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GanagiBitrus:
A pastor should promote "marrying for love". That's the basic ingredient that sustains a lifetime commitment like marriage.

Marrying because of financial inducement is a faulty foundation in marriage. A pastor shouldn't be encourage such.

Abeg I need two oloshos this night.

I hope and pray that this man finds a woman that will truly love him, rather than one that will take advantage of him.

The pastor has a great plan for the young man, and he also offers a lifetime benefit to cater to the young man and a woman who eventually marries him.

I am never against the pastor's good gesture. I just want to tell the pastor that people might be thinking, why is the pastor stressing himself when he can actually start the searching from within his family first before looking outside?

People might want to know why can’t the pastor actually ask one of his own daughters or a woman in his family to marry the young man rather than this stressful search.

Ezzymadu:
Read the article again
For ur understanding

I have already read and understand the article.

The Opm general overseer has good intentions, but clearly he is missing it by trying to buy love for the invalid guy which is impossible.

Why not keep praying for his healing?

Why Dem add the picture where the guy dey use hand pick him nose

Naija baddies over to you

He shouldn't have made it transactional , that's the mistake he made.


Greatest point

GanagiBitrus:
A pastor should promote "marrying for love". That's the basic ingredient that sustains a lifetime commitment like marriage.

Marrying because of financial inducement is a faulty foundation in marriage. A pastor shouldn't be encourage such.

*sigh*

zenburster:
Nonsense.

That fellow should be chemically castrated.

What is this fake pastor saying?

eazzzy1:
What does salary for life mean? What happens if the pastor transition to glory? Who will pay the salary?

Marry & exit in the next 24hrs.....lol

They should just buy him a sex doll if sex is his problem. Instead of destroying a woman's life in the name of marrying someone with special needs. We all know the love won't be there. It's only the financial benefits that'll make a woman dare marry the boy. Even at that, can that boy even have sex properly? Does he ever understand what it looks like to engage in it?
That his something is always standing doesn't mean sex is his problem or immediate need.

thisfemi:
Arent you a lucky woman?

OneCandleAway:
I remember that one. He refused the woman they found for him in Nigeria saying he wants a virgin from Israel

Hahahaha, I didn't follow up on that story.
See beggar sef dey get choice

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Many will step on this landmine even though it is clearly stated that he has 99 problems. Don't tell us that the Apostle didn't see the T-shirt.

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Iseddy:
Yes, he's suffering from Autism. You can read about autism

Ok thanks

judewrites:
His major need isn't sex but mental healing!

Who said anything about major needs?? I said part of his needs is sex as he’s a grown man…. He will likely not get mentally better than his…… pple like them just need what will make them feel more happier and socially healthier….
Weda autistic or normal, loneliness isnt cool…it messes up your mental health except you are natural loner

judewrites:
This offer for a wife for him looks hypocritical because which sane woman wants to marry an autistic man?

looks hypocritical?? Of course it’s hypocritical…. But guess what?? The average woman marries u for what u can provide…. Women marry dwarfs, slowpoke, 90 year old cargo…..etc
the nigga is just autistic….some are not as bad as u think…. Its a spectrum thing……some dont relate with pple, some have one go-to person they relate with, some relate well but go ballistic quickly….mayb u should use google, there are autistic pple with partners and family

judewrites:
The woman may even cheat on him and later abandon him because of the lack of love.

Like seriously ?? …. Women cheat on handsome men, leave the man that treats them good for the one that treats them awful….. so what…..?? Thats not a reason to avoid women or have a family

All the ladies in your church don marry finish ni??

Crestwood1:
He shouldn't have made it transactional , that's the mistake he made.


Greatest point

Life itself is transactional. No sugarcoating.

Eriokanmi:
In the nuuext 24 hrs, he'll receive over a thousand applications. Congratulations to him

Na mkpurumirri dey disturb the pastor.

lordm:
Is this really coming from the pastor?
Are we now taking advantage of poverty in Nigeria.

What's wrong with what he said?

dollynnn:
Hmm, may the lucky woman win 😂😂

You no go like win ehn 😁😂😂

Chummynoni:
He shouldn't have made it transactional , that's the mistake he made.

How else will you make it possible to find a woman to marry him?

Few months after the wedding you will hear; the finances of the church has declined due to bla bla bla as a result, the monthly salary will be slashed to half, and the vacation is not feasible anymore... He's notorious for doing that; after sending those happy boys to Cyprus, the chest-beater refused to send stipends, even to send school fees na wahala.

The person promising "for life" doesn't have a forever life, and he's source of income cannot outlive him. Ladies be careful of that bait.

Haydens:
All i can say is this is nonsense and trash. What stopped the pastor from giving him one of his daughters ?

Any woman that married that man is going to suffer the man and herself too because there will be no love in the so called union periodt.

if the pastor gives his daughter to him and the daughter refuses to marry him will the pastor force her? The pastor is simply not forcing anyone.

GanagiBitrus:
This doesn't sound right.
Using financial inducement (instead of genuine love) to entrap someone into responsibility of a marriage that is obviously going to be challenging.
The woman go just frustrate the man to death.

He should rather pay for the man to be taken care of by a care-giver.

You people are too Idealistic in this country and hardly pragmatic.

This is why you don't even see legitimate opportunities that bad governance has created and take advantage of them, but elect to still crying about hunger and poverty..

Poverty Alleviation Scheme don set

clockwisereport:
Pastor should marry his daughter off to him

he took care of the guy, so let's just say he is like a father to the guy, which means his daughter are like sisters.

safarifarms:
Is this recent? I thought I'd already read about this last year or year before last.

2 years ago this same news

Marriage only benefit women but every eke market day, una dey find wife for man.

Man dey craze - find am wife.
Man dey lazy - find am wife.
Man na burden to im family - find am wife.
Man dey autistic - find am wife.
Man dey disabled - find am wife.

Una see women as rehabilitation center and unpaid caregivers. But to open mouth and say thankyou dey hard una.

But whr Baba OPM dey get him own money?