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Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by yinkeys(m):
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Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 7:23pm On Mar 27
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 9:01pm On Mar 27
I hope this is not a reference to the so called sugar mummies? 🤔
kelechi50:
It's everywhere, even in Nigeria here some women do same .

When a thirty something to forty years lady wows twenty something years old guy. Who pays the bill?
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by amoco(m): 9:47pm On Mar 27
koladata:
Ones you enter Germany with your wife , Germany will lecture your wife that she's more powerful without her husband and the more children she has the more money she get paid. Before you know it Nigerian women will chase their husband away then later come back to cry of loneliness.
I think you are the only one who really understands the real issue. This is correct.
They prefer the payments for the children which they send monthly to Africa to build houses and to their families
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by goran3310(m): 10:06pm On Mar 27
WiseBizInvestor:
What is that?
Human doll for entertainment.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by spiceadole(f): 9:10am On Mar 28
What exactly do women enjoy in sex?
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 12:19pm On Mar 28
Oh! 😳Owwkay🤔we're getting to understand the real foundation reason and societal cause of this trend in Germany. 🤔
koladata:
Ones you enter Germany with your wife , Germany will lecture your wife that she's more powerful without her husband and the more children she has the more money she get paid. Before you know it Nigerian women will chase their husband away then later come back to cry of loneliness.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by Damseldammie(f): 12:46pm On Mar 28
eepeepook:
Why is it news? Didn’t they say anything good for the goose…
Also good for the gender
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Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by Osiris12: 11:07am On Mar 29
WiseBizInvestor:
What is your actual reason for desiring to emigrate to Germany if I may ask? Let's know your motive first maybe someone can help/guide you here.
1. I want to escape tinubulation
2. I want a better future for my kids
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 2:48pm On Mar 29
WiseBizInvestor:
Let the poor breath!!!
Generational assets are rarely built through hesitation..

They’re built through informed timing...
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by TheBreastSucker(m): 5:14pm On Mar 29
WiseBizInvestor:
What is your actual reason for desiring to emigrate to Germany if I may ask? Let's know your motive first maybe someone can help/guide you here.
I want to go and suk bosom for free grin
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 7:02pm On Mar 29
Okay ooo... May God grant your honest heart desire!
Osiris12:
1. I want to escape tinubulation
2. I want a better future for my kids
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by goran3310(m): 9:16pm On Mar 29
Osiris12:
I wish enter that Germany soon go work. Anyone with ideas
I'm not sure you know what you're talking about.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op):
But why did you say he doesn't know what he's saying? 🤔Would you like to make him and other readers know what he doesn't know or haven't realised?
goran3310:
I'm not sure you know what you're talking about.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 12:03pm On Mar 30
WiseBizInvestor:
But why did you say he doesn't know what he's saying? 🤔Would you like to make him and other readers know what he doesn't know or haven't realised?
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 2:50pm On Mar 30
WiseBizInvestor:
Let the poor breath!!!
Generational assets are rarely built through hesitation..

They’re built through informed timing...
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by goran3310(m): 8:43pm On Mar 30
WiseBizInvestor:
but why did you say he doesn't know what he's saying? 🤔Would you like to make him and other readers know what he doesn't know or haven't realised?
I replied to you, but it seems someone deleted my response. Obviously, they don’t like the truth.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 10:51am On Mar 31
WiseBizInvestor:
Let the poor breath!!!
Generational assets are rarely built through hesitation.

They’re built through informed timing...
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by drnoel: 1:55pm On Mar 31
koladata:
Ones you enter Germany with your wife , Germany will lecture your wife that she's more powerful without her husband and the more children she has the more money she get paid. Before you know it Nigerian women will chase their husband away then later come back to cry of loneliness.
Actually not true and not secluded to only Germany. Lots of things influence such an occurrence for example:
1. The dating period. Did they know themselves
2. Financial capability. Here might require elaboration.
3. Social status and social group. A goat that doesn't eat yam but follows those that do, will at one time start eating yam.
4. Exposure (matters allot).
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by drnoel: 1:57pm On Mar 31
goran3310:
My opinion? It all depends on what a woman wants and how much she is worth.
Either adapt to the new society and environment or disappear.
Beauty standards are incomparably stricter.
Everything is on a much higher level. What choice does a Black woman have in Europe? 90% of them have no chance at all to achieve a serious relationship with a quality white man.
What remains for them are Black men who cannot even help themselves, let alone form a family and be even remotely decent husbands. Black men are known for the fact that their ultimate success in life is to get some stupid white woke loser pregnant and run away because they are not capable of anything more. They simply do not have the capacity. And of course what remains for them are migrants, Muslims, who will beat and abuse them. That is all.
That is the reality and that is the truth. The 10% who have the possibility to enter a marriage with some quality white man — that is like me now going to the store and finding a suitcase with a million dollars on the street. Considering the terrible situation in Europe and the overall rise of anger among ordinary people because of migration, the situation will only get worse. That’s it.
White people make up 7% of the world’s population. If anyone is endangered, they are endangered. That makes things even more difficult. When dating, that should also be kept in mind.
That is also not true. Most white men would sleep with anything sleepable and they love exortic things here
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by pansophist(m): 4:49pm On Mar 31
I have lots of German friends and the one that I know that still lives in Germany (most of them moved) ain’t married. They may have a fling or two, or at best, a girlfriend, but marriage is out of the picture.

And would you blame them? Go read German laws and how it treats men, and you will understand why men avoids women. Many Nigerian guys in Germany are just sleeping around and won’t commit

I even have to cut of a Naija guy that is a sex tourist. Travelling to different German cities to fork many of these lonely women, some with kids.

The west generally do not support family, and you can argue that it is anti-family. Even at that, women will still desire a traditional man, when the landscape has changed completely.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by WiseBizInvestor(op): 5:45pm On Mar 31
Hmmmmm 🤔This give us another insight into this menace in a typical German community 🤔
pansophist:
I have lots of German friends and the one that I know that still lives in Germany (most of them moved) ain’t married. They may have a fling or two, or at best, a girlfriend, but marriage is out of the picture.

And would you blame them? Go read German laws and how it treats men, and you will understand why men avoids women. Many Nigerian guys in Germany are just sleeping around and won’t commit

I even have to cut of a Naija guy that is a sex tourist. Travelling to different German cities to fork many of these lonely women, some with kids.

The west generally do not support family, and you can argue that it is anti-family. Even at that, women will still desire a traditional man, when the landscape has changed completely.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by emabe: 9:46pm On Mar 31
pansophist:
I have lots of German friends and the one that I know that still lives in Germany (most of them moved) ain’t married. They may have a fling or two, or at best, a girlfriend, but marriage is out of the picture.

And would you blame them? Go read German laws and how it treats men, and you will understand why men avoids women. Many Nigerian guys in Germany are just sleeping around and won’t commit

I even have to cut of a Naija guy that is a sex tourist. Travelling to different German cities to fork many of these lonely women, some with kids.

The west generally do not support family, and you can argue that it is anti-family. Even at that, women will still desire a traditional man, when the landscape has changed completely.
That's another lie
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by Gerrard59(m): 1:11am On Apr 01
drnoel:
That is also not true. Most white men would sleep with anything sleepable and they love exortic things here
The person you quoted emphasised marriage not causal sex. You are stating an entirely different aspect.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by Gerrard59(m): 1:14am On Apr 01
goran3310:
My opinion? It all depends on what a woman wants and how much she is worth.
Either adapt to the new society and environment or disappear.
Beauty standards are incomparably stricter.
Everything is on a much higher level. What choice does a Black woman have in Europe? 90% of them have no chance at all to achieve a serious relationship with a quality white man.
What remains for them are Black men who cannot even
White people make up 7% of the world’s population. If anyone is endangered, they are endangered. That makes things even more difficult. When dating, that should also be kept in mind.
Basic demographics and human tribalism, but many seem to overlook it. The aspect of "quality white man" is also an important metric in assessing marriages.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by drnoel: 11:22am On Apr 01
Gerrard59:
The person you quoted emphasised marriage not causal sex. You are stating an entirely different aspect.
It seems that you are the one that didn't understand what the person I quoted was trying to say. I had to go back and reread the posters comment to be sure I didn't misunderstand.
There was no place in his write-up that he stated marriage or sex categorically but once you understand the implication of what he was saying you will see he mentioned sex rhetorically many times.
So to conclude you had no understanding of what he meant. Meaning my comment remains true and correct. Cheers!
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by Gerrard59(m): 11:31am On Apr 01
drnoel:
It seems that you are the one that didn't understand what the person I quoted was trying to say. I had to go back and reread the posters comment to be sure I didn't misunderstand.
There was no place in his write-up that he stated marriage or sex categorically but once you understand the implication of what he was saying you will see he mentioned sex rhetorically many times.
So to conclude you had no understanding of what he meant. Meaning my comment remains true and correct. Cheers!
Apologies for being pedantic, but here is my response and do have a great day too.

Everything is on a much higher level. What choice does a Black woman have in Europe? 90% of them have no chance at all to achieve a serious relationship with a quality white man.
What remains for them are Black men who cannot even help themselves, let alone form a family and be even remotely decent husbands. Black men are known for the fact that their ultimate success in life is to get some stupid white woke loser pregnant and run away because they are not capable of anything more.
Re: "We Pay Men To Sleep With Us In Germany!"-Nigerian Woman Share Shocking Struggle by drnoel: 11:46am On Apr 01
Gerrard59:
Apologies for being pedantic, but here is my response and do have a great day too.
Hmm? I do apologise in return. I might have been a little brisk in my reply.
Then again, I still don't agree with the statement cos in my opinion it is not true. That doesn't mean that it doesn't happen but for me as regards this topic true statements are those that one can generalise to a wider population group.
That said, black sister in Europe might be lonely doesn't mean they don't have options.
And yes, a Nigerian man that is holding his own, mobile and has a nice apartment in Europe would score way more than his expectations in Europe as well as in Nigeria.
Question always is this; what does it profit him?
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