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Never tolerate abuse from your spouse especially physical violent abuse. Because if they become comfortable communicating their displeasure with violence, one day they going to feel the need increase the violence because their anger has reached a new height. That may be the day they beat, stab or shoot you to death.
Nip it in the bud before the abuser gets comfortable doing it.

Kingray10:
It sounds funny now since He's a Man
But if it's the other way round, Internet no go let men rest

But he married her.

Diamond098454:
How can a woman beat a man? With which hand? I don't believe this story

Yu better
Behind our project blocks....one used to deal seroiusly with daddy

This one na torey, the bolt driver just dey lamba with hope that the silly passenger will pay more money to him. I called the passenger silly because I wonder y she's recording and playing it for the whole world to listen

agentNija:
Another lamba from the master himself. You are the only human being who has the same experience with everyone in the world. Only you. Once people open a thread to narrate their experience you'll be here to say you has experienced it before. Oga you don cast for nairaland. No one believes anything you say again so slow down the lies.

We all have very similar experiences as the next person. I remember when I was 12 a girl beat me in my class in school. She was extremely rude to me always and picking on me. When the time came she just did " gidigbo " carried me by my legs and tossed me onto the floor I got up to give her the beating of her life, she started doing like Mayweather and punching. Our hands clashed and her bones where so hard I knew then I would not win the fight because she fought like a Pro. Then the class seperated us. In those days the fight was won by who did more damage before the fight was stopped . I knew I could not beat her she fought better than a boy..I latter found out through her brother that the entire children of their family had a boxing coach who was teaching them self defense.

Sonnobax15:

I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels.

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? . Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? . Like wtf!!! Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, . Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh

You be animal Aswear lol

Samantha125:
What's stopping him from leaving her though? Because there's no peace in being constantly beaten, especially infront of your children... It's like he's waiting to leave her in a coffin.

Reminds me of this one lady back home who once beat up her boyfriend early in the morning and chased him out of the house naked... The guy had to walk back home in his birthday suit... One would think he'd never want to have anything to do with her ever again after his walk of shame, but the following day they were spotted having a good time together...🤦🤦🤦

Most men who have humiliation fetishes don't even know they have it.

Diamond098454:
I called you this morning to send some cash to you but you off call on me and I called again and again you refused picking.
That door have closed

Brighter Grammar is the name of the book. Highly recommended for you. And you talk say you be student. Na wa o

The most important element in a marriage especially for men is Peace of mind if you don't have peace of mind , you are likely to die earlier than old age.

My advice is quit the marriage, and this goes to everyone. Quit any abusive marriage that deprives your peace of mind.

Marriage is overrated, not everyone will marry. It is only in Nigeria that people see marriage as an achievement. If you can afford to stay alone please do and enjoy your peace.

JibolaUsman:
We all have very similar experiences as the next person. I remember when I was 12 a girl beat me in my class in school. She was extremely rude to me always and picking on me. When the time came she just did " gidigbo " carried me by my legs and tossed me onto the floor I got up to give her the beating of her life, she started doing like Mayweather and punching. Our hands clashed and her bones where so hard I knew then I would not win the fight because she fought like a Pro. Then the class seperated us. In those days the fight was won by who did more damage before the fight was stopped . I knew I could not beat her she fought better than a boy..I latter found out through her brother that the entire children of their family had a boxing coach who was teaching them self defense.

This your story take style dry o 🥱

agentNija:
Another lamba from the master himself. You are the only human being who has the same experience with everyone in the world. Only you. Once people open a thread to narrate their experience you'll be here to say you has experienced it before. Oga you don cast for nairaland. No one believes anything you say again so slow down the lies.

It is possible ...bus drivers,Keke and trailer drivers na Waka Waka people so experience go plenty.

Sonnobax15:

I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels.

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? . Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? . Like wtf!!! Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, . Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh

That's why we stopped taking that book too serious na. Many things just dey off charts from reality....

Cherry pick oga and live ya life. Some people take it too serious and became martyrs. Is that not totally useless?

Wotowotoman:
This your story take style dry o 🥱

You sef dey hard to please. Go and sidon one place...

Like seriously?

Poske95:
Yu better
Behind our project blocks....one used to deal seroiusly with daddy

merrymike47:
😂 lwkmd. Person don go marry Calabar girl. Oga e better as you carry your cross oo.

I’ll also advice that you register for boxing training. So that there would be some balance. May God strengthen you, amen.

Na so Calabar babes they do?? Ahh

Diamond098454:
Smile smile smile
How was your day?

My day was a bit stressful though but thank God.

Denko2721987:
Na so Calabar babes they do?? Ahh

😂 I no know oo, I know say dem dey get muscle

Softmen:
Pussyphilia well-done. You go outside hustle today ?

Yes o! I go hustle o and today's hustle good no be small.

Wotowotoman:
This your story take style dry o 🥱

Y empti ed is dry. Peace of Yagbe

Sonnobax15:

I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels.

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? . Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? . Like wtf!!! Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, . Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh

..so you no enter her in the other room?

You for wait na... make she use blow disfigure your face...

Sonnobax15:

I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels.

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? . Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? . Like wtf!!! Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, . Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh

Please be a man for once

Sonnobax15:

I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels.

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? . Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? . Like wtf!!! Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, . Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh

Report to the nearest police station

Else call on the activist

Rep9jaCom:
A Bolt driver has opened up about enduring domestic violence from his wife, sharing how fear and financial pressure have forced him to remain in the marriage. Rep9ja reports,

In a heartfelt confession, the man revealed that he often waits outside his home until midnight to ensure his wife has fallen asleep before returning, fearing violent reactions if he earns less than expected.

He explained:


The driver added that his wife humiliates him publicly, calling him “stupid” and “useless,” and has no shame in letting neighbours witness the abuse.

Despite this, he remains in the marriage, citing the need to protect his family and maintain peace.

According to him maybe if she had married a non quiet man she’ll love him but he can’t do anything as being quiet is his nature.

Watch the video below…

“She Be@ts Me In Front Of Our Children” — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic V!olence From Wifehttps://t.co/PqXRT7ixYk pic.twitter.com/wfdwXGpWs5

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) January 31, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/she-beats-me-bolt-driver-laments/

And he thinks this girls he lamenting to give 2fucks ? Gals that might be worst!

Diamond098454:
How can a woman beat a man? With which hand? I don't believe this story

Honestly, it reads like click bait.

Diamond098454:
How can a woman beat a man? With which hand? I don't believe this story

there are strong women oh, and some men are not strong at all

The story is incomplete.
Who owns the car...?

This is serious🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔.............

kessler53:
there are strong women oh, and some men are not strong at all

PROVERBS 27: 15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike. 16 Whosoever hideth her hideth the wind, and the ointment of his right hand, which bewrayeth itself.

Is it that the man can't fight or that his temperament is the problem ? If na real traditional man, this kind of thing no fit happen.

That's the result wen kolu as husband marry chukwudi as wife😝😂

Rep9jaCom:
A Bolt driver has opened up about enduring domestic violence from his wife, sharing how fear and financial pressure have forced him to remain in the marriage. Rep9ja reports,

In a heartfelt confession, the man revealed that he often waits outside his home until midnight to ensure his wife has fallen asleep before returning, fearing violent reactions if he earns less than expected.

He explained:


The driver added that his wife humiliates him publicly, calling him “stupid” and “useless,” and has no shame in letting neighbours witness the abuse.

Despite this, he remains in the marriage, citing the need to protect his family and maintain peace.

According to him maybe if she had married a non quiet man she’ll love him but he can’t do anything as being quiet is his nature.

Watch the video below…

“She Be@ts Me In Front Of Our Children” — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic V!olence From Wifehttps://t.co/PqXRT7ixYk pic.twitter.com/wfdwXGpWs5

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) January 31, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/she-beats-me-bolt-driver-laments/

he doesn't beat her probably because he has it in his body to keep his hands to himself.......its cruise cause its a man but if it were to be a lady now everywhere for done burst......teach your kids to always keep their hands to themselves, if your spouse is misbehaving talk to them, seek counseling or waka dey go.....no beat anybody pikin.