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Have you noticed something in most modern women? They are very brutal when it comes to making choices, and they hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat. Modern women do not involve emotions, past acts of kindness, sympathy, empathy, etc, when they make choices. That is why a woman can easily switch lanes; she can easily throw you under the bus, no matter what you have done for her, if she sees another man that can take her to the next level.

As a man, you need to be brutal in your choices of life. You need to choose you first. You need to be at least 85% selfish. This is not some redpiller talk. Neither is it just another advice. It is a prerequisite for survival and success in a complex society filled with hypergamous women.

Whenever there is conflict between what a woman wants and a course that can upgrade your life, always go for the latter, because if you don't, she would do the exact opposite without remorse if placed in your shoe.

As a man, always put yourself first. No let anybody whine you. Poor man house dey always dey far. If house fall, goat go climb the roof. Do not let them meet you at the same spot they left you.

Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

LordIsaac:
Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

Bro, leave karma alone. This is the reality. A woman can leave you and still get someone who is better than you. It is more about protecting your interest to succeed.

Rapmoney:
Have you noticed something in most modern women? They are very brutal when it comes to making choices, and they hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat.

There must be reasons most modern women who "hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat" refuse to hold on to some.

budaatum:
There must be reasons most modern women who "hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat" refuse to hold on to some.

If there are choices she does not hold on to tightly, she is probably on a cruise, and knows what she is doing. There is always a grand plan.

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Don't pity anyone in relationships, even in marriage as it's a contract 🤷🏿. Once you sense something, act.

Modern men should also be brutal in their choices too. Like this now i cannot date a girl who is not productive!

Am very organise when with a woman. All my speech, point, summary, wish and objective of my attending to ladies are ironed out straight according to my account. Once i tell you no, take it like dat, and yes, take it also like dat. No bending. I can choose not to even communicate with you for a month. If you see anything wrong with it, i don't see any.

Just be precisely with your thoughts towards women. Don't ever bend your wish for dem cos they don't send you.

Love800:
Am very organise when with a woman. All my speech, point, summary, wish and objective of my attending to ladies are ironed out straight according to my account. Once i tell you no, take it like dat, and yes, take it also like dat. No bending. I can choose not to even communicate with you for a month. If you see anything wrong with it, i don't see any.

Just be precisely with your thoughts towards women. Don't ever bend your wish for dem cos they don't send you.

That is my point.

Cutehector:
Modern men should also be brutal in their choices too. Like this now i cannot date a girl who is not productive!

Old cutehector, you still dey here?

Rapmoney:
Bro, leave karma alone. This is the reality. A woman can leave you and still get someone who is better than you. It is more about protecting your interest to succeed.

Yeah, you are right

A woman you left cos she's bad has better chances of meeting a far good man than you will ever meet a good woman...

Our nigerian society get bad women than men....

Love800:
Just be precise with your thoughts towards women. Don't ever bend your wish for dem cos they don't send you.

Word on marble. Never sugar coat words with women cause they hate accountability. What you want, what you won't accept, what you deserve, from day 0 state it to her.
It will save you in the long run.

Rapmoney:
As a man, you need to be brutal in your choices of life. You need to choose you first. You need to be at least 85% selfish.

As a man, always put yourself first.

You see this things you wrote here is my mantra henceforth.

Rapmoney:
It is more about protecting your interest to succeed.

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How women have master the art of resource extraction from men is something to study. They are on average broke and without money cause they spend frivolously.

I appreciate.

Rapmoney:
That is my point.

I appreciate.

olioxx:
Word on marble. Never sugar coat words with women cause they hate accountability. What you want, what you won't accept, what you deserve, from day 0 state it to her.
It will save you in the long run.



You see this things you wrote here is my mantra henceforth.



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How women have master the art of resource extraction from men is something to study. They are on average broke and without money cause they spend frivolously.

I like to borrow their instinct anytime I'm to make tough life decisions. Their ruthlessness and how brutal they go after whats best for them is something i admire really much. As for male-female relationship dynamics, I set the bar so high even a female version of me would be intimidated by them. I have never dated rubbish and i will never do

A lady recently cut me off just because in her words 'must you always gain something from whatever you're doing with/for me". If i envisage from afar that you cant be useful to me in the next few years, judging by how you randomly treat people, i go cut you off one time

I date givers, kind-hearts and super-ambitious women. I can cope with any other negativity and yes, women like this plenty for here

Rapmoney:
Bro, leave karma alone. This is the reality. A woman can leave you and still get someone who is better than you. It is more about protecting your interest to succeed.

I think the past experience of their mothers, grandmothers is what is making them to be more ruthless in their choices else, they will fall into the same pit.
Let's be frank, so many men out there are nothing to write home about.
They are very very irresponsible who just want to bang, no support for the woman's kids or pregnancy or upkeep.
Do you expect such men to procreate? And cause more wahala for us?

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Rapmoney:
Have you noticed something in most modern women? They are very brutal when it comes to making choices, and they hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat. Modern women do not involve emotions, past acts of kindness, sympathy, empathy, etc, when they make choices. That is why a woman can easily switch lanes; she can easily throw you under the bus, no matter what you have done for her, if she sees another man that can take her to the next level.

As a man, you need to be brutal in your choices of life. You need to choose you first. You need to be at least 85% selfish. This is not some redpiller talk. Neither is it just another advice. It is a prerequisite for survival and success in a complex society filled with hypergamous women.

Whenever there is conflict between what a woman wants and a course that can upgrade your life, always go for the latter, because if you don't, she would do the exact opposite without remorse if placed in your shoe.

As a man, always put yourself first. No let anybody whine you. Poor man house dey always dey far. If house fall, goat go climb the roof. Do not let them meet you at the same spot they left you.

Cc:

As Mr Emma has stated, they have seen their mothers' conditions and have decided "it can never be me". At the same time, they now earn equally as men, so the competition for already scarce resources have stiffened.

It is why I keep preaching that young men should focus on their economic wellbeing rather than whether a woman would get married or not, because these women are not hell-bent on the institution as their mothers. They have fought societal shackles; they possess economic and birth rights. Also, it is why I keep harping that today's world is that of a woman, and only a man's own when he is financially comfortable.

LordIsaac:
Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

Women who are looking for sperm donors? Women who have decided that if dem no born, nothing much as long as they keep earning money? Women who are travelling around yanfu-yanfu? See, at 50, society looks at your economic achievement, not whether you don born or not. So, I find it funny when lads mock women with that in today's age given that women are getting plum jobs and building profitable businesses. In fact, most of the men who mock these women online MIGHT never get to live the lives these women have, and that is the most important metric - your economic prosperity, not whether she is unmarried at 50 or childless at 40.

Gerrard59:
As Mr Emma has stated, they have seen their mothers' conditions and have decided "it can never be me". At the same time, they now earn equally as men, so the competition for already scarce resources have stiffened.

It is why I keep preaching that young men should focus on their economic wellbeing rather than whether a woman would get married or not, because these women are not hell-bent on the institution as their mothers. They have fought societal shackles; they possess economic and birth rights. Also, it is why I keep harping that today's world is that of a woman, and only a man's own when he is financially comfortable.


Women who are looking for sperm donors? Women who have decided that if dem no born, nothing much as long as they keep earning money? Women who are travelling around yanfu-yanfu? See, at 50, society looks at your economic achievement, not whether you don born or not. So, I find it funny when lads mock women with that in today's age given that women are getting plum jobs and building profitable businesses. In fact, most of the men who mock these women online MIGHT never get to live the lives these women have, and that is the most important metric - your economic prosperity, not whether she is unmarried at 50 or childless at 40.

Your immediate family and social circle.would reason otherwise.

LordIsaac:
Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

It's all about survival and at this age, it's still survival, pension things.

emmaodet:
I think the past experience of their mothers, grandmothers is what is making them to be more ruthless in their choices else, they will fall into the same pit.
Let's be frank, so many men out there are nothing to write home about.
They are very very irresponsible who just want to bang, no support for the woman's kids or pregnancy or upkeep.
Do you expect such men to procreate? And cause more wahala for us?

I get you. But aren't these kinds of men the ones who procreate the most?

I believe that, for the most part, women know the kind of men who would not be caring fathers. Sure we can make mistakes, we can misjudge people, but more often than not, I would say that the women went in knowing that this person is just not that type of guy.

I'm sure that we all know at least one good-for-nothing bum who has girls chasing him and at least one great guy on paper who has no woman around.

LordIsaac:
Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

And so what? What does it have to do with you? OK, when they get 50, they may regret. But does that improve your life in any way?

Live your life bro. Let women live theirs. And if they (ever) regret, that's their personal problem.

Instead of expecting women to regret their dating and mating choices when they reach 50, focus on ensuring that you won't regret your own choices when you reach 50.

It still amazes me how this gender can "easily move on" like you've never crossed paths before. They care less about emotions, moments you shared, sacrifices and all that.

Been aware of this their particular act since but guy, e happen to me live. Na God talk say make i no invest much into the relationship

Learnt my lessons. I'll be very ruthless and selfish to any woman now.

My interest must come first now otherwise, bye bye. I no wan hear anything

SixSeven:
It's all about survival and at this age, it's still survival, pension things.

name of this book bro

Kipaji:
And so what? What does it have to do with you? OK, when they get 50, they may regret. But does that improve your life in any way?

Live your life bro. Let women live theirs. And if they (ever) regret, that's their personal problem.

Instead of expecting women to regret their dating and mating choices when they reach 50, focus on ensuring that you won't regret your own choices when you reach 50.

GBAM!

Please collect an e-handshake. Well deserved!

Have money, be knowledgable, and there is NOTHING a woman can do to you in this life.

Men wey dey with nigerian women dey try. especially men that genuflect to them.

Starz825:
Our nigerian society get bad women than men....

THIS!!!!!!

Cutehector:
Modern men should also be brutal in their choices too. Like this now i cannot date a girl who is not productive!

Yash and Buwest won't let men reason well,when they see ladies. Except for some few of us. I always tell guys to invest in yourself, rather than investing in woman. Modern day ladies don't have conscience and they can leave you at anytime,no matter what you invest in them. So I see no reason why wasting your resources in something that's not certain. As a guy don't invest what you can't afford to lose in a lady. Treat relationship like sport bet. Put in what you can afford to lose.

Gerrard59:
GBAM!

Please collect an e-handshake. Well deserved!

Thank you sir.

If house fall, goat go climb the roof this your quote go far oh