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| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pook(m): 10:58am On Jan 25 |
logicalhumour:Let me chip this in. If you are looking at marriage with a lady. The best time to know the woman true attitude is when she knows that you are ready to marry her, like she believes you have been hooked and there is no turning back. Her true colors will start showing. Some ladies know how to hide it after marriage. E.g. You have met her parents and she met yours and she knows she got you already, her pretense will slowly wear off. No one act better than a woman. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 11:44am On Jan 25 |
Kipaji:You made a good point Kipaji. Martinez and Gerrard equally gave good replies. I would want to believe there was a time where the Redpill saying you are referring to was actually correct, but of course, inter-gender dynamics has changed alot (especially because of social media).. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 11:50am On Jan 25 |
Pukkalolo:I'm also a big fan of genuine desire, but even attraction also has an expiry date and unfortunately, social media has reduced the attraction/desire window drastically. Also, one of my theories is that genuine desire in third world countries are mostly fake due to survival instincts. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 12:54pm On Jan 25*. Modified: 1:22pm On Jan 25 |
Gerrard59:Your response, only proves that you don't truly understand female sexual nature, or you're unaware of how dangerously manipulative many women can be. Please read this with an open mind. I hope it removes the scales from your eyes. First of all... What does it mean for a woman to have genuine, raw desire for you? Genuine raw desire is that primal “I want to rip your clothes off” energy. It’s involuntary physical reactions: dilated pupils, racing heart…when she thinks about you or is near you, not because you pay her bills or elevate her status, but because something in your presence, masculinity, or raw essence triggers her deepest anomalistic circuits. Many men only experience affection tied to the provision and security they offer a woman, yet they mistake that genuine, raw desire. She stays with you for years… you think she genuinely likes you. She gives you sex… you think she desires you. She says “I love you”… you think it’s true love. But remove the financial security or social status you provide…or once she’s finally gotten what she wants from you…and suddenly her true colors suddenly emerge. I have female Bleep buddies who are getting married to men they’re not attracted to at all. One time, I asked one of them, “Babe, why are you settling down with a man you’re not sexually attracted to?” She looked at me like I had three noses. Her reply: “Na sexual attraction I go chop? Abeg, leave me. The man has money, biko. I’m the firstborn, I want a man who’ll take care of me and my siblings.” Another Bleep buddy, who was marrying an “odogwu,” told me she can’t even stand his ugly face and big stomach, but she needs to secure her future first., I'm gonna tell you the truth: Women know how to separate the concept of “love” from “raw desire”. Women rarely marry the man who triggers genuine raw desire in them…this is because the man have sexual options and are often not in a haste to commit to one woman. So women, often relegate him to the role of secret lover, low-key affair partner, or occasional sexual escape. They reserve marriage for the “nice guys” and “good providers” and available men who offer her financial security, stability, and emotional safety. But these women secretly cheat on her stable provider boyfriend/husband for men who turn her on and give her nothing but intense feelings. These women often regret it logically later… but the desire overrides logic. Raw sexual desire very vital for long term relationships e.g marriage. Without it, you’re basically signing up for a slow death by roommate syndrome. Think about it: If she never had that primal, clothes-ripping hunger for you in the first place, what exactly do you think is going to sustain the spark after years of bills, kids, stress, and routine? You think is Friendship? Commonality ? Maybe But that’s not what keeps couples tearing into each other at 2 a.m. ten years in. When raw desire is missing from the start, women often settle for security, stability, and “he’s a good man.” And for a while, it works. She convinces herself that raw desire isn’t that important. Until one day, some raw confident smooth talking dude talk to her in way that triggers that animalistic desires in her and make her panties wet for no logical reason, and suddenly she’s “confused” about her feelings you — who has invested in her for years. Smh. ![]() Don't be fooled... Genuine Raw desire is important for all kinds of romantic relationship, whether is marriage or just short-term affairs. Be wise, brothers. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Anenehi: 1:23pm On Jan 25 |
Pukkalolo:Your write up makes a lot of sense but when it comes to realty is not always true. there are guys who triggers these raw desire in women and as well rich or financially stable to marry this women. Red pill here on nairaland always referring to rich and unattractive dude as always the provider is not always correct and always come from men who has not succeed financial. Money buys attractive and raw desire as well. And women also married men they have raw desire for and this men are rich as well. Ballance the scale to avoid bitterness |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wotowotoman: 1:56pm On Jan 25 |
Pukkalolo:Ogbeni, I sure say you get book or service wey you dey try sell. All these epistles wey you dey write to hype yourself just to show Jew men say you be expert on women matters. E no go surprise me say serious konji don show guy man pepper. Soapy tinz ![]() |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 2:06pm On Jan 25 |
Zabiboy:First, the idea that raw attraction or genuine desire has an “expiry date” like carton milk… Nah…That's totally false… You're confusing temporary “interest” vs raw desire. They are two totally different things… First off… You're right… Interest can wear off because of life's stress, arguments, familiarity… She might pull away, stop texting first, or wherever… but that’s interest dying. Not raw desire. Raw desire doesn’t just evaporate because time passed or Instagram flooded her feed with male options. Raw desire can go dormant. It can get buried under resentment or life circumstances. But it doesn’t expire like a coupon code. Here’s the key difference: You can lose interest in a woman who’s smoking hot…maybe because she disrespected you, maybe you got distracted with work and hustle…and then, one day, you catch a glimpse of her in those sexy tight jeans, smell her perfume… and boom. That raw pull hits you again like a truck. You never “lost” the raw desire. It was just sleeping. Same for women. A woman can lose interest in you, because she got bored, annoyed, distracted by life… and still have that raw desire flood in back the second you flip the right switches again. That’s why exes who “moved on” suddenly get wet when you show up looking sharper, acting dominant, reminding her “body” why it reacted to you in the first place. Look, Zabiboy… Social media didn’t shorten the “desire window.” It only shortened the attention span window. Abundance of male options on social media makes women flake faster on mild interest. But raw desire is biological, not algorithmic. A woman scrolling past 1,000 cute guys on TikTok doesn’t erase the imprint you left on her nervous system if you genuinely triggered her raw animalistic circuits once. Now, you said the “third-world desire is fake because of survival instincts” line… Lolz… you're wrong… But true, women prioritize providers more openly. They’ll admit it outright, like my Bleep buddies did, she told me: “I’m marrying the rich guy even though I don't desire him sexually.” That’s hypergamy on full display: securing resources while secretly chasing raw desire. So no…raw desire doesn’t expire. That’s why a woman can swear she’s “over you,” block you, marry someone else… and still melt the second she sights you because your presence triggered that emotion and primal desire in her. Interest comes and goes. Raw desire stays forever. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 7:50pm On Jan 25 |
Pukkalolo:It is this raw desire that leads to adultery and paternity fraud. If women had their own money, then they have a greater tendency to marry who they really have raw desire for. It's simple. But....Nigerian women don't have that luxury most of the time. Biology does not favour them and so they have to settle for the man that is ready and has money. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by gentlegiant95: 8:02pm On Jan 25 |
Pukkalolo:you're right. This is what happened between me and an older lady I met last year. First time we were intimate she almost ripped off my clothes ,sucking n licking me everywhere. That's raw desire. As time went on ,I could feel the interest wane n I also pulled back but when we met again she couldn't have enough of me |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wotowotoman: 11:33pm On Jan 25 |
Pukkalolo:Please nobody should be fooled by what this moniker is selling. This na hungry man wey wan use gullible people head to see food chop. No difference between this person and pastor wey dey sell fear in order to cash out. If Una wan dash am money to chop, please do. But do not believe a word of his epistles. Copy his writings and paste into any AI search app and you will see he is simple regurgitating what pick up artistes have written on their sites. Sometimes word for word. It should not surprise una say una dey get more action from woman than he does. Shine una eyes o 👀 |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tenrack: 2:42am On Jan 27 |
Pukkalolo:Omo. This makes a lot of sense. Tuale Baba 🙌 |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 8:08am On Jan 27 |
dreamxhaser:This put a smile on my face. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:28am On Feb 01 |
I love as how everyone ignored IT!!! Nice 🙂 |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by virginboy1(m): 9:56pm On Feb 07 |
Pukkalolo:So apt...this hoes aint loyal |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ballzproblem2: 10:53pm On Feb 14 |
Took me four pages to find this thread,Omo men don move on |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:41pm On Feb 15 |
Ballzproblem2:It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread. Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo , Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well. Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 4:44pm On Feb 15 |
Martinez39s:Hey Fam, it’s nice seeing this powerful names in this community back them, and I really learned a lot from you’ll also but the message will always be here and forever. I think many men now realize how important the male are to female and knowing good and bad also, sometimes I do tell some people that it’s better to be single and happy than to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t like you for who you are but for what you do for them. Life is beautiful, Love Yourself and be grateful for the things you have. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iichidodo: 5:59pm On Feb 15 |
Martinez39s:Bless up, Martinez...Pls continue to take your red pills..It's a life saver, literally. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:33pm On Feb 15 |
DieRich5:Nice! Long live the red pill. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:35pm On Feb 15 |
iichidodo:I will always take the pill. The pill never fails. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by NowYouKnow: 9:01pm On Feb 15 |
Martinez39s:Lol, Yeah, let us blame the trolls for the downfall of the redpill thread and sudden disappearance or extinction of online redpill gurus and OG's. Its much easier to believe that than to accept the painful and bitter truth that reality struck everyone hard and they saw the redpill for what it really is, an Ideology that keeps one chronically obsessed with women and locked in a continuous cycle of self blame. "the trolls ruined our thread'', ''If it wasn't for those pesky trolls we would all be here planning how to game women'' - Redpill OG. ![]()
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| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:10pm On Feb 15 |
100% product of the redpill, reaping the benefits and growing 💪 |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:09am On Feb 16 |
SpencerForbes:Nice! Longest time, my G. The red pill journey is for life. We shall remain steadfast. 💪 |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iichidodo: 1:52am On Feb 16 |
Martinez39s:My ogbanje ex-wife cheated on me and contracted HIV, if not for Red pill,I should have been a dead man long ago... That's why I urge people to take their pills, you just don't know what's gonna happen next.. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 11:03am On Feb 16 |
Martinez39s:May the teachings of the red-pill continue to wax stronger in our hearts and minds. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 12:56pm On Feb 16 |
Martinez39s:Hello brother. The constant thing in life is change, it is inevitable. Many have moved on, 1 or 2 are dead, some married with a new life while some just outgrown nairaland things but i still believe there is a lot to learn on naiaraland sha. My honorable mentions you didn't add - ubunja, Dpsychologist and Goo0dHardDick |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:12pm On Feb 16*. Modified: 5:36pm On Feb 16 |
emmaodet:Ubunja was the first person I mentioned. Lol. Anyway, it was inevitable. Regardless of whatever happened, we were all bound to move on. I remember saying so, a few years back, that this time would time. Even human beings don't last forever. The WhatsApp group went silent after three years of hot activity , almost up to a year. When I had concluded that it was dead, it came back to life again and is now active like its peak. May the souls of redpillers who passed away rest in peace. For those still kicking, more growth and success in your redpill journey and other areas of life. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:13pm On Feb 16 |
COOL10:Sure. Red pill is life. ![]() |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:16pm On Feb 16 |
iichidodo:What! How did you find out? What happened after you found out? Do you have kids with woman? Gist us, if you don't mind. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:37pm On Feb 16 |
Martinez39s:Amen to the prayer |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by iichidodo: 4:41pm On Feb 16 |
Martinez39s:Not much story here, she had a thing for hypergamy, our sex life declined considerably and she got in with the wrong crowd. One thing led to another then boom! And she hid it from me but red pill helped in way that I never saw her as my one in all like oneitis because I understood my SMV,so I wasn't sweating it as an OG red pill. I was just content with my life and the companionship in the marriage. Problems started when she started falling ill on bi monthly basis and was losing weight while I was having the peace of mind of red pill and gaining weight.. Thinking it was the fibroid that was giving her issues, we went for surgery. Long story short, she knew her status but hid it from me, told the doctors that her marriage would be over if I found out. |
| Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:48pm On Feb 16 |
iichidodo:What a close shave! I am glad you never contracted the virus. Was it the doctor who did the ethical thing and told you? |
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