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I need one of them from Zimbabwe .

As someone who has dated outside Nigeria, I can convincingly tell you that apart from some Westerners, Nigerian women stand zero chance against other cultures. You gals don't understand the importance of "peace of mind" in a matured relationship. Chimanda Adichies feminists apostles on rampage..

The first time I was trying to pay for an Asian gals taxi ride back home after she came visiting, babe gal jumped out of the car in shock/shame! Me, having been billed to death in Nigeria for "transportation" wouldn't understand why!

She was genuinely belittled that I was trying to pay for her. As far as she was concerned, it was her duty to pay since she was the one who came visiting. Gal warned me she will never come to my place again if i try such again. The same thing during dinners, outings and Co. We drag it, though I insist to pay..

How maany of una karashikaa-jezebels will dare do that in Nigeria

Lawly:
I watched a video some hours ago last night where a Southern African national (I suspect he might be Zimbabwean) and a Nigerian discuss the attitude of West African ladies especially Nigeria and Ghana and in all honesty, they too are tired of the annoying behaviors of our ladies.

They sometimes behave confused until they meet more beautiful women around you from other countries then they tend to get humbled ... Beautiful women of other countries would walk up to you and greet you ...Naija woman particularly Yoruba women would wait for you to say hi even when they know you all the time ....Until when they get married then they start respecting you again ...
If you've not associated with other women of other countries am not talking of Ghana here ...South Africa, Congolese, Carribeans, Even Black Americans and British you may not know how sweet a womans demeanor is,,,
They would smile at you and you just be gentle no matter your financial standings ...
But naija women would have size you up before she even look your face and your pocket determine the kind of gesture she would give you...

Dating or marrying a Zimbabwean woman comes with what most Nigerian women cannot offer. It's called PEACE OF MIND

Natbrowny:
Dont sweat it.

The Nigerian guys u underrate and complain about is appreciated by Zimbabwean babes.

Balance the equation.
E fit be say the Zimb babes do not appreciate their men too. So there's an opening for you.

In that same UK. Look for Zimb guys, click and connect.

Indeed.

Zim guys that are always hunting for white girls?

They'd choose their quiet women first before looking at a Nigerian lady.

The only external option that Nigerian ladies try, is to look for a white mugu. And it usually ends in tears later when the guy gets fed up with all the loud noise that comes from the relationship. Which is why most of the white guys who decide to marry outside of their background, simply go to Southeast Asia, pick a very young, homely, pretty lady from Thailand/Philippines/Cambodia etc that will not stress him and come back.

When I think about it now, I'm not sure I've ever seen a UK/US-based Nigerian lady who married a Nigerian guy she met abroad. It's either she remains single, hooks up with a white guy or her family arranges a husband back home in Nigeria for her.

That's sad.

NIGERIA WOMEN DESTROYING NIGERIA MEN LIVES ABROAD HAVE THEMSELVES TO BLAM


ZIM WOMEN LIKE SA NO PRECISELY WAT DEY WANT IN COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP

I CANNOT SUFFER FINISH BRING U WITH NO COST AND SHOULDER ALL THE BILL TO BE COLLECTING SLAP OR POLICE ARREST

Samantha125:
I'm also in an intercultural or should I say transnational marriage of some sort, because my husband is originally from Lesotho, but grew up here in SA... My tribe and his tribe are somehow closely related, so it wasn't a big deal for me.

But I'm not gonna lie, I somehow tend to feel threatened by those ladies from Lesotho... ... I don't even care about SA Sotho ladies, it's always those ones from Lesotho that are giving me sleepless nights whenever I think about them... Those ladies are beautiful...🤦🤦🤦... We recently moved to a predominantly Basotho territory and now I can't even differentiate between who's a South African Sotho and who's from Lesotho, only they can differentiate each other...😭😭😭

And what tribe are you? Zulu? Ndebele? Swati? Or Xhosa?

Samantha125:
I'm also in an intercultural or should I say transnational marriage of some sort, because my husband is originally from Lesotho, but grew up here in SA... My tribe and his tribe are somehow closely related, so it wasn't a big deal for me.

But I'm not gonna lie, I somehow tend to feel threatened by those ladies from Lesotho... ... I don't even care about SA Sotho ladies, it's always those ones from Lesotho that are giving me sleepless nights whenever I think about them... Those ladies are beautiful...🤦🤦🤦... We recently moved to a predominantly Basotho territory and now I can't even differentiate between who's a South African Sotho and who's from Lesotho, only they can differentiate each other...😭😭😭

Na Cho..

That year when I traveled to SA, most of my guys are dating Lesotho girls o

The food, language, beliefs, parenting, different cultural upbringings and expectations from each other.

Igbos and Hausas are within the same country and are familiar with each other's cultures.

Tinyemeka:
What exact culture shock are you talking about? Care to elaborate please?

Would you the same question arise between an Igbo and Hausa relationship?

When I first saw this video early this year, I asked a Zim lady what she thought and her response was that Zim women still maintain traditional values regarding the role of women in a relationship in respecting the views and catering to the needs of a man in a relationship.

I am in a relationship with one too. Una go learn in a very hard way, to play hard to catch and being disrespectful and being energy draining.

Natbrowny:
Dont sweat it.

The Nigerian guys u underrate and complain about is appreciated by Zimbabwean babes.

Balance the equation.
E fit be say the Zimb babes do not appreciate their men too. So there's an opening for you.

In that same UK. Look for Zimb guys, click and connect.

You've said it all!!

Samantha125:
Love is an emotion and emotions alone don't build a successful marriage...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

Ok,now I see why marriages don't last if love is just an emotion.How mediocre is the level of your thinking to define love as An Emotion.
Love is a deliberate act that requires maturity,emotional and spiritual maturity.Marriage is for mature minds, mature minds are people that understands that love is not just an emotion.

None of the above mentioned...😃😃😃... It brings me joy knowing that my tribe is unknown beyond the borders of SA, we shall continue moving within the shadows...

themanderon:
And what tribe are you? Zulu? Ndebele? Swati? Or Xhosa?

Beautiful and wonderful news.
How will Zimbabwean women not take all the Naija UK men when they are not only beautiful and shapey but well mannered, polite and well brought up and don't believe in billing and being leeches, no entitlement mentality,no behaviours such as behaving like an orphan or a welfare case.
Very good. More of this

Samantha125:
The food, language, beliefs, parenting, different cultural upbringings and expectations from each other.

Igbos and Hausas are within the same country and are familiar with each other's cultures.

IGBO CULTURE LOOK ARABIC TO UOR WE SPEAK ARABIC


IGBO RELATE BETTER WITH OTHER AFRICANS


HAVE U SEEN OUR TRADITIONAL WEAR, WAT IS THE DIFFERENCECWITH YOURS IN SA?

Natbrowny:
Dont sweat it.

The Nigerian guys u underrate and complain about is appreciated by Zimbabwean babes.

Balance the equation.
E fit be say the Zimb babes do not appreciate their men too. So there's an opening for you.

In that same UK. Look for Zimb guys, click and connect.

Zimb babes, Soutty babes, Kenyan babes, Ethiopian babes, in fact most East and South African babes prefer and appreciate Naija men over their lazy ass and ugly men because naija men are hardworking, caring and fun to be with. Trust me, I've hard a share of those lovely babes. Naija babes, hehn, na headache upon nothing.

WE HAVE TWO TYPES


THE EXPOSED ONE AND COVER UP WEAR

PUNANI01:
I am in a relationship with one too. Una go learn in a very hard way, to play hard to catch and being disrespectful and being energy draining.

Zim women are educated, calm and don't have too much gra gra for body. Can't you see our resident Zim lady on Arise news TV, Vimbai.

OgaTheTop2:
Zimb babes, Soutty babes, Kenyan babes, Ethiopian babes, in fact most East and South African babes prefer and appreciate Naija men over their lazy ass and ugly men because naija men are hardworking, caring and fun to be with. Trust me, I've hard a share of those lovely babes. Naija babes, hehn, na headache upon nothing.

Abeg remove Zim, Kenya and Ethiopia men from your yappies na only Southy people fit that bill.

edogu:
If the Zimbabwean women are after Nigerian men, Nigerian women should go for Zimbabwean men. Chikina!

Abi o. Trade by barter.

Na cultural exchange.

Kushites:
NOT ONLY ZIMBABWE.

UGANDA AS WELL.

Women from these 2 countries see Nigerian men as.....kings.

I've been with them.....If you hang with them, you won't go near any Nigerian woman again.

My former schoolmate went to Uganda around 2012 for a Masters degree and has refused to come back. Na only to dey snap with Ugandan babes with big bum bum up and down he sabi

seppuku:
Zim women are educated, calm and don't have too much gra gra for body. Can't you see our resident Zim lady on Arise news TV, Vimbai.

I HAVE ALSO NOTICE THE ABOVE


CALM AND PATIENT WITH U



VERY FEMININE

seppuku:
Zim women are educated, calm and don't have too much gra gra for body. Can't you see our resident Zim lady on Arise news TV, Vimbai.

Vimbai na gem.

The only 9ja wife with 250 million in-laws.

All those things you mentioned are determined by emotions.

Emdi1914:
Ok,now I see why marriages don't last if love is just an emotion.How mediocre is the level of your thinking to define love as An Emotion.
Love is a deliberate act that requires maturity,emotional and spiritual maturity.Marriage is for mature minds, mature minds are people that understands that love is not just an emotion.

THMT:
Mot just love, peace of mind. Zimb, Kenya and Uganda women can easily make you feel like you just won a jackpot on a very bad day.

You're wrong about Kenyan women o, you've got to be wary of them bro.

Dancebreaker:
Vimbai na gem.

The only 9ja wife with 250 million in-laws.

The woman blend no be small.

Samantha125:
I'm also in an intercultural or should I say transnational marriage of some sort, because my husband is originally from Lesotho, but grew up here in SA... My tribe and his tribe are somehow closely related, so it wasn't a big deal for me.

But I'm not gonna lie, I somehow tend to feel threatened by those ladies from Lesotho... ... I don't even care about SA Sotho ladies, it's always those ones from Lesotho that are giving me sleepless nights whenever I think about them... Those ladies are beautiful...🤦🤦🤦... We recently moved to a predominantly Basotho territory and now I can't even differentiate between who's a South African Sotho and who's from Lesotho, only they can differentiate each other...😭😭😭

Had it been you accepted my proposal, you would've peace of mind, because Nigerian girls cannot give you that kind headache lol

Samantha125:
The food, language, beliefs, parenting, different cultural upbringings and expectations from each other.

Igbos and Hausas are within the same country and are familiar with each other's cultures.

I'm sorry but I'll beg to differ on your viewpoint about any similarities between an Igbo and Hausa. Think of day/night.
Heck they even differ on their degree of melanin content.

They'd have to start from accepting the differences in all those factors you mentioned.

Same way a Nigerian guy would start from the basics in accepting the differences with a Zim lady.

realmindz:
I understand her point and it makes no sense why people can’t stick to their natural biological mates…

Marry from your place, that’s the best form of marriage.

Marry wetin go kill you.

Marry woman wey dey heartless and everything is transactional.

Marry woman wey dey think of creative ways to render you useless.

Mean and nasty and manipulative bunch of over sabi.

Sad thi g is to " nack sef dem no dey sabi " too much pride and fakeness.

But you guys are familiar with each other... And melanin has never been an issue.

You both speak Pidgin, are familiar with each other's traditions, and some of your food are also similar.

Tinyemeka:
I'm sorry but I'll beg to differ on your viewpoint about any similarities between an Igbo and Hausa. Think of day/night.
Heck they even differ on their degree of melanin content.

They'd have to start from accepting the differences in all those factors you mentioned.

Same way a Nigerian guy would start from the basics in accepting the differences with a Zim lady.

GUNITGuy:
They sometimes behave confused until they meet more beautiful women around you from other countries then they tend to get humbled ... Beautiful women of other countries would walk up to you and greet you ...Naija woman particularly Yoruba women would wait for you to say hi even when they know you all the time ....Until when they get married then they start respecting you again ...
If you've not associated with other women of other countries am not talking of Ghana here ...South Africa, Congolese, Carribeans, Even Black Americans and British you may not know how sweet a womans demeanor is,,,
They would smile at you and you just be gentle no matter your financial standings ...
But naija women would have size you up before she even look your face and your pocket determine the kind of gesture she would give you...

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You probably have no idea what you're on about bro. Those Congolese and black american women are mostly no go area, you've got to be wary of them.

My 2kobo. ✌️