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You still want to get married? Lawyer asks as he shares long list of divorce cases in one court for a week


https://www.titopeblog.com/2026/03/you-still-want-to-marry-lawyers-list-of.html?m=1

No worry yourself...
We go still marry

Na the economic situation Dey cause these divorce of a thing.
Our fathers that year Dey always comot go cool off, eat pepper soup if nut loose for our mamas heads

Like a Joke i read one day.

Why do we get married
Kid answered saying Marriage is important so Divorce can exist.

It’s just like having a list …. Dead, dead, dead, dead and then asks ‘ you still want to live

ukaface:
It’s just like having a list …. Dead, dead, dead, dead and then asks ‘ you still want to live

God bless you. If you listen to divorce lawyers, you'll never want to get married. Meanwhile the divorce lawyer is happily married.

Soon marriage will be a thing of the past

As a lawyer, is there no confidentiality in your profession again?
Why discouraging new couple's into tying their knots?

Divorce will continue to rise until we learn to treat one another the right way and show empathy and do unto others the way we will like them to do unto us.

The lawyer said "see your neighbours, they had car accident". Are you sure, you still want to board any car in this lifetime?"

chiommy123:
Divorce will continue to rise until we learn to treat one another the right way and show empathy and do unto others the way we will like them to do unto us.

Right

Real men are always ready for marriage but until they see and feel the respect of the only woman having the dignity to be the queen of their kingdom and empire.


Real men are waiting not in haste for marriage.

Real men know exactly what they want in a woman, peace, respect and dignity.

Not chaos, noise and disrespect.

Those divorcees will still remarry.

Samantha125:
Those divorcees will still remarry.

My sweet kukunase princess. how are u my darling.
how slimy is it now?

Marriage is a trap these days.

Samantha125:
Those divorcees will still remarry.

i hope they were not made single mothers before divorcing them; if not na their body go tell them.

is the lawyer himself not married?

Nothing fit make me make I no marry

I wasn't born a bastard, and I will not bring a bastard to this world


Vision 2027 June

Why not use the information you have to give us the top reasons why all these people are seeking divorce?

Motayoayinde, never

Make i bend

Pride ,ego and absence of required humility to say sorry at the right time or forgive at the right time is the one of the primary cause of divorce but the chief is adultery

That lawyer na clout chaser jor... BTW, I still believe that more couples stay in marriage than divorce, and that is based on solid Stat obtainable in my vicinities.

I can comfortably put divorce to be <0.5 out of every 10 couples I know.

TITOPE:
You still want to get married? Lawyer asks as he shares long list of divorce cases in one court for a week


https://www.titopeblog.com/2026/03/you-still-want-to-marry-lawyers-list-of.html?m=1

Why are there so many cases of divorce?
Several reasons:

1. People have left the Godly principles of marriage to embrace the worldly principles of marriage.
God Almighty is the originator of marriage. He has a manual for that institution that is written in His Holy Book, the Bible. Follow the instructions that the manufacturer of marriage has stated concerning marriage and then you see yourself in a hitch-free marriage. For instance, The Bible says, husbands, love your wives and wives, submit to your husband. If you are not ready to love, you are not ready for marriage. As a woman, forget gender equality, if you are not ready to submit, you are not ready for marriage.
2. The enemy is against marriage…
3. Not understanding the meaning and purpose of marriage, thereby marrying for the wrong reasons or marrying with a wrong mindset about other gender and wrong mindset about marriage.
4. Spiritual factors (e.g spirit spouses)
5. Marrying the wrong person.

I married right. Don’t know about these ones

1. Availability Heuristic
This is when people judge how common or likely something is based on examples that easily come to mind.

Divorce lawyers constantly see failed marriages. Those cases are very vivid and memorable. Because that’s what they see all day, it feels like most marriages end badly, even though they are seeing a skewed sample. So their experience makes divorce seem far more common than it actually is.

2. Selection Bias
This happens when the data you’re looking at is not representative of the whole population.

Divorce lawyers only see couples who are divorcing. They never see the millions of couples who stay happily married. So their “dataset” is biased toward failure.

3. Negativity Bias
People tend to notice and remember negative outcomes more strongly than positive ones, which can further amplify the effect.

And? That is their story. I know families married 16 years plus and counting.

Samantha125:
Those divorcees will still remarry.

Only the male divorcees you mean? Because last I checked it is stupidity for a man to adopt a family.

SixSeven:
God bless you. If you listen to divorce lawyers, you'll never want to get married. Meanwhile the divorce lawyer is happily married.

Perfect response. Case closed

ukaface:
It’s just like having a list …. Dead, dead, dead, dead and then asks ‘ you still want to live

Nice perspective.
I would never have thought of it this way.

It's like discouraging people from driving in cars because of accidents. SMH

Una still dey marry? Marriage is now obsolete.

“Do not judge the world from the window of your profession.”

"Do not assume the part you see represents the whole."

"To a man with a hammer, everything looks like a nail."