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Sometimes when I think about the unkind and bad things people have done to me, I start to think maybe I should extend the same to other people.

But I am unable to be unkind and wicked. I want to do bad things and revenge but those are not just my nature.

Sometimes when I think about the past, I feel so much pain deep down.

Mineisgrace:
Sometimes when I think about the unkind and bad things people have done to me, I start to think maybe I should extend the same to other people. But I am unable to be unkind and wicked. I want to do bad things and revenge but those are not just my nature. Sometimes when I think about the past, I feel so much pain deep down.

1. Nothing in your nature keeps you from being wicked and unkind. It is all about choice, and nothing more. 🥱🥱

Why not spend that energy learning from your past mistakes that allowed others to trample you? Stop ruminating and start strategizing to ensure the same pattern is not repeated in your future.

Until you learn a little touch of wickedness, people are always going to be stepping on your toes deliberately.

Source: personal experience.

thesicilian:
Until you learn a little touch of wickedness, people are always going to be stepping on your toes deliberately.

Source: personal experience.

Even if you don't want to be wicked, don't be too nice and willing to help either people or organizations. Wether church , work, family, friends or even strangers.

Above all keep your life private. The less they know about you,the less they can take advantage of.

What kind of wickedness exactly? If you poison person, straight to kirikiri no traffic 🚥. If you state the kind of wickedness, I will know if it's common sense or really wickedness.

Mineisgrace:
Sometimes when I think about the unkind and bad things people have done to me, I start to think maybe I should extend the same to other people.

But I am unable to be unkind and wicked. I want to do bad things and revenge but those are not just my nature.

Sometimes when I think about the past, I feel so much pain deep down.

.. if your moniker (and signature) is anything to go by, then you should know that what is within you surpasses what ever evil or ill has been done to you.
Just keep your head up and 'never give up'!

because you have swallowed too much biblical pill.

Many people were innocent and pure way-back from yesteryears. But the struggles they passed through in dealing with humans make dem in their richer stage and old age to revenge younger ones(friends, relatives, colleagues, random fellows).

They reason like, i can't experience dis brutal life alone. They(younger ones) must go through it too, so as to balance it.

A cruel world!

It doesn't make sense to punish Peter for the bad thing Paul did to you.

What you'll avoid is to allow Peter repeat same thing on you. There's a popular street saying that goes thus....."dem nor dey deceive æsh-wō fvvvvk two times"




Don't be too soft, don't be too hard. That's the only way you can succeed in life. I use STICKS AND CARROTS approach when dealing with people.