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There is no man you say 'sir' to that would not love or consider loving you. It's only a matter of time keep saying sir!!!. No wonder God said submit!!! Saying sir to a man even if he is a boy makes him feel good.

Chai maybe na why this babe still deh call me sir even when I tell am to stop

What happened to a yes! With a warm and polite smile. That yes sir! Yes sir! Thing makes us men sometimes feel too old. And a simple Hy and hello with that cool smile is enough to get our full attention.

Well that only happens when the said lady is not directly your staff working for you… A man might not directly notice that if he pays you and you work for him… except you’re extremely polite and not faking it.

For someone not working for you, saying sir will get the man thinking about you when you’re also polite and respectful.

A woman that’s polite and respectful will always get men’s attention faster.

All man love to be respected

Omorr, Dem leave me marry another person😥.
Present babe doing the same, it doesn't pass my ear 😅😂🤣

Prettyangelng:
There is no man you say 'sir' to that would not love or consider loving you. It's only a matter of time keep saying sir!!!. No wonder God said submit!!! Saying sir to a man even if he is a boy makes him feel good.

If I'm liking a girl or considering dating her then she starts that sir thing, I will politely correct her and if she still continues with it na to avoid her as best as I can. Calling me sir isn't respect. You show respect by how you treat me directly and not by mere words like "sir"

A man that always complains that the soup is too much for the eba cannot handle greatness
-Pete Edochie

kiddaz:
If I'm liking a girl or considering dating her then she starts that sir thing, I will politely correct her and if she still continues with it na to avoid her as best as I can. Calling me sir isn't respect. You show respect by how you treat me directly and not by mere words like "sir"

Sir Is a slave Word!! So anytime some one like a woman called you that.. it's hit your soul to soften you because your re slave to your mind so you need healing ND trauma detachment .. which the mind comprises of the mental state..

Not just sir, she should kneel down whenever am talking to her. That's total submission.

Generally that is the main thing to men, but each person has its own way of acknowledging closeness.

My own is favour. Telling you to help me with this or that and you refuse, your chapter is closed.

Stingy gals are always a nightmare!

Girl, be careful with this mindset. The idea that "saying sir" will automatically make a man love or respect you is false and can backfire. "Yes sir" belongs mainly in professional or formal settings; it is not a love language.

Unprofessional behaviour has limited many women. Imagine how responsible women feel working in an environment where a boss or superior is hitting on them. Not every "I want you" or "I love you" is genuine love, and not every woman wants to end up as a plaything. It is best for a woman to set boundaries and focus on the job she was hired to do.

Even in informal settings, many men who pursue women displaying unnecessary submissive gestures aren't in it for love; they are after control and the freedom to behave recklessly.

Don't confuse obligatory gestures with real respect. Saying "yes sir" to superiors, bowing, kneeling, or prostrating for elders are just formalities.

Real respect, the kind that matters in relationships, cannot be learned, demanded, or forced. It develops naturally over time and is built on trust, responsibility, and character. If respect isn't built, it may never be real. You can't force it or fake it for long; eventually, it fades. Wise women find it difficult to respect foolish men, especially those who have been reckless, selfish, or self-centered from the start.

First impressions last. Consistency in the early stages matters. A partner earns respect by being responsible, thoughtful, and caring from the start. Once genuine respect is formed, it is hard to break; even when mistakes are made, it can persist and sometimes inspire understanding.

On the other hand, if someone acts selfishly or recklessly from the beginning, any respect shown may just be an obligatory gesture, the kind society expects women to give their partners. Such respect rarely lasts and can collapse quickly.

You are only simply misquoting the Bible "God never commanded women to submit to their husbands."

Gbadugbakun:
Not just sir, she should kneel down whenever am talking to her. That's total submission.

Your dreams can only come true if you find a gullible, unwise woman. You are not more human than a woman; I still don't understand where all this unnecessary ego comes from. Why do you feel your wife has to kneel for you? What makes you so special?

What is even more shocking is that the men who treat their wives poorly are often the ones who feel most entitled to respect.

Gestures like kneeling or calling a husband "sir" are personal responses to being loved and cared for; they are not to be demanded or expected. Even Abraham didn't demand them, and God didn't command them of Sarah. They were acts of love, not obligations. Sarah was barren, yet she was still respected and cherished. Today, many barren women are insulted, belittled, and abandoned.

I don't see anything wrong in a woman kneeling for her husband or calling him "sir" or even "daddy," but if she gives these gestures to a man who doesn't love, care for, or emotionally neglects her, she is simply enslaving herself. That is what slaves do; they serve their master regardless of how poorly they are treated.

Ladies, don't be deceived; a man who genuinely loves you already feels it. Respect can deepen an existing love, but it cannot make a non-existing love appear out of thin air.

Prettyangelng:
There is no man you say 'sir' to that would not love or consider loving you. It's only a matter of time keep saying sir!!!. No wonder God said submit!!! Saying sir to a man even if he is a boy makes him feel good.

Who teach you this code.
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You are wrong op.
Saying Sir to a man or a boy as you have implied does not categorically male a man love you or start having thoughts of you no.
It's your theory and does not apply everywhere even in the slightest bit.

A guy will pay more attention to you if you are kind of person that focuses on their duty while being polite at the same time. Not just 'sir' 'sir'.. apply wisdom

Gbadugbakun:
Not just sir, she should kneel down whenever am talking to her. That's total submission.

🤣🤣 Men dey o

Prettyangelng:
There is no man you say 'sir' to that would not love or consider loving you. It's only a matter of time keep saying sir!!!. No wonder God said submit!!! Saying sir to a man even if he is a boy makes him feel good.

You are right to some extent but not all men would do that or would be fooled by that because your character would tell whether your "Sir" is genuine or fake. And as for the word "Submit", it goes beyond just addressing any man "Sir". Truth be told, most women are not submissive to their husbands. Only very few women are submissive and these women are very rare find. Many women fake submission during courtship or relationship but immediately after marriage, you will see their true colors. No let person whine you. We have Real and Fake Submission. Sarah in the Bible is a good example of what submission to a man means.

Gbadugbakun:
Not just sir, she should kneel down whenever am talking to her. That's total submission.

knee down when you are talking to her? Is she your maid/ slave or wife?

Holluwhakemmy:
knee down when you are talking to her? Is she your maid/ slave or wife?

Ever heard of the word sarcasm?

Prettyangelng:
There is no man you say 'sir' to that would not love or consider loving you. It's only a matter of time keep saying sir!!!. No wonder God said submit!!! Saying sir to a man even if he is a boy makes him feel good.

Answering a guy sir yes sir makes him feel he is old. Stop answering sir to your bf or a guy. It's not romantic. It's annoying. Simply say yes!