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Hezzyluv:
Things I read online sometimes makes it sound as though, I'm watching film or reading fictitious tales.

theophorus:
1. Pray
2. Continue to be Patient with her
3. See a Marriage counsellor
4. Become celebate
5. Relocate back to Nigeria and continue your Life here by Marrying another wife.


#He who finds a Wife has found a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord. A wife will never change to a Witch.

ManknowThyself:
My brother life is all about choice!!!!!!!

The choice to make is already in your heart but just want validation to go ahead.

When someone you care about decide to walk away, never hesitate to let them go. Your happiness and mental health should be your priority.
You experiencing the highest form of Beta frequency and it's dangerous to your mental health.

Silence and deprivation of right is the loudest means of communication if only you hear it loud enough.


You done involve family, no positive results.

Men should as always marry with clarity.


Wish you luck.

budaatum:
Who knows how you treated her before she relocated and gained freedom from you?

It's not like you'd have invested in her as you claim if she never had a brain.

Helpout12345:
Exactly . Let's still blame the victims naaa.

If he treated her badly, why she took the sponsorship from him to go to UK??

He hated her and treated her badly but still used his sweat or probably life savings to sponsor her to UK and through school in the UK??m

budaatum:
In Yoruba we say, don't ask who killed our father until we get our hands on the cutlass. You have dominance over me in Nigeria, so I bide my time until we cross the ocean and you lose your powers and I gain mine.

Unless you believe I am an evil person who pays kindness with ungratitude, you'd perhaps ask why I changed before judging me.

Helpout12345:
Hmmmm. That's interesting. So we should apply this logic also if the man decides to end the wife's life too when he gets a gun?? We should also be asking what the woman did to him for him to snap up to that level and give him a pass??

budaatum:
Yes we should. We should ask if he is mad and couldn't control himself, especially when he ends up sitting in a jail cell for life!

We'd after all be asking the same of a stupïd woman who gets a gun to shoot her husband, which this woman has very wisely not done.

Helpout12345:
Exactly. Why the logic of tit for tat doesn't make sense.

The logic of "he did me wrong in Nigeria, but I will wait for him to end his life savings and take me abroad then pay back" that you are pushing will end up destroying both the man and woman.