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You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

The best thing to do is just to stop pestering her.

Imagine begging someone who's of no value most of the time to come into your life to come and bill you all in the name of relationship.

Sonnobax15:

The best thing to do is just to stop pestering her.

Imagine begging someone who's of no value most of the time to come into your life to come and bill you all in the name of relationship.

as in ehn. Most Nigerian guys too mumu.

The female gender only understands one currency. Thats attention, stop feeding them the attention and u'll realize that the girl u were rating 8.5 is actually a 2.5.

Money aside, Attention is Key.

We need to start teaching people Detachment, its very healthy and learnable. Ask any girl, they may not wanna snitch on themselves but they hate been denied attention

If it was for love and she says no, let her go

But if that punny must be chop, guy keep pestering her. She must yield, after collecting, pass it on

Natbrowny:
The female gender only understands one currency. Thats attention, stop feeding them the attention and u'll realize that the girl u were rating 8.5 is actually a 2.5.

Money aside, Attention is Key.

We need to start teaching people Detachment, its very healthy and learnable. Ask any girl, they may not wanna snitch on themselves but they hate been denied attention

Go to any bar and collect anything in my name, I'll pay

ITbomb:
If it was for love and she says no, let her go

But if that punny must be chop, guy keep pestering her. She must yield, after collecting, pass it on

She'll never give it to you, and even if she wants to, it'll take months and years. Something other men got the same day and next day they met her, why then will you keep simping for her for months because you want to taste her forbidden fruits?

Dude, pester a girl too much, esp one who isn't interested in you and watch her block you and blacklist your number. A girl interested in you wouldn't play hard to get. She won't play games with you. Anything else is a complete waste of time! Don't be a finished man! Delete her number and move on. Girls full everywhere.

U must have the abundance mindset. This is exactly why girls love the bad guys

Sonnobax15:

The best thing to do is just to stop pestering her.

Imagine begging someone who's of no value most of the time to come into your life to come and bill you all in the name of relationship.

Spoken like a true son of the soil

Tell her thank you for helping you keep your money.

Not a big deal😁 na you won explain

Goo0dHardDick:
You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

Well, a woman will most likely still play hard to get, with a man she really likes. Especially with their ingrain mindset of not wanting to be seen as 'cheap'.

Goo0dHardDick:
You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

Eventhough I don't like you here but you are so on point. 💯

I don't understand pestering for expenses

i simply go home and take chill nono.

There are more than 100 million single women in this country alone.

If you go out a lot and you're neat, I swear, women won't be your problem.... You don't even need to have a car... Just have a nice place no matter how small ,have something doing,be neat(No mouth or body odor) and you go out a lot, I swear you'll be the one to run from women.

ITbomb:
If it was for love and she says no, let her go

But if that punny must be chop, guy keep pestering her. She must yield, after collecting, pass it on

Guy. Lmao.

Even if na for punany. Still walk away. What's the point of pleading with someone, who you will spend on her and the likes, and she still won't appreciate you. There are many out there, why waste your time pestering one. L

Next thing they'll say is that you were not persistent enough if you ghost her after the first no.

A man determines if commitment should happen so if anything he should be the prize. But unfortunately simps and thirsty guys have put these bannys on a pedestal that make them feel like goddesses.

Smart men don't ask women out. They use body language to sneak into a relationship and get what they want, but if her character changes, they sneak out. It's all about acting like her boyfriend without asking her out and stop acting as her boyfriend when she misbehaves.

She must be the one to ask for a relationship by saying, "So what are we?" By then, una done knack taya like couples and she now wants to know her position in your life.

I can't ask a woman out more than 1 time.
if she say I should give her time to think about it , that's okay but once she say no, that's final

Deny a woman attention and you’ve cut off her oxygen.

Relationships are a balancing act between when vs quantity of attention.

You leave her and move to the next available girl

What many of you guys fail to understand is that Women are not to be taken seriously.

That is the secret OGs like me know that many men don't know.

A woman's NO is not direct like a man NO

Women are like the weather
There are times when the cloud looks like heavy rain want to fall then in couple mins sun comes out and shine
That is how women are. Just like the weather

When she says No
1. You meet her at the wrong moment
Maybe she is having a shitty day
Having menstutal cramps
She is very nervous or shy
Or she feels sad that day.

As little as these things may seem
They play a huge role in her reply

That is why real OGs try agiian I'm a different setting. And if the reply is the same then move on.

You just don't give up on the first NO
You have to do a 2 factor authentication
The first No can be nervousness
The second No is the final straw.

If you know how many girls that swore to never do anything with me if they visit.
Still they come and infact na them come knack pass me.

So in summary, A woman NO depends on many factors.

If you meet her during ovulation
She is more likely to say YES

Hormones control women like mad
Today she will like you
Tomorrow she will dislike you lol

ITbomb:
If it was for love and she says no, let her go

But if that punny must be chop, guy keep pestering her. She must yield, after collecting, pass it on

If this is your mentality then you need to grow up.

No means noooooooooooooo

No issue then. A bi? Life continues

I don't force things, if it happens fine, if it doesn't who gives a heck ?

But I'm 💯 sure that I'm every woman's speck. They hardly resist my touch immediately I shake them, plus my build and physique go a long way to do a lot of magic for me.

Men with good intentions hardly pester women who say NO.

Most times men pester women, it's because they want to chop and clean mouth.

Another thread
Another topic
To be a woman….

Laslas Una go marry woman except you be homo