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DBestDoc:
I don’t see a difference between you and the 50 plus years old fool. If you don’t know boundaries at this point in your life, i bet you may be worse than him at that age.

Disgusting!

NotOfThisWorld:
If she isn't putting a stop to it, then she's enabling him. This is also an emotional affair (aka. cheating), which is bad on its own, as she's supposedly in a relationship with you and she's not doing right by her sister either by having these chats with this man, but it could also turn physical sooner or later. It seems you're not concerned about these.

Demigod22:
My girlfriend came around last Friday and stayed till Saturday. I went through her phone with her permission, of course. I didn't see anything serious. Out of curiosity I checked her chats with her sister's fiance, I saw some uncomfortable messages he sent to her. He sent messages like WHEN LAST DID YOU KISS? HAVE YOU BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE? SEND ME YOUR PICTURES, SEND ME VOICE NOTE, CAN I BE YOUR VAL OR I KILL MYSELF.

This man is in his early 50s and my girlfriend is turning 22 next month. He is even a divorcee, he come to their house and everyone respects him.

From their chats, my girlfriend didn't encourage anything, but the only issue I have with her was when I asked her why didn't she tell me the man was hitting on her? She said she thinks IT'S NOT IMPORTANT. And I asked if she knew what the man is driving at, she said SHE DOESN'T KNOW.

I told her that since she has the power to decide what's important and not, she can handle her affairs, and her elder sister would be very proud of her when she eventually finds the chats. She has been trying to be extra nice and downplay the whole situation but I just told her life no hard. Let's just catch cruise.

This man is telling her that she should be a good girl for him and he will spoil her, when he returns to Nigeria, he will take her out more often. The fact that this girl is pretending or acting to be ignorant of this old man's intentions is what turned me off.

kiddaz:
She's not your girl
She's of the most dangerous kind. They feign ignorance so as to justify their intentions in the end.


RUN! Or remain and swallow more nonsense from her

Mattswaggz:
She's well aware of his intentions and that's the kind of thing most Naija bannies want......rich man to give them soft life....it will shock you to realize that what you're seeing as a big deal is nothing to her.

Demigod22:
First of all, I am not her first boyfriend but I am the one that deflowered her. It seems you don't read the part that the man sending her those messages is her sister's fiance who is old enough to be her father.

Demigod22:
You are very correct. These girls are just sick with attention. If one million men give her attention today, she will still enjoy the extra one man who comes new. I have dumped her sorry ass.

osazsky:
u call a 50 year old an old man....if he doesn't like her sister and he is interested in marrying Ur girlfriend nothing wrong...if u love her u should have married her..if u can take care of her marry her next month before the old man marries her..life is a competition ..no room for slacking and there is room for overtaking..her sister loves another and the old man knows it hence he is fishing for Ur girlfriend and fortunately Ur girlfriend is giving him green light..she is just Ur friend and not Ur wife.move on..go and marry..and who told u u are young

Demigod22:
Life is a competition, I acknowledge that, may God forbid that I compete for a woman. He can have her, I already ended things this evening.

The way you talk about marriage and taking care of woman, it seems you think money equate being marriage inclined. You don't just marry people because you have the means or dating, you date and observe. If I had rushed to marry her and see stuff like this chats, you will still tell me to divorce.

DBestDoc:
I don’t see a difference between you and the 50 plus years old fool. If you don’t know boundaries at this point in your life, i bet you may be worse than him at that age.

Disgusting!

Demigod22:
First of all, I am not her first boyfriend but I am the one that deflowered her. It seems you don't read the part that the man sending her those messages is her sister's fiance who is old enough to be her father.

osazsky:
I tire for nowadays children..the op may not even have a steady job...and u want the girl to remain...he should marry her if he is man enough...kids way never do introduction feel say to marry Na beans

DBestDoc:
Good you called it quits!
Also make sure to block her.
The girl is greedy and knows nothing about loyalty. She isn’t even loyal to her own blood, her sister. Who then are you?

Both the girl and the Old phul do not worth having a headache over.

Thank you for this. Life is already stressful, no need adding avoidable stress to it.

Damseldammie:
What brings about such conversation between her sister’s fiancé & her, she must be a useless girl.
A wayward girl so to say.
Dákun fi sílè kó máa gbé sóòbù alágbèèká rè kiiri béyen….
I hates nonsense 😏

ajalawole:
nothingcrazy bro... Na loose girl you dey see like that. He will chop the younger sister join. E dey happen no be today. If the younger sis dey school, chief will get her apartment wey e all be gojng to collect standy. If the younger sister wasn't interested he would have report chief to her sister or block him.

RISQUE:
That man go fuvk your girlfriend. Dey there Dey write epistle. Most 22 years old no get sense. Na style the man go use tear her.

Pastoshizzy:
As usual.
FORGET!
Is the trouble even worth it? Naija girl are like flies to feaces when it comes to incoming persons from abroad.
Uncle go just chop out of your precious cake without you knowing it. If you get to get suspicious, then you're dubbed 'overreactive/insecure'.
The man sabi how to fish. Leave the pond for him o.

Demigod22:
My girlfriend came around last Friday and stayed till Saturday. I went through her phone with her permission, of course. I didn't see anything serious. Out of curiosity I checked her chats with her sister's fiance, I saw some uncomfortable messages he sent to her. He sent messages like WHEN LAST DID YOU KISS? HAVE YOU BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE? SEND ME YOUR PICTURES, SEND ME VOICE NOTE, CAN I BE YOUR VAL OR I KILL MYSELF.

This man is in his early 50s and my girlfriend is turning 22 next month. He is even a divorcee, he come to their house and everyone respects him.

From their chats, my girlfriend didn't encourage anything, but the only issue I have with her was when I asked her why didn't she tell me the man was hitting on her? She said she thinks IT'S NOT IMPORTANT. And I asked if she knew what the man is driving at, she said SHE DOESN'T KNOW.

I told her that since she has the power to decide what's important and not, she can handle her affairs, and her elder sister would be very proud of her when she eventually finds the chats. She has been trying to be extra nice and downplay the whole situation but I just told her life no hard. Let's just catch cruise.

This man is telling her that she should be a good girl for him and he will spoil her, when he returns to Nigeria, he will take her out more often. The fact that this girl is pretending or acting to be ignorant of this old man's intentions is what turned me off.

Demigod22:
I was actually concerned and was trying to let her see the danger of the man's messages, but this girl was telling me that she didn't see it that way, moreover, she's distancing herself from him already.

Demigod22:
My girlfriend came around turned me off.