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joseph1832:
Well, a woman will most likely still play hard to get, with a man she really likes. Especially with their ingrain mindset of not wanting to be seen as 'cheap'.

Is either she’s in a serious relationship that’s why she’s playing hard if not any lady that likes you and she’s not attached to anyone will show interest immediately.

Don't ever tell a woman that you wanna date her. Just chyke her as usual and be only friend with her.

Take only your hustle serious, be very neat, take care of your mouth/tooth to always smell nice, always keep clean and sharp.

That's all you need👍. Never choose anyone who's not worth it. Just be normal friends and nothing more until it worth it.

Don't ever do serious relationship until you meet a woman that can also add value to your life too and family. I mean a a woman who's a giver like you and not a selfish and crafty collector woman.

You asked a girl out and she said no , then Leave . Leave o... ehn .. before e turn you to global reserve bank , if you stay , her colleagues will tell her to dey ask money from you and pretend like she will say yes.. them plenty for this side ..

Goo0dHardDick:
You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

This may be somewhat right but not in its entirety.
A girl who doesn't like you now maybe for some may eventually do.
What is important is give some space, go through someone close to her and if indeed she just want you it'll be Clea after those efforts.

joseph1832:
Well, a woman will most likely still play hard to get, with a man she really likes. Especially with their ingrain mindset of not wanting to be seen as 'cheap'.

A woman who is interested in you won't play hard to get. You need to see how women acts when they're truly into a guy. They know if they stress him or play hard to get he'll move on.

When a woman is interested in you, you'll know. Hard to get simply means she's not interested in YOU.

Tenrack:
as in ehn. Most Nigerian guys too mumu.

at some point we all fell to that scam so stop acting indestructible.

Most guys knows this ..

I think most guys still doing the chasing after multiple rejection are just obsessed about the Lady's toto and not in having a romantic future building relationship with her ...

Cause the min they get that, they flee ..

On the flip side though, women don use international man and real man whyne most men out there.. So some do believe , continually going for the said lady would shows his through intentions and shows how serious he Is about her..
Bull all na scam ...

Girl wey go like you , na she go dey everything to be in your space ..


Ive had that on few occasions ...

BalogunIdowu:
This may be somewhat right but not in its entirety.
A girl who doesn't like you now maybe for some may eventually do.
What is important is give some space, go through someone close to her and if indeed she just want you it'll be Clea after those efforts.

That's her game all along and you fell completely for it.

The whole game is for you to keep pushing and chasing with the hopes that'll she change her mind someday. That's a losers mentality! A girl who changed her mind and came back didn't like you and never will. She only reached out to you because you stopped giving her attention which she enjoys and attention fuels a woman's ego.

Understand that you'll never see the colour of her pants. And anything she does for you is out of pity! A woman can reach out to you if the other guys she wanted stops giving her attention or doesn't have time for her anymore.

That "give her space" is the time she's using to visit and have fun with other guys she considers hot enough to offer her honey to. Move on and stop hoping

Bani wey like you won't stress you. Know this and know peace. Is only a simp that will pressure a lady to like him.

fyneboi79:
at some point we all fell to that scam so stop acting indestructible.

I'm not acting indestructible. I've been there. And it's painful to watch others do the same. It's almost like it's now normal for us naija guys to be foolish in relationships

Tenrack:
I'm not acting indestructible. I've been there. And it's painful to watch others do the same. It's almost like it's now normal for us naija guys to be foolish in relationships

But that's the fun in it..to see men evolve naturally from naivety to wisdom.

Mirasteel:
If this is your mentality then you need to grow up.

Make una no dey act like say na una be tough guy pass. Most of una saying I go leave her after the first no, don chase and chase girls tire until some give in or gave you serious warning. Na to come online dey form jandor most of una be

My only problem is that 7 out of ten women we hit on are single mothers...what are the future chances?

Julibet:
Next thing they'll say is that you were not persistent enough if you ghost her after the first no.

A man determines if commitment should happen so if anything he should be the prize. But unfortunately simps and thirsty guys have put these bannys on a pedestal that make them feel like goddesses.

That's the manipulation. She wants you to continue chasing while it fuels her ego. Attention fuels a woman's ego.

Don't chase, ghost her completely or delete her number. If she reaches out, relax and take your time to respond. The response should be in a week or More it must be about inviting her over to your place. Anything else is irrelevant

iLegendd:
Smart men don't ask women out. They use body language to sneak into a relationship and get what they want, but if her character changes, they sneak out. It's all about acting like her boyfriend without asking her out and stop acting as her boyfriend when she misbehaves.

This is called emotional stimulation!

It's called mind games!

Indeed you're a Legend 🙌

I came with wizzy

And we came in a porsch


She can't say no

Honies play me close like butter play toast

From the Mississippi
Down to the east coast
Condos in Queens
Indoors for weeks


Girls used to diss me
Now they write letters that they miss me

Goo0dHardDick:
A woman who is interested in you won't play hard to get. You need to see how women acts when they're truly into a guy. They know if they stress him or play hard to get he'll move on.

When a woman is interested in you, you'll know. Hard to get simply means she's not interested in YOU.

So a woman doesn't know you from Adam will just be interested in you once you woe her. My friend most of this things takes some little time

I made it from a common thief
Up close and personal with Robin leach

And I'm far from cheap

Smoke stuffxxxxx with my niggies all day

Spread love is the Brooklyn way

RollinTNDA:
What many of you guys fail to understand is that Women are not to be taken seriously.

That is the secret OGs like me know that many men don't know.

A woman's NO is not direct like a man NO

Women are like the weather
There are times when the cloud looks like heavy rain want to fall then in couple mins sun comes out and shine
That is how women are. Just like the weather

When she says No
1. You meet her at the wrong moment
Maybe she is having a shitty day
Having menstutal cramps
She is very nervous or shy
Or she feels sad that day.

As little as these things may seem
They play a huge role in her reply

That is why real OGs try agiian I'm a different setting. And if the reply is the same then move on.

You just don't give up on the first NO
You have to do a 2 factor authentication
The first No can be nervousness
The second No is the final straw.

If you know how many girls that swore to never do anything with me if they visit.
Still they come and infact na them come knack pass me.

So in summary, A woman NO depends on many factors.

If you meet her during ovulation
She is more likely to say YES

Hormones control women like mad
Today she will like you
Tomorrow she will dislike you lol

A girl coming to visit a girl definitely wants knacking nau. Everyone knows this.

Chatting with a girl and you ask a out or you meet a girl on the road, collected her number and asked her out and she says NO! Respect yourself and move on!

Inasmuch I understand the Street OT codes, a girl who isn't interested in you or the knack, esp when she's not giving you any hints, kindly leave alone and move on

Goo0dHardDick:
This is called emotional stimulation!

It's called mind games!

Indeed you're a Legend 🙌

If the sex is great or the best she has ever had during that period, she knows you have options, you're not bother or needy when it comes to women, but two of you fell apart cuz you found a red flag and drifted without discussing it, she'll still come back to you for regular knacking even though she's now in a new relationship.

It seems women have found out men are using this format cuz I watched Tiktok videos of women complaining about men doing it. 😂

Goo0dHardDick:
That's her game all along and you fell completely for it.

The whole game is for you to keep pushing and chasing with the hopes that'll she change her mind someday. That's a losers mentality! A girl who changed her mind and came back didn't like you and never will. She only reached out to you because you stopped giving her attention which she enjoys and attention fuels a woman's ego.

Understand that you'll never see the colour of her pants. And anything she does for you is out of pity! A woman can reach out to you if the other guys she wanted stops giving her attention or doesn't have time for her anymore.

That "give her space" is the time she's using to visit and have fun with other guys she considers hot enough to offer her honey to. Move on and stop hoping

I absolutely disagree with you sir, speaking from experience.
I had a girl I approached, she didn't welcome my approach, so I withdrew.
She later came around and she was the one in charge, she was giving the love and I was the receiver.

What amazed me was that she doesn't want my gifts or money,I tried giving her things but most times she would reject.
I didn't approach her for her body, but she was the one always asking for sex.

The thing is,when a woman rejects you, don't be angry with her, just move on with your life, she might come around.

Kalulu44:
So a woman doesn't know you from Adam will just be interested in you once you woe her. My friend most of this things takes some little time

You don't know women!

This is a girl I met 2 days ago and we were supposed to meet yesterday but I was busy and she couldn't reach me. Today just this afternoon, she texted me again asking when will I be chanced because she wants to come over to my place.

Dude, you don't know women! Women are 2x lustful far more than men. If a woman finds you attractive, that is when you'll know all these "it takes time" is completely trash. Women play games and extend it for men they don't want. Hence the statement it takes time. That same girl will see a guy she finds hot and attractive and will quickly want to visit him asap. Meanwhile you're there waiting and hoping because in your mind, you believe it'll take time.

Don't be a finished man

Emdi1914:
I absolutely disagree with you sir, speaking from experience.
I had a girl I approached, she didn't welcome my approach, so I withdrew.
She later came around and she was the one in charge, she was giving the love and I was the receiver.

What amazed me was that she doesn't want my gifts or money,I tried giving her things but most times she would reject.
I didn't approach her for her body, but she was the one always asking for sex.

The thing is,when a woman rejects you, don't be angry with her, just move on with your life, she might come around.

She might consider you when the other guys she wants are done with her.

You were her second option. That's the whole point!

Men with standards don't hang around waiting for a woman to choose them. This is where the bad guys come in

iLegendd:
If the sex is great or the best she has ever had during that period, she knows you have options, you're not bother or needy when it comes to women, but two of you fell apart cuz you found a red flag and drifted without discussing it, she'll still come back to you for regular knacking even though she's now in a new relationship.

It seems women have found out men are using this format cuz I watched Tiktok videos of women complaining about men doing it. 😂

You know the game very well.

I am just the knacking guy in a girl's life, meanwhile they all have serious boyfriends.

Goo0dHardDick:
You know the game very well.

I am just the knacking guy in a girl's life, meanwhile they all have serious boyfriends.

You're their bestie. The disadvantage is, you'll know too many secrets and you'll never trust anything a woman says cuz they'll lie in front of you when their main guys call. With this, you'll be so scared to be any woman's main guy.

There's one thing I noticed among guys here on NL. They always come here to claim or form hard when it comes to women affairs, just so that other guys won't look down on them or call them simp. While in reality they're soft like bread when it comes to women.
At Op and others agreeing with you, so you expect a woman that doesn't know you from Adam to just say yes to you when you ask out for the first time. Tell yourself the truth, immediately she says yes, what comes to most of you minds. Ah! This one no oshofree or very loose. And you immediately go ahead to chop her.
See let's tell ourselves the truth, a girl that doesn't know you and you approach her and she says yes, must have been you parked a car beside her or you look very rich. All she sees at the moment while saying yes is what she will get or gain from you, though she may like or love you later on.
But as for area girl, work area girl or school girl that you have been eyeing and maybe she also somehow knows you or noticing your moves. If she says no the first time doesn't mean it's all over or should stop trying. Second time of trying is not a bad idea, just like someone said up there. Her mood may have brought that first no. It's when she said no for the second time that you bounce and leave her alone.
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And on a lighter note, do guys still toast babes. The in thing is just try and be friends with her and get close to her circle. from there if things wants to click it will click, if will not you will know and then bounce

iLegendd:
You're their bestie. The disadvantage is, you'll know too many secrets and you'll never trust anything a woman says cuz they'll lie in front of you when their main guys call. With this, you'll be so scared to be any woman's main guy.

I don't think I'll ever get married in this life.

These girls are literally on my bed billing their boyfriends and collect money from them back to back. Some tells their bf that they're in the market rn and wants money to buy a particular thing meanwhile my hard rock in side their forbidden fruits throughout those calls.

I weep for my fellow men, esp those ones who usually take a girl serious. The ones always screaming my baby, my girlfriend this and that, I weep for them

Goo0dHardDick:
Go to any bar and collect anything in my name, I'll pay

My chairman. I hail.
Abeg go pay mama nkechi oo. I don down 13 Big stout and 2 catfish PPS.

Bossman. Gbaaaaam

There are over 1 billion young single women in the world for you to bother about one broad that doesn't like you.

It is not true, some guys play hard to get, so that you don't get cheap or present themselves cheap

Goo0dHardDick:
She might consider you when the other guys she wants are done with her.

You were her second option. That's the whole point!

Men with standards don't hang around waiting for a woman to choose them. This is where the bad guys come in

There is no hanging around man,"you withdraw and move on with your life, your passions". You aren't seeking for her to come around, you pursue the life you love to lead.

And we don't just approach women..,we approach women we love,and that can be 1 in a hundred thousand.
And if we are "her second option", second option that brings about lots of love, RESPECT and no gold digging,no drama, peace of mind..,man,I want to be more of that second option