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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Kukutente23: 11:59pm On Jan 30

budaatum:
Dude, please. You definitely do not have the belly nor the brains that I would want to touch even with a ten foot barge pole wearing gloves!

You are not my kind caring regarding respecting considerate loving brainy Kukutente23!

Awwwwww

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by toboizilla: 12:00am On Jan 31

elipheleh:
If you rubb my belly without first taking my permission, I will sur you for rape.
If you wear skimpy clothes around me, I will accuse you of serial harassment and rape.

It's just that men don't know how to exploit laws like this

Total Nonsense law but na make you see where the world is headed

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by ono(m): 12:00am On Jan 31

lecowas:
This is just a normal thing even if it's not in the law, whenever someone lies with another person who is not "in the mood", something just doesn't feel right, cos both parties have to be actively involved.

No one should be forced to have coitus even if they are your spouse. What a lady decades ago still felt like rape even though physically stronger than her. No means No.

I do not think this is the crux of this matter. Why this has to go to parliament and backed with law is what's disturbing. You get my point? Everyone knows r a p e is wrong, evil.

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Kukutente23: 12:01am On Jan 31

budaatum:
Well, I've described what you would have to be to be married to me, and I would investigate you for those qualities before we get that far. So, if your tradition shows you to be unqualified, there's thankfully many other better fish in the sea.

elipheleh, please don't bother applying, because you wouldn't even be called for an interview based on your submitted cv.

May I warn you that you have only two applicants here while I'm in very high demand. You may not have all the time in the world to do your investigation before you're accused of trespassing into occupied territory and molestation to wit

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by budaatum: 12:10am On Jan 31

toboizilla:
That’s one side of the coin, on the other hand it means there will be nothing as cheating. You can F**k you ever you like. Whether it’s accurate, it’s not for me to judge

No, I don't agree that my body on your tap means "there will be nothing as cheating", and your assumption is most definitely not accurate as far as I'm concerned.

In fact, another side of the coin makes me think I will cheat on you precisely because you f**k me whenever and probably however you like without considering my own needs or desires, which I'd likely cheat on you to go find, though I'd in fact just divorce your selfish f**king ass on the grounds of you being selfish and only thinking of your f**king self and what you f**king want.

I after all don't just want to be f**ked, but would rather love and be made love to.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by budaatum: 12:15am On Jan 31

Kukutente23:
May I warn you that you have only two applicants here while I'm in very high demand. You may not have all the time in the world to do your investigation before you're accused of trespassing into occupied territory and molestation to wit

Sorry dude, but I'm not seriously considering applications, as I already have what I need, and just feel the need to educate you young ones so my grandchildren don't end up with or as pigs.

You should come see them laughing as they read my posts in fact. They've already told me you don't qualify.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by ibrahimawelo12(m): 12:22am On Jan 31

Which type of mumu law be that,for couples wey marry or boy and girlfriend wey accept to date.
Ahhh France Nigeria upgrade pass Una on this .
Chai If you are from Nigeria 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬like my post we too much

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by ibrahimawelo12(m): 12:29am On Jan 31

Madam a good couples that know what they are doing can not deny each other sex.
Sex is one of the reason of marrying as a man.
Because most of your expectations will come out from that sex.
For Nigeria e no Dey happen ooo
Unless u wan go to ur papa house.
Even religious like Islam because I am a Muslim,according the Quran/Hadith if you deny your husband sex,for any reason the angel will cause/swear for you till the next day.

So you see my dear.
Sex is very important in marriage or relationship.else it’s can’t work.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by cr7lomo: 12:32am On Jan 31

lecowas:
This is just a normal thing even if it's not in the law, whenever someone lies with another person who is not "in the mood", something just doesn't feel right, cos both parties have to be actively involved.

No one should be forced to have coitus even if they are your spouse. What a lady decades ago still felt like rape even though physically stronger than her. No means No.

Then women should not also make financial demands from a man when he doesn't feel like giving ...it's extortion...but women will call it financial abuse ....

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Kukutente23: 12:33am On Jan 31

budaatum:
Sorry dude, but I'm not seriously considering applications, as I already have what I need, and just feel the need to educate you young ones so my grandchildren don't end up with or as pigs.

You should come see them laughing as they read my posts in fact. They've already told me you don't qualify.

Your grandchildren have learnt to be choosy
That's a turn off for an African man like me
Tell them to stick with oyinbo

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by cr7lomo: 12:36am On Jan 31

budaatum:
So, you need your wife to be obligated to have sex with you, and if she doesn't give you permission, it's okay for you to rape her by having sex with her without her permission, and you think that's a healthy desirable relationship?

Can you not imagine doing what you can do to make your wife actually want to have sex with you?

How do you enjoy sex with a wife that doesn't want you to gave sex with her? No, actually, ignore that, since I'm certain rapïsts must enjoy rapïng their wife!

There's nothing like rape in marriage....all these stupid woke mindset people... men should also demand that they will only provide when they feel willing to... and not obligated to provide... if a woman tries to make her husband give her money...it should be tagged as extortion...and if a husband keeps money or loose change on the table, if the wife takes part of the money for her quick need without her husbands permission...she should be arrested for stealing

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by budaatum: 12:48am On Jan 31

Kukutente23:
Your grandchildren have learnt to be choosy
That's a turn off for an African man like me
Tell them to stick with oyinbo

I don't tell my grandchildren what to stick to. I brought them up to use their own mind and choose for themselves what they want.

And to be honest with you, considering how backward some African men can be, I'm glad they are in the position to consider a larger pool to choose from and that my grandsons are not "African men", if by that you mean backward pigs.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by budaatum: 12:51am On Jan 31

cr7lomo:
There's nothing like rape in marriage....

Not where you live perhaps, which is probably why some of you come here with your backward thinking and end up being deported or jailed.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4grr3368n3o

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Change4dbeta: 12:53am On Jan 31

RemoteNaija:
The West is systematically dismantling the definition of marriage. Marriage is a union, not just a roommate agreement. If you remove intimacy from the 'duty' of marriage, you are just living with a friend. We shouldn't copy everything they do.

They won't wait for you to copy them ,they will force it on you with propaganda . Homosexuality is becoming a norm now.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by budaatum: 12:56am On Jan 31

ibrahimawelo12:
For Nigeria e no Dey happen ooo

Nigeria is not the entire world, sir, but the day will soon come when we restrain you in Nigeria too to respect your wife and consider your union more than for your sexual gratification.

Watch this space.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Kukutente23: 12:57am On Jan 31

budaatum:
I don't tell my grandchildren what to stick to. I brought them up to use their own mind and choose for themselves what they want.

And ti be honest with you, considering how backward some African men can be, I'm glad they are in the position ti consider a larger pool to choose from and that my grandsons are not "African men", if by that you mean backward pigs.

Why will African men mean backward pigs? Does African women mean dirty bitches?
Being backward or "forward" has nothing to do with race
The African man was more morally upright and responsible than his Caucasian counterparts whom you worship

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by budaatum: 1:03am On Jan 31

Kukutente23:
Why will African men mean backward pigs? Does African women mean dirty bitches?
Being backward or "forward" has nothing to do with race
The African man was more morally upright and responsible than his Caucasian counterparts whom you worship

I wasn't worshipping "Caucasians counterparts" when I was extolling the non-pig "morally upright and responsible" qualities I assumed you had, so stop showing your ego is hurt when you finally failed to meet up to my standards.

A man, African or Caucasian or from Mars, who thinks a woman is for his gratification is a pig.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by whytediamond(m): 1:17am On Jan 31

KingDashx:
I had to raise my eyes in bleach for what I just read.

Sometimes to japa go another country man gats think twice.

Rinse not raise

Blessings 🙏

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by budaatum: 1:28am On Jan 31

uche87:
The UK did not break these marriages; it gave women power and leverage, and they exercised them. The system simply exposed fragile arrangements. Any man humble and adaptable enough to accept these new realities can still save his marriage.

https://www.facebook.com/thevillagetowncrier/posts/pfbid0WD1eDtB3GjQFqrnhHjcZQHjBEZWriUL3W2ibwEpqiQZ9t3X19qsNDfAcjBeAJmh9l

https://www.nairaland.com/8609561/uk-doesnt-destroy-nigerian-marriages#138314194

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Host78: 1:44am On Jan 31

When you ask questions like, why would you marry someone you don't want to sleep with, it shows how naive you are.

Would you ask a műrderer why kill someone you know did nothing to you?

People do things.

They do things they themselves don't even know they are doing.

Like people do things they themselves don't even understand.

And you as a person do not have a single control over this. We've seen people getting married and later saying they don't want to have kids.

And then you move on to ask another very naive question again, saying what did you do or not do to make your partner not want to sleep with you.

Chai.

You think it's by something you are doing or not doing that will make a person who doesn't want to sleep with you will suddenly want to?

Oga, you have no idea how humans work at all.

Let me give you example. Sometimes you meet someone or something and you jst don't like the person at all.

Regardless of what they do or how much they try. In fact the more they try, the more they just irritate you.

It's a hard fact.

These things are beyond your control. Someone choosing to sleep with you is beyond your control. Especially when they already made up their mind not to.

But more importantly, would you advise the man not to provide for the family if he's not getting the sěx in return?

And yes, you cannot divorce your wife because divorcing requires a reason. You can walk to the court to say you don't want your wife anymore and since you can't cite lack of intimacy as a reason, suddenly you cannot provide why.

Guess who's then at fault and will receive the greater punishment? The one divorcing for no reason at all.

So no this law does not make room for the one lacking intimacy.

budaatum:
This is not true! You can divorce them. You just can't divorce them on the basis that they don't let you sex them. You can always divorce them because you don't want to be with that person anymore!

But the question is, why would the person you married have no intention of sleeping with you?

What did you do or not do to make that person not want to sleep with you?

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Dtruthspeaker: 1:46am On Jan 31

cr7lomo:
There's nothing like rape in marriage....all these stupid woke mindset people... men should also demand that they will only provide when they feel willing to... and not obligated to provide... if a woman tries to make her husband give her money...it should be tagged as extortion...and if a husband keeps money or loose change on the table, if the wife takes part of the money for her quick need without her husbands permission...she should be arrested for stealing

Save for marital rape, your other points are super valid.

But on marital rape you are wrong because some beasts of a husband have had their wives raped even though no one expects that a husband to do such an evil thing

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Host78: 1:47am On Jan 31

So oral sexxing someone who is not in the mood for sexx is not răpïng? grin

This guy na complete műmű. You talk about tapping your wife's buttocks without her permission as an offense but oral sexxing her is not an offense.

And here you are parading yourself on a moral high ground grin

And should we talk about heavy petting her vs tapping her buttocks? undecided

Kukutente23:
What about making her get in the mood by say eating her out or heavy petting? Is it OK to tap your wife's ass without permission?

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Dtruthspeaker: 1:56am On Jan 31

They should kukuma abolish marriage. Rubbish

So, because one beast raped his wife therefore the whole programme on marriage should change? Feminist should go and form their own land

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:40am On Jan 31

Ironfaceman:
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgjwxdz45ywo

France is Europe HQ of "Satan Inc."

So now a married couple can go without sex, and one cannot end a marriage due to lack thereof?

A woman can deny her husband sex for years, and he has to stay in the marriage?

A man can abandon his wife and not touch her for ages, and she can't use this as a basis to leave anymore?

Well, folks, cheating is getting closer to being legalized, and more people won't even want to get married anymore.

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by kiddaz: 2:41am On Jan 31

It's the natural way of the west and it's not about sex or marital interests. Its about constantly strengthening one gender over the other with the law. It's about destroying the family structure.

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by mariovito(m): 2:52am On Jan 31

These people really do not know when to stop.

With the already declining population of 💶 to low birth rates and the so called girl power, this new one is sure to be the nail in the coffin.

It's also spells doom for menfolk in that country and any other country that domesticates that law.

Means that a man can now be charged for raping his wife

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Murketeer: 2:56am On Jan 31

budaatum:
Of course it is! It cuts both ways. But I do expect us to have sufficient respect and regard and love for each other so that when you say, "not now, honey", instead of irrationally yelling rape, I'd respect your feelings as you always do mine.

There's after all tonight or tomorrow morning when I hope you will feel giddy enough, my darling, especially after I've cooked that meal you love so much and after I've rubbed your belly while wearing that very sexy underwear I know you can not resist.

He’s trying to tell you that with the level of hate that western women have for men … they will exploit this law to the fullest … you will hear husbands been arrested everyday .. this law will add to the present problem of diminishing marriages that already exists in the west today … where a lot of men don’t wish to be married anymore … so it’s going to be a loss loss for them

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by zagorakis(m): 3:02am On Jan 31

budaatum:
I should introduce you to my grandchildren so you know how naive I might be.

Husband, if you work hard at making me want you, I definitely will exploit you by jumping on you every morning, but what makes you think I'd let you touch me if you have nothing to offer me?

Why would you chose to marry him in the first place if he has nothing to offer?

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Dpopsman123(m): 3:09am On Jan 31

Why is this coming from France 🇫🇷 ?

Ironfaceman:
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgjwxdz45ywo

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:17am On Jan 31

LordIsaac:
Good...it's progressive indeed. Sex should not be a prerequisite for consummation!

Same France that the lady will now choose not to have sex with the husband and decide to have sex with another man and same system says the man can not have a DNA test because he must father all children in a marriage even if his wife never slept with him all through? What progressive law is that? You are boxing another gender while trying to be progressive to another. A man can't stop child support even when he knows his wife's children he pay child support to has a different dad is what you call progressive? They just added another layer to the already existing law

Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by mkpologwu(m): 3:33am On Jan 31

This doesn't really have any meaningful impact because intimacy can only be fulfilling when both partners are actively involved.

A partner who is not in the mood should simply be left alone. True love means respecting the other partner's feelings.

The only problem here is when a partner is using being intimate as a weapon.

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Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by Teymanhenry(f): 3:43am On Jan 31

Ironfaceman:
This most be the most disgusting read I've seen today.

Without sex there's no relationship, man got into marriage to fulfil a sacred order and sex is one of it.

It's in the vow for better or worst in sickness and in health.

If you most take permission to have sex with your wife, you might as well pay a woman money for sex.

Whereby the objectivity of sex has been fettered to reason.

For better or for worse” is not a legal justification. What the law is trying to do is actually very simple: no forceful sex, even within marriage.
Consent works both ways ,she cannot force him, and he cannot force her. It really is that straightforward.
Anyone who is married should understand this clearly. Honestly, it’s hard to imagine how a sane person would even want to have sex with their spouse by force in the first place.

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