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I am currently in a relationship with a 24 year old lady I am 33,i met her one night during her exams in campus, I am done with a school but I still work in campus I like this lady because she is the church going type,decently dressed and calm,I asked her out later and she accepted but she doesnt agree to sex so I respect her decision.
Recently they just concluded their second semester exam but it was during this semester I discovered something about her she never told me about,she has seizures once in a while, the night to her exam she was reading then all of a sudden she called my name I answered, she then told me she use to have seizures once in a while that she is seeing the signs that I should seat beside her so she doesn't get Injured, I did then 10 mins later it she started shivering violently I held her to the chair so she doesn't fall of, then some other students came to held and they asked what went wrong I explained to them, it was like that for almost an hour before it stopped.
Now my question is this is there a solution to the problem because it has got me thinking for a while now,she told me she is recieving treatments once in a week, but I was told it doesn't have cure, I am worried now because I feel I am not ready for this kind of suffering and also because it may be a genetic ailment I dont want my kids to inherit a sickness that is not their fault.

Do investigation first and find out the nature of the seizures...

You don't even know specifically what she is suffering from. You want to run away.


And you have been claiming you love her.


Find out what her sickness is. If it's genetic, treatable etc.

At least show her care nah even if you won't be interested in continuing the relationship instead of distancing yourself from her and running away.


Haba!

brain54:
Do investigation first and find out the nature of the seizures...

You don't even know specifically what she is suffering from. You want to run away.


And you have been claiming you love her.


Find out what her sickness is. If it's genetic, treatable etc.

At least show her care nah even if you won't be interested in continuing the relationship instead of distancing yourself from her and running away.


Haba!

I never said I was running away I am just curious whether it is curable ailment or not.

bigpriik:
I never said I was running away I am just curious whether it is curable ailment or not.

But you don't know the exact nature or type of seizure it is. So how can anyone tell you if it's curable or not?

There are many causes of seizures!

You keep us updated now. Show us how you support her.

Time for you to do bigloove, bigpriik.

budaatum:
You keep us updated now. Show us how you support her.

Time for you to do bigloove, bigpriik.

He should just wait for her to recover fully before using the bigplik o...

If you have intentions of marrying her, then do so you’ll be recognized as her husband and anything that happens, they’ll understand. It’s very rare but anything can happen when seizures occurs or she might even be having a fit when she’s in your house but you aren’t close. Then you’ll be labeled a kidnapper or accused of killing their daughter.

Make sure you also know one or two of her relatives and have their contacts if it gets worst.

Ensure you also learn the safety measures you should take if it reoccurs. I’ve heard you don’t put things in their mouth and there are other safety measures. Research about it so you’ll be on a good side.

Love is blind but don’t be blinded by it.
Shalom ✌️
🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

Even your name speaks much well about you, so continue

It is epilepsy no cure but it can be managed and God can heal her by her faith, guy e reach to fear and japa but love can make it work since na female not d guy

Chai this one strong bro

bigpriik:
I never said I was running away I am just curious whether it is curable ailment or not.

Dont let anyone blackmail you… running away is not a bad option…
But if u stay…. Brace up nigga…. The night just started, and its going to be a very very very long night

My blunt answer is run

You have nothing to benefit in return of this caring - no sex.

Don't help any girl nowadays without first getting something in return - gals are ingrates once you helped them they will dump you like envelope.

Epilepsy hardly has no cure and it is hereditary - that is your children may have it.

My own be say no ever make mistake go collect BJ from am.....e get why

bigpriik:
I never said I was running away I am just curious whether it is curable ailment or not.

Run if you have to!! If the tables were turned will she stay? Hell no she definitely won't stay!


Unless she's still a virgin, then i will ask you to stay. But if broken already...guy break into a fast run.

The signs are already too obvious before your own eyes.

Bro, run. There's no cure to that. And don't be blindfolded by love after all you haven't gone far in the relationship with her.

Abi the day when such seizures go take place for your house without you being around,and something bad, eventually happens,do you think people would believe you?

Run!!!

Take her to the hospital, if she can recognize the signs before it occur it can as well be prevented from occuring with medications. It could also be something little.

Ask yourself this question, if you were the one with seizures, will she stay ?

cr7lomo:
My own be say no ever make mistake go collect BJ from am.....e get why

See bah i don't want to laugh, but i can't hold it,, i will burst for some second,,

Hahaha hahahahaha hahahahah haha hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah

cr7lomo:
My own be say no ever make mistake go collect BJ from am.....e get why

Heard a nigga lost his local government to such. The shit started when the D was in her mouth,that was how the teeth divided the D. Nigga was shouting and bleeding, before neighbours rushed him to the hospital.

bigpriik:

I am currently in a relationship with a 24 year old lady I am 33,i met her one night during her exams in campus, I am done with a school but I still work in campus I like this lady because she is the church going type,decently dressed and calm,I asked her out later and she accepted but she doesnt agree to sex so I respect her decision.
Recently they just concluded their second semester exam but it was during this semester I discovered something about her she never told me about,she has seizures once in a while, the night to her exam she was reading then all of a sudden she called my name I answered, she then told me she use to have seizures once in a while that she is seeing the signs that I should seat beside her so she doesn't get Injured, I did then 10 mins later it she started shivering violently I held her to the chair so she doesn't fall of, then some other students came to held and they asked what went wrong I explained to them, it was like that for almost an hour before it stopped.
Now my question is this is there a solution to the problem because it has got me thinking for a while now,she told me she is recieving treatments once in a week, but I was told it doesn't have cure, I am worried now because I feel I am not ready for this kind of suffering and also because it may be a genetic ailment I dont want my kids to inherit a sickness that is not their fault.

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Oga na epilepsy the girl is even intelligent to know when it occurs.
It has cure traditional but you go waka

dollytino4real:
It is epilepsy no cure but it can be managed and God can heal her by her faith, guy e reach to fear and japa but love can make it work since na female not d guy

Don't get you, is it that if it was the guy it would be cool for the girl to run away? would it work because it's a female suffering from it?

She no longer fits your expectations of love because yourw goes into breeding and offspring genetics but real love doesn't care. It's blind ... You can communicate with her and still try to figure out how to help her ... Y'all met for a reason...

Run!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She will run if the same thing is happening to you!!!!!!!!!!!

Men are too nice!

bigpriik:

I am currently in a relationship with a 24 year old lady I am 33,i met her one night during her exams in campus, I am done with a school but I still work in campus I like this lady because she is the church going type,decently dressed and calm,I asked her out later and she accepted but she doesnt agree to sex so I respect her decision.
Recently they just concluded their second semester exam but it was during this semester I discovered something about her she never told me about,she has seizures once in a while, the night to her exam she was reading then all of a sudden she called my name I answered, she then told me she use to have seizures once in a while that she is seeing the signs that I should seat beside her so she doesn't get Injured, I did then 10 mins later it she started shivering violently I held her to the chair so she doesn't fall of, then some other students came to held and they asked what went wrong I explained to them, it was like that for almost an hour before it stopped.
Now my question is this is there a solution to the problem because it has got me thinking for a while now,she told me she is recieving treatments once in a week, but I was told it doesn't have cure, I am worried now because I feel I am not ready for this kind of suffering and also because it may be a genetic ailment I dont want my kids to inherit a sickness that is not their fault.

my sister's friend had seizure too, but not anymore, she was completely healed. i don't know if she took anything or not, what i know is that, my sister used to stand by her, they were always going from church to church until she was healed. now she is married with plenty kids.

She should go for MIR scan, there could be a lump in her brain which may or may not be cancerous. It's a lot to deal with, I feel sorry for her. 1 hour in that state will take a whole toll on her.

bigpriik:

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cr7lomo:
My own be say no ever make mistake go collect BJ from am.....e get why

I don't even what to read, just quit

bigpriik:
I never said I was running away I am just curious whether it is curable ailment or not.

do whatever is best FOR YOU.

if anyone calls it RUNNING Away let the person go and marry her.

bigpriik:

I am currently in a relationship with a 24 year old lady I am 33,i met her one night during her exams in campus, I am done with a school but I still work in campus I like this lady because she is the church going type,decently dressed and calm,I asked her out later and she accepted but she doesnt agree to sex so I respect her decision.
Recently they just concluded their second semester exam but it was during this semester I discovered something about her she never told me about,she has seizures once in a while, the night to her exam she was reading then all of a sudden she called my name I answered, she then told me she use to have seizures once in a while that she is seeing the signs that I should seat beside her so she doesn't get Injured, I did then 10 mins later it she started shivering violently I held her to the chair so she doesn't fall of, then some other students came to held and they asked what went wrong I explained to them, it was like that for almost an hour before it stopped.
Now my question is this is there a solution to the problem because it has got me thinking for a while now,she told me she is recieving treatments once in a week, but I was told it doesn't have cure, I am worried now because I feel I am not ready for this kind of suffering and also because it may be a genetic ailment I dont want my kids to inherit a sickness that is not their fault.

If you know that you are not financially capable back out because if it was the other way round, she won't think twice to dump you

OP, only you can decide, but it's important to know that having seizures is a medical condition (like epilepsy) that can often be well managed with treatment. It doesn't mean she will suffer constantly or that your children would definitely inherit it. Your worry is normal, but if you truly care for her, the next step is to learn about her condition together from her doctors, so you can make a decision based on facts and not just fear, and then honestly decide if you are ready to support her through life's challenges. Good luck.