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Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by PraisePiano: 6:45pm On Dec 10, 2018
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by samysmoothfresh: 6:48pm On Dec 10, 2018
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by fishmillan: 6:48pm On Dec 10, 2018
You don get money first , guy go and look for money.. Leave girl matter

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by PraisePiano: 6:49pm On Dec 10, 2018
fishmillan:
You don get money first , guy go and look for money.. Leave girl matter
hmmm

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Pubichairs(m): 6:49pm On Dec 10, 2018
Toxic relationship , there is nothing to advice..
Mr Nice guy keep on sticking to one woman, na u go tire

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by MrsEvakinqz(m): 6:51pm On Dec 10, 2018
Please don't quote the relationship biko

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 6:52pm On Dec 10, 2018
Relationship headed for the rocks. She still wanna flex while u wanna make her homely. You both are not compatible unless she truly loves and respects u.

A colleague of mine wedded his gf who was just like this your girl, hers was even worse as she slept with politicians but the guy persevered in the relationship.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by ojun50(m): 6:55pm On Dec 10, 2018
U leave Abulegba babes go thy follow ikorodu babe, guy u no go enjoy d relationship na. Make i jst tell u na capital runs girl u dey deal with

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by greatnaija01: 6:55pm On Dec 10, 2018
REALLY AM SAD FOR MEN WHO BECOME MUMU BECAUSE OF A LADY'S BOSSOM OR BEAUTY? because from your story she lacks character so you are dating her for something physical and not her content. SO WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU BRO?

Dont you know how to do your own stuff? YOU ARE A MAN.... you do not need women as much as they need you... MEN DO NOT HAVE MENOPAUSE... she is young and needs to enjoy her life waywardly and she can not know if you are a good guy or not.... NICE GUYS GET DUMPED.

SEE, upload a pics of you with another girl or Photoshop it ... maybe by a pool OR at the airport... then let it be on your facebook and whatsapp PROFILE and status.... THEN IF SHE DOES NOT COMPLAIN THEN YOU KNOW SHE HAS ANOTHER DUDE GIVING HER WHAT YOU ARE TOO FAR TO GIVE.

She is out of your league, you may not be a party type and she loves going out... SIT YOURSELF DOWN AND ASK WHY EXACTLY YOU ARE IN SUCH A RELATIONSHIP... most men dull themselves by expecting beauty to be character and am shocked that they come here acting shocked when their ladys' behave otherwise.

IKORODU is far and she has FREEDOM to do anything and lie to you. MAKE MONEY, I repeat MAKE MAD MONEY and her loyalty will appear like the rising sun.

RELATIONSHIP these days are simply BUSINESS TRANSACTIONS OF LOVE and MONEY.

In your next relationship TAKE YOUR BRAIN with you and not your HEART ONLY


PraisePiano:
Hello guys....
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quoting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me. Please what should I do?

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by PraisePiano: 6:58pm On Dec 10, 2018
MrsEvakinqz:
Please don't quote the relationship biko
but you sha understand

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by highqueen(f): 6:58pm On Dec 10, 2018
You are dating a slay queen, what do you expect?

Some of you will just go and carry burden that's bigger than your heart and be expecting a positive outcome.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by ojun50(m): 6:58pm On Dec 10, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Relationship headed for the rocks. She still wanna flex while u wanna make her homely. You both are not compatible unless she truly loves and respects u.

A colleague of mine wedded his gf who was just like this your girl, hers was even worse as she slept with politicians but the guy persevered in the relationship.
pls go back nd help me tell that yr colleague that his wife will still cheat on him some day, d guy get mind

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by doctore212(m): 6:58pm On Dec 10, 2018
Is just obvious she is not interested. Forget about emotions and face the truth. You are too nice for her persona. Move on my guy.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by PraisePiano: 6:59pm On Dec 10, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Relationship headed for the rocks. She still wanna flex while u wanna make her homely. You both are not compatible unless she truly loves and respects u.

A colleague of mine wedded his gf who was just like this your girl, hers was even worse as she slept with politicians but the guy persevered in the relationship.
no I don’t mind her flexing but she shouldn’t use it against our relationship that’s my annoyance
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Tamarapetty(f): 7:00pm On Dec 10, 2018
End it oga! END IT!! Farmtool spotted. . Believe it or crase.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by PraisePiano: 7:02pm On Dec 10, 2018
greatnaija01:
REALLY AM SAD FOR MEN WHO BECOME MUMU BECAUSE OF A LADY'S BOSSOM OR BEAUTY? because from your story she lacks character so you are dating her for something physical and not her content. SO WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU BRO?

Dont you know how to do your own stuff? YOU ARE A MAN.... you do not need women as much as they need you... MEN DO NOT HAVE MENOPAUSE... she is young and needs to enjoy her life waywardly and she can not know if you are a good guy or not.... NICE GUYS GET DUMPED.

SEE, upload a pics of you with another girl or Photoshop it ... maybe by a pool OR at the airport... then let it be on your facebook and whatsapp PROFILE and status.... THEN IF SHE DOES NOT COMPLAIN THEN YOU KNOW SHE HAS ANOTHER DUDE GIVING HER WHAT YOU ARE TOO FAR TO GIVE.

She is out of your league, you may not be a party type and she loves going out... SIT YOURSELF DOWN AND ASK WHY EXACTLY YOU ARE IN SUCH A RELATIONSHIP... most men dull themselves by expecting beauty to be character and am shocked that they come here acting shocked when their ladys' behave otherwise.

IKORODU is far and she has FREEDOM to do anything and lie to you. MAKE MONEY, I repeat MAKE MAD MONEY and her loyalty will appear like the rising sun.

RELATIONSHIP these days are simply BUSINESS TRANSACTIONS OF LOVE and MONEY.

In your next relationship TAKE YOUR BRAIN with you and not your HEART ONLY


God bless you bro I kuku no mumu I be mad man too I just wan Dey serious ni o

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by NOC1(m): 7:04pm On Dec 10, 2018
Hahaha, free the girl and go for a girl that share same view with you.
I date girls that did professional courses like Medcine, Engineering and Geology because girls from this area of study try to reason, they have this understanding that i don't get from most girls in social sciences. I am not trying to shame a set of people, but i am speaking out of experience from school days to working years.

The girl I see in picture is still young and longing for a social life, if you truly love her give her time via taking out to social gatherings, shows, see movies etc. That is if you have the money to do that.
While hanging out with her use the opportunity to teach her that life is not all about this things, the real life is outside such places. With time she will likely be the woman you need.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by JasonScoolari: 7:06pm On Dec 10, 2018
Tamarapetty:
End it oga! END IT!! Farmtool spotted. . Believe it or crase.
Lol, very funny but that's the truth right there.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:09pm On Dec 10, 2018
PraisePiano:
no I don’t mind her flexing but she shouldn’t use it against our relationship that’s my annoyance
Just sit her down and let her see reasons. Advice her on moderation

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:10pm On Dec 10, 2018
ojun50:

pls go back nd help me tell that yr colleague that his wife will still cheat on him some day, d guy get mind
I doubt that. But then some virgin wives end up cheating on your husbands

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Exponental(m): 7:11pm On Dec 10, 2018
Define what you want in a relationship. If she suits it, sobeit. if not OYOnified!

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Homeboiy: 7:31pm On Dec 10, 2018
U better fūck her for the last time and leave her

Give her a 4hrs non stop marathon sexx

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by PraisePiano: 7:45pm On Dec 10, 2018
samysmoothfresh:
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should remain with her


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?
Fvck yes I am

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by samysmoothfresh: 7:46pm On Dec 10, 2018
Homeboiy:
U better fūck her for the last time and leave her


Give her a 4hrs non stop marathon sexx


my niggah!!

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Toyinsbtc: 7:49pm On Dec 10, 2018
Simple yes, quit and move on boss, the issue is the right person will come.. Just relax.. This girl doesn't regard you and as a matter of fact another guy is doing her parol big time.. Shes not into u at all.. Open ur eye oooo

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Shibaraba(m): 7:54pm On Dec 10, 2018
Your wife na okpo....

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Wuraola01(f): 8:04pm On Dec 10, 2018
NOC1:
Hahaha, free the girl and go for a girl that share same view with you.
I date girls that did professional courses like Medcine, Engineering and Geology because girls from this area of study try to reason, they have this understanding that i don't get from most girls in social sciences. I am not trying to shame a set of people, but i am speaking out of experience from school days to working years.

The girl I see in picture is still young and longing for a social life, if you truly love her give her time via taking out to social gatherings, shows, see movies etc. That is if you have the money to do that.
While hanging out with her use the opportunity to teach her that life is not all about this things, the real life is outside such places. With time she will likely be the woman you need.


grin grin Wawu. Your second statement tho

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by debuscket(m): 8:15pm On Dec 10, 2018
My brother, if u value ur life better quit the r/ship now. She's not worth it

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by samysmoothfresh: 8:16pm On Dec 10, 2018
PraisePiano:
Fvck yes I am


you have answered well my guy!!!



cheers to your freedom!!!

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Dopefiend(m): 8:17pm On Dec 10, 2018
*sigh
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by spyg1(m): 8:29pm On Dec 10, 2018
Is it not Facebook? Everything about Facebook is fake. Do you think you're the only one she gave her number to on Facebook? If she delayed giving you her number maybe she was not sure of your financial status, so she was still investigating you. She is an internet marketer.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by MrsEvakinqz(m): 9:01pm On Dec 10, 2018
PraisePiano:
but you sha understand
Lolzzz

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