₦airaland Forum

Some say it is the economy that is preventing them to even settle down. Somebody wey never get his place cannot think of getting marry in the first place except he has a family compound. Some cannot marry Igbo or Hausa or Yoruba woman due to personal perference. Some say i cannot marry a Christian or Muslim. Some say he is AS and I am AS so i cannot marry him or her because I do not want to have SS as children. Some say too many girl are into hookup. Some say men only want sex or women only want money. Some are used to be single and do not see marriage as a big deal anymore. Some do not want to be 2nd wife, 3rd wife or wife number 7 to Alhaji. Some have seen their parents divorce and vowed to never get marriage ever. Some have seen their dad or mum have an affair and vowed to just become babymama or babydaddy.

Whatever the case is, marriage is not for everyone. Live your life, those want to marry must be willing to be open and give love a chance.

Alaye, marriage no be achievement....

A life can be lived well without marriage...

Children can be born without marriage...

Purpose can be achieved without marriage...

No be by force...

Poverty
Unemployment.
Lack of ambition .
No clear goals.
Lack of finance.
Gambling and lack of seriousness.

Hummm...marriage?
It doesn't worth it

People still dey marry ?

People inside are regretting it like 2015 election

Both relationship and marriage na scam

In fact,both of them were designed by only God knows who to lure majority of innocent men into embracing their death before their time

Just don't see marriage as an achievement.
Everybody think because I'm doing okay, I have my own business, a car, and living comfortably at 35. Then, the next thing must be marriage.

Marriage is good, but, it feels like gambling to me, I may marry now, and not be as happy as I am now.

But, I'm still praying to God to give me someone I can be happy with, not all these runs girls that are everywhere.

These are signs of the end times

Keep decieving and destroying yourself.

debbydams:
Hummm...marriage?
It doesn't worth it

Unemployment
Underemployment
Purposeless life
Poverty
Spiritual spouses 💍
Household enemies 🏠

Nice2023:
Poverty
Unemployment.
Lack of ambition .
No clear goals.
Lack of finance.
Gambling and u seriousness.

Elon musk .the richest man alive is not married but have a lot of kids .. cope harder

You don see am naa. Nobody cares anymore

adamkkk:
People still dey marry ?

People inside are regretting it like 2015 election

Una go just dey talk anyhow online. Jeez!!!

Fisiryorh:
Alaye, marriage no be achievement....

A life can be lived well without marriage...

Children can be born without marriage...

Purpose can be achieved without marriage...

No be by force...

Dey console your self. Laff wan finish me.

Im more happy when im single as a man than when im in relationspend.

It's going to get worse. You see marriage ehnn is one of the hidden traps. It favours the woman anyway.

Some are not motivated enough because of what they see and hear about marriage.Too many bad marriage stories.

Marriage have many factors but we all know that we marry here cos our parents married.now western world is taking over and our yeyebrity didn't help the cause . They are letting us know that we can enter today and come out tomorrow.

Our economy is not favorable to ordinary Nigerians. Imagine 35 old men who are still earning below 100k. Such men won't plan to marry except they want to settle for poverty.

If you are in 9ja, avoid marriage with your life. If you want children, find one girl, knack the idat belle.


Remember, never, ever marry her , if not you go regret.

If you doubt me, ask the divorce guys for scores.

We're tired of feminism and the economy

Everybody want to be boss on dere own. It takes humility to stay and remain in marriage this days

Men in your 30s are different from the past.

Do you know one day you will die and your chapter will be shut forever , the things of this world wouldn’t matter to you anymore? There’s a life after this and I genuinely know only righteous people with virtue can only go. Riches and accomplishments won’t take you there or last forever, even Alexander the Great has been forgotten.

I'm single and lonely and honestly all I want is a pet, OWL actually.

I fall under this category and unmarried too.

With the kind of women we have these days,the dating pool is a mess. As a man, you are assured of peace more than when you are in a relationship.

Na almajiri, toxic, and entitled females plenty for street now.

Hook up is on a high rise people no longer value marriage

The thing tire me. Things are transactional now.

Results of women empowerment social experiment program already showing

It started with a population control campaign to empower women and create equal career opportunities…

Though it sounded very good to hear, but trust me, the ultimate goal was to reduce population.

You cannot cheat balance of nature, nature is balanced when the men are the source providers, it creates a balanced society and promotes the environment for men to successfully go on dates with women and start families

Men should be given more career opportunities and paid higher than women to start families…
When men have money, they think of settling down but women having money, they look for men earning higher… and when you have equal pay and opportunities, the pool of available men automatically reduces….

Oga na economic hardships but for the ladies na spiritual husband's plus say they are choosing men this days but ended up looking for a mechanic or radio repairer to marry.

stan4b:
Just don't see marriage as an achievement.
Everybody think because I'm doing okay, I have my own business, a car, and living comfortably at 35. Then, the next thing must be marriage.

Marriage is good, but, it feels like gambling to me, I may marry now, and not be as happy as I am now.

But, I'm still praying to God to give me someone I can be happy with, not all these runs girls that are everywhere.

That's it. You have a good mind-set.