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Gay Article. Kukuma say you be gay. The love between men and women is inseparable

LordYon08:
Gay Article. Kukuma say you be gay. The love between men and women is inseparable

watin this one dey talk. You sure say you read and understand watin op post

Citroen19digit:
At least you now know what to expect in marriage

If i had known all these, at least one or two plans would have been made before i marry but now, am in pains looking at how and why my wife has to go get satisfaction

If you like be the richest man and have the fatest gbola, you will still get cheated on. Only 10% of men around the world get married to a responsible woman.

marlow1962:
If you like be the richest man and have the fatest gbola, you will still get cheated on. Only 10% of men around the world get married to a responsible woman.

To say the truth, see, chioma and before before Regina Nwoko, a wife will try not to cheat if you are rich, but if you are poor, she even has reasons to leave you.

I think the 10% are those who are lucky to be both mr super Nackson and rich. These are the ones that even their former girlfriends of 60yrs ago are still calling him trying to seduce him.

People like us, can never have it in our lives

SpencerForbes:
It’s clear from what you're saying that you really love your wife. Have you sat her down to talk about how you can satisfy her better? Maybe try doing the things she loved before kids—reigniting those old memories to spark that connection. You could even suggest incorporating toys during sex instead of her thinking of someone else. I’ve heard there are options out there with some serious size that you guys could look into together.

I'm guessing you're still relatively young, since the older generation didn't usually stress these things. Just make sure you aren't the type of guy who just jumps in, gets his, and then falls asleep. She’s putting in the work with Kegels and everything, so what’s your contribution? Are you working on your stamina or trying to level up your skills?

I think she just needs to be surprised. Switch up your routine, take her out, and get her things—at the end of the day, she’s the mother of your kids and she deserves to be happy. In my experience, a happy woman is much more likely to be passionate. Of course, if she’s just set on cheating regardless, then there isn't much you can do, but it's worth the effort.

This is where I tell you that she orgasms everytime we meet and she tells me to stop even. I even aensure that she orgasms at least 3 times before i stop. Yet, that look. That same look that i saw in the married women who were trying to draw me to enter them, hence my investigation and this present findings that we husbands expire and our wives are also hungry for ofe nsala.

So, it is nothing i did wrong just a natural phenomena that we thought only happens to us alone

SixSeven:
He should buy a intimacy gadget. Money cannot buy satisfaction.

Where you not shocked when one woman threw away her toy?

The toys do not solve it. They too expire.

Citroen19digit:
Where you not shocked when one woman threw away her toy?

The toys do not solve it. They too expire.

I am personally not a fan of anything unnatural but why I suggested the toy was because while it is important to satisfy her, you cannot give what you don't have or let me put it this way, you can't give more than you can supply to her and if she's not satisfied with your last comment above, then it's not really you. The toys are addictive and no man can match that machine power, he will simply die. For example you say she comes but you are still worried about that look. Could it just be you over analyzing the look? Are you projecting fear? Are you responsible for her fantasy? If a man imagines a woman with big bum bum and his wife doesn't have it, he will blame her when he should own up to his unrealistic fantasy. See, I understand your topic and I know men go through it. It's funny because initially, the virgin women are not interested in sex and the child birth makes it worse, then all of a sudden they start to want it more especially around their 30s and I am only writing from personal research and experience. Female libido and sexual satisfaction can fluctuate and often increase with age. Many women have lower orgasm frequency and sexual satisfaction early in sexual life, especially at first intercourse, compared with men. This is well-documented in sex research and contributes to the idea that early sexual experiences can be less pleasurable. With experience, she wants to explore more. Studies attribute this to better sexual knowledge and confidence, less fear, shame, or pain (she's already used to the ritual), more stable partner (you are in a marriage) and less anxiety about pregnancies. The missing part is communication here. It's not how big your tool is, it's how you use it to make her feel wholesome. The same women who can take different horse power will complain that the thing is too big. You are not responsible for her fantasy but I believe she deserves wholesome sex but if you are not sure and it's just by the look, I think it's all in your head.

SixSeven:
I am personally not a fan of anything unnatural but why I suggested the toy was because while it is important to satisfy her, you cannot give what you don't have or let me put it this way, you can't give more than you can supply to her and if she's not satisfied with your last comment above, then it's not really you. The toys are addictive and no man can match that machine power, he will simply die. For example you say she comes but you are still worried about that look. Could it just be you over analyzing the look? Are you projecting fear? Are you responsible for her fantasy? If a man imagines a woman with big bum bum and his wife doesn't have it, he will blame her when he should own up to his unrealistic fantasy. See, I understand your topic and I know men go through it. It's funny because initially, the virgin women are not interested in sex and the child birth makes it worse, then all of a sudden they start to want it more especially around their 30s and I am only writing from personal research and experience. Female libido and sexual satisfaction can fluctuate and often increase with age. Many women have lower orgasm frequency and sexual satisfaction early in sexual life, especially at first intercourse, compared with men. This is well-documented in sex research and contributes to the idea that early sexual experiences can be less pleasurable. With experience, she wants to explore more. Studies attribute this to better sexual knowledge and confidence, less fear, shame, or pain (she's already used to the ritual), more stable partner (you are in a marriage) and less anxiety about pregnancies. The missing part is communication here. It's not how big your tool is, it's how you use it to make her feel wholesome. The same women who can take different horse power will complain that the thing is too big. You are not responsible for her fantasy but I believe she deserves wholesome sex but if you are not sure and it's just by the look, I think it's all in your head.

If you read my response to Spencer who has said what you just said, you would see that i give her orgasms to the point that she tells me to stop.

However, i have just today discovered what one of the problem is, which is that we men have a higher libido over our wives and our wives cannot keep up.

I met her last night and i still wanted another action this afternoon and started but stopped because of I saw she was tired even though we were resting at home and watching movies.

And that is where I saw after discussing with her that she is silently complaining that I always want to enter her.

And this has made me appreciate even more why husbands cheat and I will now raise a thread on it for further enlightenment and clarification

You get small Odogwu, na to look for gal wey get small pobious marry. Equation balanced.

That's why I advise people to test before you marry.

Citroen19digit:
If you read my response to Spencer who has said what you just said, you would see that i give her orgasms to the point that she tells me to stop.

However, i have just today discovered what one of the problem is, which is that we men have a higher libido over our wives and our wives cannot keep up.

I met her last night and i still wanted another action this afternoon and started but stopped because of I saw she was tired even though we were resting at home and watching movies.

And that is where I saw after discussing with her that she is silently complaining that I always want to enter her.

And this has made me appreciate even more why husbands cheat and I will now raise a thread on it for further enlightenment and clarification

I read that response. Trust me, if you let her know she has a competition today, all these things will change. That one I am sure of

SixSeven:
I read that response. Trust me, if you let her know she has a competition today, all these things will change. That one I am sure of

Ah! bros, i no do oo. You see me and hell, i no do again. I have already had all the hells i needed growing up so right now I only need the peace and quiet and goodness I presently have to continue forever. So, i would not do anything to change my winning configuration. Which is why I told her that if she is tired she should go. Me, i no dey go near another woman. Mbanu

Your post is not a lament; it is an autopsy report. You have dissected your own marriage and found the rotting core: you were never sexually sufficient, you were provisionally sufficient. The contract was: your resources for her youth and fidelity. Her side of the contract has a biological expiration date (her youth), after which her fidelity becomes contingent on your continued sexual adequacy, which you lack by immutable genetic lottery.

The "koko" (essence) of marriage, in this model, is not mutual satisfaction. It is a resource-for-genetics trade that becomes unstable when the genetic attraction is absent. You are now a sentient wallet watching your wife's biology ache for a man she perceives as genetically superior. The endurance has no expiry because the contract is for life, but the terms were written in a language (biology) you weren't taught to read until it was too late.

Citroen19digit:
You know, men always feel that they have a situation where cheating is justified and looking at all the scenarios of a woman's own it appears she had none.

But I always had a feeling that she too has one and i think i once saw a woman get it, (i saw one case here years ago were one or two guys were arguing that she was justified but i was still thinking on it)

So, now it is a new area for me and do I do not have any plan on it

And you know, as men too have confessed that they are tired of eating only egusi, clearly, i am seeing that she too is tired of me. And one of my pains is that i have been suspecting this since i read about women cheating. I kept saying in my mind that they do this because they too are tired of their men. But the stories always point it to the other areas.

And not even one wife has said it.

So, there is no move i can make to spark her plugs again. I am dead and expired.

Now every other man is better than me. If any guy goes near her, sparks start flying, and you we all have experienced it too, but I have always wondered what caused it. Now i know that it is the same i don't want to eat only egusi

Too much familiarity. Your job no dey gree you travel? Most marriages that work well are those where the man usually leaves the house for a couple of weeks and is back

And I think you should spice up your bedroom activities also. Not always sex in the same place. Try a hotel. Try new things. When was the last time you guys went on a solo date without the kids?

So according to op no wife is satisfied with their husbands after sometime (giving birth)

Going by your theory of she them meets a new exciting partner and leaves you... After a while it's only natural for her to cheat on the new partner who becomes old and expired like you, seek new adventures and thrills and the smae goes on and on till she herself becomes a waste.

You see how flawed and baseless this is? Learn to satisfy your woman. If your own pole no dey satisfy her again look for other ways to compensate for it pre-intimacy, finger, tongue as the case may be. You can even introduce toys and role play. Don't be lazy.. live healthy so the JT will be answering anytime action is needed. No be to pull clothes lay her down like who dey do special prayer for cele, climb straight kpobing no play at all, you're not even concerned about her feelings or anything but just knacking.


Romance and do those things you used to do that made her fall in the first place, go out have fun together, take a break from the normal routine every now and then, steal her away once once to beautiful places, surprise her with gifts too, talk dirty, text naughty, flirt with her while she's away from home so when she's coming she knows what's about to hit her. Beat the cat sometimes like you're stealing OPP, knack her like a pro sometimes, don't be the predictable gentle man all the time that when you touch her she knows exactly all you will do before you enter. Try dey shock am a lot make she dey wonder "what next" instead of knowing your every move on her body. Do things spontaneously. Don't be boring .. Not all women are insatiable. Some just need the dead fire rekindled. Most require your attention and love, care emotional connection is very important and it seems you're is long dead. Make them feel great. It all starts in the mind. I know guys we grew up together with gigantic poles, and long money whose wives still cheated on them. So you really need to know the woman you wifed before coming here to generalize.

True, sex with same partner might be boring but then spicing it up by doing things differently helps. And it's also true women feel like us too wanting to test something different once in a while but if she's grounded and so into you emotionally I doubt she would entertain other men to that level of spreading for them. Get past being physical and connect with her on other levels intimately. Once in a while we crave new things when we get bored with what we have. Maybe she just doesn't love you no more and is past redemption. Make it work. Talk about it but if it's too late then let her go and take her as a lesson for the next. No normal woman can be jumping from pole to pole in a quest to satisfy her desires na lie be that. Except na loose you marry and you nor know

derico:
I knew I was lucky with that my ex wey no like too much sex.

I go dull, another man don carry the treasure.

Atleast, one won't be having infidelity issues to battle with.
And no pressure to outperform yourself.

Don't be so sure,cux she fit no like sex with you,make she like am with another person who get better skills in the ozarum. If they didn't circumcise her,no way she no go like sex. Clict dey there na,Abi the nerve endings there travel?

Citroen19digit:
To wealthyonos.

I don't know why they are banning my replies

Even if i put leg, she cannot be satisfied by me. We can not feel it, she needs 2 things,

1) a different man with his different thing and spirit.

And

2) a long thing.

Now, for number 1) i now see what happens to married women and why we men really love to have meet them.

Now, i know that it is because they are very very hungry for any man. Every man that is not their husband is very sweet and exciting whether he has a small thing or not.

And so they must enjoy him and he too must enjoy her because the whole package and experience is very new and electrifying.

And that is why there is always a strong attraction for married women.

And if the guy has a long one, then number 1 and 2 is automatically fulfilled .

Then, say bye bye to your wife because she must fall in love with him for he is her true first. She cannot help it, she just must.

That is why you see girls did not really answer in the thread https://www.nairaland.com/8592186/girl-ever-truly-forget-guy whether they never forget the guy who disvirgined them on the thread

Now, i know as i have been suspecting all along, It is not about who disvirgined her but about who gbenshed her till she scattered in love for him. That is the true first boyfriend they can never forget

So, here is a bad side for marrying a virgin, for there is no rest until she goes through all these experiences.

So, brother, i have to face it, i have expired in her hand like a battery. I can no longer start her engine again.

As, i told her, now I understand why husbands cheat. I believe this is what happens to them.

If only married men had spoken, i would have preferred not to marry or at least marry with a plan

BigYash:
Don't be so sure,cux she fit no like sex with you,make she like am with another person who get better skills in the ozarum. If they didn't circumcise her,no way she no go like sex. Clict dey there na,Abi the nerve endings there travel?

No worry bro.
It's not me.
Sex is painful for her...she/we sometimes use lube.

BigYash:
Don't be so sure,cux she fit no like sex with you,make she like am with another person who get better skills in the ozarum. If they didn't circumcise her,no way she no go like sex. Clict dey there na,Abi the nerve endings there travel?

THE End

derico:
No worry bro.
It's not me.
Sex is painful for her...she/we sometimes use lube.

Woman wey no dey wet for you? Bad omen

Tosinville:
Woman wey no dey wet for you? Bad omen

Am I her first?
Who taught her the use for lube before we met?

Do some study...it's a phenomenon among some women.
It's like bloodless deflowering.

kiddaz:
So according to op no wife is satisfied with their husbands after sometime (giving birth)

True, sex with same partner might be boring but then spicing it up by doing things differently helps.

💯 for you.. keyword spice it up at Citroen19digit

you are spot on, i think most men too have problem, some of em after getting married, they drop all their bad boys game and they become conservative in the other room. brr tear that puccay up, trust me women love crazzzzy dudes.

Traay:
💯 for you.. keyword spice it up at Citroen19digit

you are spot on, i think most men too have problem, some of em after getting married, they drop all their bad boys game and they become conservative in the other room. brr tear that puccay up, trust me women love crazzzzy dudes.

Easy to say when you have not paid school fees and hospital bills, if not you would know that one drop of sperm equals to double bills.

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