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wen i say Nigerian women no know the kind of attention they get
tell that guy to relocate to uk or usa if bills and responsibility would ever allow him pull such stunts

When will all these rubbish stop ... U and the person no suppose don settle some matter first as assurance say Dem wan marry u?


Stop this stupidity... Tinubu is plus 1.

Don't ask me why I added that!

Some guys sabi fall pesin hand, why him go dey propose for public....now him don go collect embarrassment

because na broke guy.
If he's wealthy, she dare say NO, trust me and guy won't even bother kneeling down for a none-nvirgin.

dawnomike:
Bros needs to Re-assess the whole situation in the relationship.

Her No! should be respected by all parties involved.

It is obvious there is no way forward in da relationship

Mumu men everywhere

People still do this stuff in 2026 😂😆😆

Henjor48:
because na broke guy.
If he's wealthy, she dare say NO, trust me and guy won't even bother kneeling down for a none-nvirgin.

How you take know say na broke guy? Dem dey write am for face?.

She has her reason. I blame the guy for not finding out directly or indirectly if the lady would agree for marriage.

Not every woman you are dating have the intention of doing life with you. Some are there for fun, money, influence, connection or just using you to pass time while waiting for someone else.

The guy wasn't keen enough. How would have as well did a secret proposal to avoid all these embarrassment

Most of these guys no know most ladies no like this public engagement nonsense

Another tale from Uganda. Social media will be the bane of this generation. 🥱

Is it by force to say yes?

kpankpangolo:
This is why I knack them without mercy. The ones I want in my life always disappoint me.

How does knacking them (with or)without mercy help anything?

God1000:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPM4cCZpTxE?si=j_OGWNOVpAxfIqUn

Just imagine the way the guy dressed!!

Pete Edochie be looking at him like I need to see the man who raised such a weakling as a son

I checked first page and I pity my fellow male, but I took consolation that, they are teens, if indeed any of them is more than 25, I pity mama that born him.

Why did I pity them? When has decision as crucial as, be my wife or husband becomes impromptu and spontaneous without partner consent?

You want a lady to be Ur wife and mother of your unborn kids, yet two of you didn't sit down and discuss, every nitty-gritty of ur future marriage in other to be successful before going public to propose.

You went gragra to propose to other partner without first seeking her consent, yet delusional republic ranting as drunk 🐂 in a Chinese shop.

muyico:
Just look at the way the guyz dress self?? And look others guests

U ok? He's wearing same white they wearing

Since dem nor wan get sense bleeding gender go continue to take dem shine.



I didn't propose publicly before I married my wife so I'll disown my son if he tries this nonsense.

I don't understand why it's difficult to understand that public proposals is not cool

What do u want to achieve

Did u toast her publicly

Propose privately if she fall ur hand, nothing spoil

If she gree, it's all good, we move

Why was he still kneeling after she heard him...and a whole 5 seconds passed and she no gree say yes? Only a fe people would've known. The woman has more balls than him ... stood her ground to him and all the others cheering him on He too joined and be saying say yes. And we wonder why so many of our women becoming lesbians.

Guys dey learn... Register for Nairaland make you get some sense, you go say no!

Na your eyes don clear! I will sue this guy if na my brother for disgracing the family publicly. Normally, you suppose don get some feelings say dis babe don become mine till eternity!

Hope dis girl no go enta prayer house few years from now to attend different programs for hubby? Na so one lady turn me down via WhatsApp saying I no get car and now. Fast forward to now, I don marry and get pas watin she turn me down for. D last time I checked, she's still single and age is no longer on her side. And my uspring don turn agba already!

Dem no dey propose give babe for outside. Do it inside and if you must invite anyone, let it be your very closed padis. If she turn you down, no stress!

Over mumu dey worry the simp

God1000:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPM4cCZpTxE?si=j_OGWNOVpAxfIqUn

see as this mumu cool down dey kneel down dey beg trouble to come into him life. Who do man this thing?

No be only “say yes”, na “answer yes”

See the young man trousers like say na 2face idibia and he is not even a musician or entertainer. Who knows, he may just be a local magician.

When the lady turned and saw him, she was like: wetin dey worry this one? The young man too was transfixed on the ground.

Kneeling to propose does not indicate a good enough relationship or proof that a lady was even interested in marrying you. Be careful, as you may be embarrassed like that young man. It is not even evidence of desire strong enough to translate into marriage.

The young man was too excited. He planned that arrangement and wanted to show the whole world that he found a wife. Unfortunately the lady had not found a husband in him.

A close look at the lady would show that the guy was just her recharge card provider and not the main person. Now he will lick his wounds and if care is not taken, he will plan an ambush.

The embarrassment is not inherently in the rejection, but rejection while kneeling as a pussy begar.

Damn, it turns my stomach whenever I see it.

All these shaninagans will not be me though.

At the talking stage, I am settling it with you.

Na direct traditional straight.

If you no gree, I bounce

We4all:
Proposing to your girlfriend at another man's wedding is insane. Was he trying to steal the show?

Or just content!

Both of them are active, shameless content creators so we should thread carefully.

kpankpangolo:
This is why I knack them without mercy. The ones I want in my life always disappoint me.

Others decisions shouldn't be your problems now, respect others decisions as you want your own to be respected

Blunt99:
The embarrassment is not inherently in the rejection, but rejection while kneeling as a pussy begar.

Damn, it turns my stomach whenever I see it.

All these shaninagans will not be me though.

At the talking stage, I am settling it with you.

Na direct traditional straight.

If you no gree, I bounce

He deserves every atom of it o...

Skinny, hungry looking mf!

Begging to be dragged to your early grave, some guys are just...

Only thing in their head is marriage.
Later they will say they don't benefit from it.
See his cap like zakky whatever own.

The guy is a fool

Why does he want to take the shine off those who are celebrating their own special moment?

That's not cool at all