₦airaland Forum

Chicious:
All these real men this, real men that no longer works anymore, this is unsubmissive modern women ways of CONTROLLING men.
Men knows what to do when they see a woman who truly loves, reverence and submits to them, you as a women do not tell a man what he ought to do, afterall he is a leader in the relationship and ought to know the direction to stir it in according to his vision, the woman is there to help him in it and do all she can to bring it to fruition.

Relax. I wasn't addressing your category. I was simply describing real men who naturally earn respect. You insecure ones who think having chromosomes entitles you to respect were simply just mentioned for contrast.

Kobojunkie:
If your vows do not include a prenuptial or postnuptial contract with an infidelity clause and a financial clause, it remains outdated. 🥱🥱🥱

Yes very good on point, you forgot DNA testing to it.

ManknowThyself:
➜Yes very good on point, you forgot DNA testing to it.

No need for that in this case. If the man were to require a DNA test after each child, then he might as well simply pay the woman the full surrogacy and birthing cost — assuming the woman is only in it for helping him have his children—for every child while he takes full responsibility for caring for and raising said child afterwards... No need to marry the woman. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
No need for that in this case. If the man were to require a DNA test after each child, then he might as well simply pay the woman the full surrogacy and birthing cost — assuming the woman is only in it for helping him have his children—for every child while he takes full responsibility for caring for and raising said child afterwards... No need to marry the woman. 🥱🥱

LoL

You always have a way to run from DNA testing and that's why I called you to it.

A true woman "Wife" with true moral values of family, self respect and dignity will never lose peace over DNA test of her kids.



This is the main awareness for me


No DNA

No Name.

That's the only true protection of a man in marriage of today and men are getting the awareness.

In a nutshell,
The moral values and standards of family is the bed rock of the society.

ManknowThyself:
➜LoL You always have a way to run from DNA testing and that's why I called you to it.
➜ A true woman "Wife" with true moral values of family, self respect and dignity will never lose peace over DNA test of her kids. This is the main awareness for me No DNA No Name. That's the only true protection of a man in marriage of today and men are getting the awareness.
➜In a nutshell, The moral values and standards of family is the bed rock of the society.

Why do folks like you resort to lying when caught in your own trap? I said you could alway DNA test on every child the woman has for you if you are also ready to raise the children yourself, because I would never advise any man's daughter to get herself caught up in anything like marriage with a man whom she does not have at least partial trust in. And when it comes to the average Nigerian man out there, the default way to guarantee at least partial trust is to have him pay up front for the service offered. 🥱🥱

2. Nonsense! Imagine this nonentity thinking it is his place to define for women how they can and should live their own lives, bah! 🥱🥱

3. The same moral values Nigerian men notoriously shove down a hole when it comes to their place as husbands and as fathers, abi na some other moral value wey dey only on the tip of tongues and nowhere else? Family is the bedrock of society, yet a woman una wan make she carry that rock alone for head while men continue to live single even after marriage? Nonsense! 🥱🥱

The vast majority of Nigerian men do not need a family but a female slave. I would not recommend any woman sign up for that without first guaranteeing that she will not come out shortchanged on the other side of that deal. 🥱🥱

Merry100:
Relax. I wasn't addressing your category. I was simply describing real men who naturally earn respect. You insecure ones who think having chromosomes entitles you to respect were simply just mentioned for contrast.

You won't even recognize what a "real man" is even if he was standing right besides you. What you just described is a form of a human being from your own imagination or fantasy.

Chicious:
➜You won't even recognize what a "real man" is even if he was standing right besides you. What you just described is a form of a human being from your own imagination or fantasy.

What is a real man?

Kobojunkie:
What is a real man?

A real man is someone who fears God and submits to His will for his life. He is committed to discipline and order as he pursues the mission and calling God has given him. He is not intimidated or shaped by cultural or feminist gyno centric standards that seek to redefine manhood in ways that weaken, distort or neuter it.
He understands that if he becomes a husband and father, he is called to lead his family. That leadership carries both authority and responsibility. He must guide, protect, and provide for his household, directing it according to a clear vision grounded in obedience to God.

So in a simple short sentence: A real man fears God, governs himself, loves sacrificially, leads with authority and responsiblity, stands firm against corruption, and lives with integrity in private and public life.

Chicious:
You won't even recognize what a "real man" is even if he was standing right besides you. What you just described is a form of a human being from your own imagination or fantasy.

Quoting scripture on this doesn't make your description or definition stronger; it only exposes your ignorance.

If your version of manhood requires women to shrink so you can feel bigger, then what you are describing isn't "manhood." It is hypocrisy and control; wrapped in religious language to make it sound sacred.

Fearing God is not a personality trait, it is just a belief system. It does not automatically produce integrity, kindness, or emotional maturity. A man's character is revealed in his daily behaviour and most of all in how he treats those around him, including his wife and children.

Let me be clear: women were not created to be supporting characters in a man's divine storyline. You are simply confusing culture with God's principles. A woman can have her own mission and calling in obedience to God. Deborah led both men and women under God's direction. Husbands are not spiritual gatekeepers to women's relationship with God. Women in scripture were prophets, leaders, business owners, and disciples. They had direct access to God.

Being "God-fearing" does not guarantee you are a good husband. There are unbelievers who love sacrificially, and there are believers who weaponize religion to dominate and silence.

In simple words: a real man doesn't need to suppress or control others to feel secure. He earns respect and authority through integrity, responsibility, accountability, and how he shows up in his family, his career, and his community; not through entitlement, demands for control, or hiding behind religion.