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ElasmoBranchii:
Some guys think that cold approach begins and ends at spamming many girls with "I like you".

But that just leads to a lot of shit test if she isn't attracted to you. If you persist for long enough you might later get the girl but for me that's just too much work. I'm here to have fun not to stress myself trying to win you over.

To consistently crack different girls using cold approach it requires you to get really good at game.

Getting good at game requires some trial and error and experimenting with different styles and methods to see what works best for you. That's why I always say don't be afraid to fail an approach. You will learn from it.

You can't even use another guy's method to get results because his identity and everything about his existence is quite different from yours but you can learn something from his style of approach, if you really try to understand why his approach works but there are somethings that work in general.

Cold approach is like a playing field for you to experiment many ideas in game and redpill. You will see a lot of things that the redpill has told you about and laugh.

You can't even get far with cold approach without developing this "Testing the waters approach" mindest. You need to have fun with it.

That's why in the past I posted something about playful banter. You shift your mindset from trying to score the girl for a minute to having fun in an interaction with a human. Amusing yourself by seeing how good you can whine someone.

If you see that girl is having fun too then you start escalating. (Although you should have started escalating slowly from the start)

But I get it, this might not be exciting to some guys. To each his own. Use

Among other things you said... You’re also absolutely right about this:

“Cold approach is the ultimate playing field for testing red-pill ideas and game in real time.”

It’s actually hilarious how some guys on here drop heavy red-pill and game advice like they’re seasoned veterans… yet proudly admit they don’t (cold) approach.

In my mind, I'm like “bro, where exactly are you getting all this experience from?”

Because any man who is truly good with women: the kind who can read women in seconds, spot manipulation, smell genuine desire, and move with zero hesitation… didn’t get that knowledge from watching YouTube videos or reading redpill stuff from the Internet.

He got it from taking raw action. That's it: From approaching hundreds of women. From seeing every possible female reaction, excuse, shit-test, and genuine green light in the wild.

I don’t do cold approaches anymore…because I’m busy with work, hustle, and building my biz.

But back in the day? I was a menace.

I initiated conversations with countless random girls. Not because I was thirsty for every single one, but because I treated it like a laboratory. I tested playful, bold, straightforward, sometimes sexual shit on complete female strangers.

If she responded well, I doubled down and vibed.

If she gave me dry energy or attitude… I smiled, said “nice meeting you,” and moved on like nothing happened.

Each interaction was meaningless because I could just try again with a new girl.. No attachment, no one approach felt special. I once accidentally re-approached the same girl twice in one week because I talked to so many that I genuinely didn’t remember her.

I initiated conversations with so many girls that none of those interactions with the women felt worth telling... unless I actually slept with any of them.

Meanwhile, my guy I rolled with would approach one girl in a whole month… then spend the next three weeks telling war stories about that single interaction like he just survived a battlefield. Bro didn’t even smash her. Yet, his stories lasted longer than the actual conversation.


Because I had seen it all: the sweet girls, the manipulative ones, the secretly Hot ones who hadn’t been bleeped properly in months, the time-wasters, the “good girls” who turned naughty behind closed door… nothing surprises me anymore.


I can spot genuine interest in the first 30 seconds, even when she’s pretending to be hard.

I can detect the manipulator who’s about to waste my time…

I can tell when a girl is down to Bleep but fighting herself.

I can tell a lot about a girl just by observing her body language and the way she says things… not necessarily what she says.

All of that came from raw experience. .

And funny enough… That same experience spilled into every other area of my life: business, negotiations, leadership, reading people. Once you’ve learned how to handle unpredictable female energy under pressure, almost nothing else intimidates you.

So when guys preach red-pill wisdom but admit they don’t approach… I just laugh.

You can’t become dangerous with women by theory alone. It takes raw practical.

Too much ego crap and self-praise.

ElasmoBranchii:
If that’s true, it actually strengthens the case for cold approach.

Approach with intention until you no longer need to approach.

That’s when genuine desire actually starts working in your favor.

As someone who deos both, I think you and cave are saying the same thing. The difference here is the "intention".

Of course every guy should have the social skills to string up discussions with strangers whilst also understanding body-language to be able to move-on from the conversation if there is no vibe and finally the humor to keep a conversation flowing.

But doing these with the mindset of developing a potential romantic relationship is not "ideal" for a guy in terms of intergender dynamics and i believe (I could be wrong) this is what cave meant.

CaveAdullam:
[b]Cold

Fun fact: every man also has one or two women vying for their attention.

Really?
From observations, i really do not think so..
Of course location is a factor, but in general terms, vast majority -even more than the stipulated 80%- of men are invisible.
On another angle, The reason why they want his attention is something to factor in

Pukkalolo:
Among other things you said... You’re also absolutely right about this:

“Cold approach is the ultimate playing field for testing red-pill ideas and game in real time.”

It’s actually hilarious how some guys on here drop heavy red-pill and game advice like they’re seasoned veterans… yet proudly admit they don’t (cold) approach.

In my mind, I'm like “bro, where exactly are you getting all this experience from?”

Because any man who is truly good with women: the kind who can read women in seconds, spot manipulation, smell genuine desire, and move with zero hesitation… didn’t get that knowledge from watching YouTube videos or reading redpill stuff from the Internet.

He got it from taking raw action. That's it: From approaching hundreds of women. From seeing every possible female reaction, excuse, shit-test, and genuine green light in the wild.

I don’t do cold approaches anymore…because I’m busy with work, hustle, and building my biz.

But back in the day? I was a menace.

I initiated conversations with countless random girls. Not because I was thirsty for every single one, but because I treated it like a laboratory. I tested playful, bold, straightforward, sometimes sexual shit on complete female strangers.

If she responded well, I doubled down and vibed.

If she gave me dry energy or attitude… I smiled, said “nice meeting you,” and moved on like nothing happened.

Each interaction was meaningless because I could just try again with a new girl.. No attachment, no one approach felt special. I once accidentally re-approached the same girl twice in one week because I talked to so many that I genuinely didn’t remember her.

I initiated conversations with so many girls that none of those interactions with the women felt worth telling... unless I actually slept with any of them.

Meanwhile, my guy I rolled with would approach one girl in a whole month… then spend the next three weeks telling war stories about that single interaction like he just survived a battlefield. Bro didn’t even smash her. Yet, his stories lasted longer than the actual conversation.


Because I had seen it all: the sweet girls, the manipulative ones, the secretly Hot ones who hadn’t been bleeped properly in months, the time-wasters, the “good girls” who turned naughty behind closed door… nothing surprises me anymore.


I can spot genuine interest in the first 30 seconds, even when she’s pretending to be hard.

I can detect the manipulator who’s about to waste my time…

I can tell when a girl is down to Bleep but fighting herself.

I can tell a lot about a girl just by observing her body language and the way she says things… not necessarily what she says.

All of that came from raw experience. .

And funny enough… That same experience spilled into every other area of my life: business, negotiations, leadership, reading people. Once you’ve learned how to handle unpredictable female energy under pressure, almost nothing else intimidates you.

So when guys preach red-pill wisdom but admit they don’t approach… I just laugh.

You can’t become dangerous with women by theory alone. It takes raw practical.

Ogbeni, all these epistles wey you dey write because you wan sell book get as e be. If hunger dey do you, kukuma just come out and beg. You sef know say na cap you dey cap. Make hunger no go kpai man pikin o

Pukkalolo:
Among other things you said... You’re also absolutely right about this:

“Cold approach is the ultimate playing field for testing red-pill ideas and game in real time.”

It’s actually hilarious how some guys on here drop heavy red-pill and game advice like they’re seasoned veterans… yet proudly admit they don’t (cold) approach.

In my mind, I'm like “bro, where exactly are you getting all this experience from?”

Because any man who is truly good with women: the kind who can read women in seconds, spot manipulation, smell genuine desire, and move with zero hesitation… didn’t get that knowledge from watching YouTube videos or reading redpill stuff from the Internet.

He got it from taking raw action. That's it: From approaching hundreds of women. From seeing every possible female reaction, excuse, shit-test, and genuine green light in the wild.

I don’t do cold approaches anymore…because I’m busy with work, hustle, and building my biz.

But back in the day? I was a menace.

I initiated conversations with countless random girls. Not because I was thirsty for every single one, but because I treated it like a laboratory. I tested playful, bold, straightforward, sometimes sexual shit on complete female strangers.

If she responded well, I doubled down and vibed.

If she gave me dry energy or attitude… I smiled, said “nice meeting you,” and moved on like nothing happened.

Each interaction was meaningless because I could just try again with a new girl.. No attachment, no one approach felt special. I once accidentally re-approached the same girl twice in one week because I talked to so many that I genuinely didn’t remember her.

I initiated conversations with so many girls that none of those interactions with the women felt worth telling... unless I actually slept with any of them.

Meanwhile, my guy I rolled with would approach one girl in a whole month… then spend the next three weeks telling war stories about that single interaction like he just survived a battlefield. Bro didn’t even smash her. Yet, his stories lasted longer than the actual conversation.


Because I had seen it all: the sweet girls, the manipulative ones, the secretly Hot ones who hadn’t been bleeped properly in months, the time-wasters, the “good girls” who turned naughty behind closed door… nothing surprises me anymore.


I can spot genuine interest in the first 30 seconds, even when she’s pretending to be hard.

I can detect the manipulator who’s about to waste my time…

I can tell when a girl is down to Bleep but fighting herself.

I can tell a lot about a girl just by observing her body language and the way she says things… not necessarily what she says.

All of that came from raw experience. .

And funny enough… That same experience spilled into every other area of my life: business, negotiations, leadership, reading people. Once you’ve learned how to handle unpredictable female energy under pressure, almost nothing else intimidates you.

So when guys preach red-pill wisdom but admit they don’t approach… I just laugh.

You can’t become dangerous with women by theory alone. It takes raw practical.

The only thing you're spotting in 30 seconds is a mirage. It's one or two things that will get a girl hooked and keep coming back and that is good dick or good money. If a girl decides to head in your direction it's because she's anticipating either or both of them. Also if you provide one of them just know that she will find someone to provide the other.

If you're good looking, clean and you don't like to show off when you meet girls, just know that she has already slapped an expectation on the sex from day one that you need to beat. If the sex is wack you can kiss any attraction you spotted goodbye because it will die like a fish out of water.

Note: I'm talking about girls and not evening newspapers that will jump on any train because they are desperate for marriage.

NowYouKnow:
No such thing as “game,” bro. Stop wasting your energy chasing tactics, techniques, or trying to decode female behavior through red pill theory. That rabbit hole only keeps you mentally chained to the very thing you're trying to overcome—obsession with women. It pretends to offer empowerment, but all it does is trap you in an endless loop of self-blame and coping.

Here’s the truth, whether it stings or not:

A woman is only kind, loving, loyal, respectful, or nurturing when she’s genuinely attracted to you—PHYSICALLY. You don’t earn that with effort, money, or a confident script. It’s instinctive. If she doesn’t feel it, you can’t force it.

If a girl doesn’t light up, blush, or giggle with that uncontrollable childlike giddiness when she sees you, walk away. Don’t try to “game” her into submission. Attraction isn’t negotiated or earned through persistence. It’s either there, or it’s not.

Trying to manufacture interest leads to frustration, humiliation, or worse—resentment. Nature doesn’t care about fairness. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you free yourself from this delusion.

Men and women are wired differently. Women can afford to live in fantasy be it socially or emotionally, they're often shielded from certain harsh realities. Men don't have that luxury. Life forces us to deal with things as they are. Fantasy, for a man who indulges in it too long, usually leads to depression or addiction.

The manosphere started with truth, uncomfortable truths that a lot of men needed to hear. But over time, it got hijacked by people whose main interest was making money selling easy answers to frustrated men.

The reality is simple. LOOKS MATTER.

We saw this in biology class. Females across species gravitate toward the males with the most striking traits, the brightest feathers, the strongest mane. It's not shallow, it's nature. And if you're honest, you saw it play out in secondary school and university. The guys who got attention were often the ones who fit a certain PHYSICAL STANDARD.

But then came the grifters selling hope. They told men that looks didn't matter, that "game" was the great equalizer. That an ugly guy could get any woman if he just learned the right method.

That's like telling a broke man he can be happy if he just learns to be content. Content with what? How do you "game" your way out of being physically unattractive to a gender that values looks?

There's a quote I saw recently that sums it up:

You smile, you look creepy.
You frown, you still look creepy.
The problem? You're just ugly.

A lot of the old redpill figures have either gone quiet or vanished. Some of them e.g Martinez39s has managed to reappear and blame trolls, when in reality, the simpler explanation is that their product stopped working. Reality always has a way of catching up, most especially with men.

What followed the redpill pua "game" jargon was the blackpill, then the lookism crowd, and now the current face of the manosphere is someone called CLAVICULAR Now, the whole conversation in the Manosophere revolves around bone structure, height, and looksmaxxing. The very thing those early grifters tried to downplay is now front and center.

LOOKS are and have always been the key. If the girl you're interested in doesn't find you attractive, then go do something useful with your time. Sit under a tree and crack palm kernels if you have to, at least you're not wasting energy chasing something that was never going to happen.

For those of you who aren't blessed in the looks department, the only consolation is that beauty is sometimes subjective. Let's just hope you're wise enough to appreciate the person who actually does see something in you.

PS: Feel free to share into redpill whatsapp groups still harbouring so called redpill gurus.

NowYouKnow:
Men and women are wired differently. Women can afford to live in fantasy be it socially or emotionally, they're often shielded from certain harsh realities. Men don't have that luxury. Life forces us to deal with things as they are. Fantasy, for a man who indulges in it too long, usually leads to depression or addiction.

The manosphere started with truth, uncomfortable truths that a lot of men needed to hear. But over time, it got hijacked by people whose main interest was making money selling easy answers to frustrated men.

The reality is simple. LOOKS MATTER.

We saw this in biology class. Females across species gravitate toward the males with the most striking traits, the brightest feathers, the strongest mane. It's not shallow, it's nature. And if you're honest, you saw it play out in secondary school and university. The guys who got attention were often the ones who fit a certain PHYSICAL STANDARD.

But then came the grifters selling hope. They told men that looks didn't matter, that "game" was the great equalizer. That an ugly guy could get any woman if he just learned the right method.

That's like telling a broke man he can be happy if he just learns to be content. Content with what? How do you "game" your way out of being physically unattractive to a gender that values looks?

There's a quote I saw recently that sums it up:

You smile, you look creepy.
You frown, you still look creepy.
The problem? You're just ugly.

A lot of the old redpill figures have either gone quiet or vanished. Some of them e.g Martinez39s has managed to reappear and blame trolls, when in reality, the simpler explanation is that their product stopped working. Reality always has a way of catching up, most especially with men.

What followed the redpill pua "game" jargon was the blackpill, then the lookism crowd, and now the current face of the manosphere is someone called CLAVICULAR Now, the whole conversation in the Manosophere revolves around bone structure, height, and looksmaxxing. The very thing those early grifters tried to downplay is now front and center.

LOOKS are and have always been the key. If the girl you're interested in doesn't find you attractive, then go do something useful with your time. Sit under a tree and crack palm kernels if you have to, at least you're not wasting energy chasing something that was never going to happen.

For those of you who aren't blessed in the looks department, the only consolation is that beauty is sometimes subjective. Let's just hope you're wise enough to appreciate the person who actually does see something in you.

PS: Feel free to share into redpill whatsapp groups still harbouring so called redpill gurus.

You're right to extent.

As for men who are "ugly," I don't think any man is ugly per se. The thing is, a lot of men don’t work on their looks.

Let me give you an instance. I am an average-height guy (Nigerian average) with a face that I would say is within to slightly above average, dark-skinned, and I have a good voice. How do I know? I have had women compliment my facial looks (though a few times), but almost every woman has complimented my voice.

In fact I won’t lie, i used to think i was ugly, women made me realize i am not.

I have friends who are as good-looking or even better than me, and they are way taller. We went to an event where there were a lot of girls. I dressed well, used a good perfume, a wristwatch, and everything. Guess what? All the girls' attention was on me; they were trying hard to get my contact too. My friend, who is 6’4” and handsome, confirmed it and was like, “These girls are into you.” The reason is because I dressed well and automatically look good better.

I also have another friend who is not tall. in fact, he is almost short, but has women tripping over him because he has a good "face card."


In fact, little things like your skin or haircut can make or break your looks. Some things are beyond our control, like height and facial features, but the rest is on you.

Another thing: there was a time I got a good haircut, took a picture, and posted it on my social media. Omo, you should have seen how people were hyping me! That same "me" got a skin cut a few months later, and even I could see the difference, I looked really ugly.

Also, women have specs (preferences). Don’t let anyone lie to you; some like light-skinned guys, some love dark-skinned guys, some love chubby men, some love skinny men (yes, some do), and most love tall men.

It's left for you as a guy to know her spec and know if you should keep pushing or not.


Just look at the Snowfall actor (Damson Idris); the guy is average, but when he dresses and comes out, every girl thinks he is handsome.

So, that money men use to chase women, use it to work on yourself and freshen up. Get a good skincare routine, good clothes that fit you, a good haircut, and many more. I promise you, you will move up the ladder from average to handsome.

[quote author=streetwise2015 post=138596665]Kudos for living up to the red pill...I would love to know how do you deal with your woman since you eventually married her and how you live as a married man with the red pill knowledge..How do you balance everything now you marred? and how do you cope with her since you dont love her?

Remember, the goal is not to hate women ,but not to get hurt by women ,not to get played ,or get used , after understanding redpil very well, and with maturity and wisdom, it just came naturally for me , I accept women for who they are

Once anyone gets to that stage and finally see through women ,it's yours to decide what you want to do with them , play the games with them ,used them , avoid them completely, or keep them around, it's yours to decide, but if you still want anything to do with women ,guard your heart, and in relationship and marriage they will try to wear down your guard, they will try to appear innocent and vulnerable, you must see through the manipulation veil

Like my wife once they realize they can't conquer you the women will stay and give you the reigns, and let you lead ,especially if she is a good woman, a damaged woman will instead double down and run , will find an excuse and claim you're not a good man because she can't control you


Either way you win , your heart stay intact and your pocket stays full if she leaves and if she stays , you have a women you can ,manage and lead , and gives you beautiful children, just make sure the children are yours (DNA ) and build your finances, takes care of your children

In a nutshell once a man understands women nature it's his to decide what he wants to do with them , I was raised in a poor but peaceful environment with parents who sticks with each other's no matter the situation, and i want the same for my children, although they would not be raised in poverty that's why I take the chance with marriage , and I know that despite all my precautions things might even go wrong someday

So if anyone doesn't want marriage or doesn't want anything to do with women I perfectly understand, but it's each one of us choices

Always remember REDPIL IS GOLDEN
It will save you lots of problems in life

NowYouKnow:
Men and women are wired differently. Women can afford to live in fantasy be it socially or emotionally, they're often shielded from certain harsh realities. Men don't have that luxury. Life forces us to deal with things as they are. Fantasy, for a man who indulges in it too long, usually leads to depression or addiction.

The manosphere started with truth, uncomfortable truths that a lot of men needed to hear. But over time, it got hijacked by people whose main interest was making money selling easy answers to frustrated men.

The reality is simple. LOOKS MATTER.

We saw this in biology class. Females across species gravitate toward the males with the most striking traits, the brightest feathers, the strongest mane. It's not shallow, it's nature. And if you're honest, you saw it play out in secondary school and university. The guys who got attention were often the ones who fit a certain PHYSICAL STANDARD.

But then came the grifters selling hope. They told men that looks didn't matter, that "game" was the great equalizer. That an ugly guy could get any woman if he just learned the right method.

That's like telling a broke man he can be happy if he just learns to be content. Content with what? How do you "game" your way out of being physically unattractive to a gender that values looks?

There's a quote I saw recently that sums it up:

You smile, you look creepy.
You frown, you still look creepy.
The problem? You're just ugly.

A lot of the old redpill figures have either gone quiet or vanished. Some of them e.g Martinez39s has managed to reappear and blame trolls, when in reality, the simpler explanation is that their product stopped working. Reality always has a way of catching up, most especially with men.

What followed the redpill pua "game" jargon was the blackpill, then the lookism crowd, and now the current face of the manosphere is someone called CLAVICULAR Now, the whole conversation in the Manosophere revolves around bone structure, height, and looksmaxxing. The very thing those early grifters tried to downplay is now front and center.

LOOKS are and have always been the key. If the girl you're interested in doesn't find you attractive, then go do something useful with your time. Sit under a tree and crack palm kernels if you have to, at least you're not wasting energy chasing something that was never going to happen.

For those of you who aren't blessed in the looks department, the only consolation is that beauty is sometimes subjective. Let's just hope you're wise enough to appreciate the person who actually does see something in you.

PS: Feel free to share into redpill whatsapp groups still harbouring so called redpill gurus.

The guys who get women's attention the most in school or any social organisation for that matter are those talkatives who like to make women laugh.

Being a fine boy doesn't mean women will pile at your doorstep begging for your dick, you still need confidence to hold a conversation, one of the core tenets of game.

"Looks maxxing" is literally just grooming and trying not to look like an ape in addition to already being hedious.

You live in a poor country, guys with money fúck the most girls.

Looks is a plus, just like having money increases the spectrum of girls you can fûck.

Na Naija men dey corrupt their women.

"The one thing I miss about Nigeria is that every day you dress up, even if you don't look that stylish.

But as long as you dress up and you go outside, you will see a lot of men admiring you.

You'll see a lot of men saying, hello, fine girl, how are you?

You'll still see a lot of men that ask you out. Or you see men that will come and try to collect your number.

But here in this, In this country, I find myself no man is going to see you on the road and say, hello, how are you? You look good. Or ask you out on the road.

You just go to work, come back, nobody is going to say, hi, how are you? I mean, men admiring you and trying to want to date you or something like that. It doesn't happen here.

It makes me feel bad sometime. Just look at me this morning, looking good...."

– A Nigerian woman living abroad has shared her observations about the difference in social interactions between Nigeria and her current country of residence.

MetalJigsaw:
Na Naija men dey corrupt their women.

"The one thing I miss about Nigeria is that every day you dress up, even if you don't look that stylish.

But as long as you dress up and you go outside, you will see a lot of men admiring you.

You'll see a lot of men saying, hello, fine girl, how are you?

You'll still see a lot of men that ask you out. Or you see men that will come and try to collect your number.

But here in this, In this country, I find myself no man is going to see you on the road and say, hello, how are you? You look good. Or ask you out on the road.

You just go to work, come back, nobody is going to say, hi, how are you? I mean, men admiring you and trying to want to date you or something like that. It doesn't happen here.

It makes me feel bad sometime. Just look at me this morning, looking good...."

– A Nigerian woman living abroad has shared her observations about the difference in social interactions between Nigeria and her current country of residence.

Total BS. Women are hit on every blessed day in every country in the world. Any woman wey man no dey toast must be very unattractive.

dreamxhaser:
You're right to extent.

As for men who are "ugly," I don't think any man is ugly per se. The thing is, a lot of men don’t work on their looks.

Let me give you an instance. I am an average-height guy (Nigerian average) with a face that I would say is within to slightly above average, dark-skinned, and I have a good voice. How do I know? I have had women compliment my facial looks (though a few times), but almost every woman has complimented my voice.

In fact I won’t lie, i used to think i was ugly, women made me realize i am not.

I have friends who are as good-looking or even better than me, and they are way taller. We went to an event where there were a lot of girls. I dressed well, used a good perfume, a wristwatch, and everything. Guess what? All the girls' attention was on me; they were trying hard to get my contact too. My friend, who is 6’4” and handsome, confirmed it and was like, “These girls are into you.” The reason is because I dressed well and automatically look good better.

I also have another friend who is not tall. in fact, he is almost short, but has women tripping over him because he has a good "face card."


In fact, little things like your skin or haircut can make or break your looks. Some things are beyond our control, like height and facial features, but the rest is on you.

Another thing: there was a time I got a good haircut, took a picture, and posted it on my social media. Omo, you should have seen how people were hyping me! That same "me" got a skin cut a few months later, and even I could see the difference, I looked really ugly.

Also, women have specs (preferences). Don’t let anyone lie to you; some like light-skinned guys, some love dark-skinned guys, some love chubby men, some love skinny men (yes, some do), and most love tall men.

It's left for you as a guy to know her spec and know if you should keep pushing or not.


Just look at the Snowfall actor (Damson Idris); the guy is average, but when he dresses and comes out, every girl thinks he is handsome.

So, that money men use to chase women, use it to work on yourself and freshen up. Get a good skincare routine, good clothes that fit you, a good haircut, and many more. I promise you, you will move up the ladder from average to handsome.

One word, you see that good haircut, it never goes wrong as far as men attractiveness is concerned. No matter how expensive it is, I get my hair cut and my beards groomed every week. The kind of confidence I get from it, you would think I'm on drugs.

Dressing nice, keeping good hygiene and smelling nice with good haircut, will always give you a 50% boost to your physical attractiveness as a man no matter how ugly you may think you are.

Wotowotoman:
Total BS. Women are hit on every blessed day in every country in the world. Any woman wey man no dey toast must be very unattractive.

That's not always true, sometimes the more beautiful and attractive you are as a woman, the less men woo you. And about your first sentence, you may be right but Nigerian men are totally different, they are on another level above the rest when it comes to chasing and lusting after attractive ladies. They come off as too thirsty. They are primarily the enablers of olosho in Nigerian women.

In America, if you approach and woo a girl the way we aggressively do in Nigeria even when the girl don't seem to be interested, you will be accused of sexual harassment. A guy just got fired in my workplace for sexual harassment for persistently buying gifts for a lady even when the lady constantly told him off.

It's only in Nigeria Oga will fire you or starts maltreating you for refusing to sleep with him. Lecturers are the worst. Try to do the same thing with Yankee girls against their will, you will go to jail.

Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, all these epistles wey you dey write because you wan sell book get as e be. If hunger dey do you, kukuma just come out and beg. You sef know say na cap you dey cap. Make hunger no go kpai man pikin o

Lol.. this man u still dey here?🤣🤣🤣

My bros girlfriend is likely cheating on him.

Bro was suspecting her and wanted to confront her. But i told him not to, so she won’t become more careful.

Well, she got too comfortable and today sent him a snap today in a place that is definitely a another guys house.

Bro is very sad but i asked him not to confront her yet. He should logout mentally, then continue gathering evidence while he continues eating her. Till he gets tired and moves on.

Funny thing is this girl loves my guy….it’s obvious but she still cheats. Well! That’s Woman for you, they never beat the allegations.

At this point….no matter how good looking you are and how good your game is. Women will always cheat.

I don’t think there is a woman out there that doesn’t cheat. They can love you and still cheat.

This why, i think how they feel about you should never be your problem, as long as you get the pusxy without investing your time and resources.

As For the married men who think their wives are different. I promise you they just haven’t got the right chance. If that 25 year old young man in her work place or street makes a move, she is most likely going down.


Married men are just lucky most young men don’t eye married women. Especially those aged 40 and above.

dreamxhaser:
At this point….no matter how good looking you are and how good your game is. Women will always cheat.

I don’t think there is a woman out there that doesn’t cheat. They can love you and still cheat.

This why, i think how they feel about you should never be your problem, as long as you get the pusxy without investing your time and resources.

As For the married men who think their wives are different. I promise you they just haven’t got the right chance. If that 25 year old young man in her work place or street makes a move, she is most likely going down.


Married men are just lucky most young men don’t eye married women. Especially those aged 40 and above.

No trust, no pain.

CaveAdullam:
Cold Approaching or Genuine Desire


The moment you approached a woman, she automatically becomes the PRIZE. There's no second thought about this.

How you decide to play the game and turn the table to make you the man become the prize is a tedious work of seduction that should either be saved or channelled to a woman that first like you.

The thing is that women have a particular men they love. This is aside financial and physical status. Meet any mature woman today, and she will tell you she loves this particular man. She will not wait for that man to approach her, rather she will get closer to the man and send greenlights. Another man chasing this kind of woman is mere wasting his time.

The humiliation ritual you'll face when cold approaching and the later rejection affects you psychologically no matter how much you all try to form Brocks Lesnar. "Oh, her lose, not mine". Bro shut the Bleep up! It is actually your lose because you were the one that approached her, she never cared about your existence not until you decide to jump into her radar.

This is where manipulative women are able to play their script, because they know that it's the man doing the chasing and as a hunter he will try all means to get her down to satiate his ego and increase his notch counts, and in this same process, alter these men into simps.

Not entirely disproving cold approaching women. But the ROI is extremely low and poor. Your only advantage is if you've good aesthetics in looks and good financial standing. You must be constantly showcasing your status to draw women's attention and as well understand how seduction works. And in most cases you end up being a simp. Because you're trying to force a relationship to happen where there should be none in the first place.

This doesn't means you can't seduce a stranger into your bed, but that's possible if you're doing it on a mutual ground, that's after creating some form of rapport rather than just jumping into her front and starts giving lines. She will definitely see you as a 🤡.

Fun fact: every man also has one or two women vying for their attention. The problem is that men don't know how to pick signals from women and/or these women making sexual advances are not sexually appealing to the men.

It's a dilemma: the woman you lust over don't love you; the woman who loves you, you don't lust over.

The thing here is that, in the intersexual dynamics, the relationship moves easier when it's the woman that likes you first. She'll do everything to make the relationship work. That's what is termed Genuine desire.
Reverse cannot be the case because women want to give reverence and adulation for their men and end up being protected by these men.

Stop shooting aimlessly.

Look for the few women that have genuine desire for you and you'll enjoy the game of seduction and the interplay of love and romance.

word

dreamxhaser:
At this point….no matter how good looking you are and how good your game is. Women will always cheat.

I don’t think there is a woman out there that doesn’t cheat. They can love you and still cheat.

This why, i think how they feel about you should never be your problem, as long as you get the pusxy without investing your time and resources.

As For the married men who think their wives are different. I promise you they just haven’t got the right chance. If that 25 year old young man in her work place or street makes a move, she is most likely going down


Married men are just lucky most young men don’t eye married women. Especially those aged 40 and above

If a man likes,let him put ten rings on a woman's fingers and ten rings on a woman's toes.A woman will still furk whomever she wants to furk because her t-o-t-o belongs to her.
The majority of men,if given the opportunity and if they won't get caught or face dire consequences,would love to furk multiple women yes? The exact same thing as women because na human beings men and women be.Redpill 101.

P.S. Married women actually have the majority of their affairs with married men than single men.

This thread still exist?
😂

I don leave all of una for here. Make una go marry. All of una don dey old

Put me on boss abeg

Women shaa They aren't far from children.

These are what I've learned about them in my few decades in this world:

# You chase them, they avoid you.
You avoid them, they chase you.

Not true except a gift from a man to another man.

Anything a man gives, for a woman it is a gift too her, while whatever a woman gives to a man even if it's a gift, it's a loan to be repaid in one form or another

4. If you can't change her, change her. 😡

JESHAL007:
@ emmaodet, saw your diary on that married woman cheating on her husband, Jesus, sir, will you advice one to marry like these, let's remember these our generation women are not like the 90's and early 2000's women, even these so-called women are promiscuous, tiktok women are going to skyrocket cheating and divorce, it's sad, i would always say these if you didn't meet your wife as a virgin and she's used to sex before she married you, that spirit of fvcking can't leave her it will enter marriage

Lol....I will say give marriage a chance if you can.

I have this believe that you can only get better in what you do and not what you keep avoiding.
We always get nervous when driving a car for the first time, riding a bicycle /okada/ swimming / football / starting and running a biz / entering ring to box / writing etc and always get better as we do more of it not avoiding it.
SO i am of the opinion that boys should go out and woo/toast ladies more, date more and with time you will get better and know how to filter out the seeds from the chaffs.
When i started toasting ladies, i always forget all the lines i had crammed to tell the girls.
After approaching and saying ''Hello'' every other thing disappers from my head. It was so embarrassing then.
Sometimes, my voice would be shaking while talking or afraid but consistency overtime made me better.
Now, i approach ladies with confidence and can keep conversation for as long as it worth it..... that is a lesson from experience and not shying away from it bro

You're so on point ..actually have been a silent follower but dedicated since the days this thread was created till date (eg days of ubunja and dphychologist...etc .something happened to me that period
Have been meeting gals lest wooing for fun ..but this 2 set of gals did a number on me
☝️The 1st gal was being difficult during wooing stage ,she was friends with my circle but made me seemed like I don't exist ,, I tried getting her attention my 🧠was messed up till I gave up ..

☝️2nd Gal was even my tribe but acting like she's foreign this one was a little easy but was manipulative ....I asked her out
😁She couciled then apologized the next day but never rescheduled
But what I noticed was she stringing me along ...trying to friendzone with her actions



--The average man is ignorant and misled. His mental construct of women is far greater than anything the typical woman aspires to. This is not his fault for his biology deceives him and society lies to him, as such the deck of deception is stacked. Nevertheless, the reality remains.[/quote]

Martinez39s:
Ubunja was the first person I mentioned. Lol.

Anyway, it was inevitable. Regardless of whatever happened, we were all bound to move on. I remember saying so, a few years back, that this time would time. Even human beings don't last forever.

The WhatsApp group went silent after three years of hot activity , almost up to a year. When I had concluded that it was dead, it came back to life again and is now active like its peak.

May the souls of redpillers who passed away rest in peace. For those still kicking, more growth and success in your redpill journey and other areas of life.

I was on the WhatsApp group before my account was suspended by Zuckerberg..

I will appreciate if I can get the link to join again..
Thank you 🤍