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Goo0dHardDick:
You don't know women!

This is a girl I met 2 days ago and we were supposed to meet yesterday but I was busy and she couldn't reach me. Today just this afternoon, she texted me again asking when will I be chanced because she wants to come over to my place.

Dude, you don't know women! Women are 2x lustful far more than men. If a woman finds you attractive, that is when you'll know all these "it takes time" is completely trash. Women play games and extend it for men they don't want. Hence the statement it takes time. That same girl will see a guy she finds hot and attractive and will quickly want to visit him asap. Meanwhile you're there waiting and hoping because in your mind, you believe it'll take time.

Don't be a finished man

I'm not disputing this your claim, but it doesn't happen all the time. I can even say this particular girl has seen something in you that she thinks she can gain from.
Maybe how you package yourself and all that or you might have approach her with a car parked by the side or thru your spending around where she was.

ukaface:
Another thread
Another topic
To be a woman….

Laslas Una go marry woman except you be homo

Lol 😂😂 women, women, women, just imagine a world without women.

Kalulu44:
I'm not disputing this your claim, but it doesn't happen all the time. I can even say this particular girl has seen something in you that she thinks she can gain from.
Maybe how you package yourself and all that or you might have approach her with a car parked by the side or thru your spending around where she was.

Exactly!

That's exactly what I'm talking about.

But there are some girls even with all your packaging, car, how you spend around where she was etc, she still doesn't want you. What would you do in such situation? Give her more time when she clearly told you that she isn't interested? That's my point!

It's wisdom to respect yourself and move on, Instead of waiting and hoping she'll change her mind. A girl who's interested won't play hard to get! From the way she constantly makes effort to reach out to you, you'll know she's interested and invested in you. Other ones with pride and ego, leave them alone and move on

Emdi1914:
There is no hanging around man,"you withdraw and move on with your life, your passions". You aren't seeking for her to come around, you pursue the life you love to lead.

And we don't just approach women..,we approach women we love,and that can be 1 in a hundred thousand.
And if we are "her second option", second option that brings about lots of love, RESPECT and no gold digging,no drama, peace of mind..,man,I want to be more of that second option

Good luck.

I'll stick with a virgin wife instead. Not a second option for someone looking to retire from her active membership of fun days.

Natbrowny:
The female gender only understands one currency. Thats attention, stop feeding them the attention and u'll realize that the girl u were rating 8.5 is actually a 2.5.

Money aside, Attention is Key.

We need to start teaching people Detachment, its very healthy and learnable. Ask any girl, they may not wanna snitch on themselves but they hate been denied attention

There is this lady I didn't ask out but I actually liked her.She is even older than me a little.I used to gift her money (money I can afford to loose though), attention and am generous to her over all within my power that time.So I noticed that she doesn't like me but she likes the resources I was giving her.So,i do text are on Whatsapp too when she wasn't around and called her and one day,I texted her baby in my greetings and she was like "brotherly" I challenged her about it and she got annoyed and stopped replying my chats totally and stopped picking my calls.Moving on,i stopped all the attention, Care and generousity and she started noticing it trying to come close.I didn't give in.Well, we later settled but,I detached from her completely and that was when i had access to her(we had sex thrice).Even when I had my way i still behaved as if I don't care.Table turned and all the calling and texts where coming from her
Been a while I saw her last though

Goo0dHardDick:
Good luck.

I'll stick with a virgin wife instead. Not a second option for someone looking to retire from her active membership of fun days.

Oh Lord! After sleeping around with other people's daughters, you want a virgin wife?

Good luck with having your cake and eating it too, Good luck!

Kemadealadire:
Lol 😂😂 women, women, women, just imagine a world without women.

Them go too suffer
They no Dey allow us drink water drop cup
Yet they don’t know their existence started from a woman.

Goo0dHardDick:
Exactly!

That's exactly what I'm talking about.

But there are some girls even with all your packaging, car, how you spend around where she was etc, she still doesn't want you. What would you do in such situation? Give her more time when she clearly told you that she isn't interested? That's my point!

It's wisdom to respect yourself and move on, Instead of waiting and hoping she'll change her mind. A girl who's interested won't play hard to get! From the way she constantly makes effort to reach out to you, you'll know she's interested and invested in you. Other ones with pride and ego, leave them alone and move on

Go to my main comment on this your post and see my general point of view of the matter.

Just tell her, it was a prank.

My own be say as a guy man, you can tell when a girls like you but she is just playing hard to get so don't see her as cheap.

If that's not the case, if she says No. Just leave her and focus on other things that matter so you no go dey mumu yourself.

I think this guys is still a learner

Goo0dHardDick:
You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

ITbomb:
If it was for love and she says no, let her go

But if that punny must be chop, guy keep pestering her. She must yield, after collecting, pass it on

See you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You think she doesn't know that's what most guys want, anyway?

With the "pestering" comes billing, treats, meals, etc, before she gives you the degraded thing you've been thirsting after, that even she doesn't value so much again, afterall.

iLegendd:
Smart men don't ask women out. They use body language to sneak into a relationship and get what they want, but if her character changes, they sneak out. It's all about acting like her boyfriend without asking her out and stop acting as her boyfriend when she misbehaves.

She must be the one to ask for a relationship by saying, "So what are we?" By then, una done knack taya like couples and she now wants to know her position in your life.

ajeh the punary sef go don dey cry

Women cheap pass biscuits

Goo0dHardDick:
You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

I greeted a girl I liked one day she answered then I told her I'll like her to give me one minute, she said no. I said okay then left. She came the next day to buy something from my granny store I attended to her well, she even thanked me self I just acted like I've never met her before that day. That's all I do with other girls, if you reject my advance I face front and even greet you but never will I talk about anything romance again, to me you've lost your chance and I have always believe there's always girls out there who will like me so why should I waste time on someone who doesn't.

Goo0dHardDick:
You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

In hardly received rejections back then. The lady whom i truly loved turned me down and it hurt so badly. I left her. I was in my final year then while she was a jambite. She had a guy in her life though, who promised her a serious relationship. She often told me she was at her final bus stop.

3 years later i was incidentally posted to the same kwara as a regional representative after I had graduated and served. I was so lucky as it was my 2nd employment in such a short time. I went to tour my alma mater and I sighted her at the bus stop on campus. She was so excited. We exchanged greetings and phone numbers.

Weeks later she said she was sorry for turning me down as the guy later disappointed her. E don too late and I told her i already had a fiancee. She fell so sad but its ok. Till today she's still regretting it.

Now to any lady seeing this message, always have an plan B, especially now that genuine relationship is fading. Don't stick to one guy absolutely. That doesn't mean you should allow them sleep with you as is the case nowadays. Don't task them so it doesn't sound like you're after their money. Reject some suspicious gifts while you restate your commitment to a serious relationship and pay them a visit in open places alternatively. You're not double-dating as there's no sexual or financial commitment between both of you. You'd be respected this way. As the race begins, you'll know the serious type and the one who just wanted your pound of flesh in no time. Naso e be in olden days.

I hope ladies can embrace this tip.

Attention is the oxygen an average woman deeply craves!
Attention is a kryptonite over a lady by a guy!
Dont make it cheap and worthless by giving it to a lady who doesn't deserve it!

Goo0dHardDick:
That's her game all along and you fell completely for it.

The whole game is for you to keep pushing and chasing with the hopes that'll she change her mind someday. That's a losers mentality! A girl who changed her mind and came back didn't like you and never will. She only reached out to you because you stopped giving her attention which she enjoys and attention fuels a woman's ego.

Understand that you'll never see the colour of her pants. And anything she does for you is out of pity! A woman can reach out to you if the other guys she wanted stops giving her attention or doesn't have time for her anymore.

That "give her space" is the time she's using to visit and have fun with other guys she considers hot enough to offer her honey to. Move on and stop hoping

Alright I hear you

My point remains, everything is not black and white

Haydens:
I don't force things, if it happens fine, if it doesn't who gives a heck ?

But I'm 💯 sure that I'm every woman's speck. They hardly resist my touch immediately I shake them, plus my build and physique go a long way to do a lot of magic for me.

You ask you
Poor thing

iLegendd:
Smart men don't ask women out. They use body language to sneak into a relationship and get what they want, but if her character changes, they sneak out. It's all about acting like her boyfriend without asking her out and stop acting as her boyfriend when she misbehaves.

She must be the one to ask for a relationship by saying, "So what are we?" By then, una done knack taya like couples and she now wants to know her position in your life.

Lol. The Answer will be we are what we are😄

There's nothing wrong in a woman to avoid being cheap. It's just that some of them overdo it in playing hard-to-get.

EpicDude123:
Lol. The Answer will be we are what we are😄

Lol. There are lots of answers to it. You can also reply with "We are the world. We are the children. We are here to make a difference."

Kalulu44:
Make una no dey act like say na una be tough guy pass. Most of una saying I go leave her after the first no, don chase and chase girls tire until some give in or gave you serious warning. Na to come online dey form jandor most of una be

The bolded made me

But seriously, where dem tough reach na this online and na why women no dey take all these rants seriously cause dem know say for their DM, dem no born most of these guys well to form macho and thats the bitter truth

EvilMerodack:
The bolded made me

But seriously, where dem tough reach na this online and na why women no dey take all these rants seriously cause dem know say for their DM, dem no born most of these guys well to form macho and thats the bitter truth

Honestly it irks me, most of them come on here to claim they're macho and can do anyhow with them babes, while in reality they're begging them babes in their DMs and in reality.
I don't take them serious

Kalulu44:
Honestly it irks me, most of them come on here to claim they're macho and can do anyhow with them babes, while in reality they're begging them babes in their DMs and in reality.
I don't take them serious

How you go take them serious when dem no dey gree look your side