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Rep9jaCom:
A dramatic scene unfolded at the University of Cross River State after a female student reportedly rejected a public marriage proposal from her boyfriend despite claims that he had been financially supporting her throughout her time in school.



Watch the video below…

He came to her school to propose, but she turned him down, despite the fact that he has been sponsoring her.

Why do men keep putting themselves in these embarrassing situations? https://t.co/NjdXhox6q5 pic.twitter.com/otKCdYsB5B

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) March 7, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/proposal-gone-wrong-lady-rejects/

used boy
He should focus on developing life changing skills

Who brought about the stupid idea of kneeling down to propose to a woman.Can't you just tell a woman that you would like to marry her and you would like to come see her parents? It's better a woman rejects you in front of her parents,than for you to disgrace yourself in public.You be disgrace to manhood

purples25:
I am afraid for her.

Afraid for her, how, she will live her life and get married. The man just needs to accept that life happens

Onpe..the boy is the foolish one

marlow1962:
First of all, you know say you no go marry the dude, but you dy happy as him dy spend he hard earned money dy sponsor you for school ( something your shameless father no do). Na so people take dy die throway. Shay if the guy use anger and pain take lack u juju now, you go begin run from one fake pastor to the other.

Secondly, the guy man na ozzor. If him fellow guy take am now say, abobi I no get shishi to take soak garri, the malu go say em no get, but em dy sponsor woman. Men like that they always learn the hard way.

Fellas, no train person pikin with the intention say u go marry her. Make her family train her, or marry her first before you begin train her for school. If you disregard this advice, you go dy like this malu wer them create this news for.

Better still, start a Charity/Non-profit/an Initiative, what Nigerians like to call a "Foundation. " And give to the needy without expecting anything in return.
The guy didn't know he has only been a shareholder, a minority shareholder for that matter.

I don't believe the guy's finance has been the only one that girl has been using to maintain herself.

As far as the girl is concerned, the guy came to disgrace her. She has a lot to lose if her main sugar daddy finds out.

Nor be say she even too fine like that o.

A man already knew she would say yes.. but this one mumu

I support the woman jare
Everybody go learn one by one

EmmyMaestro:
On top of everything, we will now hear that he never collected opueh even once,

That's not possible and if na so the man should be flogged wella..

Imagine her real bf is there they will talking waiting this mumu come do now I can't even propose to anyone

The lady might have accepted if he didnt do it in a public place LOL.

However the fact remain the lady was not attracted to him and his simpish ways.

Every man has been in that category at least once if you like spend any amount on a woman she will still revert to her feelings.

She might chop your money and use it to her benefit but that love is not bought by money.

Some women will pretend and say yes and then during the marriage they are yanshing whoever they like.

Thats why a lot of people need DNA these days

E no go better for the person that bring the idea of my men knee down for ladies in the name of proposal. What nonsense.

After she don see enough

Foolish man

Some men don suffer sha. Na wa o. Reason why it's good to have experience about women early as a man. It will help you not to fool yourself for any woman or around women.

If you don't have experience about women on time as a man, women will show you shege banza cuz you won't know your value as the man.

A woman should be the one begging you to stay with you or put a ring on her finger, not the other way round.

A man shouldn't beg a woman to wife her. You are devaluing yourself as a man. Allow the woman to do it.

Do you know that when you wife a woman as a man, you'v removed serious shame from her. Why should you now beg a woman that you will feed, clothe and shoulder her responsibilities?

Does it make sense to beg a woman you will spend your life savings on cuz you want to marry her and she is embarrassing you?

Men, it's high time you borrowed some brains when relating with some women.

That serves him right. Who are you to perform what the parents could not do? Don't you have relatives to help? Are you NELFUND?

bentenny:
I have zero sympathy for such men!
Funds that could have been used to invest in skills that will bring him millions, he used it to invest in the life of a lady who may likely not want to have him as a boyfriend let alone a husband!

I think the man is heart broken and is yet to recover, so he is looking for love at all cost. Giving out money to the lady is a dopamine form him, coupled with the fake attention given to him.

The best way for the man is to marry a real mature lady not less than 38 years, these one have preparedness to marry. Or possibly a young widow both of them will be living to pity each other.

OgaTheTop2:
That's not possible and if na so the man should be flogged wella..

Yes, because he supposed to make sure that anytime they meet he should take hausa butantashi and knack her properly so that he will be getting value for all the money she is collecting from him

You can't marry, yet you keep collecting and never define...
Coward Village people.

Rep9jaCom:
A dramatic scene unfolded at the University of Cross River State after a female student reportedly rejected a public marriage proposal from her boyfriend despite claims that he had been financially supporting her throughout her time in school.



Watch the video below…

He came to her school to propose, but she turned him down, despite the fact that he has been sponsoring her.

Why do men keep putting themselves in these embarrassing situations? https://t.co/NjdXhox6q5 pic.twitter.com/otKCdYsB5B

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) March 7, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/proposal-gone-wrong-lady-rejects/

That man needs to be flogged

ManknowThyself:
Cowards does that openly, i don't blame the girl at all cos the style and place might determine her decision.

Why will a grown man disgrace himself like this.

Maybe the girl would have accept when it was done in private.


No pity for him.

..why should she be ashamed of her sweet heart in public..if a girl truly love her man she will boldly hug her man in public and accept the proposal and be proud of what her sweetheart did for her..true love knows no shame

After collecting and chopping all his money?.. quite unfortunate

AMI3:
That man needs to be flogged

.but when he was giving her money she did not reject

MUGU 10

Cerebellum:
A man who reeks of low self esteeem. How do you want to be respected when you don't respect yourself?
A woman with absolutely nothing to offer you just disgraced you eleribuu mumu

big disgrace to league of men

When we men stop to prospose in public
Wait is it wrong to talk with her privately if she will accept it before proposing in public na wa

Oracleee:
A grown ass man can't think well enough. Why would you spend on a lady with expectation of marriage if at all you must spend. She's not your mum, not your sis, not a relative, Mo written agreement of after marriage but just fantasy and wild imaginations.

Maybe when his siblings, dying of hardship, are begging for his help, he will be screaming "nobody owes you anything."

ufotunang:
.but when he was giving her money she did not reject

Who sent him?
There was no signing off papers
Even he sue her there is no evidence.

Can a lady trained a guy in school ?
The answer is no.
Why then do men easily fall into such scammed ?

Mcslize:
Some men don suffer sha. Na wa o. Reason why it's good to have experience about women early as a man. It will help you not to fool yourself for any woman or around women.

If you don't have experience about women on time as a man, women will show you shege banza cuz you won't know your value as the man.

A woman should be the one begging you to stay with you or put a ring on her finger, not the other way round.

A man shouldn't beg a woman to wife her. You are devaluing yourself as a man. Allow the woman to do it.

Do you know that when you wife a woman as a man, you'v removed serious shame from her. Why should you now beg a woman that you will feed, clothe and shoulder her responsibilities?

Does it make sense to beg a woman you will spend your life savings on cuz you want to marry her and she is embarrassing you?

Men, it's high time you borrowed some brains when relating with some women.

thanks for this post my bro. My ex and I broke up a week ago and I've been contemplating of going back to tell her some simping things

Your words already healed me. We're the price when it comes to women and we don't know our worth I don't know why it usually happens

ComingKing:
I think the man is heart broken and is yet to recover, so he is looking for love at all cost. Giving out money to the lady is a dopamine form him, coupled with the fake attention given to him.

The best way for the man is not marry a real mature lady not less than 38 years, these one have preparedness to marry. Or possibly a young widow both of them will be living to pity each other.

Which kain advice be this?

Good for him
Brotherhood dey vex for am.
I'll rather buy a goat and train than train a lady through school whose not my sister or blood relatives

That man should almost be in his 50. Chai.. this one pass disgrace.

….. I am still looking for the words to describe his level of mumu. If this is for content creation, it’s very wrong