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| Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Shadowpyper(op): 12:10pm On Mar 16 |
My girlfriend visited me yesterday and while we were talking she mentioned something that later started bothering me. She said, “I posted my boyfriend’s picture on my status and people were complimenting how cute he is.” At that moment I didn’t say anything about it. Later that night while I was still working, she was already asleep. What she said earlier came back to my mind, so I decided to check her WhatsApp status from my phone. When I checked, I didn’t see anything. I refreshed it a few times thinking it might be a network issue, but there was still nothing there. I picked her phone and tried to unlock it so I could see the status myself, but I couldn’t. While I was trying, she woke up and asked what I was doing with her phone. I told her I was checking something, and she immediately collected the phone from me. The next morning she asked again why I was trying to access her phone the previous night. I told her I was trying to see the picture she said she posted because I couldn’t see it on my own phone. She then showed me the status. It was a picture of herself and an AI-generated image of a man, and she captioned it as her boyfriend. Personally, I don’t understand why she keeps posting it and making it seem like it’s her boyfriend’s picture. The man in the picture doesn’t even resemble me in any way. I’m dark-skinned, while the image shows a fair-skinned man. I also asked her why she blocked me from viewing her status. She said it was because I once scolded her about the memes she posts. But honestly, I didn’t scold her. I only asked why she likes posting those kinds of memes. Sometimes she posts things that make it look like she hasn’t eaten for days, and I simply told her I didn’t like that. I don't know if I'm overreacting by being concerned about it 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Double0h7(f): 12:37pm On Mar 16 |
Are you dating an underage girl? 🤨 19 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Pupanchie: 12:37pm On Mar 16 |
Oga if you want get sense, dump that trash you called your gf, she doesn't take a second to like or love you and again the fact she could eager to jack her phone off you is a red flag, we no dey advice people weh no get sense or that r in love and the last of the least is that she will soon dump you if you don't dump her cos woman no dey love, na man dey love 19 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by DND069: 1:25pm On Mar 16 |
Before you both started dating, didn't you see her posts before now? Your answer to this question will slove the issue. |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by whatmoreng: 1:39pm On Mar 16 |
Double0h7:Very good question. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by helinues: 1:40pm On Mar 16 |
You are probably dating yourself Ladies can never be shy about the man they love 11 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:51pm On Mar 16 |
Iyawo social media is not good for relationship. Her actions might shortened your lifespan. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Lastpharoah33: 1:59pm On Mar 16 |
Pupanchie:Lol, you really think she's still in the r/ship ?  I can't and won't waste my precious time on people inlove. He should learn the hard way. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by 190: 2:36pm On Mar 16 |
Double0h7:The guy no know say the girl na proper otondo! He must have been as slow as she is 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by SixSeven: 3:19pm On Mar 16 |
Don't worry. Do the same thing to her and wait for how she will react. Don't you know two can play the game? Don't you know that women get jealous too? You too do the same thing and put a girl that looks like her enemy and tell her it's AI. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Starz825(m): 3:30pm On Mar 16 |
May i not lose sleep over women matter again in my Life. Amen 15 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by thrillionaire(m): 7:45pm On Mar 16 |
This op boy is a kid. In today's 9ja see what a 'man' is bothered about. Lmao 🤣 |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 7:47pm On Mar 16 |
She's not into you 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Love800(m): 8:23pm On Mar 16 |
You are behaving like a teenager. Why should you be accessing your girlfriend's fone! When into an relationship, trying to keep ladies will make dem run away from you, but distant yourself and they will glue to you. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by kiddaz: 11:17pm On Mar 16 |
Shadowpyper:You see that right there? Never take a girl seriously with such behaviour. They know exactly what they're doing . Stop playing with your life bro and find someone else. And nope, you're not overreacting one bit 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by placeofallure(f): 3:25am On Mar 17 |
helinues:Some of us don't display our partner's pictures not because of shyness or anything like that. I don't post mine too. As my WhatsApp dp, I don't use my picture or my man's. I put work related stuff or any of Arsenal logos. I'm not shy about him - he's very tall, light skinned, and handsome but I just like to keep things private. I don't post birthday stuff, not mine, nor my man's. Privacy makes things a lot calmer. Some of us love calm, no dramas. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by marlow1962(m): 8:44am On Mar 18 |
Double0h7:Obviously |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Xboss1: 6:02pm On Mar 19 |
Love800:Very true bro Women behave like cat 🐈 Chase them they will run away Distance yourself from them, they come to you |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by ErnestNc: 6:11pm On Mar 19 |
It's highly time u dumped her. She will make you cry cuz i can see you've invested alot, hence you are concerned about if she shows u off or not. I'll never make the mistake of investing a dime in any woman that hasn't invested hugely in me. There's a girl who is so into me, i barely give her shishi and i make so much compared to her. She earns peanuts, but she always wants to support whenever i pretend to be broke. I can never bother myself or behave insecure around such a lady who showers me with love, effortlessly. That babe no like u at all. You are dating urself. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Ki11YurSev: 11:02pm On Mar 19 |
Abeg I wan sabi the kind work you bn dey do later for night wey make you nor cuddle your gf as she dey sleep for night |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:02am On Mar 20 |
Double0h7:Have you seen any secondary school boy post any of such rubbish? You want to start looking for opportunities to dodge accountability for the lady as usual. I see those kinds of nonsense posts from ladies every time and yes they are in their 20s , I forgot what you ladies call matured ladies and those who aren't underaged are women in their 30s and 40s |
| Re: Should I Be Concerned About This In My Relationship? by Love800(m): 7:12pm On Mar 23 |
I appreciate. Xboss1: |
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