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If you rationalize on ashawo you will see it draw
from a place of quick sex with no extra responsibility. The question should be why is it always there across time and space across all the board. Because We all long for quick fix sex with no extra burden.

Most people go through the motion of meeting a woman, toasting her, sleep with her and never call back. Others are in committed relationships, they say they can never be with prostitute, but the reason they engage in cheating is mostly for sex. Not emotional gratification. So my question is what is the end play here.

If your intention is to spend money and have sex with no commitment, why not do it with someone that is professional about it. Why compromise you existing marriage or relationships for something undefined.

If you want sex with no string attach by all means patronize prostitute. If you want a relationship by all means go for it. The reason many ladies see men finish is because we come to them with an sex intention masquading as love or marriage need. Be defined at least to yourself.

Ibrahim1985:
A gf is a way better option at least she does not have to sleep with 6 or 20 men in a week to earn a living.

Thats what you think! .....In this hookup era?

These are logical reasons. Thank God humans react stronger to emotions.

Ibrahim1985:
The thoughts of a woman sleeping with multiple men on a daily should be enough to stop a guy from even seeing a prostitute. Think of that thought alone , you will be discourage to even seeing olosho or run girls. Prayers and fasting are great steps on the way to recovery but faith without works is dead. God words is sharper. Konji is real when a frequent patronizer desires to have sex with prostitute. Please recites God words or pray when konji dey.

1 The thought of catching an STD is very good reason to stop. Herpes, Gonorrhea and so in

2. shame should be enough to stop a regular customer , imagine a small boy or girl just discovered her uncle or big bro is a frequent customer.

3 Find a girlfriend or get married, getting a girlfriend might be hard for some but do not give up . If you need tips on getting a girlfriend: Dress well, smell good, use deodrant and avoid body or mouth odor, clean cut or keep beard clean and have some money, you will find one with patience. Personal hygiene is must, work on your game on women and be patience with women. Prostitution is instant gratification , getting a girlfriend take time , but be patience.

4. You are wasting money when you sleep with oloshos. The amount of money used on olosho can be used to start a business, buy land , car e.t.c

spiSeyi:
S*xual addiction is the worst after taking drug & substances , I have been through all and I know what it is. No amount of sermons, prayers , deliverance, being busy can't save anyone especially men from s*x .
This proven way that saved me from my addictions might help you if you are struggling with addiction.
1 Identify that you are the image of God
2 Stop going to church for a moment and establish a personal relationship with Christ inside your bedroom, if possible change your social media account and log out, and delete every contact except your family and strictly biz contacts.
3 Understand that it's a gradual process
4 Create a declaration and read it both in the morning and night. You can use CHATGPT to generate biblical declaration against sex
5 Genuinely love Jesus and see God as a consuming fire (I have realized that we lose guard bcs we take God compassion for granted)
6 Gamify your journey in this battle by tracking your achievement (you can use a simple diary or excel sheet if you are a system person and attach rewards and points to every milestones)
7 Finally reward yourself e.g. I always reward myself with a plate of pepper soup and Holandia Yoghurt for 7 days abstenant . And I will be going for a short train ride and go the beach to celebrate 90 days mile stone🥳
PS: Watch out for my thread on how I have been genuinely transformed.

Very impressive 👏 the lord is ur strength.

Ibrahim1985:
An average olosho number is at least 20 men a year. A loose gf no matter if she sleep around codedly number is nothing compare to number of men an olosho sleep within a year. Even if an olosho sleep with a different man every week, that is just 52 men in a year or a different man once a month, that is 12 different men in a year. That is the more reason one should stop patronizing prostitute.

What do you mean 20 men a year. Lol. That's too low bro.

Ibrahim1985:
A gf is a way better option at least she does not have to sleep with 6 or 20 men in a week to earn a living.

Really?
pls give it a good thought, because a large % of women will gladly give their body if money is involved, just that their prices are different, especially the single ones,it doesn't matter if they stay in a hotel or not, it will not matter if they have a boyfriend, fiance, or even engaged, so the business is everywhere, just that they operate in different ways.

pls don't get me wrong, I don't support prostitution.

it is only God that can give you a good woman this days.

EnglishUsa:
My brother get married to a woman you love... Try your possible best stay away from visiting for a month and from a month turn it to 5 months from there turn it to a year

Create and illusion in your memory that will make it look as if prostitute have cancer or very big Kotoko in their private part

Marriage doesn't guarantee unending sex.
In fact, the opposite usually happens.

I don't have a girl friend but a wife And even no woman can ever play smart on me because I'm always miles ahead in my relationship with woman.💯💯..I control my affairs, I always believe a woman need me more than I need her..so with this it's easy for me to check balance at any f**king time 📌

ajalawole:
hope your girlfriend Na only you she dey give opeuh.....

simpleseyi:
Why should you? Or don’t think it is better to patronise the disguised prostitutes who we call girlfriends? You buy gifts and give money to your girlfriends in order to sleep with them, just as you do with hotel or roadside prostitutes

Exactly that is what I have always said.

Ibrahim1985:
An average olosho number is at least 20 men a year. A loose gf no matter if she sleep around codedly number is nothing compare to number of men an olosho sleep within a year. Even if an olosho sleep with a different man every week, that is just 52 men in a year or a different man once a month, that is 12 different men in a year. That is the more reason one should stop patronizing prostitute.

20men a year ke?! Go watch KiZiTO for Youtube, see confession of olosho 3-4men per night something they call short time....dey there dey zuzu, 20men na in a week. You never see desperados for lagos.

Dogalmighty17:
Are you joking? Let's not even count those ones in the hotels. A typical runs babe can sleep with 5 to 7 guys in the day time before going to clubs or bars for another guy to take her home for the night. Let's say she does this 20 times in a month, that's conservatively 100 men in one month. Easily over 1200 men in a year.

The worst part is that they still do nothing reasonable with all that money. 100 men in a month give her 5k each (it is more than that), she is already looking at 500k for that month. Yet you still see them looking very dejected.

well said. the thing that baffles me the most is that, 90% of them don't use the money to upgrade.

Alcohol and Konji goes in handy

Avoid em both

Ibrahim1985:
A gf is a way better option at least she does not have to sleep with 6 or 20 men in a week to earn a living.

Some of those oloshos can be people's wives and serious girlfriends. It's crazy

Ibrahim1985:
A gf is a way better option at least she does not have to sleep with 6 or 20 men in a week to earn a living.

Maso is your best better option

The so called girlfriends have made relationships transactional, so the average sex starved man is forced into the indignity of patronizing prostitutes. Their affection is for sale to the highest bidder. Unlike the prostitutes, they usually have no care for protection. I broke up with one last year, the silly entity was like she doesn't like condoms, na me you wan give infection with mediocre sex.

The best option is abstinence if one can manage it.

Emmy000seun:
It's only a cursed person that run after ashawo..even the taught of 'not only melt for me' self turn me off ..talkless of probability of contacting sickness..
But what I observed about womanizing is that if you haven't reach your peak, it's hard to stop..but once you've get to d point of self realization, point whereby you know their is nothing new under skirt, then you scale through

That cursed remove it, but that of peak in womanizing you are completely right 👍 I was disvirgine by prostitute and I was so addicted to them to the extend that sometimes I sleep over in brothel just to satisfied my sexual hug but immediately I married and responsibilities set in I Iost hug to patronize prostitutes and I stick to my darling wife, patronizing prostitute doesn't mean someonen is cursed but sometimes it is the high libido that causes it, and too much of everything is bad.

CUT THAT SHIT OFF[i][/i]

I don spend over 3M on hookup babes. With that amount I go do dey france 😭💀

Ibrahim1985:
A gf is a way better option at least she does not have to sleep with 6 or 20 men in a week to earn a living.

See this one who told you that? Those olosho you see are some people serious gir friend and some are people's future wife if not wife sometimes I have met series of olosho well well.

Stop having money,
If U have no money,
They can't have u

There's no difference between a girlfriend and a prostitute.

Both are transactional and both can expose one to all kinds of STDs.

Better to marry.

This is becoming too much
1 girl wey I trip 4 for my street Naso yesterday broadday light dem for fnck am inside Lexus 350 with tinted glass without them knowing u can still see there shadows from outside

T0BY:
A gf still sleep around codedly. Some don't do it openly like the ashawo. Infact a gf can also give infection, she can get pregnant elsewhere and pin it on an innocent guy. So they're not exempted.. they have their own bad side too.

No mind dem.

simpleseyi:
Why should you? Or don’t think it is better to patronise the disguised prostitutes who we call girlfriends? You buy gifts and give money to your girlfriends in order to sleep with them, just as you do with hotel or roadside prostitutes

You have said it all my brother. A man can not go into any relationship without spending even if na your wife. Men dey suffer oooo.

judewrites:
There's no difference between a girlfriend and a prostitute.

Both are transactional and both can expose one to all kinds of STDs.

Better to marry.

Is marriage not transactional ?

Ibrahim1985:
An average olosho number is at least 20 men a year. A loose gf no matter if she sleep around codedly number is nothing compare to number of men an olosho sleep within a year. Even if an olosho sleep with a different man every week, that is just 52 men in a year or a different man once a month, that is 12 different men in a year. That is the more reason one should stop patronizing prostitute.

Some Olosho no go allow you knack them raw, your gf fit de knack another boy raw, still knack you.

Let everyone do what works for them. In this generation even many of your babes are coded short time bannies. They all love the idea of quick money without commitment.

sweetkev:
Is marriage not transactional ?

Do you pay money to your wife to have intimacy?

Is prostitution different from hookups most ladies are into these days..Cos many guys dey carry hookup ladies who are also someone's girlfriend. There is no difference between a prostitutes and 95 percent of girlfriends

How can a normal and sensible person sleep with prostitute? It's somehow strange to hear of such. I wonder what's going through these people's mind when they do so. It's somehow pathetic.

Getting a gf shouldn't be on the list though 😄