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Dopemu, you sound like your mom

PDJT:
- Regular sex for a pregnant woman is very important and can contribute to having a healthy baby.

Not the first 12weeks. Also if the wife is willing

Pious101:
my wife is currently pregnant and she don't want to see junior at all....also witness same thing during first pregnancy

- Anecdotal evidence is subjective and therefore unreliable for broad conclusions.

- Either your missus has some psycho-medical issues or she doesn't fancy you that much.

The only reason it seems hard for you to abstain for three months is because you didn’t struggle to have that pregnancy. If you had waited maybe ten years to get pregnant and spent millions of Naira on procedures, you wouldn’t even want to move close to her for any reason.

From a place of convenience, a doctor’s advice often seems impossible. To avoid regrets, better you listen and tame your konji.

Guy, I really don't know what to say sha.
If na soapy dey do o till the 4 weeks elapse

kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?

Many of you are not even reading the post just attacking.

Last month and this month haven’t had sex with her I am only asking how do men cope this period.

Seunmuham:
Not the first 12weeks. Also if the wife is willing

- Depends on the woman but definitely in the second trimester (13 - 27/28 weeks). Most pregnant women are full of juice around that time. And yes, some wifeys don't really fancy their hubbies that much.

What you should be concerned about is the condition of your wife and not sxx, something is wrong with you upstairs.

Give her good food to nourish herself and baby.......Na so una take dey invite problem to your home.



These daughters of Jezebel know these things that's why they lurk around men with pregnant wives.

kunkelhanspeter:
Many of you are not even reading the post just attacking.

Last month and this month hasn’t had sex with her I am only asking how do men cope this period.

- I coped by concentrating on my other wife. Perhaps, you should consider a second wife. My thought.

When you said it's not been easy for me as the husband, I was thinking something terrible happened. So it's konji that is making you lament like this?

What of me that haven't had sex since Oct 2023 cuz I feel sex is overrated, have I died?

In marriage, sex should be the least thing a man should worry about. Once you have up to 2-3 children with bills piling up day and night, sex will be the least thing you will even think about as a man.

PDJT:
- Depends on the woman but definitely in the second trimester (13 - 27/28 weeks). Most pregnant women are full of juice around that time. And yes, some wifeys don't really fancy their hubbies that much.

Yea

kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?

let her use her hand to touch you there

PDJT:
- I coped by concentrating on my other wife. Perhaps, you should consider a second wife. My thought.

What if the two of them get pregnant at the same time?

So if na CS she use born nko? What will you be asking us. I am truly sorry for her cos your eyes and legs go dry outside then

PDJT:
- Anecdotal evidence is subjective and therefore unreliable for broad conclusions.

- Either your missus has some psycho-medical issues or she doesn't fancy you that much.

again I differ with ur view. Sexual desires in pregnancy differs amongst pregnant women. While some might have increase desire,, others have a decline desire. Both views have been supported by diverse academic journals.

kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?

If she delivers through cs they might even tell u not to have sex for some months to allow healing. The best is try and remove your mind from sex till you are allowed. There is nothing the mind cannot withstand. It depends on how you train/control it.

opera1:
What if the two of them get pregnant at the same time?

- Never happened.

OP no mind those clinical people jare just dey do sideways style jeje no go too deep
No missionary style oooo
No sleeping on her back
No doggi for now
This is d best time to enjoy love making with yur wife the thing dey sweet pass d normal tyms
But if u want make yur child resemble u avoid sex with her and see how she go vomit yur carbon copy
From expirence
Buy 7 to 9 months d juice go sweet pass honey
I really enjoyed then when wify was pregnant if not for circumstances hmmmmm

neonly:
OP no mind those clinical people jare just dey do sideways style jeje no go too deep
No missionary style oooo
No sleeping on her back
No doggi for now
This is d best time to enjoy love making with yur wife the thing dey sweet pass d normal tyms
But if u want make yur child resemble u avoid sex with her and see how she go vomit yur carbon copy
From expirence
Buy 7 to 9 months d juice go sweet pass honey
I really enjoyed then when wify was pregnant if not for circumstances hmmmmm

- Mr., OP can give his pregnant wife any position they want, as long as she is not feeling any unusual pain or pressure. A fetus is well protected in the womb.

BodyCount:
So because they asked you not to have sex for just 4 weeks, which is one month, it's a huge problem and concern for you, and you had to open a thread to complain!?
Wow!
What kind of so-called men do we have in this generation? It's disgusting... No self control..m

Very disgusting indeed.
This generation is not a serious one,
Very UNDISCIPLINE and Unserious
Or how do you describe this,
But instead of getting the provisions for the incoming baby,see what he is asking 😋

You should be ashamed of yourself asking this kind of question. Mtchew!

kunkelhanspeter:
Not complaining just want to know how experience people survive this period.

How is it disgusting 🤮?

You don’t even know the meaning of self control

Guy, you need to be calm.
Before u got married, how were u surviving without sex for one month?

For now sex should be the least of ur prob...nor worry u go soon they vex..I dey buy milk and baby food 17k...3 days e done finish..minus pampars..may God strike tinubu..everybody must collect

I dey tempted to call OP stoopid man. But make I chill.

DeltaBachelor:
lol. Moomoo man. Wetin you dey find since for 3 years, God don bless you with am , but you nor fit hold body for just few weeks. Chai ! 70 years old man

The man too stewpead.

Remove ur Gbola keep for inside freezer
Works for me all the time

Badt guy
E dey too sweet around 7months

neonly:
OP no mind those clinical people jare just dey do sideways style jeje no go too deep
No missionary style oooo
No sleeping on her back
No doggi for now
This is d best time to enjoy love making with yur wife the thing dey sweet pass d normal tyms
But if u want make yur child resemble u avoid sex with her and see how she go vomit yur carbon copy
From expirence
Buy 7 to 9 months d juice go sweet pass honey
I really enjoyed then when wify was pregnant if not for circumstances hmmmmm

kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?

Ask your wife how she is holding up instead. Na the same konji wey dey hold you dey hold her.
Many of you don't have empathy at all, you impregnated your wife rather than looking for ways to assist her through this journey of bringing your first child to this earth, you are thinking about satisfying your sexual urge like it's a do or die affair.

Have you also asked how your wife is coping too?