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brain54:
Did she force him to send her money...


Or was he the one that blocked her because she traveled to meet him against his wish to collect money from him?


Stop looking for how to blame the girl by all means.


If Una see truth make una dey talk o. Call a spade a spade and not a farm tool!

Mehn honestly I am done here if you can't see any wrong in her doings. I admitted from the onset about the man's culpability, but trying to tie every of the wrong to the man is uncalled for

This story is a big fat lie. For this girl, social media followership is a must!

Kalulu44:
Mehn honestly I am done here if you can't see any wrong in her doings. I admitted from the onset about the man's culpability, but trying to tie every of the wrong to the man is uncalled for

You are yet to point out any wrong she committed...


And you are just being emotional. It's not a crime anywhere to ask for valentine gift. My married neighbor that I buy provisions on my street asked for Valentine's gift just this morning and I bought her an ear ring. She didn't force me.


It's not also a crime for people to seek for connections. As I dey like this I still seek for higher connections everyday. And try to make the right alignments with people for business and whatever.



You failed to point out where she did wrong and how she forced herself on him and you want me to accept what you are saying just like that.


As if na today woman dey ask for valentine gift from man. Na today yansh dey back or did she force him to send her anything?

As the woman don ask am for money and gift he for dey him own. Rather he force himself enter road risk him life as agbaya when he be wey never see bottom plate before.


Then you as man wey you be dey gaslight the woman.

Continue!

donself9:
What is breakfast there, it is better than one pinishi gurl to dupe him of his money

The man entee transport and waste his time on a weekend ... means nothing

As long as that small rat no see the Man scam .. we move 👍

Omo, you enter motor spend 8 hours on that dangerous road with uncertainty to see who doesn't want to see you. On getting there, you got blocked. How else is breakfast served? Haba!

brain54:
You are yet to point out any wrong she committed...


And you are just being emotional. It's not a crime anywhere to ask for valentine gift. My married neighbor that I buy provisions on my street asked for Valentine's gift just this morning and I bought her an ear ring. She didn't force me.


It's not also a crime for people to seek for connections. As I dey like this I still seek for higher connections everyday. And try to make the right alignments with people for business and whatever.



You failed to point out where she did wrong and how she forced herself on him and you want me to accept what you are saying just like that.


As if na today woman dey ask for valentine gift from man. Na today yansh dey back or did she force him to send her anything?

As the woman don ask am for money and gift he for dey him own. Rather he force himself enter road risk him life as agbaya when he be wey never see bottom plate before!

So anyone can just walk up to you and ask for Valentine gifts and connection? Shebi you must have none each other before that will happen. Any lady pretending not to know a man or even married man gifting you gifts and money is not after her body is lying to herself, when you're not his sister or blood relation.
From the onset she knew exactly what the man wants from her and she wants to capitalize on that to get something from him and play him.
She said it herself that after their initial normal friends chatting, the man wanted something intimate. Isn't it at that point she ought to have quash everything. For it to have extended to can you come and visit me or I should come to your side or send me gifts, many water must have passed under the bridge (talkwise).
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So for her leading him to that stage when she's not interested in him is wrong. Forget about the she didn't force him to come or send her money. It was at that stage when the man wanted intimacy she should have blocked him, not when he failed to send you money you were greedily expecting.
She's a greedy and attitudeless person, nothing wey you wan tell me

Sonnobax15:

Is this not a breach of contract? .

When you were chatting with him,you didn't know he was a married man then?

When he was sending you money,you didn't refuse to take his money even when you knew he's already married.

But all of a sudden, simply because he only asked of one percent of whatever he must had spent on you in return,na once you rush block am on all social media platforms

Let the man be bold enough,come outside,face the shame and sue her for damages .

Very ungrateful weapons fashioned against men

If she went to the hotel and the man used her to do ritual and she begin to craze or die, you people will still blame her.... Sue who for damages? Sebi his mumu never do, let the so-called big man expose himself to his wife, kids and influencial friends to seek "damages" we'll see who's reputation will be damaged

Honestly both sides messed up here. The man shouldn’t be chasing girls when he has a family, and the lady should’ve set clear boundaries from the start instead of entertaining it. Whole thing just sounds like drama that could’ve been avoided.

Another clout chaser.
A 56 year old "well connected man" will not travel to meet you. Do you know how beautiful and wet Abuja girls are?

Kalulu44:
So anyone can just walk up to you and ask for Valentine gifts and connection? Shebi you must have none each other before that will happen. Any lady pretending not to know a man or even married man gifting you gifts and money is not after her body is lying to herself, when you're not his sister or blood relation.
From the onset she knew exactly what the man wants from her and she wants to capitalize on that to get something from him and play him.
She said it herself that after their initial normal friends chatting, the man wanted something intimate. Isn't it at that point she ought to have quash everything. For it to have extended to can you come and visit me or I should come to your side or send me gifts, many water must have passed under the bridge (talkwise).
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So for her leading him to that stage when she's not interested in him is wrong. Forget about the she didn't force him to come or send her money. It was at that stage when the man wanted intimacy she should have blocked him, not when he failed to send you money you were greedily expecting.
She's a greedy and attitudeless person, nothing wey you wan tell me

Nothing I want tell you because you want fault the girl by all means...


You already made up your mind say she dey wrong even without evidence.


Did the girl tell you anywhere that she just walked up to him and asked for the gift. Shebi they were chatting and were online friends? Did she say otherwise?

For her leading him when he said come and visit. She said no. Okay I will come and visit and she still insisted no. How is that leading him? Was the agreement mutual exchange for money and sex?

So people don't give free things in this country?

She already told the guy baba multiple times she doesn't want. He kept insisting because him body dey shake. And he has a wife at home. And you are blaming the girl.


I hope that's not the way you behave in real life?

When a woman tells you I don't want you to come and I don't want to visit. Leave her alone. Don't go forcing yourself on her to avoid stories that touch. E get why.


Next thing they go accuse baba of rape. Don't come is don't come. I won't come is I won't come.


Some of you criticize people and will do worse if given a chance!

so a married man left his wife and kids at home to travel to another state for 16 hours (8 hours)to and fro for a woman he isn't married to yet?without having consideration for his safety (car crash, kidnapping,robbery etc)in this unsafe Nigerian era?for a lady who isn't even all that?shapely or ravishingly beautiful she isn't!!

If anything untoward had befallen him that's how he would have put his wife and kids into agony if it's extra-marital sex can't he get from his environs ?or was he under a spell ?

A day you should spend with your family as it even falls on a saturday(a weekend)his wife may even be far prettier, shapely, ravishing than the suegbe girl one thing with randy men their wives at home are most times even more better looking than the side chick they cheat with so I wonder if they are under a spell at times or what do men really want?

That Tunde Ayeni man of the former Skye bank I was flabbergasted when i saw the picture of his wife because I thought she was a wrinkled,flabby,obese ugly woman only for me to see how youthful looking,sexy,and beautiful she was still he was still cheating on her without sense!!

ultraviolet27:
so a married man left his wife and kids at home to travel to another state for 16 hours (8 hours)to and fro for a woman he isn't married to yet?without having consideration for his safety (car crash, kidnapping,robbery etc)in this unsafe Nigerian era?for a lady who isn't even all that?shapely or ravishingly beautiful she isn't!!

If anything untoward had befallen him that's how he would have put his wife and kids into agony if it's extra-marital sex can't he get from his environs ?or was he under a spell ?

A day you should spend with your family as it even falls on a saturday(a weekend)his wife may even be far prettier, shapely, ravishing than the suegbe girl one thing with randy men their wives at home are most times even more better looking than the side chick they cheat with so I wonder if they are under a spell at times or what do men really want?

That Tunde Ayeni man of the former Skye bank I was flabbergasted when i saw the picture of his wife because I thought she was a wrinkled,flabby,obese ugly woman only for me to see how youthful looking,sexy,and beautiful she was still he was still cheating on her without sense!!

Blame the side chicks or girlfriends for leading them on...


Men that don't want to take responsibility for their actions will always find a way to shift blame and would come up with the weirdest excuses!

Good.


The said man is what can be termed as a,

"He goat".

brain54:
Nothing I want tell you because you want fault the girl by all means...


You already made up your mind say she dey wrong even without evidence.


Did the girl tell you anywhere that she just walked up to him and asked for the gift. Shebi they were chatting and were online friends? Did she say otherwise?

For her leading him when he said come and visit. She said no. Okay I will come and visit and she still insisted no. How is that leading him? Was the agreement mutual exchange for money and sex?

So people don't give free things in this country?

She already told the guy baba multiple times she doesn't want. He kept insisting because him body dey shake. And he has a wife at home. And you are blaming the girl.


I hope that's not the way you behave in real life?

When a woman tells you I don't want you to come and I don't want to visit. Leave her alone. Don't go forcing yourself on her to avoid stories that touch. E get why.


Next thing they go accuse baba of rape. Don't come is don't come. I won't come is I won't come.


Some of you criticize people and will do worse if given a chance!

I can see you're being sentimental, you always skip some of my comments to suit your narratives. I asked again, did their chats just start with come and visit me, let me come visit you. Shebi they passed thru some stage of chatting and friendship before it got to the point. Yes she said was rejecting his advances from onset, is rejecting enough. Why didn't she do the needful she did now from the time she know he was married and ask her for intimacy. That was the right time for her to have blocked him everywhere.
You are believing her that it's the man that's forcing to take money, when we all know she might be the one that asked for it.
Ok let's assume it was the man that wants to force her to have the money. So she can't reject the money just as she rejected the advances and visitation. She rejected those ones but wants the money, isn't that selfishness.
My point is, if you're not getting it. She ought to have blocked her immediately he wanted intimacy and she doesn't want.
Why wait till she didn't get the free money before doing so.
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One thing I know about myself, I can never force myself on a woman. But if I have the money to entice as much as I want I will do so without coercion. And if as lady you don't want my intimacy, then you shouldn't want my money. I can help anybody even stranger with money if I have, but if you want to turn it to a permanent thing and don't want to offer what I want from you, then you are greedy, self centered and selfish.
If you like continue to encourage women like this that what they're doing is right no problem. But the fact is she was wrong in some aspects of the friendship she came to broadcast online

Kalulu44:
I can see you're being sentimental, you always skip some of my comments to suit your narratives. I asked again, did their chats just start with come and visit me, let me come visit you. Shebi they passed thru some stage of chatting and friendship before it got to the point. Yes she said was rejecting his advances from onset, is rejecting enough. Why didn't she do the needful she did now from the time she know he was married and ask her for intimacy. That was the right time for her to have blocked him everywhere.
You are believing her that it's the man that's forcing to take money, when we all know she might be the one that asked for it.
Ok let's assume it was the man that wants to force her to have the money. So she can't reject the money just as she rejected the advances and visitation. She rejected those ones but wants the money, isn't that selfishness.
My point is, if you're not getting it. She ought to have blocked her immediately he wanted intimacy and she doesn't want.
Why wait till she didn't get the free money before doing so.
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One thing I know about myself, I can never force myself on a woman. But if I have the money to entice as much as I want I will do so without coercion. And if as lady you don't want my intimacy, then you shouldn't want my money. I can help anybody even stranger with money if I have, but if you want to turn it to a permanent thing and don't want to offer what I want from you, then you are greedy, self centered and selfish.
If you like continue to encourage women like this that what they're doing is right no problem. But the fact is she was wrong in some aspects of the friendship she came to broadcast online

You are the one who is sentimental and emotional here...


You want to nail her guilty by all means.


You want her to block the agbaya simply because he wants sex from her? Even after she told him no? You would still be the one to come here and make insinuations about her and call her names like childish for blocking a man just because he asked her out. She rejected his advances you still blame her for not blocking him. Must she block him because she doesn't want his advances?


They is something called boundaries. I will never blame the lady for asking a man who couldn't respect himself and old age for money for valentine. Common man... that's stretching the blame game too far. She never forced him. Nor did she offer to exchange sex for money at any point. So how did she lead the old man on? That's something you have failed to establish in this conversation.


She made it clear for him not to come. He came without invitation. How did she lead him on? Why can't you state clearly here how she did?

And another mistake I note you are making is saying she blocked him because he didn't send her money.... that's clearly wrong.

She blocked him for coming to her state without invitation. Who does that? There is a difference okay.


You just want to blame the girl by all means but it's not sticking!

brain54:
You are the one who is sentimental and emotional here...


You want to nail her guilty by all means.


You want her to block the agbaya simply because he wants sex from her? Even after she told him no? You would still be the one to come here and make insinuations about her and call her names like childish for blocking a man just because he asked her out. She rejected his advances you still blame her for not blocking him. Must she block him because she doesn't want his advances?


They is something called boundaries. I will never blame the lady for asking a man who couldn't respect himself and old age for money for valentine. Common man... that's stretching the blame game too far. She never forced him. Nor did she offer to exchange sex for money at any point. So how did she lead the old man on? That's something you have failed to establish in this conversation.


She made it clear for him not to come. He came without invitation. How did she lead him on? Why can't you state clearly here how she did?

And another mistake I note you are making is saying she blocked him because he didn't send her money.... that's clearly wrong.

She blocked him for coming to her state without invitation. Who does that? There is a difference okay.


You just want to blame the girl by all means but it's not sticking!

But at the end did she blocked him or not? What's the difference blocking him now and blocking him then.
Oh it wasn't bcus of the money she blocked him, it was bcus he came to her state without informing her. But if he had send money to her without informing her, would she have blocked him.
As for the answer you're waiting for me to give you. I have since giving you the answer, you're just deliberately ignoring it.
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My answer again for the last time, their coming to visit me and visit you doesn't just start when they knew each other. They have passed thru enough talking stage before it got that point. So why I told you she lead him in on, is her refusal to have quench or stop the relationship or is it friendship right from that moment the handshake was reaching the elbows. If she had done what she did now, it wouldn't have gotten to what transpired ystday or is it today.
But for it to have gotten to where it ended means she knowingly or unknowingly lead him on in respect to the money she will get and the connection.
So that's my answer, you can still come up with another question or logic again.

Kalulu44:
But at the end did she blocked him or not? What's the difference blocking him now and blocking him then.
Oh it wasn't bcus of the money she blocked him, it was bcus he came to her state without informing her. But if he had send money to her without informing her, would she have blocked him.
As for the answer you're waiting for me to give you. I have since giving you the answer, you're just deliberately ignoring it.
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My answer again for the last time, their coming to visit me and visit you doesn't just start when they knew each other. They have passed thru enough talking stage before it got that point. So why I told you she lead him in on, is her refusal to have quench or stop the relationship or is it friendship right from that moment the handshake was reaching the elbows. If she had done what she did now, it wouldn't have gotten to what transpired ystday or is it today.
But for it to have gotten to where it ended means she knowingly or unknowingly lead him on in respect to the money she will get and the connection.
So that's my answer, you can still come up with another question or logic again.

Lol ..


But she already quenched the relationship a long time ago by saying no.

Nah the man no hear word nah. What are you even saying. Lol.


The handshake was already going pass the elbow and she said no. The man came regardless without invitation and not without information her as you keep saying in your post. It seems you don't understand things easily. She didn't say he did not inform her . He informed her but she declined his coming. Na different things be that.


I see you already made up your mind what to believe and conclude so I would not argue with you again.

She blocked him at the end it's still wahala now... you were the one insisting a while ago that why didn't she block him. Now the blocking is still a problem. Because you want to fault her by all means.

No matter what she does you would still blame her. So nothing anyone says would make you see otherwise.


So long!

Fake story nothing like that happened .. the girl just wan trend

brain54:
Lol ..


But she already quenched the relationship a long time ago by saying no.

Nah the man no hear word nah. What are you even saying. Lol.


The handshake was already going pass the elbow and she said no. The man came regardless without invitation and not without information her as you keep saying in your post. It seems you don't understand things easily. She didn't say he did not inform her . He informed her but she declined his coming. Na different things be that.


I see you already made up your mind what to believe and conclude so I would not argue with you again.

She blocked him at the end it's still wahala now... you were the one insisting a while ago that why didn't she block him. Now the blocking is still a problem. Because you want to fault her by all means.

No matter what she does she would still blame her. So nothing anyone says would make you see otherwise.


So long!

Where did I say blocking him at the end was a problem. I said that's what she ought to have done since.
Yes she have said no before but the man no hear, if to say she block the man after that no, shey we for dey here still dey type epistle. But she no get the balls to block him then bcus she dey expect something, but when the expectation fail, she then decided to block him. Shikena, no wahala, but why she come carry am come social media if she wasn't pained

Rossychy:
Omo, you enter motor spend 8 hours on that dangerous road with uncertainty to see who doesn't want to see you. On getting there, you got blocked. How else is breakfast served? Haba!

babe forget that thing, naa tour experience, sometimes danger or getting caught make it sweeter 🤭

if naa me as she block me, i go lodge find beta sexy beach for the night .. tourism complete

Breakfast no follow here cos
1. love no dey .. the man just wan chop clean mouth
2. In as much 1kobo from the man no touch the gurl hand .. na her lost we go use the money carry another babe for her state that night 🤣

DeltaBachelor:
Gas a good lesson for the man. I detest married men acting like dogs . Imagine leaving your wife and family to embark on such dangerous trip

Imagine if he was kidnapped on the road nko..all because of a woman he takes such a risky journey.. from Abuja to Benue state.. nawaaooo

Because of woman you took a risky journey from Abuja to Benue state..if they had kidnapped you on the road nko ?

Do not kill yourself because of a woman and you are even already married

Hmmmm first to do no dey pain oooo, at least as guy man he will definitely have extra cash to continue his mission.he can even decide to change plan and lodge with OS around. But if the table turn, my brother you will see the girl for street turn beggar straight up..I have observed that when girls play guys dey call it smartness,but if the guy do same thing the whole world will tag the man wicked and evil ,infact the so called girl will be claiming victim.
I dnt really support the man actions,but at same time the girl attitude toward the man is cruel.

Very useless and irresponsible girl.
When he was sending cards and funds your dad couldn't send, you didn't reject it.
Now just for you to play your own part of the agreement, you blocked him.
Your favour and Grace would be blocked also

brain54:
Some men are irresponsible...


This is something zonefree can do. When he see tots he go dey shake like fowl when rain beat.


And he has a wife at home. At 56 years old he still dey do play boy. Old Papa youngy.

Very useless characters.

The girl who made the video is highly irresponsible. She is also a thief and a scammer.

When she realized the man was married, why did she comtinue relating with him?! Why didn't she block him then?

If the guy had sent her the gift, would she have blocked him or set ring light to make this video?!

freeborn02:
The girl who made the video is highly irresponsible. She is also a thief and a scammer.

When she realized the man was married, why did she comtinue relating with him?! Why didn't she block him then?

If the guy had sent her the gift, would she have blocked him or set ring light to make this video?!

This one you are asking me...


I'm I her father? Abi them send you come?🤷

brain54:
This one you are asking me...


I'm I her father? Abi them send you come?🤷

Since yiou don't want to be asked, why were yiou making stuuipid comment on the post.

freeborn02:
Since yiou don't want to be asked, why were yiou making stuuipid comment on the post.

Is it because of your stupid remarks I commented...?

So u requested he sends you gift or money knowing fully well he was married.
Probably you did this simply because he didn't send you the gift you asked for.

We won't rush to conclusion.
Fair hearing is needed. We need to hear from the man also. This is your own version.

If she knows she won't welcome him, she shouldn't have allowed him to spend his money on transport to see her.1

donself9:
babe forget that thing, naa tour experience, sometimes danger or getting caught make it sweeter 🤭

if naa me as she block me, i go lodge find beta sexy beach for the night .. tourism complete

Breakfast no follow here cos
1. love no dey .. the man just wan chop clean mouth
2. In as much 1kobo from the man no touch the gurl hand .. na her lost we go use the money carry another babe for her state that night 🤣

You said it's not breakfast, yet:
1. He wanted to chop but was disappointed
2. Her lose? How? A man that traveled all the way, spent money on TP, the highway risk etc. Guy, that man na uzeless man. And whatever was done to him, he deserves.