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you too take their own men

Taken all the men as how?!!

Are the men handbags or objects lying around?!!


The question should be... What makes those women far more attractive to the men?!! What makes them more preferrable?!!


...And what makes you less preferrable or likeable?!!


I don't hear or ever read where Nigerian men are largely complaining about "losing" their women to men from other nationalities.


Maybe you ladies should come together and have a word with yourselves...!

Nnamdipapa:
"Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments

Zimbabwe women have taken all our men in the UK - Igbo woman laments bitterly. pic.twitter.com/p4zPwqmVBf

— Spartan X 🐊 (@multimeverse) February 22, 2026

https://www.facebook.com/share/18GcnPngAt/


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7580378083958590728?_r=1&_t=ZS-94DN7r1dKkf

This should not be a subject of discussion.

The lady was looking for followers on her social media handle.

NOT ONLY ZIMBABWE.

UGANDA AS WELL.

Women from these 2 countries see Nigerian men as.....kings.

I've been with them.....If you hang with them, you won't go near any Nigerian woman again.

Natbrowny:
Dont sweat it.

The Nigerian guys u underrate and complain about is appreciated by Zimbabwean babes.

Balance the equation.
E fit be say the Zimb babes do not appreciate their men too. So there's an opening for you.

In that same UK. Look for Zimb guys, click and connect.

Lol you think the Zimb guys will have the patience to tolerate a Nigerian banny?

Before nko ? When una go dey come become liability for the men. Men go marry una ,the next thing na, give me money for this , give me money for that. Different between you ( 9ja girls ) and other women is that they are loyal , hardworking, supportive, not looking down on men. But una ( 9ja girls ) no be am , una and money na 5 and 6. You measure success and Everything on how much money one has, and if a man is not financially up there, his nothing .

Is that what you went to UK to do..to be looking for men

edogu:
If the Zimbabwe women are after Nigerian men, Nigerian women should go for Zimbabwe men. Chikina!

Yeah, problem solved.

MT:
This should not be a subject of discussion.

The lady was looking for followers on her social media handle.

..abi..she just wants to cash out

Come home 🏡🏡
Come married husband here
Husband materials full Nigeria

Emdi1914:
What is culture shock compared to Love? The equation is like 90/10 in favour of love

Mot just love, peace of mind. Zimb, Kenya and Uganda women can easily make you feel like you just won a jackpot on a very bad day.

Sonnobax15:

Nigerian men are choosing peace of mind over truck load of wahala that were privileged to find themselves abroad.

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I am the next Nigeria guy to be snatched by Zimbabwean or Congolese or Ghanaian or Ethiopian

Home based men only pair with Nigerian women due to lack of options, they're bottom of the barrel worldwide

Nigerian women should not put their hubbies into trouble abroad again. They are used to sending their husbands packing. They literally bring their husbands to nothing if care is not taken. Though, not all of them do that. This attitude calls for concern among Nigerian men. I have met pleasant Zimbabweans both men and women. They are good, never been arrogant like some women. Nigerian men chose to live longer by choosing peace of mind that they can get from another country. Let our women look inward and stop the arrogance they breed with the mind to inherit the sweat of men. Learn not to be burden on men. Nigerian men will run away from you.

grandstar:
She herself admitted she married him when he was a pauper. There were times they didnt have money to buy bread.

Now they are living well.

^^^
In unions like these, there's never (or there shouldn't be) any nagging doubt in the man's mind - as to why the woman married him. It certainly wasn't for money. Such women have proved themselves from the get go. No argument.

If you are a Nigerian in UK ...never marry a Nigerian woman in UK especially the Yoruba and Igbo ones ...their wahala too much! Dem go call police on you and they will not even touch you unless you have papers and finally if you have papers they will bill you and at same time demand same right

So the best is go for Uganda, Zimbabwe and the finest Rwanda .... You can't be eating Ogbono in Nigeria and still eat that in UK .. try sushi or bryani

Nnamdipapa:
"Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments

Zimbabwe women have taken all our men in the UK - Igbo woman laments bitterly. pic.twitter.com/p4zPwqmVBf

— Spartan X 🐊 (@multimeverse) February 22, 2026

https://www.facebook.com/share/18GcnPngAt/


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7580378083958590728?_r=1&_t=ZS-94DN7r1dKkf

Since you cannot humble yourself ....you don't have to complain

Samantha125:
Love alone doesn't build a successful relationship or marriage.

how do you define love?

And the Billings ... They will never contribute always billing the man and this kills the man easily

ayobaye:
Nigerian women should not put their hubbies into trouble abroad again. They are used to sending their husbands packing. They literally bring their husbands to nothing if care is not taken. Though, not all of them do that. This attitude calls for concern among Nigerian men. I have met pleasant Zimbabweans both men and women. They are good, never been arrogant like some women. Nigerian men chose to live longer by choosing peace of mind that they can get from another country. Let our women look inward and stop the arrogance they breed with the mind to inherit the sweat of men. Learn not to be burden on men. Nigerian men will run away from you.

Sonnobax15:

Nigerian men are choosing peace of mind over truck load of wahala that were privileged to find themselves abroad.

the UK are about to introduce keke in cities.
Sonobax u fit relocate ahead of d official implementation

And Zimbabwean babes fine like...... Let them take our men....

It's good news. When y'all are done with your shakara, you know where to find us.....

Nnamdipapa:
"Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments

Zimbabwe women have taken all our men in the UK - Igbo woman laments bitterly. pic.twitter.com/p4zPwqmVBf

— Spartan X 🐊 (@multimeverse) February 22, 2026

https://www.facebook.com/share/18GcnPngAt/


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7580378083958590728?_r=1&_t=ZS-94DN7r1dKkf

Hardworking kee you dia ! which rubbish Hardworking is she talking about ? Same naija babes we we sabi ? Suddenly Hardworking....SMH.

Wadoboy:
Renewed shege for Nigerian girls if they go by your logic and try Zimbabwe men

They asked for it.....

Nnamdipapa:
"Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments

Zimbabwe women have taken all our men in the UK - Igbo woman laments bitterly. pic.twitter.com/p4zPwqmVBf

— Spartan X 🐊 (@multimeverse) February 22, 2026

https://www.facebook.com/share/18GcnPngAt/


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7580378083958590728?_r=1&_t=ZS-94DN7r1dKkf

No be only Zim babes even Kenya. I get Kenya babes as friends and them dey always appreciate the fact day Naija men for UK dey hard working and them dey spend on their women too unlike their men. And they are nurses oooo doing very well and beautiful.

Love is an emotion and emotions alone don't build a successful marriage...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

Emdi1914:
how do you define love?

As a naija guys who lives outside nigeria we look at our women who also live outside nigeria differently. Wetin carry you come here? A lot of things and questions are involved so we try to avoid you.

If you traveled with your 'entitled' mentality plus poofy attitude what do you expect? The average man values his peace of mind and if it takes a Zimbabwean to guarantee that, so be it. The home folks don't really have much choice but once there is a better alternative who wouldn't take it?

Una just start...some Nigerian men love thick and curvy ladies... And most south African region's women are specs for these.. funny enough, they don't really rate their men the way they rate Nigerian men cos these south African region's women believe Nigerian men are caring, responsible and sabi knack well well pass their own men... So what do you expect? Equation don balance...

I understand her point and it makes no sense why people can’t stick to their natural biological mates…

Marry from your place, that’s the best form of marriage.

Samantha125:
But I'm curious, how do you guys cope with the culture shocks that come with transnational marriages?

What exact culture shock are you talking about? Care to elaborate please?

Would you the same question arise between an Igbo and Hausa relationship?

When I first saw this video early this year, I asked a Zim lady what she thought and her response was that Zim women still maintain traditional values regarding the role of women in a relationship in respecting the views and catering to the needs of a man in a relationship.

A Nigerian guy is looking for peace of mind which the UK ones seem to have found in the Zim ladies (who mostly are reserved/quiet compared to Nigerian ladies), while most of the Zim guys are rough/randy, prowling for white ladies to hook up with.

Honestly, it will be EXTREMELY difficult for a single Naija guy coming to the UK and seeing the options available, to finally settle down with a Nigerian lady. Just God's grace to be honest.

A British girl does not do billings. Instead she'll be the one spending on the guy or at least sharing expenses.

A Zim/Kenyan/Ugandan lady is naturally packed front and back and does not see sex as a transactional business like most Nigerian ladies do. Will cook and host the guy proper. All she needs is his love and attention.

Romanians (including some Polish girls) are hunting black guys to sample their bedmatic skills for free, based on stories that they've heard.

And you want a Naija guy to come and be listening to Naija girls with their sense of entitlements and loud talk?

Na wa o.

grandstar:
When my younger was in the UK for about a year, and retirned for a short rest, he complained that Nigerian women love money.

That was when i knew he would marry a foreigner.

My older beother who has been there since his teenage years complained that our women were always sizing him up. He eventually married a Turk. She herself admitted she married him when he was a pauper. There were times they didnt have money to buy bread.

Now they are living well.

Beautiful!