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Dilijingsly:
In my previous post, I asked if Ladies can comfortably buy condoms for their men. Now let's see
As a guy can you help your woman and get sanitary pads

Not just pad, even pant n bra

Yes I can

GloriousGbola:
you are saying this as a woman who knows the pad she wants to buy

there are at least four different always pads

the other day my daughter was telling me that the pad i buy her sometimes leaks and i ws telling her to confirm for me the exact one i should buy

Same Aya?

pocohantas:
Same Aya?

Yep

There are two sizes. Both are not always available. She had an outing she was on her period, she said wearing black because she might stain. I asked why and she explained sometimes there was some leakage when she had heavy flow. I told her she should have told me so I could be aware and focus on the large one going forward

GloriousGbola:
Yep

There are two sizes. Both are not always available. She had an outing she was on her period, she said wearing black because she might stain. I asked why and she explained sometimes there was some leakage when she had heavy flow. I told her she should have told me so I could be aware and focus on the large one going forward

There are indeed different lengths. I thought you were aware and purchased the longer one. So sorry she experienced that _ I hope she didn't overthink it.

Dilijingsly:
In my previous post, I asked if Ladies can comfortably buy condoms for their men. Now let's see
As a guy can you help your woman and get sanitary pads

Have done that several times

Yes I buy for my wife
Girl friends
Side pieces too

When time reach I will start buying for my daughters

joseph1832:
Isn't it prudent to just give her the money so, she can buy it herself?.

So you can't buy for your partner even if she's in pain?

Ishilove:
She should be able to afford such things as sanitary pads herself. Maybe it's just the way I'm wired but I don't see why I have to depend on my partner for such basic things as pads. This is the 21st century. A woman should be able to have some level of self sufficiency, especially when she is not handicapped in any way.

All these things apply under toiletries, including money for making hair, for many Nigerian girls/women. They see it as the sole duty of their boyfriend/man/husband.

Any man who have the mindset you have concerning this, is basically seen as stingy or even greedy.

I honestly don't see how buying sanitary pad for any woman will ease her pain?

folake4u:
So you can't buy for your partner even if she's in pain?

joseph1832:
I honestly don't see how buying sanitary pad for any woman will ease her pain?

What I mean is that you can help her to buy when she can't go and buy it herself due to period pains?

Wait, you don't have sisters? Female cousins?

So as a man you want to take your bear bear to a store to purchase sanitary pad for a woman. Just wear the pad home so the world can see the kind of dodoyo you are. Ewu!

joseph1832:
All these things apply under toiletries, including money for making hair, for many Nigerian girls/women. They see it as the sole duty of their boyfriend/man/husband.

Any man who have the mindset you have concerning this, is basically seen as stingy or even greedy.

That's a leech mindset. I was brought up in a household where the women are self sufficient. My parents split the bills on household expenses and I have the same mindset. If you aren't handicapped, buy your shít yourself.

Dilijingsly:
In my previous post, I asked if Ladies can comfortably buy condoms for their men. Now let's see
As a guy can you help your woman and get sanitary pads

It's no different from any other item purchased at a store. No biggy

Ishilove:
😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂 very anyhow question

folake4u:
Don't you just love Nairaland. 😂😂😂😂

I no love am oo. 😂😂 Anti spam bot is there. And then someone is asking if it's okay to buy healthcare material for a loved one. I'm just wondering why it made the fp.

folake4u:
What I mean is that you can help her to buy when she can't go and buy it herself due to period pains?

Oh that's a different issue, so I can, as long as she describe what I'm suppose to buy, so I don't end up wasting money and my time.

Wait, you don't have sisters? Female cousins?

Of course I do. It's why you wrote sisters in plural. So in essence, my girl/babe/woman should have sisters... She can send them when she's in that condition etc.

Ishilove:
That's a leech mindset. I was brought up in a household where the women are self sufficient. My parents split the bills on household expenses and I have the same mindset. If you aren't handicapped, buy your shít yourself.

Oh that's you though, wish I can say the same for many of them out there.

You'd see a woman who works and is doing very well for herself, still expect her man to shoulder all the responsibility, including buying her panties. It's wild out there.

They kind of make the relationship transactional, that is, you pay my bills, I give you the coochie.

joseph1832:
Oh that's you though, wish I can say the same for many of them out there.

You'd see a woman who works and is doing very well for herself, still expect her man to shoulder all the responsibility, including buying her panties. It's wild out there.

They kind of make the relationship transactional, that is, you pay my bills, I give you the coochie.

I don't know where this kind of outlook came from. Do you know that some of them now even expect the man to buy them the dress they will wear to their date. And from what I hear this practice has been going on for some time.

I mean, just imagine already billing somebody when relationship never start?? Why won't these men objectify women when they have turned themselves to commerical commodities.

Omoluabi16:
I no love am oo. 😂😂 Anti spam bot is there. And then someone is asking if it's okay to buy healthcare material for a loved one. I'm just wondering why it made the fp.

😂😂😂😂😂

When I saw the thread first, I chuckled and was curious about the comments. I mean, that's supposed to be a non-negotiable.

joseph1832:
Oh that's a different issue, so I can, as long as she describe what I'm suppose to buy, so I don't end up wasting money and my time.

Of course I do. It's why you wrote sisters in plural. So in essence, my girl/babe/woman should have sisters... She can send them when she's in that condition etc.

Okay then, fair enough. And of course, she'd describe it well for you.

The few times I sent my male neighbour to help me get when I was in pain, I had to send him pictures on Whatsapp.

Well, I just feel it's not a big deal at all. I mean, my dad, brother, friends, ex, neighbours don't mind buying for me when I'm indisposed.

Lol what if the female relatives aren't around to assist your partner, you still won't budge?

Nothing is wrong with that.

I have done it countless times for My wife and I'll still do it GLADLY WITHOUT LOOKING BACK.

folake4u:
Okay then, fair enough. And of course, she'd describe it well for you.

The few times I sent my male neighbour to help me get when I was in pain, I had to send him pictures on Whatsapp.

Well, I just feel it's not a big deal at all. I mean, my dad, brother, friends, ex, neighbours don't mind buying for me when I'm indisposed.

Lol what if the female relatives aren't around to assist your partner, you still won't budge?

Well I think it's kind of inappropriate asking a neighbor to help buy sanitary pad. My opinion though. All the same, if my partner is indisposed, then is not a big deal. Though I strongly feel things that relate to women, should be handled by women. You dig?

Ishilove:
I don't know where this kind of outlook came from. Do you know that some of them now even expect the man to buy them the dress they will wear to their date. And from what I hear this practice has been going on for some time.

I mean, [b]just imagine already billing somebody when relationship never start?? [/b]Why won't these men objectify women when they have turned themselves to commerical commodities.

My dear, this is now the standard norm.

If you don't indulge them, they block you or stop responding to you. Such females have very strong sense of entitlement.

For me, I don't even give any of them that chance. Relationship is mutually beneficial. Many now use it to exploit and have even turned it into a business.

joseph1832:
Well I think it's kind of inappropriate asking a neighbor to help buy sanitary pad. My opinion though. All the same, if my partner is indisposed, then is not a big deal. Though I strongly feel things that relate to women, should be handled by women. You dig?

Thankfully, it's your opinion and within your rights to air your view.

Okay, I've heard you, Joseph.

I sell pads

So this question isn't for me..
😏My woman fit take a whole bag or carton if need be

Adult hygiene can be handled by themselves, a woman who's conscious of her health will get it herself !

My woman buys it herself and only ask for the money.

VaginaAcademic:
You're ignorant did the post say used sanitary pad abi you no get mama and sister

You dey mat, I look like person wey dey buy sanitary pads??

KingDashx:
You dey mat, I look like person wey dey buy sanitary pads??

you be werey

7arrows:
Why not. I see nothing wrong. If shes home and finds out she needs it. You can get it on ur way home its not an issue. My question to you. Can you buy sanitary pad for your daughter?

yes oo