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Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..

You dey sorry the girl? If you like no give her injection.

Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..

You have a problem. I advice you to leave women alone. I work very smart. No woman will perceive your income to be around #200000 to #300000 that will not want to build with you. Young boy get to work.

Elusive001:
So how do you know that it does not exist?

You don see person wey die before come back come tell you as hell and heaven be?

Tenrack:
if the person come stop the masturbation nko? 👀

Your life go come better from there!!

Yvngex:
Your life go come better from there!!

thanks.

Jamesvito:
You won't understand the stress you are saving yourself from.....in future you will understand

in as much as it is stressful....it unavoidable
The main purpose of life is to Survive and Reproduce.

so he has to be worried a bit

helinues:
Attitude could be the issue

It's unfortunate that we pay more attention to others mistakes without even consciously aware of ours.

Most of the stingy people for example are not consciously aware they are stingy

It is better to be stingy...

Emu4life:
Baba! Focus on money wey you dey find.
Your Queen will come

this is an illusion....
Queen that came due to Money Gains...
Will leave due to Money issues...

OvertheTop:
this is an illusion....
Queen that came due to Money Gains...
Will leave due to Money issues...

Nothing suggest that from my comment

Between 14 years and 28 years, I had count of probably 100 ish im sure its more.

But now im a new creature old things passed away.

Old things has passed away, abi you dey no see woman again. You have entered the league too?