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Eddodoh:
They are usually like that. They believe that the best way to tame a man is to spread their legs. So u will enjoy excess seggz when u date them and they are usually sweet.
They rush things and want to manipulate u into marrying them.

I have one currently. She's not bad. I toasted her some years ago she refused, last Xmas I shoot my shot again and it clicked. She told me about her baby & the baby daddy who is an Army. Though I didn't know that she's a single mom initially. She told me how she has being the one taking care of the kid bcuz the guy is married to another woman.

She was happy having me around her and always talk about marriage. She requested that I support her to learn Make-up Artistry so she can also support me when we eventually marry. I collect enough opueh and japa!!

SeverusSnape:
No matter how perfect or well behaved a single mother is, The only condition that might make me marry her is if her baby daddy is deceased.

Mcreloaded:
Even at the most baby mama are seriously damaged and toxic goods.

Eddodoh:
They are usually like that. They believe that the best way to tame a man is to spread their legs. So u will enjoy excess seggz when u date them and they are usually sweet.
They rush things and want to manipulate u into marrying them.

Nefort:
Imagine a world where every non married woman abstains from sex. Do you think men will cope with that? I hope your sisters wouldn't be rape victims.

cr7lomo:
Was she raped?? U women always wanna make it seem like u are babies... getting pregnant is never the responsibility of a man...he isnt the one that has a womb...the one that has a womb should be the one that should close her legs if she doesn't wanna get pregnant.... men dont pregnate women ....women allow themselves to get pregnant...we are not in 1866... women are the gatekeeper of sex .... abi do men blame women and want women to be held accountable for getting broke after spending all his money on a woman... women aren't children....u want the benefits of adults but at the same time want the benefits of children... reason i said women wanna eat their cake and have it...but it isnt possible...the earlier u women accept ur mistakes and take responsibility and accountability for ur decisions...thats when una go start to de make adult decisions

hartson:
I no hold you ooo!Na Karma you go tell that one when it shows up.
Those other ones are not exonerated too.They too will tell Karma to free them when it starts hunting them down

Kenobsky:
The son's ended up behaving like women.
Since all he see around him is his Mom

Mcreloaded:
Many single mothers are on a revenge mission and some that unfortunately have daughters end up teaching their daughters to hate and use men with so much hate and crafty attitude.
The final lesson they impact on their daughters is to encourage them to leave any marriage or relationship that they cannot controll the man, after all their mother trained their daughters singlehandedly.
It takes the grace of God for a.single mother not to be damaged and by extension raising her daughter to be toxic towards the opposite sex and the cycle continue

advanceDNA:
Lol…u dey look for her trouble be that oooo…. Na there women logic dey end.. once e reach time to apply the advice they are giving other women’s son to their own sons and brother ……

Baba…. The day i see single mother dey para, threaten fire and hail stone for her son wey bring her fellow single mother home to marry.. na that time i know women brain get two compartment wey nor dey mix…..
One compartment go activate when dem ready to fvck up other women’s son, but once he reach their own son.. the real brain go show..

ebubeson:
We have single Mums that can make good wives, and no matter what the society says, there are single Mums that can make good homes.

If you look deeply, a single Mum having a child may not be the main issue of many guys, but below may be the issue many guys avoid single Mums in marriage.

(1) Fear of she cheating with her baby daddy: Do you know how painful it may be loving and supporting a single Mum only to discover she is sleeping with her baby daddy who may be so irresponsible.

(2) Fear of not being a father to her child or children: If after a man marries a single Mum and treats her child or children so well like a true father, and gets dumped in the future because he is not their biological, such may be so painful to him.

(3) Fear of divided emotions: A single Mum may be emotionally connected to both her husband and baby daddy. This might make her husband feel unsafe in the marriage; and if he expressed his concern, there may be outburst that he is just being insecure.


As a lady, never accept to get pregnant before marriage, no matter the promises given. Just avoid pre-marital sex. Again, if baby Daddies had married their baby Mamas, this issue may have subsided.

SeverusSnape:
No matter how perfect or well behaved a single mother is, The only condition that might make me marry her is if her baby daddy is deceased.

Na this kind of your comment dey make some young girls flush pikin wey them suffer born inside toilet, because of shame and fear.
Make una dey try do better.
After all, na men like una impregnate those ladies, come abandon them. no
They flushed their kid cos they have fish brain

What is complicated in don't get pregnant before marriage

Mariangeles:
Naso!

So, you can put your baggage on others, but can't handle other's baggage, abi?

MIKOLOWISKA:
They flushed their kid cos they have fish brain

What is complicated in don't get pregnant before marriage

SeverusSnape:
No matter how perfect or well behaved a single mother is, The only condition that might make me marry her is if her baby daddy is deceased.

MIKOLOWISKA:
that's a widow not single mother. Words have meaning

hartson:
I no hold you ooo!Na Karma you go tell that one when it shows up.
Those other ones are not exonerated too.They too will tell Karma to free them when it starts hunting them down

SeverusSnape:
No sir, If she wasn't legally married, Then she's NOT a widow.

Mariangeles:
No.
Rather, don't have sex before marriage.

Na una go still wan kpeme ontop that advice because una feel entitled to sex outside marriage.

Men that sleep with people's daughters outside marriage are nothing but thieves.

Eddodoh:
They are usually like that. They believe that the best way to tame a man is to spread their legs. So u will enjoy excess seggz when u date them and they are usually sweet.
They rush things and want to manipulate u into marrying them.

I have one currently. She's not bad. I toasted her some years ago she refused, last Xmas I shoot my shot again and it clicked. She told me about her baby & the baby daddy who is an Army. Though I didn't know that she's a single mom initially. She told me how she has being the one taking care of the kid bcuz the guy is married to another woman.

She was happy having me around her and always talk about marriage. She requested that I support her to learn Make-up Artistry so she can also support me when we eventually marry. I collect enough opueh and japa!!

ebubeson:
We have single Mums that can make good wives, and no matter what the society says, there are single Mums that can make good homes.

If you look deeply, a single Mum having a child may not be the main issue of many guys, but below may be the issue many guys avoid single Mums in marriage.

(1) Fear of she cheating with her baby daddy: Do you know how painful it may be loving and supporting a single Mum only to discover she is sleeping with her baby daddy who may be so irresponsible.

(2) Fear of not being a father to her child or children: If after a man marries a single Mum and treats her child or children so well like a true father, and gets dumped in the future because he is not their biological, such may be so painful to him.

(3) Fear of divided emotions: A single Mum may be emotionally connected to both her husband and baby daddy. This might make her husband feel unsafe in the marriage; and if he expressed his concern, there may be outburst that he is just being insecure.


As a lady, never accept to get pregnant before marriage, no matter the promises given. Just avoid pre-marital sex. Again, if baby Daddies had married their baby Mamas, this issue may have subsided.

Eddodoh:
They are usually like that. They believe that the best way to tame a man is to spread their legs. So u will enjoy excess seggz when u date them and they are usually sweet.
They rush things and want to manipulate u into marrying them.

I have one currently. She's not bad. I toasted her some years ago she refused, last Xmas I shoot my shot again and it clicked. She told me about her baby & the baby daddy who is an Army. Though I didn't know that she's a single mom initially. She told me how she has being the one taking care of the kid bcuz the guy is married to another woman.

She was happy having me around her and always talk about marriage. She requested that I support her to learn Make-up Artistry so she can also support me when we eventually marry. I collect enough opueh and japa!!

Mariangeles:
Na there them dey see you.

ebubeson:
We have single Mums that can make good wives, and no matter what the society says, there are single Mums that can make good homes.

If you look deeply, a single Mum having a child may not be the main issue of many guys, but below may be the issue many guys avoid single Mums in marriage.

(1) Fear of she cheating with her baby daddy: Do you know how painful it may be loving and supporting a single Mum only to discover she is sleeping with her baby daddy who may be so irresponsible.

(2) Fear of not being a father to her child or children: If after a man marries a single Mum and treats her child or children so well like a true father, and gets dumped in the future because he is not their biological, such may be so painful to him.

(3) Fear of divided emotions: A single Mum may be emotionally connected to both her husband and baby daddy. This might make her husband feel unsafe in the marriage; and if he expressed his concern, there may be outburst that he is just being insecure.


As a lady, never accept to get pregnant before marriage, no matter the promises given. Just avoid pre-marital sex. Again, if baby Daddies had married their baby Mamas, this issue may have subsided.

Eddodoh:
They are usually like that. They believe that the best way to tame a man is to spread their legs. So u will enjoy excess seggz when u date them and they are usually sweet.
They rush things and want to manipulate u into marrying them.

I have one currently. She's not bad. I toasted her some years ago she refused, last Xmas I shoot my shot again and it clicked. She told me about her baby & the baby daddy who is an Army. Though I didn't know that she's a single mom initially. She told me how she has being the one taking care of the kid bcuz the guy is married to another woman.

She was happy having me around her and always talk about marriage. She requested that I support her to learn Make-up Artistry so she can also support me when we eventually marry. I collect enough opueh and japa!!

Mariangeles:
What about the ones that raise sons?
What become of the sons [men]?

Single mothers don't only raise daughters, you know?

TossTos:
I so much like all of the comments I read so far and God Bless Brotherhood.. if this thread/topic can spread to reach everywhere it will be so good maybe this will serve as caution to most of our ladies that 97% of men do not want to have anything to do with single mother ( exclude Widow and the cause for her being a widow needs to be studied) . I so much want one woman to have me all of my children and not have additional kid or children from another father.. those ladies that are single mothers are not ready to stay with a man , they sees themselves better off the man they want to marry or stay with it , they want to be free and not controlled, they switch Sides , them feminist, bad parenting and bad influence.. you will see many of this single mother teaching their mates to leave, if the man is not this , he's not that forgetting we're coming together to form a team and accept our shortcomings and amend things but No .. they think life will be always smooth and man must always ready to provide .. when you asked them why you left your baby father , answers will be , he's not responsible, he's not doing this , he's not doing that .. I can never marry a single mother Never will I do that because she will not stay .. the one that have me my only daughter was not a single mother but her brain is wired to be a single mother , she preferred to be at her parent house ( as I even rush to build my personal house , when I found she's pregnant.. I can't even say this is what I did wrong but she wanted to be free and not be under anybody's controll, monetarily, I tried ( 30k-25k every 10days ) but she chooses her parent house and her mum is in support . Her dad could not say a word against her action because her mom is the boss at their house .I just had to pause and keep observing afar off .. I don't chase her , no any form of domestic violence from me to her, nothing, so pathetic, men.. Single mothers are the author of what happened to them and i will never date or marry any.. i typed epistle , that's because I'm pained

hartson:
I no hold you ooo!Na Karma you go tell that one when it shows up.
Those other ones are not exonerated too.They too will tell Karma to free them when it starts hunting them down