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| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by Solofresh2: 9:14am On Mar 02 |
Sometimes I just look at you guys and shake my head.From the replies you are giving, you still have a father.Is it only your mother that deserves money? What about your dad? And am sure he is sole provider of the family when you were growing up. Why do you men find it hard to take care of your Fathers.You have forgotten that you will be in his position one day abi.It might not necessarily be about money but, you will be in his position where you will need love and care from your children too. If I say that women are smarter than men now,una go say na lie. Men are the architect of their own problems.They give women so much power 2 Likes |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by BrickandLace(f): 9:24am On Mar 02 |
It's your dad I'm pitying. He that find a wife.... You better shine your eye well... 1 Like |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by J0HNNY(m): 9:37am On Mar 02 |
E dey glaring say no be better woman. There are still better and reasonable women that appreciate things no matter how little it's. Bad women full everywhere dey cover themselves with fake smiles. Try dey send something to your papa too. If she no need the money, take it back and transfer it to your dad. Make men plan well and always put themselves first. Because you fit suffer train children, them begin misbehave during old age. 1 Like |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by ojotobiloba1: 10:36am On Mar 02 |
Vikto17:No matter the provocation, don't complain or utter any statement. Anytime u re buoyant, send anoda 20k or any amount u have depending on your ability. When our parents re becoming ageing, they tend to misbehave 1 Like |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by Luizkid(m): 11:15am On Mar 02 |
My own mumcy will recycle the money to assist other siblings.. she hardly used the monies for herself that's why I slowed down with sending her money. 1 Like |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by Harddiskng(m): 11:36am On Mar 02 |
Vikto17:Don’t send anything to her again. Don’t bother reaching out to her. Family is not people you are related to by blood, family is whosoever cares for you and shows it in their actions. Focus on your life. If you fail financially in your responsibility towards your own nuclear family it is your fault. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by spencekat(m): 11:04am On Mar 04 |
SpencerForbes:Not all Nigerian parents. May be some of them. My father never felt entitled to that extent till his demise. My own mother is filled with gratitude.She appreciates anything you sent to her. 1 Like |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by pansophist(m): 12:17pm On Mar 04*. Modified: 12:01pm On Mar 08 |
This is a classical case when indifference is a potent cure. DON'T CARE ANYMORE. But before you do this, you must be ready to accept whatever outcome, which includes badmouthing you and relational breakdown. People usually appreciate your good deeds at best, the first three times. After that, it just breed entitlement and laziness. First they appreciate your givings, then they anticipate for more givings, and if you keep up, it leads to expectations. Then entitlement, and finally, dependence. So "Appreciation > anticipation > expectation > entitlement > dependence". After dependence, then it's anger and hatred for not fulfilling what they deem as their "right". It's an emotional reactions, and a trait common with career beggars It's a sad reality, but you have to accept that this is real life. Since you're dealing with your mother, then manipulation is surely a tool in her arsenal. But like I said in the first paragraph, indifference is the cure to all these nonsense. The more you care, the more you suffer. Caring requires responsibility, and indifference free you from responsibilities that bleeds you. 6 Likes |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by capnies: 1:13pm On Mar 04*. Modified: 1:33pm On Mar 04 |
Vikto17:Don't start any family, when things are like this why start another family. Even if you're above 50yrs now don't start a family please, put yourself together first. Don't listen to wife will open doors. Be wise Dad is alife not doing well Brothers, others don't fall for any woman or society pressure. Lye on bed and think back, now and think into the future of extended responsibilities Cancel marriage thoughts. You see men drag responsibilities to themselves, who said you must marry Even the Bible say avoid marriage, because marriage will make you suffer 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 If you have a wife, do not seek to end the marriage. If you do not have a wife, do not seek to get married. But if you do get married, it is not a sin. And if a young woman gets married, it is not a sin. However, those who get married at this time will have troubles, and I am trying to spare you those problems. Alternatively if you can marry and decide with your wife no baby for 5-6yrs until we've achieved so so thing, but she'll start saying my time Don the go, society will call her barren, so stay away don't marry yet.⅞ |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by Premiumbuy(m): 7:41pm On Mar 04 |
pansophist:Premium peace Be Unto You What can someone do to not fall into the "Dependence" category? |
| Re: I Send My Mother 10k And She Called And Insulted Me!! by samwash(m): 8:03am On Mar 05 |
spiceadole:You see this statement, many people never realise it. |
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