Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

It is appropriate and VERY OKAY to ask the woman or the man you want to marry ANY question. ANY.

If that question you want to ask will bring wahala, then you're not ready to start a sane, healthy relationship.

And you are so sure she's going to admit it if she's ever done abortion? You are a joker.

Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.

Bro ask anything
Marriage has lost its purpose
No go dey do mumu mumu ohh
Anything you want to know ask

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

What makes you think you will get the truth from her?

As a man, when you are ready to settle down that's when you will realize that a wife is very difficult to find

BeStroNG:
Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.

Hahahahahah! I can bet you are just looking for an excuse to leverage on. Na person like you go marry dey cheat on your wife because she's fat.

I see nothing wrong with the question,infact it is good to ask questions,before i go into a relationship with any man i must ask about his past like how many women has been in his life,how many he slept with,why did he broke up with them and so on,so tn be sure i'm not making a mistake.

hope you will also get a lie detecting machine

It's a good question but what's the use when we both knw she wnt be open with the truth....
She knws the relationship ends if she tells you she once did an abortion so she will rather lie Abt it....

If you knw u r serious Abt marrying her, jus try to impregnate her first bfor marriage... Rather than getting married and waiting on the lord

Any girl you really want to marry you are free to ask her anything if she don’t feel comfortable answering you just leave her she’s hiding something. Though they are expecting such question which many will lie you just have to find out yourself by going to medical check up to a trusted doctor or friend if you have anyone.

I have no issue with you asking, my concern is "are you mentally ready for the outcome?"

Don't get me wrong, there are relationships that partners open up on EVERYTHING (past, present and future). This is based on the fact that the lady is certain about the mental health of the guy and vise versa.
Infact they laugh it off and see no big deal at all.

I am just concerned about your mental health. If you can handle the truth.

If your reason is to know if she can still bear child/ children then I say it's baseless.
Moreover, there're other factors that can contribute to infertility (I am just being open minded)

If a girl is not ready to take any questions from you, then she's not ready for marriage. As far as marriage is concerned, there should be no sacred cows.

That's why many Nairaland guys are insisting on marrying virgins. If the girl had been a virgin, would you bother asking her the question?

Although no man wants to marry baggage, no man should not be offended when ladies ask them tough questions because the golden rule should apply in everything.

Nothing wrong about it bro........ Personally I've once asked mine the same question and she said she have never had an abortion even though she dated her ex for 6 years+ . Sometimes,to dey on a safer side,e dey good say make guyman ask some really hard questions,at least to avoid stories wey go touch him kidney las las

The answer you will get is “NO I HAVEN’T”

No, since that will still be the answer.

Yes.

It's important.

Yes

Yes it is . According to durex condoms , Nigerian girls are the most morally depraved on earth.
.so ask her

Nigerian girls are all porn stars .

Most of them have already done 5,000 to 9,000 rounds of sex before their 20th birthday

Yes

Go ahead, if she clean then there's nothing for her to hide.
But be very sensitive to her replies, na there you go take know them.

There is a way you would ask it and it will cause problem... Someone like me I'd tell her that I'm once a cultist and I've done a lot of atrocities, so that she can tell me the truth... Hell I'll even tell her ive once made a girl have abortion just to get her view

Unless you have proof she has committed abortion before & you just want to use that as excuse to boycott the marriage.

Because such question will normally cause quarrel or raise issues of trust.

I dont think its a smart question. If you are trying to see if she can get pregnant do the proper stuff before you propose to her

JUST LIKE HIV, ABORTION NOR DEY SHOW FOR FACE.... SHE WILL DEFINITELY LIE TO YOU MY BROTHER

Good question.

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