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I want to find out from young men who decided to get married early and are still under the age of 30.
How has married life been so far?
Are you happy you made that decision?
Are there things you regret?
Do you wish you didn't get married so soon or are there things that you wish you prepared for before tying the knot?
Essentially, has marriage so far been a blessing or a humiliation ritual?

Let's hear your thoughts.

You're waiting for bad news go go marry they're at peace with there wives. Aproko man

Nobody is waiting for just for bad news, I want to hear both positive and negative comments from guys who married early.

Cum4me:
You're waiting for bad news go go marry they're at peace with there wives. Aproko man

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I'm actually doing pretty good, it's been a long time desire of mine to marry in my 20s and I have almost three years left to do that, with that being said please point out where in my post that I badmouthed marriage.
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Portiphaaa:
You wey never marry, how is it going??
.the way some of you dey badmouth marriage eeeh, like say una single life na paradise...
check all the suicide news, na single and frustrated ones, yet una go dey talk like say marriage na hell ..
Ask your parents how old they were when they got married...
Abeg make una carry una frustration comot for married people's lives

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Economy no dey help men organize to marry early. Where you wan for see guys when marry under 30 na? Them no many at all bro. You go wait for the NL liars to come flood here with tales that never happened be that oo

kiddaz:
Economy no dey help men organize to marry early. Where you wan for see guys when marry under 30 na? Them no many at all bro. You go wait for the NL liars to come flood here with tales that never happened be that oo

Na true say them no many, na mostly women dey marry under 30 but as NL big reach at least 20 guys for here suppose don run that parole

kiddaz:
Economy no dey help men organize to marry early. Where you wan for see guys when marry under 30 na? Them no many at all bro. You go wait for the NL liars to come flood here with tales that never happened be that oo

E get the ones wey give girl wey come from God-fearing household 'mistake' belle

Those ones no get choice . . . Either run go exile or marry by force

SeeWahala:
E get the ones wey give girl wey come from God-fearing household 'mistake' belle

Those ones no get choice . . . Either run go exile or marry by force

Ẹhn hẹn, God is powerful sha, na you fit tok truth like dis make persin laugh.

Make I jus run comot from Politics section some tanda for here to see you in a better light.

On the topic though, it must be tough because for babes for dat 20 to 30's age, the level of stubbornness and frequency of lying, never mind lack of judicious use of common sense, dey compete wit Obidients own.

GingerbreadMen:
I want to find out from young men who decided to get married early and are still under the age of 30.
How has married life been so far?
Are you happy you made that decision?
Are there things you regret?
Do you wish you didn't get married so soon or are there things that you wish you prepared for before tying the knot?
Essentially, has marriage so far been a blessing or a humiliation ritual?

Let's hear your thoughts.

As a married man if you have the money 💵 get married on time oh don’t allow failed people here to deceive you , it’s not 100% perfect 😍 just look for someone who can respect you , love alone can’t hold marriage only respect. 🫡

SeeWahala:
E get the ones wey give girl wey come from God-fearing household 'mistake' belle

Those ones no get choice . . . Either run go exile or marry by force

Ahh, those ones na God run am for them walai. The so called girls when come from such homes wey me dey knack at my younger age all na weyrey. Na before or after dem done remove belle dem go inform me. They no dey ask for money na to just let you know say em done sup and she wan go remove am so and so date.

kiddaz:
Ahh, those ones na God run am for them walai. The so called girls when come from such homes wey me dey knack at my younger age all na weyrey. Na before or after dem done remove belle dem go inform me. They no dey ask for money na to just let you know say em done sup and she wan go remove am so and so date.

No be lie baba you sabi the story die

Omor bro it has been the best experience of my life, 7yrs and counting.

That is fantastic to hear, at what age did you get married?

LeeSmart:
Omor bro it has been the best experience of my life, 7yrs and counting.

GingerbreadMen:
That is fantastic to hear, at what age did you get married?

23 while wifey was 20

Cum4me:
You're waiting for bad news go go marry they're at peace with there wives. Aproko man

Came here to say this...lol

Many have gone on exile

Wow, what was that initial phase like living together and things of that nature?

LeeSmart:
23 while wifey was 20

GingerbreadMen:
Wow, what was that initial phase like living together and things of that nature?

Bro TBH from the start everything was really good because financially man was doing really owkay and coupled with the fact that we got ourselves surrounded by experienced persons in the game (our parents and neighbours), the only little challenge was agreeing on what to cook (eat)😂😂 but with time we understood each other perfectly.

Phenomenal! That means you married a good person. I pray your marriage continues to blossom

LeeSmart:
Bro TBH from the start everything was really good because financially man was doing really owkay and coupled with the fact that we got ourselves surrounding by experienced persons in the game (our parents and neighbours), the only little challenge was agreeing on what to cook (eat)😂😂 but with time we understood each other perfectly.

Na nacking sweet oooo. Enjoy your youthfull age..

They won’t tell you the truth tho

I married at 26. 15 years later, doing great with 4 kids.

Marriage is a blessing if you marry the right one for you.

Married before just before 30. If I had my way, I'd have married at 26. There is some sense of focus and responsibility that marriage imposes on someone. If you're the impatient type, marriage will teach you by force except if you want to opt out. Marriage helps you douse the natural desire of cohabitation. The more you delay, the more you keep suppressing Na when you marry you'd truly understand that men and women are wired differently. You'd realise that you might have underestimated the sacrifices your father did for the family. If you have the means(not big money), don't hesitate.

You wey never marry, how is it going??
.the way some of you dey badmouth marriage eeeh, like say una single life na paradise...
check all the suicide news, na single and frustrated ones, yet una go dey talk like say marriage na hell ..
Ask your parents how old they were when they got married...
Abeg make una carry una frustration comot for married people's lives

Marriage, I'm sorry, is a scam.

Cum4me:
You're waiting for bad news go go marry they're at peace with there wives. Aproko man

That means say bad news yakpa 😆

U30 = Underage marriage nah

Men wey marry before 30 years dey for north. You go need go there to get the info wey you want

Jangbajantis:
Marriage, I'm sorry, is a scam.

God created marriage as early as in Genesis chapter 2.
So it cant be a scam.
Go figure.

I married at 29 and wifey was 23... Rough at the beginning but we are 9 years together now. we r both financially stable and I would marry my wife, again, again again and again. One thing marriage did to me was it made me double-up in my hustles and invest like an obsession.

Me I got married at the age of 40.. and I no regret amm..