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Europeans especially French women should forget about getting married forever after the passage of this law.

Ironfaceman:
This most be the most disgusting read I've seen today.

Without sex there's no relationship, man got into marriage to fulfil a sacred order and sex is one of it.

It's in the vow for better or worst in sickness and in health.

If you most take permission to have sex with your wife, you might as well pay a woman money for sex.

Whereby the objectivity of sex has been fettered to reason.

The West are just crazy, if marriage isn't an automatic consent for sex I don't know what is.
In reality a man only uses sex to relax, he barely enjoys the act until ejaculation as opposed to the woman who gets pleasure doing less to nothing.
Marriage even with total submission by the wife is living in bondage for the man, take that away and there is absolutely no reason for a man to get married.

budaatum:
You are the one who should not be minded since you are obviously far too lazy to read. Because if you were not lazy to read, you'd know I know the person you are telling not to mind is an African man when I was cooking him that African meal he loves so much and was marrying him and worshipping his African bit before he began grunting like a pig I can not stand!

Does that change the fact on ground that you worship every thing white..? No.
You just another woman, who always reason one side , forgetting men too a human first of all , and were given birth to by women.
I think you have male children too and your sons will marry and hope you would be happy to accept anything too you accepted for other men to also happen to you son. Ie loosing all his life work to a woman after divorce, continue to cater and pay child support to kids his wife got from cheating on him. And also be unable to file for divorce on the grounds of no sex even of his wife refuses him sex for years... but i trust you you will do the Achimi mother instead

Luckysbab:
So a man should be denied the right to ask for a divorce from a wife who denied him conjugal relationship for years?

Why? Did you read me write somewhere that you must stay stuck to a partner that doesn't satisfy you?

Read my numerous posts in the thread. Your question has already been answered.

budaatum:
So, you need your wife to be obligated to have sex with you, and if she doesn't give you permission, it's okay for you to rape her by having sex with her without her permission, and you think that's a healthy desirable relationship?

Can you not imagine doing what you can do to make your wife actually want to have sex with you?

How do you enjoy sex with a wife that doesn't want you to gave sex with her? No, actually, ignore that, since I'm certain rapïsts must enjoy rapïng their wife!

Am very sure u were raised by a single mother

drsibz66:
Does that change the fact on ground that you worship every thing white..? No.

You don't know what I worship, and are just making crap up to believe, which shows one shouldn't bother what you think.

Come back to me when you've bothered to do some basic research about me please.

neonly:
Am very sure u were raised by a single mother

Did you kill my wonderful father who raised me with my amazing mother?

UkoAnnang:


Wahala too much on the planet

So man go carry him money go carry person daughter and him no go fit knack whenever him wan knack cos of say civilisation

In abroad, you’re not obligated to spend your money. Both party spend. Women may even spend higher

Host78:
So oral sexxing someone who is not in the mood for sexx is not răpïng?

This guy na complete műmű. You talk about tapping your wife's buttocks without her permission as an offense but oral sexxing her is not an offense.

And here you are parading yourself on a moral high ground

And should we talk about heavy petting her vs tapping her buttocks?

Are you sure you're not dyslexic?
What I wrote is diametrically opposite to what you infer

Peterlove11:
The founding fathers of western nations that promoted Human rights were Christians, infact the current civilization and laws promoted by the west were based on the Bible.

And see how western nations are amazingly evolving to now give women rights and power instead of sticking to Biblical ignorance that claims woman is man's rib that should submit and be silent.

It's called, progress.

All this are just devilish idea
It's not a good thing to follow or copy from
Am not saying when your wife is not in the mood you should force her
But sex is one of the things that makes you marriage ... What if the lady calls the man and the man said no too what will happen
I see as a tactic way of doing agreement marriage and that is what is common now
Agree to live with me for 1 2 3 4 5 years and we depart some have kids while some doesn't
All in all it's a devil's plan

Ironfaceman:
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgjwxdz45ywo

zagorakis:
If you have made the wrong choice in a partner, you have to bear the consequences of your wrong choice, or you divorce him and go back to the street.

I agree. Though. I don't need to go to a street since I have my own home and can go back to it.

zagorakis:
But if you chose to stay in that marriage, and the man is trying in his fundamental roles as a man (providing, feeding, clothing, protection)you must be giving the man his conjugal rights (as far as Nigeria is concerned) otherwise you go to France, ofcourse, that as well comes with consequences.

Why will I "choose to stay in that marriage" when I am educated enough to provide for myself and feed myself and clothe myself and protect myself and even go out there to get a man who respects me and treats me so well that conjugal is not a right but a thing we lovingly enjoy together anywhere in the world?

Is it that you think women must come from the street, or that there are no loving caring men in Nigeria?

budaatum:
And see how western nations are amazingly evolving to now give women rights and power instead of sticking to Biblical ignorance that claims woman is man's rib that should submit and be silent.

It's called, progress.

Without the Bible, there current civilization won't exist. And a stream that forgets it's source is bound to dry. Time will tell if the bishop is right or the Bible is. Civilization comes and goes, and I can assure many of the things we are approving now on the premise of woman's right will also change in the future. What we even termed women's right now will in the future be redefined.

Kukutente23:
If you assume qualities and also dismiss them based on Internet conversations then the fault lies with your ability to make sound, reasonable judgement and not the African man.

And to reduce a proportional retort for an insult to all African men including your own dear father to ego only shows you have not grown beyond the obscenely manipulative tendencies of the average feminist that has led to such a high failure rate in marriages and attendant social consequences

So you now have stooped so low that you have to insult my loving caring considerate African father who treated my amazing wonderful loving African mother like the queen she is, and is the sort of man I thought you might be?

I guess you now can see why you had to be interviewed and assessed so I don't marry a regret and have to divorce you!

Or don't you think your words reveal your mind?

Should I think you can treat me as I deserve when you insult my father?

budaatum:
Yeah, keep women down. Weak men like you can not compete otherwise!

Thankfully, your are failing now.

Marriage is not a competition. It is an organisation with structure. When u keep disrupting the structure, what u get is this high rate of divorce, lack of peace, single parenthood, high rate of suicide, lesbianism, gayism, high crime, rape, terrorism etc.
If you cant abide by the rules that have made marriage the most organised structure with the test of time, stay away from it, instead of distrupting, reorganizing, adulterating it to please women (people who can never be pleased). Stay single instead and enjoy your peace.

Peterlove11:
Without the Bible, there current civilization won't exist.

If they hadn't evolved, they surely would have died, or at least be like some third world country that places a low value on half its population.

For your information in case you don't know. When Europe were exporting their Bible to Africa, they were abandoning ignorant beliefs and were advancing into the knowledgeable age of enlightenment, and it pains me to see that some are still in the darkness they promoted to you.

But you understood it.

whytediamond:
Rinse not raise

Blessings 🙏

budaatum:
He is actually trying to tell me that western women are stupid, but this law France is now introducing has existed for a while now where I live, and evidence does not show he knows what he's talking about.

But perhaps you need some information, so here's a link.

https://www.richardnelsonllp.co.uk/guides/marital-rape-in-the-uk/

After you've read it, provide me with your evidence for your supposed "level of hate that western women have for men" that will make them "exploit this law to the fullest".

I'll be waiting patiently for it, and thanks in advance.

I have gone through the link … and I saw where they listed 3 points on how they intend to prove that it’s marital rape, .. so it’s left for men to be hopeful that they will actually prove all 3 of the points before they are convicted… because most times… men are not lucky to get good judgement because of the extreme hate that comes on anyone that is accused of Rape by everyone.. including the judges ,.. another thing .. so I suppose men will start placing video recordings, audio recordings etc … secretly in their rooms just incase a woman just wakes up the next day after a consented sex to accuse them of rape … I wonder what wud even make any man to even have the idea of sleeping with a woman in the UK … when there’s this constant unsettling fear in your mind that you could actually be accused of Rape the next morning…

lailo:
Marriage is not a competition. It is an organisation with structure.

That "organisation with structure" you mention was a human, man specifically, organised structure. And those men didn't even bother consulting the women whom they structured to not even educate.

But time has passed, and the world and the structure has evolved so that women go to school to learn to organise the structure so you men can't so easily oppress us anymore.

So I suggest you evolve into the new organised structure or go and get an uneducated girl from your village that you can oppress. I'm not her.

And please, if and when you do marry and happen to have daughters, I beg you not to organise to structure them to think they must be bed slaves to any man, because she deserves better, and you deserve better from your empowered children.

Murketeer:
I have gone through the link …

Good for you. Did you go through my own posts to see my own opinion on the matter?

Go on. Show me you can. Read my own opinion and then quote me when you are done, because it just might happen that you might be the amazing wonderful caring considerate African man that I can not ever resist being made love to night and day and twice in the afternoon.

deji17:
No surprise here as their first lady is fond of slapping their President, Macron.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCyGxbDVckA?si=HiuoOa5WmYVZn0fH

Slapping a whole president in public when there media cams everywhere? What disgrace could be worse than that? Number one person of the country being slapped in public by his wife.

African women know their boundaries, that would have been her last day in his home

Murketeer:
I wonder what wud even make any man to even have the idea of sleeping with a woman in the UK … when there’s this constant unsettling fear in your mind that you could actually be accused of Rape the next morning…

Seriously? How about he loves her and she loves him and they both want to sleep with one another to express their love for each other?

Or do you think people who love one another fear being accused of rape in the morning?

Dude please! Would you say I love you if I fuq you whenever I want to and even if you are not in the mood?

budaatum:
I agree. Though. I don't need to go to a street since I have my own home and can go back to it.


Why will I "choose to stay in that marriage" when I am educated enough to provide for myself and feed myself and clothe myself and protect myself and [b]even go out there to get a man who respects me and treats me so well [/b]that conjugal is not a right but a thing we lovingly enjoy together anywhere in the world?

Is it that you think women must come from the street, or that there are no loving caring men in Nigeria?

Sounds like you're not Nigerian, where are you from originally if you don't mind? I am asking because you are trying to understand street in its literal meaning.
When a Nigerian says street in a relationship context, he is referring to going back to the dating pool, which comes with "whoring" and increased body count as a woman.
At the bolded, there are alot of women the world over who are doing very well for themselves and are still single craving and begging for a man. If getting a man to commit to a woman is as easy as you highlighted would they still be single with their resources.
The problem with your folks is that they don't value the man in their lives until they lose him.

Lastly, Nigerian men are lovely, and the best in the world, when it comes to taking care of our women, once you go Nigerian you can't go back.

Husband should not be obligated to provide for the wife too. Husband should not be obligated to give money to the wife.

drsibz66:
I think you have male children too and your sons will marry and hope you would be happy to accept anything too you accepted for other men to also happen to you son. Ie loosing all his life work to a woman after divorce, continue to cater and pay child support to kids his wife got from cheating on him.

You are funny.

Yes, I have sons. And I have educated them to respect and love their wives, whom they have wisely chosen. And the one thing they will never ever say is "You just another woman", because I brought them up to be loving and caring and respectful of other human beings regardless of gender, race, colour, tribe etc etc etc, so its unlikely their wives will wake up one day and yell rape and divorce.

But if they do divorce, they very likely wouldn't lose all their life work because their wives have jobs too, and earn considerable incomes. And the law where they live might even give the children to my sons and tell her to pay him instead.

Unlike some you see, they married their equal, and not some poor uneducated girl from some village that they can exploit.

Jeezuzpick:
France is Europe HQ of "Satan Inc."

So now a married couple can go without sex, and one cannot end a marriage due to lack thereof?

A woman can deny her husband sex for years, and he has to stay in the marriage?

A man can abandon his wife and not touch her for ages, and she can't use this as a basis to leave anymore?

Well, folks, cheating is getting closer to being legalized, and more people won't even want to get married anymore.

Apt. My point exactly. And what in the world is buda doing here?

budaatum:
You are funny.

Yes, I have sons. And I have educated them to respect and love their wives, whom they have wisely chosen. And the one thing they will never ever say is "You just another woman", because I brought them up to be loving and caring and respectful of other human beings regardless of gender, race, colour, tribe etc etc etc, so its unlikely their wives will wake up one day and yell rape and divorce.

But if they do divorce, they very likely wouldn't lose all their life work because their wives have jobs too, and earn considerable incomes. And the law where they live might even give the children to my sons and tell her to pay him instead.

Unlike some you see, they married their equal, and not some poor uneducated girl from some village that they can exploit.

You have one hell of an "ideal" world view. You think nothing can ever go wrong with your tight plans. You will get a rude awakening one day and you'd remember, Ono said so. Not praying something bad happens to you or your loved ones, but be prepared for the unexpected.

Feminists and SIMPs will destroy the marriage institution soonest and the women folk will pay direly for it

If you won't allow your husband to have sex with you at will then do not marry, it is that simple

Well, that won't happen in Africa because our women prefer the man takes care of them than contributing equally in a marriage

In the long run, this will boost the Olosho business, because even the women do have urges to have sex, it is not only a man thing

so in the future everyone pays to have sex and to have children.

I pay you to have sex, I pay you to have children for me and you walk away

Las las, everyone go hear am including the demonic feminists and misandrists

The goal is to redefine, breakdown and rebuild marriage (as laid down by God and as we know it and has worked for ages and generations) to the standards they (brain-dead, retarded feminists and tree-hugging environmentalists) want to set. Also, they want to remove anything and everything biblical about marriage - just like buda opined up there in one of her posts.

What's worse is that they want this their demonic ideology to go global. They will fail.

elipheleh:
If you jump on me without taking my permission, I will sue you for rape and you'll go to jail. So you think this law permits a woman to touch the man anytime she wants?
If you even rest on my shoulder without permission, I will sue you

That's the point, make everyone just mad together

Women think men can't live without them, that's why they push SIMPs in govt to enact stupid laws. check everywhere in Nigeria, there are women who want to marry and are of age, but no one is asking them out. many men these days are not even inclined to marry again.

If you touch my pr*ck without my consent, I will call the police for you

Make all us craze dey go!

Ironfaceman:
Rape my wife are you serious. Hear this.

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh

When you're one you're one. Besides The man is the head of the house so he calls the shot. If you're not happy your husband finding pleasure in your body don't complain when he find another woman who appreciates good sex.

I once heard the story of a man caught trying to force himself on his wife lying on the hospital bed shortly after giving birth. In this case too, there is nothing wrong in the man finding pleasure? Na so e bad reach?

Jeezuzpick:
France is Europe HQ of "Satan Inc."

So now a married couple can go without sex, and one cannot end a marriage due to lack thereof?

A woman can deny her husband sex for years, and he has to stay in the marriage?

A man can abandon his wife and not touch her for ages, and she can't use this as a basis to leave anymore?

Well, folks, cheating is getting closer to being legalized, and more people won't even want to get married anymore.

This is also crazy.

It gives the closeted LGBTs the opportunity to deceive their spouses into marriages that they will not be able to come out of.