go through because of them....

No single difference between them and those aboki wey be iron scavengers

drstranged:
This is not a gender war.
I am specifically referring to women, and I want honest discussion.

I find this behaviour hypocritical and two-faced, and I’ll explain why.

A woman accuses her boyfriend of “disturbing her for sex,” says he’s too sexually demanding, and uses that as a major reason to end the relationship.

Fine. She has every right to leave.

But after the breakup, she goes on to date other men and ends up having the same sex she complained about — sometimes even more. Those relationships don’t work out. Then she comes back to the original man.A lady broke up with my friend because she said he was disturbing her too much for sex. After leaving him, she entered two separate relationships at different times and had sex with both men. Both relationships ended badly. She later tried to return to my friend.

The issue is not that she dated other men — that is her choice.

The issue is this: How do you accuse a man and blame him for wanting sex, end a relationship because of it, and then turn around to willingly give even more sex to other men?

To my friend, this came across as dishonest justification for the breakup, a clear case of blaming him for something that was not really the problem, and an attempt to return only after discovering the grass was not greener elsewhere. Naturally, he no longer saw her the same way. Respect was lost, and attraction died.

So my questions are straightforward: First, Isn’t it hypocritical to condemn a man for wanting sex, only to offer the same or more sex to others? Second, Why expect a man to accept you back after treating him like the problem? Don’t actions like this damage how a man values and respects you?

This is not hatred. It is a real pattern I’ve observed, and it deserves honest conversation.

drstranged:
This is not a gender war.
I am specifically referring to women, and I want honest discussion.

I find this behaviour hypocritical and two-faced, and I’ll explain why.

A woman accuses her boyfriend of “disturbing her for sex,” says he’s too sexually demanding, and uses that as a major reason to end the relationship.

Fine. She has every right to leave.

But after the breakup, she goes on to date other men and ends up having the same sex she complained about — sometimes even more. Those relationships don’t work out. Then she comes back to the original man.A lady broke up with my friend because she said he was disturbing her too much for sex. After leaving him, she entered two separate relationships at different times and had sex with both men. Both relationships ended badly. She later tried to return to my friend.

The issue is not that she dated other men — that is her choice.

The issue is this: How do you accuse a man and blame him for wanting sex, end a relationship because of it, and then turn around to willingly give even more sex to other men?

To my friend, this came across as dishonest justification for the breakup, a clear case of blaming him for something that was not really the problem, and an attempt to return only after discovering the grass was not greener elsewhere. Naturally, he no longer saw her the same way. Respect was lost, and attraction died.

So my questions are straightforward: First, Isn’t it hypocritical to condemn a man for wanting sex, only to offer the same or more sex to others? Second, Why expect a man to accept you back after treating him like the problem? Don’t actions like this damage how a man values and respects you?

This is not hatred. It is a real pattern I’ve observed, and it deserves honest conversation.