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Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Rep9jaCom(op): 7:33am On Mar 07
A dramatic scene unfolded at the University of Cross River State after a female student reportedly rejected a public marriage proposal from her boyfriend despite claims that he had been financially supporting her throughout her time in school.

The incident, captured in videos circulating on social media, has triggered intense debate online about relationships, financial support, and accountability among young couples.

According to reports, the man had visited the campus to propose to his girlfriend with an engagement ring. However, the woman declined the proposal in front of other students, leading to a heated confrontation shortly afterwards.

In the viral footage, several female students were seen confronting the lady after the proposal was turned down.

They questioned why she would allow the man to sponsor her education and lifestyle if she never intended to marry him.

Witnesses in the video could be heard asking her why she accepted his financial help over time only to reject him when he proposed marriage publicly.

The situation quickly sparked wider discussions on social media, with many users divided over the issue.

Some people argued that accepting significant financial support from a partner creates expectations in the relationship, particularly when it involves education and personal expenses.

Others insisted that financial support should not automatically guarantee marriage or emotional commitment.

Another circulating clip reportedly shows a similar moment where a woman rejected an engagement ring from her boyfriend on campus after he travelled to propose.

The videos have since attracted thousands of reactions online, with many Nigerians debating the ethics of relationship sponsorship and public proposals.
Watch the video below…



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/proposal-gone-wrong-lady-rejects/

Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Stephen0mozzy: 7:40am On Mar 07
After all the story on the internet?
Who made the rules that proposals have to be a "surprise" - y'all don't have a conversation about whether or not she wants to marry you?

These type of girls often feel that they're already paying you back with sehx and the girlfriend label they "allow you" call them.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by 2special(m): 7:42am On Mar 07
That's Good for him and those okoko that don't have sense.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Oracleee: 8:08am On Mar 07
A grown ass man can't think well enough. Why would you spend on a lady with expectation of marriage if at all you must spend. She's not your mum, not your sis, not a relative, Mo written agreement of after marriage but just fantasy and wild imaginations.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by helinues:
The guy should move on. Infact the lady did him a big favour

Better to find another girl than be in a relationship with a partner that won't be faithful
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Nobody: 8:28am On Mar 07
Someone’s dad 😏 He’s above 40 so I don’t blame him.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Cerebellum: 8:41am On Mar 07
A man who reeks of low self esteeem. How do you want to be respected when you don't respect yourself?
A woman with absolutely nothing to offer you just disgraced you eleribuu mumu

Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Solofresh2: 8:58am On Mar 07
The lady rejected him because the transaction was complete. He paid for the degree; she received the degree. The contract was fulfilled. Her refusal to extend the contract (marriage) was simply her exercising her option to seek a better buyer in a market where she now has more value. The only mistake was his assumption that charity purchases loyalty.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by purples25(f): 9:48am On Mar 07
I am afraid for her.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:03am On Mar 07
On top of everything, we will now hear that he never collected opueh even once,
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by ManknowThyself(m): 10:32am On Mar 07
Cowards does that openly, i don't blame the girl at all cos the style and place might determine her decision.

Why will a grown man disgrace himself like this.

Maybe the girl would have accept when it was done in private.


No pity for him.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by weslay: 4:14pm On Mar 07
Dem suppose flog this half man
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by spiceadole(f): 4:48pm On Mar 07
Social media : Marriage is not for men. men have nothing to benefit from getting married. I can never kneel to propose to a woman.

Reality: They want to marry. they kneel to propose.
Unfortunately, this one got rejected
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by QuinQ:
Did she FORCE him to support her?
See his pot belly.😅
Having said that, generally speaking, just like children, women are "wicked"
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Smartguyboy(m): 5:08am On Mar 08
Las las we all going to learn the hard way
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Ojagun(m): 10:19am On Mar 08
The man looks like a goof-ball

If a man is willing to play father christmas for a woman (like many Nigerian men are ready to) why should she not use him?

My favourite story of this sort of situation was when a man told me he paid for the university fees of some lady he wanted to marry (for four years) and she and her mother rejected his marriage proposal after she graduated.Their reason was he had tribal marks on his face grin
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Cutezt(m): 10:20am On Mar 08
Anything wey go make me sponsor girl wey I like, I must give am belle first. If she goes to school and turns haywire and refuses to marry, no wahala, at least I gain pikin, I no loose.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by adamkkk: 10:20am On Mar 08
Hmmm my ex gf would jump on this offer.


Ex gf, am now married.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by marlow1962(m): 10:21am On Mar 08
First of all, you know say you no go marry the dude, but you dy happy as him dy spend he hard earned money dy sponsor you for school ( something your shameless father no do). Na so people take dy die throway. Shay if the guy use anger and pain take lack u juju now, you go begin run from one fake pastor to the other.

Secondly, the guy man na ozzor. If him fellow guy take am now say, abobi I no get shishi to take soak garri, the malu go say em no get, but em dy sponsor woman. Men like that they always learn the hard way.

Fellas, no train person pikin with the intention say u go marry her. Make her family train her, or marry her first before you begin train her for school. If you disregard this advice, you go dy like this malu wer them create this news for.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Funkyswagzz(m): 10:22am On Mar 08
When will you guys learn? Stop sponsoring girls in school you won't hear. Una too mumu reach like dis?
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by EBEk101(m): 10:22am On Mar 08
I don’t know why I find it funny
It really did crack me up 😂 😂😂
Stupid man 😏

Upon all the sacrifices he still knelt down like a coward 😂😂😂
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Nostalemate: 10:25am On Mar 08
Solofresh2:
The lady rejected him because the transaction was complete. He paid for the degree; she received the degree. The contract was fulfilled. Her refusal to extend the contract (marriage) was simply her exercising her option to seek a better buyer in a market where she now has more value. The only mistake was his assumption that charity purchases loyalty.
Exposé.
Funkyswagzz:
When will you guys learn? Stop sponsoring girls in school you won't hear. Una too mumu reach like dis?
So many persons suffer from wrong entitlement mentality.



Shout-out to all chess players on Nairaland earning good money via the game.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by AnnyChicago0989: 10:26am On Mar 08
As a woman, I always tell male friends to never any sponsor any girl financially unless they are married.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by bentenny(m): 10:26am On Mar 08
I have zero sympathy for such men!
Funds that could have been used to invest in skills that will bring him millions, he used it to invest in the life of a lady who may likely not want to have him as a boyfriend let alone a husband!
Secondly, this is to ladies who accept assistance from a guy....If you know you will not have a future with him, don't accept his gifts!
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Dogalmighty17: 10:27am On Mar 08
Why will any reasonable thinking man consider spending on a woman? Any woman that can't fend for herself has no place in society.
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by IBB007(m): 10:32am On Mar 08
lol…why do guys keep doing this!?
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by BarrElChapo(m): 10:33am On Mar 08
Why even do the proposal in public in the first place ?

So in all the years you were dating and sponsoring her, the topic of marriage had never come up for you to be sure, you both were on the same page?
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by iLoveYouToo(m): 10:34am On Mar 08
Chaii. Person wey advise this guy no try o. Why the public show? It’s not like you have Elon Musk money.

You don’t expose yourself like this. Never
Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by dreamwords: 10:34am On Mar 08
It’s normal thing na, not a new story, na Mumu man Dey train woman for school
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