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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Emdi1914: 1:15pm On Mar 23

Welcome to Gen Z.I wonder how the future might be..,AI might take the place of human beings very soon

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by CodeTemplar: 1:17pm On Mar 23

I recommend you omotola n genevaeve.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Dotherightthing: 1:18pm On Mar 23

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

Set up an establishment.

Employ ladies.

From there, you will get your wife.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by callmetade: 1:19pm On Mar 23

SpencerForbes:
We order them from Jumia. I think Black Friday is next week, maybe they might be cheap if we wait till then

have you tried Temu? They can even come in different nationalities

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by OredoPikin: 1:24pm On Mar 23

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

Thank God I developed the habit of staying alone
I can stay alone for months without any woman visiting me and I don't even feel it.

My baby can come and i won't even know she is there

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by meobizy(m): 1:28pm On Mar 23

Is DealDey still in Nigeria? With the fake products they supply, OP will be more than happy to accept a girlfriend from the source.

SixSeven:
Temu has better deals.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by samuelson06(m): 1:29pm On Mar 23

stanvesco:
See paragraph 4&5
Na where ur wahala deyne that!
It's as tho the women you want don't want you and the ones that may accept you ; you berate them.

You want a 10/10 but cannot afford them or compete for them,but the 5&6/10 are beneath you?

Hmmmmmmm

I think I understand his story. He's gotten to a certain level in life and doesn't want girls that are barely surviving, but the ones that are also doing well see themselves too big to work with him. It's an unfortunate situation. I'll advise he doesn't settle for less nonetheless. In this country, the line between poverty and just doing well with family is very thin and no man should make the mistake of marrying a woman he knows can't contribute in any way.

Cc: Drifter02

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by meobizy(m): 1:29pm On Mar 23

Check now, the boy is likely under twenty-six years of age. I won’t waste my time trying to advise him. He’ll reject everything.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Lovit(m): 1:31pm On Mar 23

It's an irony that there are many ladies out there who want a man to marry seriously and there are a few men still looking for a wife and yet can't find one, everyone is looking for a partner yet can't find despite the dating pool filled with young people.

bro, give your specification to a good married woman (either your senior sister or your friend's wife or even your pastor's wife. They will get you a good lady. But remember that you too must be marriageable and you must also date her to confirm that both of you are compactible

I wish you good luck!

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Druss(m): 1:31pm On Mar 23

Meanwhile it is now in my latter years I am seeing many solid available ladies ... That are single.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Emdi1914: 1:33pm On Mar 23

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

On a more serious note, it's seems the main problem here is that you are just looking for girls and you aren't focused on looking for the "the woman you love".

See, going after attractive girls and going after a woman you love are two different scenarios entirely...,you will be frustrated in one,and you will be patient and at peace in the other.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Breaker001: 1:39pm On Mar 23*

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

After reading your post, I will just be blunt with you. It's easy to deduce that you are your own problem. Psychologically speaking, it's very likely that you will not be a good husband. Sorry, if I sounded too strong but it's very obvious. It takes a lot than ego to be a husband.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Mathewrichard99: 1:43pm On Mar 23

You are still a local gamer bro.....We have started ordering them from e-bay and Alibaba....come and see beauty! Very neat and highly sophisticated....any how you want them......just try e-bay and Alibaba next time you are ordering babes....😂😂😂

SpencerForbes:
We order them from Jumia. I think Black Friday is next week, maybe they might be cheap if we wait till then

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by MrJames007: 1:45pm On Mar 23

"The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing."

Hmmm.

Keep searching....

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by SixSeven: 1:46pm On Mar 23

meobizy:
Is DealDey still in Nigeria? With the fake products they supply, OP will be more than happy to accept a girlfriend from the source.

I wanted to recommend Konga because the name is a metaphor for what he's looking for but Temu was what I chose. grin

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by masterfactor(m): 1:48pm On Mar 23

Ikennaford:
What do you mean, Northern girls that's loose and cheap, kaduna, nasarawa, plateU, jos,,, omo those ones bad, infections everywhere don't advice any man from east to marry from northern states, biko

Dude, I stayed in the East for good 5 years, I can tell you what you wrote up there is what your ladies over there are known for, do we want to talk about how they look beautiful physically, but when you go down there, what you see is enough to make you tremble. I would have say it the way it is but because of been ban. I rest my case.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by JuanDeDios: 1:50pm On Mar 23

intruder15:
You are looking at the wrong things. Which is why you may be single for a long time. Financial strength isn't part of what a man serious for marriage should look out for. It encompass all shades of gbas gbos.

Look out for core values. Does the person have sense? Is the person remorseful? Can she help you grow wealth by not billing you on unnecessary things?

My 2 cents.

If money is part of what you look out for, then restrict your search to work colleagues or work referrals. However, anything you see, embrace it will less shock.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by kimjessey2019: 1:51pm On Mar 23

Brother obviously go for baddies, looks or young in brain girls. There are so much decent working class ladies disrespectly looking for husband right now.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by JuanDeDios: 1:52pm On Mar 23

Dotherightthing:
Set up an establishment.

Employ ladies.

From there, you will get your wife.

This may sound funny, but it works.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by DeepSight(m): 1:53pm On Mar 23

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

+
How old are you and how long have you been single.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by bobogogo: 1:54pm On Mar 23

SpencerForbes:
We order them from Jumia. I think Black Friday is next week, maybe they might be cheap if we wait till then

You are wicked bro!

grin

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Host78: 1:59pm On Mar 23

Drifter02:
1. Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

2. I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

These two are your problems.

The women may be a problem on their own but you're also your own problem and you don't see it.

What woman would want to go into a relationship with a man who's not crazy about sex?

It may sound immature. Not cool. And so trivial but the whole whole comes from sex.

Women want sex. Women are sexual beings. They dream of having a man who finds them irresistible.

One that they bat their eyes and he gets a hard on immediately.

So when you say you sex is so trivial and you don't want it, you automatically look like a boy. Not a man.

Secondly, you're hunting for a woman to complete you instead of you completing her.

A woman should revolve around your world not you around hers. You should bring her spice, not her bringing taste to your life.

You're lonely and actually feeling the lonely and now you're banking on her to put you out of your misery.

Bro, this two mindsets defeats your goal of finding a girl to marry.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Rhassidy360: 1:59pm On Mar 23

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

You will find love when you least expect it. Please don’t rush. Go to the cinemas, spend more time outdoors, and visit good, decent places you’ll meet the right person there

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Mrexcell(m): 2:04pm On Mar 23

That's just the sad reality on ground these days nigerian ladies have totally become something else it takes only God's intervention to find a reasonable lady to settle down with as a wife in this country. Many nigerian single ladies are either highly possessed with demonic spirits or terribly badly brought up.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Mar 23

Mathewrichard99:
You are still a local gamer bro.....We have started ordering them from e-bay and Alibaba....come and see beauty! Very neat and highly sophisticated....any how you want them......just try e-bay and Alibaba next time you are ordering babes....😂😂😂

See as una just dey hide update for your pocket! So while I’ve been out here camping on Jumia, you people are already enjoying 'direct entry' babes from Alibaba?

Boss, abeg find one second-hand Alibaba babe for us way be upcoming hustlers. I’ll be grateful! This Black Friday is only giving me black heartbreaks because they are only giving me entitled Nigerian babes embarassed

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by ElValiente(m): 2:13pm On Mar 23

North or Neighbouring countries. grin

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by gigabyte13: 2:17pm On Mar 23

Focus on yourself and keep leveling up, the ones that fits your standard will find you.
The more you chase after women the farther they move away from you.
The lesser attention you give them
The more of your attention they crave for.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Mar 23

callmetade:
have you tried Temu? They can even come in different nationalities

Make person no go carry wife way go break my tiny heart.

We all know say Temu no dey ever give person original spec. Imagine saying I order 6ft model wife, only for them to ship one 4ft portable 'pocket-size' dwarf give me. Abeg, I go just stick to the ones I see for my backyard. I no fit shout before Temu will give me what I ordered vs what I got.

Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by aswani(m): 2:22pm On Mar 23

Drifter02:
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The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Not sure how old you are but you are looking for a perfect woman which doesn't exist. You better go and find the ones you have mentioned above to manage and try to mould one into the way you want.

To those like Kọbọ that will start crying about me saying he should mould a woman into the way he wants, it cuts both ways. If the op was a woman, I would tell them the sane thing to manage what's on ground and try and mould them in the way they want.

If the moulding fails it fails but at least you tried.

No perfect babe anywhere, pipo jus dey manage wetin dem get dey face wetin den dey face for inside house.

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Re: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by wunmi590(m): 2:22pm On Mar 23

There are alot of decent Nigerian girls, its just that, most are hidden, and you have to fight to get them..

I courted my wife for more than 15years, before we got married and it has been joy all the way..

Just find 2 babe study them and go for the one that is best and would be able to love you for who you are

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