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If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by PurityOrNothing(op): 8:16am On Feb 14
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *14th February 2026*

Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day

Scripture:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by PurityOrNothing(op): 8:16am On Feb 14
Valentines Day or not, flee immorality
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by PurityOrNothing(op): 8:16am On Feb 14
Mod: Nlfpmod and others. Good morning to you all today
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by ATEAMS: 8:41am On Feb 14
normal ....normally it's anticipated .
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by geoworldedu: 8:41am On Feb 14
What's bad in having sex any dayy anytime? They should just use condom and move on. Sex is over hyped by hypocrites in this part of the world.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by canalily(m): 8:41am On Feb 14
Who still remember what valentine day means here in Nigeriahuh We're begging America to lift their ban please....
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by karmaolu1(m): 8:41am On Feb 14
What did the Holy Quran say about valentine❓❓
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by GanagiBitrus:
This Valentine's Day has caused more harm than good.
The world would be better off without a Valentine's Day.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by crossbreedwears(m): 8:44am On Feb 14
A lot of girls will be nailed today all in the name of Valentine
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by oluwaseunamos33(m): 8:44am On Feb 14
Valentine is not for sex but to show love
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by judewrites: 8:44am On Feb 14
I won't forget that day when a popular pastor from a popular deliverance church called out men who picked up women which later turned out to be spirits.

The way men tropped out in droves, I was surprised!

Men out there, be careful. Your girlfriend/that girl you are eyeing for sex today, might just be from the marine world to destroy your destiny!
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by nairalanda1(m): 8:45am On Feb 14
Yes, say no. If they persisit, that means that once you are married, they won't be able to control themselves sexually, since they were pestering you before you got married.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Toolegit123(m): 8:45am On Feb 14
crossbreedwears:
A lot of girls will be nailed today all in the name of Valentine
. Nailed is under statement,alot of girls will be wounded today.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Osiris12: 8:45am On Feb 14
crossbreedwears:
A lot of girls will be nailed today all in the name of Valentine
is it a bad thing??

Nailing
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by skywalker240(m): 8:46am On Feb 14
Sex is overrated

50 more characters needed
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Gotocourt: 8:48am On Feb 14
You will go to hefaya angry

Omorr, it's just biological response cheesy
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Maj196(m): 8:51am On Feb 14
Who cares, valentine or not people dey knack steady... Rubbish
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Shedrack777: 8:53am On Feb 14
If our girlfriends and side chicks no kpanachu us, who will?
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Pharaoh4rin(m): 8:55am On Feb 14
My girl woke up around 4am and began to move her hands around my body. I was quiet for awhile. Shortly she kissed me, brought out a package from under a pillow and gave me a gift. I stood up, opened it, look it over, appreciated her with a kiss her. She asked if that was all, i asked her to lie on me. With her red sexy short night gown, she laid on me. She expected further actions but i told her that I'm on sex holiday. She said that i didnt discussed it with her. I apologised and she accepted. We both slept off with her laying on me. She has gone to work.

That's my confession.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by callmetade:
We don do am this morning sef tongue

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Dogalmighty17: 8:58am On Feb 14
judewrites:
I won't forget that day when a popular pastor from a popular deliverance church called out men who picked up women which later turned out to be spirits.

The way men tropped out in droves, I was surprised!

Men out there, be careful. Your girlfriend/that girl you are eyeing for sex today, might just be from the marine world to destroy your destiny!
E get any destruction of destiny wey marine girls go do wey go pass wetin Tinubu and APC don do?
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Sonofgod1990(m): 8:59am On Feb 14
geoworldedu:
What's bad in having sex any dayy anytime? They should just use condom and move on. Sex is over hyped by hypocrites in this part of the world.
No always use condom bro. Do practice withdrawal grin


Na watin I dey use nak dongy always


Hope you know watin I mean by dongy¿ I dey fear ban huh
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by sleemoon(m): 9:04am On Feb 14
I thought i was coming to read something meaningful not a preacher's preaching
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by crossbreedwears(m): 9:11am On Feb 14
Their choice. 40 more characters needed
Osiris12:
is it a bad thing??

Nailing
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by crossbreedwears(m): 9:11am On Feb 14
As in ehn. Some men will take substance to enhance their performance lol
Toolegit123:
. Nailed is under statement,alot of girls will be wounded today.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MEGA4BILLION(m): 9:12am On Feb 14
What if your girlfriend is asking you for sex on Valentines day?
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by dungas30(m): 9:19am On Feb 14
PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *14th February 2026*

Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day

Scripture:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
why can't the same God locked the hole till after marriage then it will be unlocked automatically since his God .
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by dopedealer(m): 9:28am On Feb 14
Have you shaved your valentine gift ?
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 9:28am On Feb 14
Are you talking to Bible believers or just sharing your own beliefs?

True Christians know that fornication is a sin so no Christian can demand for sex when he/she is not married to the other person such only happens among those claiming worshipers but disbelieve what the Bible teaches.🤔
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by themanderon: 9:33am On Feb 14
geoworldedu:
What's bad in having sex any dayy anytime? They should just use condom and move on. Sex is over hyped by hypocrites in this part of the world.
The devil has you in his eternal vice grip if this is your view on this matter.
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