This is a very serious issue to the regular Nigerian. What strategy do you employ when you're faced with this scenerio time and time again? It could come in either of these forms:
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1. You board a bus or cab and find out that a friend (probably of the opposite sex) boarded the same vehicle. You are going to get to pay before the person pays and you don't want to look like a bad person or a stingy person, so you just pay for him/her and alert the person that you've paid.
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2. Both of you are going to the same place (probably a place of work or some other place) and you both board the same vehicle, and you feel this nudge in your chest that you just have to pay for him/her. Then, the next day, two of you find yourself in the same scenerio again and you feel like stabbing yourself.
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The few people I asked gave the following forms of treatment.
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1. If it happens the first time, you could pay, but if its the second time again, you could just politely ask the person to pay.
2. Can't the person pay too? Mtcheeew (lol).
3. I'll pretend like I dont know that the person is inside the bus. Its when we're about to highlight that i'll scream .. ''Jide man!!! I no see you oo. So na this bus you enter?''. (lol) . Or ''Sandra sweetie, you entered this same bus? I didnt see you oo''.
4. I'll playfully ask him/her to pay for himself/herself. Sometimes being blunt doesnt kill.
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so this is what i've gathered.
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Although, there was this one fateful day that I did not have money on me. I just had my t-fair, to and fro, in my pockets. I was expecting someone to pay some money into my account, so I took my ATM along, hoping to withdraw if I got the alert. Then somehow I discovered that a girl I knew was in the same bus I boarded. And as a typical Naija guy, i didnt wanna 'Bleep up'. If you were in this situation, what would you do?

Hehehe walahi dis op is on point

Throway face .

...pay for myself of course! Cos he or she is suppose to be having his/her fare on...
..best way to live happier is when ♈όϋ expect less from people..

A gentleman always pay for a lady transport fare.

Jobless babes be like....

mizzkeji44:
A gentleman always pay for a lady transport fare.

When i finished sec school, i boarded a bus going to mushin, saw an external candid8 girl that dont talk with i and my close fnds. I greeted her, we started talking, when conductor asked for money, i gave him #200 and the conductor didnt even want to ask the girl until i told him that its for only me o. I swear this girl face change when i talk am.

Me: ah thank God say i see you
Eniola:#smiling..Heheheh
Me: na u go pay for me o,driver collect your money from my sista ooo..
Eniola: #Still smiling like she had just been electrocuted.
Me: U be big girl o,no fall my hand..

Conductor: Bross,owo e da?
Eniola: Conductor don't worry,take for the both of us..#smiling like a big girl
Me: I trust you babe,this is why i always find it so difficult to love any other girl..You are so caring and sweet.#fake_smiles
Eniola: thanks,i am blushing

Weytin concern me with t-fare. #trekking 4 lyf

zadok60:
Me: ah thank God say i see you
Eniola:#smiling..Heheheh
Me: na u go pay for me o,driver collect your money from my sista ooo..
Eniola: #Still smiling like she had just been electrocuted.
Me: U be big girl o,no fall my hand..

Conductor: Bross,owo e da?
Eniola: Conductor don't worry,take for the both of us..#smiling like a big girl
Me: I trust you babe,this is why i always find it so difficult to love any other girl..You are so caring and sweet.#fake_smiles
Eniola: thanks,i am blushing

lmfao!!!! Guys and scope!!

dkronicle:
When i finished sec school, i boarded a bus going to mushin, saw an external candid8 girl that dont talk with i and my close fnds. I greeted her, we started talking, when conductor asked for money, i gave him #200 and the conductor didnt even want to ask the girl until i told him that its for only me o. I swear this girl face change when i talk am.

lol, no even bother ask for number again. Or else, na Boko Haram number she go give you

tomiobj:
Weytin concern me with t-fare. #trekking 4 lyf

how many places can you trek to?

mizzkeji44:
A gentleman always pay for a lady transport fare.

and what does a gentlelady do?

dkronicle:
When i finished sec school, i boarded a bus going to mushin, saw an external candid8 girl that dont talk with i and my close fnds. I greeted her, we started talking, when conductor asked for money, i gave him #200 and the conductor didnt even want to ask the girl until i told him that its for only me o. I swear this girl face change when i talk am.

Wickedness!

tomiobj:
Weytin concern me with t-fare. #trekking 4 lyf

u neva swear 4 ursef so?

iceberylin:
Jobless babes be like....

So if me and my bf are going out,i wl be the one to pay t-fare?
If he is broke,i can pick up the bills but if not,nothing stops him from paying.

mesoade:
how many places can you trek to?

. My shoe knows d way to my village,work and church

I remember one time like that. I'd just discovered that one girl (a coursemate) was living near my hostel. The next morning, we somehow ended up going to school together. I paid her T-fair. Second day, the same thing. On the third day... As we entered the bus and conductor asked for money. I diped my hand in my pocket and brought out my 'pre-planned' N1000 note. Then i asked the girl ''aaah, dear, I dont have change. Can you pay?''. Lmao.. She force smile sote, her powder break.

mesoade:
and what does a gentlelady do?

Support him financially wen he is broke.

mizzkeji44:

So if me and my bf are going out,i wl be the one to pay t-fare?
If he is broke,i can pick up the bills but if not,nothing stops him from paying.

Bae...was joking tho...
He ought to pay..it takes mote than few words to date an Angel...

mizzkeji44:

So if me and my bf are going out,i wl be the one to pay t-fare?
If he is broke,i can pick up the bills but if not,nothing stops him from paying.

every time? So you are saying that its until he's broke before you can help out with t-fair?

Mathicks:
lmfao!!!! Guys and scope!!

that's #scope 1

mizzkeji44:
A gentleman always pay for a lady transport fare.

Jeez.


U deserve a knock...



On ur head...

mizzkeji44:
A gentleman always pay for a lady transport fare.

and a gentle lady does what?

mesoade:
and what does a gentlelady do?

. Open leg

tomiobj:
Weytin concern me with t-fare. #trekking 4 lyf

Amen...

Exclusively for u..

Stingy man..

Na me carry you enter the bus? Ogbeni park well jo. ....open your wallet flash your money before agbero harass you.

Scamfender:
every time? So you are saying that its until he's broke before you can help out with t-fair?

Yes nau....if a guy is not broke,datz his responsibility.

Tallesty1:
and a gentle lady does what?

I dnt knw.
All i know is,it is unethical for a lady to pay t-fare wen a gentleman/her bf is around even if she is havin d money.

Visit www.scamfender.com

ERCROSS:


Jeez.


U deserve a knock...



On ur head...

Y now?

mizzkeji44:

I dnt knw.
All i know is,it is unethical for a lady to pay t-fare wen a gentleman/her bf is around even if she is havin d money.

Unethical in the mentality of some lazy assed naija ladies or in the whole world?

Is it not funny that u as a lady do not know what gentle ladies do..

But you are a teacher of what gentlemen do..

How is what we do your business?