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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pook(m): 10:58am On Jan 25
logicalhumour:
Have you noticed that most males are big and draw attention in their natural states, and most females are very basic in the scheme of natural aesthetics? smiley

Humans aren't different, but something unprecedented happened:

Women learnt how to modify clothing to provoke; they use makeup to draw even more attention.

Men are stronger, so she learnt how to indirectly use that strength. She can be anything, but that path is similar to doing work when a free slave can do it for you. It's șchtuppiďty to do it yourself when someone else can.

A women will become anything she thinks you like, just to catch you in her nest. After that, she switches when you're balls deep.

Normally, I'd advice you study any woman you want to have anything with in her ground state, but truth is that you won't catch her in that state when she's still hunting you (the potential slave). Instead just understand that she's "the ultimate manipulator of reality". They've bent reality because they can, unlike any other animal specie.

In the end, every man is just a pehnis, and every woman, a vahgina. You know one man, you know all men; you know one woman, you know all women.

If you choose to "study" her, she'll give you the exact outcome you're looking for. So don't waste your time. Just understand that when your eyes are closed and your nose closed, and you put only you pehnis inside a vahgina, it feels roughly the same for every women, and that's her ground state.

Her being a master of slaves, is her ground state.

Her being the bender of reality, is her ground state.

Her being the king of male manipulation, is her ground state.

Her being able to (and definitely will) switch on you, is her ground state.

Animals survive, that's what we do. She would have had no seat on the table if she didn't develop those skills. JUST MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND THESE, ELSE YOU'LL FIND YOURSELF UNDER THE TABLE EATING THE CRUMBS OF THE BREAD YOU PROVIDED. And if that happens, don't feel bad. It's the new reality cheesy Just "man up" I guess. You're doing well, honestly.
Let me chip this in. If you are looking at marriage with a lady. The best time to know the woman true attitude is when she knows that you are ready to marry her, like she believes you have been hooked and there is no turning back. Her true colors will start showing. Some ladies know how to hide it after marriage.

E.g. You have met her parents and she met yours and she knows she got you already, her pretense will slowly wear off. No one act better than a woman.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 11:44am On Jan 25
Kipaji:
@bolded

This is where I disagree with the red
pill. At every point of a woman's life, from 15 to 95 years old, she has more s€ xūåI AND relationship options than the vast majority of men around her age. A used-up, washed-up, damaged 40 year old w*0.r£ still has more s£ xūaI and relationship options than the average 40 year old man out there. (They may not be the options she wants, but that's not the point).

The Red pill lies by saying that women will end up alone. That nobody will want them after they waste their youths living the h.0ę lifestyle. But I find that it's not true. Too many men are starved, desperate, and ignorant.
You made a good point Kipaji. Martinez and Gerrard equally gave good replies. I would want to believe there was a time where the Redpill saying you are referring to was actually correct, but of course, inter-gender dynamics has changed alot (especially because of social media)..
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 11:50am On Jan 25
Pukkalolo:
1. The woman who has genuine, raw desire for you.
2. The woman who does not.

Your money can buy her presence and cooperation. But only genuine desire gets her real passion, loyalty, and respect.
I'm also a big fan of genuine desire, but even attraction also has an expiry date and unfortunately, social media has reduced the attraction/desire window drastically.
Also, one of my theories is that genuine desire in third world countries are mostly fake due to survival instincts.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo:
Gerrard59:
If I'm not mistaken, Sabinus was dating the lady before he "blow". Moreover, he has been grinding and behind the scenes for other then reigning celebrities in the region like Duncan Mighty and Nigga Raw. AY has always been accused of being a notorious cheat, which he should have tackled with polygamy considering his cultural origins. Basket Mouth also got divorced. Where am I getting to? I don't really think it's a geninue desire thing, which is an essential factor in relationships/friendships, especially in the long term, but life changes whether in physical appearance, finances or ideologies.

Today's women have drastically changed, whether for the good, bad or ugly.
Your response, only proves that you don't truly understand female sexual nature, or you're unaware of how dangerously manipulative many women can be.

Please read this with an open mind. I hope it removes the scales from your eyes.

First of all...

What does it mean for a woman to have genuine, raw desire for you?

Genuine raw desire is that primal “I want to rip your clothes off” energy. It’s involuntary physical reactions: dilated pupils, racing heart…when she thinks about you or is near you, not because you pay her bills or elevate her status, but because something in your presence, masculinity, or raw essence triggers her deepest anomalistic circuits.

Many men only experience affection tied to the provision and security they offer a woman, yet they mistake that genuine, raw desire.

She stays with you for years… you think she genuinely likes you. She gives you sex… you think she desires you. She says “I love you”… you think it’s true love.

But remove the financial security or social status you provide…or once she’s finally gotten what she wants from you…and suddenly her true colors suddenly emerge.



I have female Bleep buddies who are getting married to men they’re not attracted to at all.

One time, I asked one of them, “Babe, why are you settling down with a man you’re not sexually attracted to?”

She looked at me like I had three noses. Her reply: “Na sexual attraction I go chop? Abeg, leave me. The man has money, biko. I’m the firstborn, I want a man who’ll take care of me and my siblings.”

Another Bleep buddy, who was marrying an “odogwu,” told me she can’t even stand his ugly face and big stomach, but she needs to secure her future first.,


I'm gonna tell you the truth:

Women know how to separate the concept of “love” from “raw desire”.


Women rarely marry the man who triggers genuine raw desire in them…this is because the man have sexual options and are often not in a haste to commit to one woman.

So women, often relegate him to the role of secret lover, low-key affair partner, or occasional sexual escape.

They reserve marriage for the “nice guys” and “good providers” and available men who offer her financial security, stability, and emotional safety.

But these women secretly cheat on her stable provider boyfriend/husband for men who turn her on and give her nothing but intense feelings.

These women often regret it logically later… but the desire overrides logic.

Raw sexual desire very vital for long term relationships e.g marriage.

Without it, you’re basically signing up for a slow death by roommate syndrome.

Think about it:

If she never had that primal, clothes-ripping hunger for you in the first place, what exactly do you think is going to sustain the spark after years of bills, kids, stress, and routine?

You think is Friendship? Commonality ? Maybe But that’s not what keeps couples tearing into each other at 2 a.m. ten years in.


When raw desire is missing from the start, women often settle for security, stability, and “he’s a good man.” And for a while, it works.

She convinces herself that raw desire isn’t that important. Until one day, some raw confident smooth talking dude talk to her in way that triggers that animalistic desires in her and make her panties wet for no logical reason, and suddenly she’s “confused” about her feelings you — who has invested in her for years.

Smh. angry

Don't be fooled... Genuine Raw desire is important for all kinds of romantic relationship, whether is marriage or just short-term affairs.

Be wise, brothers.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Anenehi: 1:23pm On Jan 25
Pukkalolo:
Your response, only proves that you don't truly understand female sexual nature, or you're unaware of how dangerously manipulative many women can be.

Please read this with an open mind. I hope it removes the scales from your eyes.

First of all...

What does it mean for a woman to have genuine, raw desire for you?

Genuine raw desire is that primal “I want to rip your clothes off” energy. It’s involuntary physical reactions: dilated pupils, racing heart…when she thinks about you or is near you, not because you pay her bills or elevate her status, but because something in your presence, masculinity, or raw essence triggers her deepest anomalistic circuits.

Many men only experience affection tied to the provision and security they offer a woman, yet they mistake that genuine, raw desire.

She stays with you for years… you think she genuinely likes you. She gives you sex… you think she desires you. She says “I love you”… you think it’s true love.

But remove the financial security or social status you provide…or once she’s finally gotten what she wants from you…and suddenly her true colors suddenly emerge.



I have female Bleep buddies who are getting married to men they’re not attracted to at all.

One time, I asked one of them, “Babe, why are you settling down with a man you’re not sexually attracted to?”

She looked at me like I had three noses. Her reply: “Na sexual attraction I go chop? Abeg, leave me. The man has money, biko. I’m the firstborn, I want a man who’ll take care of me and my siblings.”

Another Bleep buddy, who was marrying an “odogwu,” told me she can’t even stand his ugly face and big stomach, but she needs to secure her future first.,


I'm gonna tell you the truth:

Women know how to separate the concept of “love” from “raw desire”.


Women rarely marry the man who triggers genuine raw desire in them…this is because the man have sexual options and are often not in a haste to commit to one woman.

So women, often relegate him to the role of secret lover, low-key affair partner, or occasional sexual escape.

They reserve marriage for the “nice guys” and “good providers” and available men who offer her financial security, stability, and emotional safety.

But these women secretly cheat on her stable provider boyfriend/husband for men who turn her on and give her nothing but intense feelings.

These women often regret it logically later… but the desire overrides logic.

Raw sexual desire very vital for long term relationships e.g marriage.

Without it, you’re basically signing up for a slow death by roommate syndrome.

Think about it:

If she never had that primal, clothes-ripping hunger for you in the first place, what exactly do you think is going to sustain the spark after years of bills, kids, stress, and routine?

You think is Friendship? Commonality ? Maybe But that’s not what keeps couples tearing into each other at 2 a.m. ten years in.


When raw desire is missing from the start, women often settle for security, stability, and “he’s a good man.” And for a while, it works.

She convinces herself that raw desire isn’t that important. Until one day, some raw confident smooth talking dude walks talk to her in way that triggers that animalistic desires in her and make her panties wet for no logical reason, and suddenly she’s “confused” about her feelings you — who has invested in her for years.

Smh. angry

Don't be fooled... Genuine Raw desire is important for all can romantic relationship, whether is marriage or just short-term affairs.

Be wise, brothers.
Your write up makes a lot of sense but when it comes to realty is not always true. there are guys who triggers these raw desire in women and as well rich or financially stable to marry this women. Red pill here on nairaland always referring to rich and unattractive dude as always the provider is not always correct and always come from men who has not succeed financial. Money buys attractive and raw desire as well. And women also married men they have raw desire for and this men are rich as well.
Ballance the scale to avoid bitterness
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wotowotoman: 1:56pm On Jan 25
Pukkalolo:
Your response, only proves that you don't truly understand female sexual nature, or you're unaware of how dangerously manipulative many women can be.

Please read this with an open mind. I hope it removes the scales from your eyes.

First of all...

What does it mean for a woman to have genuine, raw desire for you?

Genuine raw desire is that primal “I want to rip your clothes off” energy. It’s involuntary physical reactions: dilated pupils, racing heart…when she thinks about you or is near you, not because you pay her bills or elevate her status, but because something in your presence, masculinity, or raw essence triggers her deepest anomalistic circuits.

Many men only experience affection tied to the provision and security they offer a woman, yet they mistake that genuine, raw desire.

She stays with you for years… you think she genuinely likes you. She gives you sex… you think she desires you. She says “I love you”… you think it’s true love.

But remove the financial security or social status you provide…or once she’s finally gotten what she wants from you…and suddenly her true colors suddenly emerge.



I have female Bleep buddies who are getting married to men they’re not attracted to at all.

One time, I asked one of them, “Babe, why are you settling down with a man you’re not sexually attracted to?”

She looked at me like I had three noses. Her reply: “Na sexual attraction I go chop? Abeg, leave me. The man has money, biko. I’m the firstborn, I want a man who’ll take care of me and my siblings.”

Another Bleep buddy, who was marrying an “odogwu,” told me she can’t even stand his ugly face and big stomach, but she needs to secure her future first.,


I'm gonna tell you the truth:

Women know how to separate the concept of “love” from “raw desire”.


Women rarely marry the man who triggers genuine raw desire in them…this is because the man have sexual options and are often not in a haste to commit to one woman.

So women, often relegate him to the role of secret lover, low-key affair partner, or occasional sexual escape.

They reserve marriage for the “nice guys” and “good providers” and available men who offer her financial security, stability, and emotional safety.

But these women secretly cheat on her stable provider boyfriend/husband for men who turn her on and give her nothing but intense feelings.

These women often regret it logically later… but the desire overrides logic.

Raw sexual desire very vital for long term relationships e.g marriage.

Without it, you’re basically signing up for a slow death by roommate syndrome.

Think about it:

If she never had that primal, clothes-ripping hunger for you in the first place, what exactly do you think is going to sustain the spark after years of bills, kids, stress, and routine?

You think is Friendship? Commonality ? Maybe But that’s not what keeps couples tearing into each other at 2 a.m. ten years in.


When raw desire is missing from the start, women often settle for security, stability, and “he’s a good man.” And for a while, it works.

She convinces herself that raw desire isn’t that important. Until one day, some raw confident smooth talking dude talk to her in way that triggers that animalistic desires in her and make her panties wet for no logical reason, and suddenly she’s “confused” about her feelings you — who has invested in her for years.

Smh. angry

Don't be fooled... Genuine Raw desire is important for all kinds of romantic relationship, whether is marriage or just short-term affairs.

Be wise, brothers.
Ogbeni, I sure say you get book or service wey you dey try sell. All these epistles wey you dey write to hype yourself just to show Jew men say you be expert on women matters. E no go surprise me say serious konji don show guy man pepper. Soapy tinz grin
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 2:06pm On Jan 25
Zabiboy:
I'm also a big fan of genuine desire, but even attraction also has an expiry date and unfortunately, social media has reduced the attraction/desire window drastically.
Also, one of my theories is that genuine desire in third world countries are mostly fake due to survival instincts.
First, the idea that raw attraction or genuine desire has an “expiry date” like carton milk…

Nah…That's totally false…

You're confusing temporary “interest” vs raw desire.

They are two totally different things…


First off…

You're right… Interest can wear off because of life's stress, arguments, familiarity… She might pull away, stop texting first, or wherever… but that’s interest dying. Not raw desire.

Raw desire doesn’t just evaporate because time passed or Instagram flooded her feed with male options.

Raw desire can go dormant. It can get buried under resentment or life circumstances. But it doesn’t expire like a coupon code.

Here’s the key difference:

You can lose interest in a woman who’s smoking hot…maybe because she disrespected you, maybe you got distracted with work and hustle…and then, one day, you catch a glimpse of her in those sexy tight jeans, smell her perfume… and boom. That raw pull hits you again like a truck. You never “lost” the raw desire. It was just sleeping.

Same for women. A woman can lose interest in you, because she got bored, annoyed, distracted by life… and still have that raw desire flood in back the second you flip the right switches again.

That’s why exes who “moved on” suddenly get wet when you show up looking sharper, acting dominant, reminding her “body” why it reacted to you in the first place.

Look, Zabiboy… Social media didn’t shorten the “desire window.” It only shortened the attention span window.

Abundance of male options on social media makes women flake faster on mild interest. But raw desire is biological, not algorithmic. A woman scrolling past 1,000 cute guys on TikTok doesn’t erase the imprint you left on her nervous system if you genuinely triggered her raw animalistic circuits once.


Now, you said the “third-world desire is fake because of survival instincts” line…


Lolz… you're wrong…

But true, women prioritize providers more openly. They’ll admit it outright, like my Bleep buddies did, she told me: “I’m marrying the rich guy even though I don't desire him sexually.” That’s hypergamy on full display: securing resources while secretly chasing raw desire.

So no…raw desire doesn’t expire.

That’s why a woman can swear she’s “over you,” block you, marry someone else… and still melt the second she sights you because your presence triggered that emotion and primal desire in her.

Interest comes and goes. Raw desire stays forever.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 7:50pm On Jan 25
Pukkalolo:
First, the idea that raw attraction or genuine desire has an “expiry date” like carton milk…

Nah…That's totally false…

You're confusing temporary “interest” vs raw desire.

They are two totally different things…


First off…

You're right… Interest can wear off because of life's stress, arguments, familiarity… She might pull away, stop texting first, or wherever… but that’s interest dying. Not raw desire.

Raw desire doesn’t just evaporate because time passed or Instagram flooded her feed with male options.

Raw desire can go dormant. It can get buried under resentment or life circumstances. But it doesn’t expire like a coupon code.

Here’s the key difference:

You can lose interest in a woman who’s smoking hot…maybe because she disrespected you, maybe you got distracted with work and hustle…and then, one day, you catch a glimpse of her in those sexy tight jeans, smell her perfume… and boom. That raw pull hits you again like a truck. You never “lost” the raw desire. It was just sleeping.

Same for women. A woman can lose interest in you, because she got bored, annoyed, distracted by life… and still have that raw desire flood in back the second you flip the right switches again.

That’s why exes who “moved on” suddenly get wet when you show up looking sharper, acting dominant, reminding her “body” why it reacted to you in the first place.

Look, Zabiboy… Social media didn’t shorten the “desire window.” It only shortened the attention span window.

Abundance of male options on social media makes women flake faster on mild interest. But raw desire is biological, not algorithmic. A woman scrolling past 1,000 cute guys on TikTok doesn’t erase the imprint you left on her nervous system if you genuinely triggered her raw animalistic circuits once.


Now, you said the “third-world desire is fake because of survival instincts” line…


Lolz… you're wrong…

But true, women prioritize providers more openly. They’ll admit it outright, like my Bleep buddies did, she told me: “I’m marrying the rich guy even though I don't desire him sexually.” That’s hypergamy on full display: securing resources while secretly chasing raw desire.

So no…raw desire doesn’t expire.

That’s why a woman can swear she’s “over you,” block you, marry someone else… and still melt the second she sights you because your presence triggered that emotion and primal desire in her.

Interest comes and goes. Raw desire stays forever.
It is this raw desire that leads to adultery and paternity fraud. If women had their own money, then they have a greater tendency to marry who they really have raw desire for. It's simple. But....Nigerian women don't have that luxury most of the time. Biology does not favour them and so they have to settle for the man that is ready and has money.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by gentlegiant95: 8:02pm On Jan 25
Pukkalolo:
First, the idea that raw attraction or genuine desire has an “expiry date” like carton milk…

Nah…That's totally false…

You're confusing temporary “interest” vs raw desire.

They are two totally different things…


First off…

You're right… Interest can wear off because of life's stress, arguments, familiarity… She might pull away, stop texting first, or wherever… but that’s interest dying. Not raw desire.

Raw desire doesn’t just evaporate because time passed or Instagram flooded her feed with male options.

Raw desire can go dormant. It can get buried under resentment or life circumstances. But it doesn’t expire like a coupon code.

Here’s the key difference:

You can lose interest in a woman who’s smoking hot…maybe because she disrespected you, maybe you got distracted with work and hustle…and then, one day, you catch a glimpse of her in those sexy tight jeans, smell her perfume… and boom. That raw pull hits you again like a truck. You never “lost” the raw desire. It was just sleeping.

Same for women. A woman can lose interest in you, because she got bored, annoyed, distracted by life… and still have that raw desire flood in back the second you flip the right switches again.

That’s why exes who “moved on” suddenly get wet when you show up looking sharper, acting dominant, reminding her “body” why it reacted to you in the first place.

Look, Zabiboy… Social media didn’t shorten the “desire window.” It only shortened the attention span window.

Abundance of male options on social media makes women flake faster on mild interest. But raw desire is biological, not algorithmic. A woman scrolling past 1,000 cute guys on TikTok doesn’t erase the imprint you left on her nervous system if you genuinely triggered her raw animalistic circuits once.


Now, you said the “third-world desire is fake because of survival instincts” line…


Lolz… you're wrong…

But true, women prioritize providers more openly. They’ll admit it outright, like my Bleep buddies did, she told me: “I’m marrying the rich guy even though I don't desire him sexually.” That’s hypergamy on full display: securing resources while secretly chasing raw desire.

So no…raw desire doesn’t expire.

That’s why a woman can swear she’s “over you,” block you, marry someone else… and still melt the second she sights you because your presence triggered that emotion and primal desire in her.

Interest comes and goes. Raw desire stays forever.
you're right. This is what happened between me and an older lady I met last year. First time we were intimate she almost ripped off my clothes ,sucking n licking me everywhere. That's raw desire. As time went on ,I could feel the interest wane n I also pulled back but when we met again she couldn't have enough of me
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wotowotoman: 11:33pm On Jan 25
Pukkalolo:
First, the idea that raw attraction or genuine desire has an “expiry date” like carton milk…

Nah…That's totally false…

You're confusing temporary “interest” vs raw desire.

They are two totally different things…


First off…

You're right… Interest can wear off because of life's stress, arguments, familiarity… She might pull away, stop texting first, or wherever… but that’s interest dying. Not raw desire.

Raw desire doesn’t just evaporate because time passed or Instagram flooded her feed with male options.

Raw desire can go dormant. It can get buried under resentment or life circumstances. But it doesn’t expire like a coupon code.

Here’s the key difference:

You can lose interest in a woman who’s smoking hot…maybe because she disrespected you, maybe you got distracted with work and hustle…and then, one day, you catch a glimpse of her in those sexy tight jeans, smell her perfume… and boom. That raw pull hits you again like a truck. You never “lost” the raw desire. It was just sleeping.

Same for women. A woman can lose interest in you, because she got bored, annoyed, distracted by life… and still have that raw desire flood in back the second you flip the right switches again.

That’s why exes who “moved on” suddenly get wet when you show up looking sharper, acting dominant, reminding her “body” why it reacted to you in the first place.

Look, Zabiboy… Social media didn’t shorten the “desire window.” It only shortened the attention span window.

Abundance of male options on social media makes women flake faster on mild interest. But raw desire is biological, not algorithmic. A woman scrolling past 1,000 cute guys on TikTok doesn’t erase the imprint you left on her nervous system if you genuinely triggered her raw animalistic circuits once.


Now, you said the “third-world desire is fake because of survival instincts” line…


Lolz… you're wrong…

But true, women prioritize providers more openly. They’ll admit it outright, like my Bleep buddies did, she told me: “I’m marrying the rich guy even though I don't desire him sexually.” That’s hypergamy on full display: securing resources while secretly chasing raw desire.

So no…raw desire doesn’t expire.

That’s why a woman can swear she’s “over you,” block you, marry someone else… and still melt the second she sights you because your presence triggered that emotion and primal desire in her.

Interest comes and goes. Raw desire stays forever.
Please nobody should be fooled by what this moniker is selling. This na hungry man wey wan use gullible people head to see food chop. No difference between this person and pastor wey dey sell fear in order to cash out.

If Una wan dash am money to chop, please do. But do not believe a word of his epistles. Copy his writings and paste into any AI search app and you will see he is simple regurgitating what pick up artistes have written on their sites. Sometimes word for word.

It should not surprise una say una dey get more action from woman than he does. Shine una eyes o 👀
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tenrack: 2:42am On Jan 27
Pukkalolo:
You're totally right… Younger or less experienced men really need to get out there and rack up real-world interactions with women. No amount of redpill theory can replace it.

Low-experienced guys overanalyze everything. They believe there's always a “reason” behind a woman’s behavior towards him.

Examples:

- If she agrees to hang out, he believes the reason is because his seduction game is fire, that his teasing worked.

- If she doesn’t reply to his text, he will be devastated. He thinks: “Damn! I bleeped up, I texted too soon. I should’ve waited two days. I said the wrong thing. I’m an idiot.”

That’s how low-experienced guys think.

There’s a quote from my old mentor that used to confuse the hell out of me. He said: “The more experienced you are, the less control you have.”

At first I thought it was bullshit. Shouldn’t more experience mean more control?

But after hundreds and thousands of interactions with new women, I finally got it. Women’s behavior is full of contradictory patterns that no amount of “game” or even “redpill” can fully predict or control.

On the negative side:

I’ve had women all over me: touching, giggling, saying “You’re exactly my type”.... then vanish into thin air for no absolute reasons.

On the positive side:

I’ve had women criticize me, give cold or negative reactions initially, then suddenly flip, drag me home, and desperately begging me to pound them.

I’ve had “good church girls” who act like saints around other men but eagerly drop their panties for me… even on their period.

I’ve slept with women who swore they loved their boyfriends with all their heart… yet cheated with me without a second thought.

All these contradictions killed something in me. That’s why I’m almost bored or soulless when talking to women. I’m not excited or anxious anymore because I’ve let go of the illusion of control.

You can’t control what contradicts itself.

Women are deeply contradictory beings.

Beginners try to force control and make women’s behavior consistent.
Experienced men accept the chaos and flow with it.

The moment you know you’re truly experienced is when:

- You don’t feel special or superior when a woman chooses you.

- You don’t feel no atom hurt or rejected when a woman ignores or rejects you.
Omo. This makes a lot of sense. Tuale Baba 🙌
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 8:08am On Jan 27
dreamxhaser:
So, let me share one of the advantages of experience. Some things we read here can never be fully understood or implemented without experiencing the "horror" of women first-hand. 😂I’ve experienced women and know how "corny" they can be, my brain is on high alert.

A few months ago, I noticed this new girl liking my pictures and videos on TikTok. She was checking my profile from time to time. I wondered who she was, so I checked her profile, realized she was attractive, and sent her a DM. She replied very fast. I asked how she was doing, she replied, and then I actually forgot about her. To be honest, I really did forget because I was very busy.

Around November, I noticed she was still checking my profile and liking my pictures. I also saw her reposts/reshare a lot, maybe it was the algorithm. I checked her profile again and noticed she had posted some new pictures. Damn, she is hot, for real. I figured, why not go back? So, I messaged her again. She replied almost immediately and we started to vibe like we’d known each other for a long time. It was cool, man.

I thought, "This girl is really into me," because she seemed obsessed. I stylishly asked what her "spec" in a guy was, and she described me: dark skin, etc. That was cool for me because the game just got easier. I figured at this point, I could just lay back and let her do the work.

It reached a point where she suggested taking things to another level, and was like, "Let’s give it a try." I didn't want to play hard to get since she was giving me the green light. But I told her straight up, "Okay, but I won’t be spending any money on you because I have other things to focus my funds on."
She said that was fine, that she can wait till I am stable enough. We continued vibing; I gave her a grace period and didn’t see any "billing" coming from her side.

To be honest, I am not emotionally invested in her; I even view the s***x aspect as secondary now, like a bonus. The truth is, I just enjoy her company because I’m at a stage where I hardly socialize, it's just me at home grinding. I don’t know if you guys understand where I am coming from, but it just isn’t love.

The girl has taken this relationship quite far too; she has started discussing marriage, sending me wedding videos, and a lot more. I can’t give all the details here, but I can tell she is already imagining settling down with me.

She’s a student, by the way. She said she wanted to visit me. I told her that after school, I moved back to my parents' place last year, but I offered to lodge her in a hotel. She was okay with it, but one thing led to another and it ended up not working out. It’s all on me. Also, when we were talking about her visiting recently, she mentioned coming on Thursday and leaving on Sunday.

Now, this is where it gets interesting. On Thursday night, she didn’t chat with me or even reply to any of my reels on TikTok. At that moment, I knew something was fishy. I didn’t say a word and just continued with my life. Then, I noticed she didn’t come online on all social media on Friday. Based on my past experiences, I knew something was up, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt and decided to call her just in case something had happened to her.

Well, it rang once, then the call ended, and after that, the line wouldn’t go through. I just burst out laughing. I knew instantly that she went to see another guy and blocked me so I couldn't reach her.

I am sure she will message me on Sunday and start telling me a story about her phone being damaged, forgetting that she was originally supposed to be visiting me from Thursday to Sunday a few weeks back. Which is the same Thursday to Sunday her phone went off this week, meaning she was def with someone.

If I were as naive as I was years ago, I would have been worried, thinking something had happened to her, and I would have started blowing up her phone. But because I’ve experienced a similar script with a woman in the past, I just knew.
Honestly, the younger guys should get out there and experience women for themselves. Otherwise, you will see the warnings that the "red pill" teaches you and either ignore them or cover them up with an excuse.
This put a smile on my face.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:28am On Feb 01
I love as how everyone ignored IT!!!


Nice 🙂
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by virginboy1(m): 9:56pm On Feb 07
Pukkalolo:
The funny thing is, most guys think this kind of incident only happens in Nollywood movies.

It's pathetic, and I genuinely feel sorry for the previous guy in this story who spent millions doing a visa for her. If only he had understood the true nature of women.

That bolded part caught my attention: you said you pity the new man and that he better watch his back.

Well, the only reason he needs to watch his back is if he’s also spending millions on her like her ex did. But if he’s spending little or nothing to keep her around, then he has nothing to worry about.

Most men think women are evil or bad people. That’s not true. Women are simply following their feminine nature. The real problem is that many men are not living according to their true masculine nature.

Look, God designed male-female sexual dynamics a certain way. His plan is for men and women is... to desire each other, mate, and multiply.

As a man, you will meet two types of women:

1. The woman who has genuine, raw desire for you.
2. The woman who does not.

There's nothing in-between.

Here’s the hard truth: your desire for her doesn’t matter nearly as much as her desire for you.

It’s funny, and sad… how most men foolishly believe that if they really want a woman, they can use money and financial provision to make her desire them. That’s completely wrong. That’s trying to cheat God’s design for sexual attraction. And when you try to cheat the system, you pay the price… usually in the form of her cheating, exploiting you, or dumping you.

If a woman has no genuine raw desire for you, but you still commit to her thinking your money will keep her, here are the three possible outcomes:

1. She uses you until she gets what she wants (money, business setup, visa, property, etc.), then dumps you immediately. Example: the lady who got her UK visa, broke up with the guy before even landing in London.

2. She stays until you hit a financial low point and can’t provide like before… then she leaves.

3. She stays for the money and comfort, but cheats on you with a man she actually desires sexually.

Here’s the truth: when a woman has no real desire for a man, having sex with him feels disgusting to her deep down. It feels like eating bitterleaf or drinking strong agbo when you’re sick. She squeezes her face inside, even if she’s smiling outside.

But women are masters at pretending. She’ll fake enjoyment in bed just to keep accessing your money. Then, to satisfy her real sexual needs, she’ll cheat with men she genuinely desires.

Look at some recent Nigerian celebrity breakups:
- Ciara Chapman divorcing Sabinus
- AY Makun splitting with his wife Mabel
- Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko separation.

These women are all very beautiful and attractive. But one thing you probably didn’t notice: they never had genuine raw desire for those men from the start. Those men thought money could lock the women down.

Now these women are walking away after securing the bag: Sabinus paying child support to his UK wife. And trust me Regina Daniels and Mabel Makun are walking away with assets, wealth, connections. Women are not foolish.

That marriage or relationship was just a business and wealth accumulation strategy.

When they leave, they play the victim card: “he cheated,” “domestic violence,” or whatever accusations they can put on the Man just to look innocent while portraying the man as the villain. But the truth is… They’ve milked what they wanted and are now free to enjoy the men they actually desire.

Lesson for every man reading this:
If you notice a woman doesn’t have genuine raw desire for you, walk away early. Don’t invest time, money, or commitment thinking your provision or “good personality” will change how she feels. It won’t.

Your money can buy her presence and cooperation. But only genuine desire gets her real passion, loyalty, and respect.

Choose wisely, kings.
So apt...this hoes aint loyal
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ballzproblem2: 10:53pm On Feb 14
Took me four pages to find this thread,Omo men don move on cry
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:41pm On Feb 15
Ballzproblem2:
Took me four pages to find this thread,Omo men don move on cry
It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread.

Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo grin, Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well.

Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. grin grin grin More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 4:44pm On Feb 15
Martinez39s:
It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread.

Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo grin, Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well.

Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. grin grin grin More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform.
Hey Fam, it’s nice seeing this powerful names in this community back them, and I really learned a lot from you’ll also but the message will always be here and forever.

I think many men now realize how important the male are to female and knowing good and bad also, sometimes I do tell some people that it’s better to be single and happy than to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t like you for who you are but for what you do for them.

Life is beautiful, Love Yourself and be grateful for the things you have.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iichidodo: 5:59pm On Feb 15
Martinez39s:
It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread.

Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo grin, Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well.

Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. grin grin grin More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform.
Bless up, Martinez...Pls continue to take your red pills..It's a life saver, literally.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:33pm On Feb 15
DieRich5:
Hey Fam, it’s nice seeing this powerful names in this community back them, and I really learned a lot from you’ll also but the message will always be here and forever.

I think many men now realize how important the male are to female and knowing good and bad also, sometimes I do tell some people that it’s better to be single and happy than to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t like you for who you are but for what you do for them.

Life is beautiful, Love Yourself and be grateful for the things you have.
Nice! Long live the red pill.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:35pm On Feb 15
iichidodo:
Bless up, Martinez...Pls continue to take your red pills..It's a life saver, literally.
I will always take the pill. The pill never fails.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by NowYouKnow: 9:01pm On Feb 15
Martinez39s:
Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread.
Lol,

Yeah, let us blame the trolls for the downfall of the redpill thread and sudden disappearance or extinction of online redpill gurus and OG's.

Its much easier to believe that than to accept the painful and bitter truth that reality struck everyone hard and they saw the redpill for what it really is, an Ideology that keeps one chronically obsessed with women and locked in a continuous cycle of self blame.

"the trolls ruined our thread'', ''If it wasn't for those pesky trolls we would all be here planning how to game women'' - Redpill OG.

grin

Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:10pm On Feb 15
100% product of the redpill, reaping the benefits and growing 💪
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:09am On Feb 16
SpencerForbes:
100% product of the redpill, reaping the benefits and growing 💪
Nice! Longest time, my G. The red pill journey is for life. We shall remain steadfast. 💪
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iichidodo: 1:52am On Feb 16
Martinez39s:
I will always take the pill. The pill never fails.
My ogbanje ex-wife cheated on me and contracted HIV, if not for Red pill,I should have been a dead man long ago... That's why I urge people to take their pills, you just don't know what's gonna happen next..
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 11:03am On Feb 16
Martinez39s:
It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread.

Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo grin, Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well.

Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. grin grin grin More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform.
May the teachings of the red-pill continue to wax stronger in our hearts and minds.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 12:56pm On Feb 16
Martinez39s:
It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread.

Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo grin, Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well.

Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. grin grin grin More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform.
Hello brother.
The constant thing in life is change, it is inevitable.
Many have moved on, 1 or 2 are dead, some married with a new life while some just outgrown nairaland things but i still believe there is a lot to learn on naiaraland sha.

My honorable mentions you didn't add - ubunja, Dpsychologist and Goo0dHardDick
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m):
emmaodet:
Hello brother.
The constant thing in life is change, it is inevitable.
Many have moved on, 1 or 2 are dead, some married with a new life while some just outgrown nairaland things but i still believe there is a lot to learn on naiaraland sha.

My honorable mentions you didn't add - ubunja, Dpsychologist and Goo0dHardDick
Ubunja was the first person I mentioned. Lol.

Anyway, it was inevitable. Regardless of whatever happened, we were all bound to move on. I remember saying so, a few years back, that this time would time. Even human beings don't last forever.

The WhatsApp group went silent after three years of hot activity grin, almost up to a year. When I had concluded that it was dead, it came back to life again and is now active like its peak.

May the souls of redpillers who passed away rest in peace. For those still kicking, more growth and success in your redpill journey and other areas of life.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:13pm On Feb 16
COOL10:
May the teachings of the red-pill continue to wax stronger in our hearts and minds.
Sure. Red pill is life. cheesy
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:16pm On Feb 16
iichidodo:
My ogbanje ex-wife cheated on me and contracted HIV, if not for Red pill,I should have been a dead man long ago... That's why I urge people to take their pills, you just don't know what's gonna happen next..
What! How did you find out? What happened after you found out? Do you have kids with woman?

Gist us, if you don't mind.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:37pm On Feb 16
Martinez39s:
Ubunja is the first person I mentioned. Lol.

Anyway, it was inevitable. Regardless of whatever happened, we were all bound to move on. I remember saying so, a few years back, that this time would time. Even human beings don't last forever.

The WhatsApp group went silent after three years of hot activity grin, almost up to a year. When I had concluded that it was dead, it came back to life again and is now active like its peak.

May the souls of redpillers who passed away rest in peace. For those still kicking, more growth and success in your redpill journey and other areas of life.
Amen to the prayer
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iichidodo: 4:41pm On Feb 16
Martinez39s:
What! How did you find out? What happened after you found out? Do you have kids with woman?

Gist us, if you don't mind.
Not much story here, she had a thing for hypergamy, our sex life declined considerably and she got in with the wrong crowd. One thing led to another then boom! And she hid it from me but red pill helped in way that I never saw her as my one in all like oneitis because I understood my SMV,so I wasn't sweating it as an OG red pill. I was just content with my life and the companionship in the marriage. Problems started when she started falling ill on bi monthly basis and was losing weight while I was having the peace of mind of red pill and gaining weight.. Thinking it was the fibroid that was giving her issues, we went for surgery. Long story short, she knew her status but hid it from me, told the doctors that her marriage would be over if I found out.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:48pm On Feb 16
iichidodo:
Not much story here, she had a thing for hypergamy, our sex life declined considerably and she got in with the wrong crowd. One thing led to another then boom! And she hid it from me but red pill helped in way that I never saw her as my one in all like oneitis because I understood my SMV,so I wasn't sweating it as an OG red pill. I was just content with my life and the companionship in the marriage. Problems started when she started falling ill on bi monthly basis and was losing weight while I was having the peace of mind of red pill and gaining weight.. Thinking it was the fibroid that was giving her issues, we went for surgery. Long story short, she knew her status but hid it from me, told the doctors that her marriage would be over if I found out.
What a close shave! I am glad you never contracted the virus. Was it the doctor who did the ethical thing and told you?
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