₦airaland Forum

saintopus:
Very very wise advice!
As long as women give several conditions that their parents wouldn't have met to prospecting young men so men too should raise their marriage bar very high as well.

If you like preach from now till whatever kingdom comes, you're wasting ya time. Very few men would heed you and it'll mostly be those wey no dey get am clear.

The creators of our world dey meticulous and without taking the console from their hands, it'll still be something impossible for men to not want to impress women, fine succulent women especially.

Even you go despise most women wey dey get am clear. As most of dem despise men. Wetin dem need you for wey dem no go fit get easily?

I saw many wereys lambasting that yéyé girl that said even marriage falls under "sex for benefits" or whatever but if you cool down look am well, e no hard to see her point.

Everything, even marriage is transactional. Unless you pretend or no know what you're giving and getting in return. Well, I'm not for getting married but I'll do it if the terms and factors involved pay me. Who wouldn't?

It's simply just for you to choose and pick too. Most times, those werey wey dey loud about being picky, na Dem dey secretly "do" someone below their so-called standards. As many of them truly dey average and deserve average, but dey eye men wey their whole ancestors blessings no go fit bag for them.

Just live life and leave itk people. Reality go wake anyone wey dey sleep or pretend eventually.

Gotocourt:
Why e dey pain you, no worry, e go clear when you begin feed your bro wife 🤷🏿

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Gbadugbakun:
You can marry them since you're so concerned about them

..marry who ?..🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

And many many men will enter 'womenopause' too

stan4b:
That means many Nigerian women will enter menopause unmarried.

nairalanda1:
Marry who God has chosen for you, not who is broke or rich.

Remember, God told Hosea to marry a harlot. Not because he wanted to torment the poor prophet but because he wanted to show the prophet and by extension humanity, how much He would go to redeem sinners.If anything, Hosea becomes more understanding of the nature of God at the end of the book of Hosea. A God that seeks to redeem and save sinners.

Marry the wife or husband who will help you achieve God's will for your life and show you more of God's divine nature. Don't go looking for perfect spouse abeg. And no, that does not mean you must marry a harlot (male and female harlots exist..yes o). Get close to God, know his will for your life. If God says marry someone that is not up to your stats...it is because God has seen something in the woman or man that would help you become the person He (God ) wants you to be...and would help you understand Him more, which would make you an even more effective chrestian.

Pastors too dey chase clout these days. OI

Well at least the harlot wasn't broke , she had a job before God sent the prophet to her , oh by the way hope you know she still ended up leaving the prophet ?, moral of the story : that God told you who to marry ( which is debatable but I won't waste time here on it ), doesn't mean you will live " happily ever after ".

kenchop:
LET THEIR FATHER'S MARRY THEM.

same way your papaa married your sisters

Story, story.
Nigerian men will still marry broke and jobless women over the well to do ones.
You cannot control someone that you don't feed.

benardtotti:
Well at least the harlot wasn't broke , she had a job before God sent the prophet to her , oh by the way hope you know she still ended up leaving the prophet ?, moral of the story : that God told you who to marry ( which is debatable but I won't waste time here on it ), doesn't mean you will live " happily ever after ".

LOL...that's not the point of the story.

So Giving birth and taking care if the house is the woman's only responsibility and she can't contribute financially? Like the man can't have babies with random girls if he likes or get a housemaid for the cleaning?

A lady who's not a liability contributes to support the man especially if she can. Anyone who thinks she can't contribute financially is already a liability.

Women are naturally broke

FashionCookie:
Abeg make we hear word.
Only online will you guys come online and make noise. I know of ladies with the so called dirty and broke that men marry every other day.
Like, they even pamper and take care of them. Abeg make una no annoy me.

Wetin dey vex you now….??
On top this small advice ??

But u pple advise each other not to marry broke men

nairalanda1:
Marry who God has chosen for you, not who is broke or rich.

Remember, God told Hosea to marry a harlot. Not because he wanted to torment the poor prophet but because he wanted to show the prophet and by extension humanity, how much He would go to redeem sinners.If anything, Hosea becomes more understanding of the nature of God at the end of the book of Hosea. A God that seeks to redeem and save sinners.

Marry the wife or husband who will help you achieve God's will for your life and show you more of God's divine nature. Don't go looking for perfect spouse abeg. And no, that does not mean you must marry a harlot (male and female harlots exist..yes o). Get close to God, know his will for your life. If God says marry someone that is not up to your stats...it is because God has seen something in the woman or man that would help you become the person He (God ) wants you to be...and would help you understand Him more, which would make you an even more effective chrestian.

Pastors too dey chase clout these days. OI

Preach Pastor, when are you going to open your church ? your head has more bible than most pastors.

nairalanda1:
Marry who God has chosen for you, not who is broke or rich.

Remember, God told Hosea to marry a harlot. Not because he wanted to torment the poor prophet but because he wanted to show the prophet and by extension humanity, how much He would go to redeem sinners.If anything, Hosea becomes more understanding of the nature of God at the end of the book of Hosea. A God that seeks to redeem and save sinners.

Marry the wife or husband who will help you achieve God's will for your life and show you more of God's divine nature. Don't go looking for perfect spouse abeg. And no, that does not mean you must marry a harlot (male and female harlots exist..yes o). Get close to God, know his will for your life. If God says marry someone that is not up to your stats...it is because God has seen something in the woman or man that would help you become the person He (God ) wants you to be...and would help you understand Him more, which would make you an even more effective chrestian.

Pastors too dey chase clout these days. OI

Someone God chose for me, someone who will help me achieve God's will, blah, blah, blah.
Must that person be broke and unemployed? Must that person be a dependant and unproductive?
Mention one unproductive woman in the Bible, just one?
This man of God is truly smart and intelligent. Would you advice your daughter to live her whole life as a dependent and broke ass demanding support like an handicap?
I hate it when some people shout God, God as if created woman with substandard brain. One runs girl was telling a friend one day that she decided to go into prostitution for economic reasons and I asked her if she would be happy if her son becomes a male gay prostitute if he's broke and she was mad.
We need to stop this nonsense. Everyone must share the responsibilities at home including house work.

Bad news for many women who marry to escape poverty 😔

He's so correct.. The experience is so bad.. Talking from present experience..

No character, no any means of income, nothing.. Thank God I've not married her. Even doubting the pregnancy in high degree. Can't wait for her to give birth.

amaridigital:
Someone God chose for me, someone who will help me achieve God's will, blah, blah, blah.
Must that person be broke and unemployed? Must that person be a dependant and unproductive?
Mention one unproductive woman in the Bible, just one?
This man of God is truly smart and intelligent. Would you advice your daughter to live her whole life as a dependent and broke ass demanding support like an handicap?
I hate it when some people shout God, God as if created woman with substandard brain. One runs girl was telling a friend one day that she decided to go into prostitution for economic reasons and I asked her if she would be happy if her son becomes a male gay prostitute if he's broke and she was mad.
We need to stop this nonsense. Everyone must share the responsibilities at home including house work.

K.

advanceDNA:
Wetin dey vex you now….??
On top this small advice ??

But u pple advise each other not to marry broke men

Advice ke? Men deyhear word?
I'm angry because it's all noise here and otherwise in the real world. Men will continue to marry broke women and go all out for them. No be today and it's not ending anytime soon.

kenchop:
LET THEIR FATHER'S MARRY THEM.

Oh boy, has Kobo arrived yet.
This man will receive a righteous shellacking....

These are the kind of people that deceive lots of men, that would later find themselves with the so called working class ladies, without any peace of mind in the marriage.

Dear men, there is nothing wrong with marrying a young lady that has no hand work or has nothing doing, as long as you love the person and she is ok. It is within your responsibility to mold her and help her grow as the head of hom

It is more loving when your wife becomes somebody through your effort than getting her "already made", financially.

My wife was far younger than me, just finished defense of her undergraduate project before we married.

Today, she is doing well, career wise and supporting the family.

Some that married the so-called bankers and those with hand work could not salvage their marriages.

Don't make your decisions based solely on whether the woman is working or not.

Base your decision on future prospects and good qualitieis
Does she has the potential?

Can she develop herself if given the oppportunity?

Their fathers have to train their daughters for life.

saintopus:
https://punchng.com/stop-marrying-broke-women-pastor-okonkwo-tells-men/

ufotunang:
So who is going to marry them ?

Make dem go marry their broke papa.

Why una dey like to worry about women wey no go even look you for once if you are broke or even pretend to be a broke guy?

Unbecoming of Nigerian pastors? Stop parading yourself as a pastor

Double0h7:
The one thing most men have going for them is the ability to provide. They are NOT attractive to look at! They’re not emotionally stable, have zero empathy, no morals or integrity, extremely poor hygiene. If they want to put away their wallet there’s work to be done on what they will bring to the table. It sounds good online but what do you bring to the table if provision is taken off the table?

The male loneliness epidemic is growing by the day.

I thought my taste is too high. With big stomach and ugly shoes. They are even lucky Nigerian women do sapa induced submission.

This is coming from a pastor, and most of the congregation are women, most of them are broke, praying to find a rich husband by coming to church. Will his comment not make some of the broke women in his congregation stop coming to church?

This is basically the Christian version of "50/50" discourse, but with more Bible verses. When he called marriage a "poverty alleviation scheme," you could hear the collective gasp from every "Traditional Provider" and "Soft Life" enthusiast on the timeline.

E mean say relationship no go dey Naija again bcs most women here are broke. Even the so called working class ladies want rich men