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Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Adeyinkataofeek: 10:13am On Jan 26
You just need spiritual cleansing
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by ibechris(m): 10:15am On Jan 26
Oga,I don't think u are doing well financially,if u do,women will follow u.

Secondly,at 30 u are still worrying u haven't slept with women enough...are u normal at all?

And that igbo girl is liking u and u think because ur friend is dating her therefore,he would marry her...with all the tribalism in the land,u had better think very fast.

In conclusion,wise up...how can u call people who have betrayed u friends. Is it until u are killed u will realised it.
Remember everything is learnable both good and bad,therefore don't be a scape goat.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Gotocourt: 10:15am On Jan 26
Toto snail wey man dey run from grin
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by ultraviolet27(f): 10:18am On Jan 26
mightyhaze:
A whole 3..that's too much body count at just 30.
3 women is too much body count for a man of 30? you must be a joker this gen x that a girl of 15 already has 35 body count. I am a woman but he is even still decent
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by iLoveYouToo(m): 10:18am On Jan 26
Your real problem is lack of real problems
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Tenrack: 10:20am On Jan 26
KingDashx:
E be like say you won make them poison the guy
🤣😂
😆😂 no risk, no reward. If the konji too hold am. Make e run am. True friend go even appreciate am say e expose the LovePeddler wet e dey date.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Tenrack: 10:20am On Jan 26
KingDashx:
Then him go dey get babes.
okay nice.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Rawdrill(m): 10:22am On Jan 26
Ur own wife will surely comes ur way because that's what ur soul is waiting for which keeps heartbreakers away from you, meanwhile don't be tempted with ur friends babes they are only part of temptations u must overcome for ur own everlasting peace of mind.. wishing you well
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by ultraviolet27(f): 10:22am On Jan 26
ibechris:
Oga,I don't think u are doing well financially,if u do,women will follow u.

Secondly,at 30 u are still worrying u haven't slept with women enough...are u normal at all?

And that igbo girl is liking u and u think because ur friend is dating her therefore,he would marry her...with all the tribalism in the land,u had better think very fast.

In conclusion,wise up...how can u call people who have betrayed u friends. Is it until u are killed u will realised it.
Remember everything is learnable both good and bad,therefore don't be a scape goat.
He is old enough to marry at 30 his mates inv the north or even in foreign countries (abroad)many of them are already married at age 23 why should a man wait till he reaches 40 before m?he marries in Nigeria when the life expectancy is even 60? and he is even doing well financially

men that are even broke are getting married every day
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Mrexcell(m): 10:23am On Jan 26
Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me.. embarassed
You know where to go to to easily cure ur konji but if you really want to settle down with a decent lady just go and seek the face of God by meeting a real servant of God for deliverance sessions.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by ultraviolet27(f): 10:25am On Jan 26
OritaIbadan:
Jus imagine what a grown up man is saying. Who told you there is any benefit in sleeping with women you are no married to. Better get your self busy with something more productive. Or go and get married. You have slept with three women you are not married to and you call it just three.
He said he can't even get girls to date him let alone extending till marriage don't you think his problem could be spiritual,halitosis (mouth odour) with body odour?
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by karmaolu1(m): 10:31am On Jan 26
Stick to the last paragraph grin
Before kunji go kill u
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by grandstar(m): 10:32am On Jan 26
Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me.. embarassed
Never, never, never, never, never, ever, ever, ever, ever sleep with a married woman no matter how tempting.

You don't have any problem.

You may not sway ladies when you toast them should not bother you.

I think when ladies get to know you better, they are love struck. They are focused on your inner personality. No matter how bad boy you try to be, they can see through. Thar isn't a curse but a big blessing (Read 1 Samuel 16:7)

At 30, you're way past the bloom of youth (Read 1 Corinthians 7:36)

You focus now is to find the right partner and settle down.

Please drop the bad boy image. Just being yourself is what's most important.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by nairalanda1(m): 10:33am On Jan 26
Jamesvito:
You won't understand the stress you are saving yourself from.....in future you will understand
Ah know that if your father had thought that way, you won't have been born...m'boy..
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by karmaolu1(m): 10:33am On Jan 26
Try being bad boy again this time it will work.

Remember to be fully bad boy grin
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by mightyhaze: 10:34am On Jan 26
ultraviolet27:
3 women is too much body count for a man of 30? you must be a joker this gen x that a girl of 15 already has 35 body count. I am a woman but he is even still decent
what has this world turned into for christ sake 😕.. must u ppl sample? Why notjust marry direct😩
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Elusive001: 10:34am On Jan 26
Kanufootsoldier:
Does that even exist once you die it's all over you return to the state you were before you were born you remembered nothing
What state were you before you were born?
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by sweetjohn(m): 10:34am On Jan 26
Very soon a nairalander will post for advice on how to slit someone throat
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by nairalanda1(m): 10:34am On Jan 26
Emu4life:
This, my friend, is gold.

Op, listen to this Man of Wisdom for your sanity
Happily you are here because someone decided to disregard wisdom for once..
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Berankis: 10:37am On Jan 26
It is better you use your youthful years to chase what will make you a "man". Bedding multiple ladies can't make you anything.
Use your youthful years to achieve meaningful things for yourself, ladies will come along when they see results.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by kenchop: 10:40am On Jan 26
NO ONE IS REJECTING YOU, IT IS GOD PROTECTING YOU. GOD IS PROTECTING THE VIRTUES AND GIFTS HE DEPOSITED INTO YOUR LIFE AND DOESN'T WANT ANY EVIL WOMAN TO RUB YOU OFF IT . FOCUS AND YOUR LIFE AND BUILDING THE VIRTUES GOD HAS GIVEN YOU.
WHEN YOU ARE READY TO MARRY, PRAY OVER IT AND GOD YOU SEND YOU A SUITABLE WOMAN .

TRUST ME THERE'S NO GAIN IN HAVING PLENTY WOMEN OR EVEN BEING LIKED BY WOMEN. NO GAIN AT ALL
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by doncartel: 10:46am On Jan 26
I used to have the same problem. The solution is dating websites. Just enquire the top 5 dating sites for your city and you’re good to go.

My target now is to defeat King Solomon.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by hollowpot15684(m): 10:51am On Jan 26
There is a calling over your head that is preventing you from falling into a dangerous trap.

Dont wallow yourself in the way of destruction, and then start complaining that God is protecting you from going the ways that will bring your downfall.

Women will destroy your life, and if you naturally face this issue,then its a good problem for you.

Focus on your works and purpose, and discover the assignment God has for you that makes Him love you this much.

Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me.. embarassed
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Godmind2022(m): 10:53am On Jan 26
Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me.. embarassed
Jesus Christ is the solution to all problems. Jesus says in the word of God, "Come unto me all ye that labour and heavy laden, I will give you rest.

Soak yourself in Bible reading and prayer.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by KingDashx(m): 10:57am On Jan 26
Bros no be like that oh
E get some men wey carry woman matter for head oh
Tenrack:
😆😂 no risk, no reward. If the konji too hold am. Make e run am. True friend go even appreciate am say e expose the LovePeddler wet e dey date.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by Akalia(m): 10:58am On Jan 26
Elusive001:
May GOD have mercy on you.

You are here wailing over you inability to participate in fornication for some time now, while people are thinking of living right to avoid hell on judgement day.
Exactly, the older one gets the desire to move away from sin grows stronger unless the person is spiritually daft. Even when you have the wherewithal to explore new sinful pleasures, you would restrain yourself.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by mfm04622:
Most of you are focused on his body count. That is NOT his complaint. He is asking why single females don't find him attractive but female in relationships do!
That is his concern! Do you have any insight for him?
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by MemoriesAndMe:
Focus first on yourself.
Glad to know you are trying financially. Double your hustle. Make more than you currently make. It's you first!

Then, up your game, get a nice car, a nice place, smell good, surround yourself with folks in your new level and watch the girls you're complaining about coming around you like flies. Na you go even free the hungry ones away from you.

The problem at that point is that you might not be able to identify the good ones from the leeches and gold-diggers amongst them though.

All the best bro.
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:08am On Jan 26
Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me.. embarassed
see this otondo, God is saving you from so many evil, but you are praying to fall into death ☠️💀 Trap 🪤
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by happney65: 11:14am On Jan 26
You want to start sleeping with your friend's girlfriends and maybe wives and you dey look for validation

If you wan do ashawo,shey you no suppose look elsewhere? Na your friend girlfriend suppose dey enter your eye? Isn't there honour about thieves again?


Abeg comot for here
Re: Help! I Think I Have A Serious Problem With Women by KingDashx(m): 11:19am On Jan 26
doncartel:
I used to have the same problem. The solution is dating websites. Just enquire the top 5 dating sites for your city and you’re good to go.

My target now is to defeat King Solomon.
that's true.
Bagged a lot of girls from Facebook, IG and tik tok
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