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There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

Bro,you better focus on the food and other freebies you're gaining from her and forget about going into any worthless relationship with her .

Abi you wan dey chest billing wey no suppose concern you at all?

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats,Infact any means to contact her online never works.
When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me,whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.
I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again?after that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls,she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.
OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl
I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again,even if she contacts me.

Babe dey look you like stray dog wey she dey feed because u nor upgrade ur move… dey there make pant dey wear you

advanceDNA:
Babe dey look you like stray dog wey she dey feed because u nor upgrade ur move… dey there make pant dey wear you

Really woooww I never knew she has a spokesman

Op how old are you?

communication is very very importantant in relationship cum marriage.
if she is not responding to your msg. dt means she doesn't see you as sm1 dt measures up to her fake standard. Let her breathe.

Specialbaby:
Op how old are you?

Same question I wanted to ask. My advice is that you focus on your education.

Bro, that girl know say if she dey respond to your chat, na love talk you go dey follow her yarn not business talk. It's easy to tell that it's either the girl is in phase she still want to catch cruise before settling for a relationship or she has another love interest . She knows she is toying with your emotions and she is enjoying every bit of it.You just have to man up and ignore her like she doesn't exist cos if you keep following her gullibly, your case go be like ozo of big brother that year.

my brother country hard oo, no use romantic spoil the free food wey u dey collect.

Everytime billing what do you mean by this billing billing billing? Haven't you seen guys that doesn't wait for there girl to ask them for something before they do it?

Sonnobax15:

Bro,you better focus on the food and other freebies you're gaining from her and forget about going into any worthless relationship with her .

Abi you wan dey chest billing wey no suppose concern you at all?

This one na amateur league

He must be a learner. Tattoo red letter L for ur forehead.

Seems you you still within teenage bracket

You sound like a kid and she knows that you are still unsure of your self. Remember she is from Anambra state and in Anambra state, marriage is strictly for made men.

Someone is giving u free food in this very hard Nigeria, u no dey happy; instead u prefer her to start billing u all in the name of a directionless relationship just because u want to fornicate.
It's a pity u have no idea what u about to get yourself in

She's keeping you as the last option, she's probably dating two or three guys at the moment. I think you should wait and see if two out of them disappoint her then she will start replying you messages


You know a patient dog eat the fattest bone but as for you, you no go even see bone chop

kiddaz:
This one na amateur league

I go lie for you

Go and make money and chat her again.

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You Dey chop food and you want to leave her,Guy something Dey worry you..You never even enter Kingdom Hall you Dey write long story..

She is using your destiny.. run o

Sonnobax15:

Bro,you better focus on the food and other freebies you're gaining from her and forget about going into any worthless relationship with her .

Abi you wan dey chest billing wey no suppose concern you at all?

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Wealthyonos:
Go and make money and chat her again.

Which kin advise be this?

EvilMerodack:
Which kin advise be this?

Advice of the century

This girl no be confusion. She sabi wetin she dey do well well. You be like "offline boyfriend" or "nostalgia snack" for her.

· School time/When she visit: You be main character. She buy you thing, she yarn for hours, she dey play "love" and "marriage".
· Once she comot go her life: You vanish for her mind. Phone no dey ring, message no dey reply. You don turn to "See you next time".

Why she dey do am?
E sweet for her. You give am that good feeling of attention, love, and past memory WHEN E SUIT HER. But that feeling no reach to make you important for her daily life. Na why you no fit contact am online. You dey for "physical zone" only.

Your plan to cut her off no be wickedness, na common sense.
You dey tire yourself for person wey get your time only when e cheap for her. Na pattern and you don see am clear clear. If you continue, you go just dey on standby like generator wey dem no dey use.


· Believe her actions, ignore her sweet school-time mouth. Her true action na the silence for phone.
· Stop to dey follow her play film. No run go when she call. No dey hug and kiss like boyfriend when you know say you no be for her mind.
· Comot her for that "potential wife" mind. Carry your mind go where e go see peace. Find person wey go want you for online and offline, for today and for tomorrow.
· No need long talk or announcement. Just stop. If she appear again, greet am fine, but make you busy. Your silence go talk pass thousand words.

She don show you who she be. Your work now na to believe am and use your energy for better thing. This one na "gbaski-gbas-ki" relationship. E dey chop your peace. Let am go.

Solofresh2:
.. No need long talk or announcement. Just stop. If she appear again, greet am fine, but make you busy. Your silence go talk pass thousand words....

She go change pattern and start to dey over love blast the guy and the simi go fall.

Follow your heart ❤️❣️
No be we go live dere

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

Start dating her friend, she ll come around

Specialbaby:
Op how old are you?

He is a student who should focus on his books since he is yet to develop the confidence needed to handle women matters.

LoL..I get this bro.. if she ticks all the boxes, go for her. I have a feeling she is waiting or wanting you to man up. Fix a date with her...then officially ask her to be your girlfriend. If she agrees, your luck, she says no, you move on, she doesn't give u a straight answer , move on too. I feel she is waiting for u to make ur intentions known. U are obviously working with assumptions here. Good luck nwune

Some people are teasers...

I thought u guys are even dating.

From ur little story, you are simply an acquaintance