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Opetejeje:
Hello my fellow Nairalanders!

I met this young undergraduate girl earlier this year, in January; she had just turned 20., I am 29. I asked her out and she agreed. She's respectful but can be cosy and stubborn at times. I always try to correct and guide her, but sometimes she doesn't listen. We go out together and even to the gym, and she feels jealous if she sees another lady around me. Fast forward to March, we became intimate; she was a virgin. Recently, she had been misbehaving and giving me the silent treatment, not calling, but she responds if I call or text. A few days ago, she messaged me saying she didn't want to continue with the relationship. I asked her why and what went wrong, and she said, "Everything felt wrong, I lost my true self at some point. I did things that are not my real personality." I felt I might have pushed too hard or applied pressure at some point, so I just replied, 'It’s fine, I'll give you space.' Since last week, she hasn’t texted or called, and I haven’t either. Do you think I should give her the benefit of the doubt by checking in with a text, or just leave it? By the way, she liked my WhatsApp status the second day.

Sucre6:
Lols, don’t call her, don’t text her, mute her status but allow her see yours, delete all her picture and just Dey your Dey, done ever ever call or text her


Few weeks later nah she go find you come trust me. This is a shitty test she’s given you to know if you are a real gee or just a pvssy ass nigga.
Don’t fall for it.

Sonnobax15:

Bro move on with your life.

Cuz , irrespective of age, once a lady says she's done she's done. Checking up on her will only mean you want her back and to me that seems like pressuring her to come back to you. And that ain't making no sense at all.

Baronthecelebri:
I you're jobless that is why,my go and make money,

Maj196:
How would you at 29 date a girl of 20. Don't you know at that age she's still not mature and will easily influenced by peers

McLizbae:
"She's a virgin" How did you confirmed that? If she'd told you, but you still made an attempt to confirm it with an attempted intercourse, that may also be her first time of such attempt, which may be rough on her... It is possible that she's truly inexperienced, and you are moving things to fast.

In short, that may be a good girl.

If you think she's likes you, slow things down to her pace and maintain a friendship with her. While you coordinate with wisdom, as na you still suppose be the leader.

Opetejeje:
She's absolutely in experienced but i didn't force anything, it'smutual, i do ask her if he truly want it

Sucre6:
Lols, don’t call her, don’t text her, mute her status but allow her see yours, delete all her picture and just Dey your Dey, done ever ever call or text her


Few weeks later nah she go find you come trust me. This is a shitty test she’s given you to know if you are a real gee or just a pvssy ass nigga.
Don’t fall for it.

Opetejeje:
She's absolutely in experienced but i didn't force anything, it'smutual, i do ask her if he truly want it

Mariangeles:
This one is trying to live out his revenge through another person.

Mariangeles:
This one is trying to live out his revenge through another person.

Mariangeles:
Did you continue to insist on sleeping with her, till she gave in?

I think she felt like she betrayed herself.

Opetejeje:
Are you suggesting i reach out?

Mariangeles:
Did you continue to insist on sleeping with her, till she gave in?

I think she felt like she betrayed herself.

DMCA:
young and tight cavity wey never gbim need to be explored more

Mariangeles:
Not really.

Just don't make yourself available for mind/emotional games.

The part about she liking your WhatsApp status?

Sucre6:
Lols, don’t call her, don’t text her, mute her status but allow her see yours, delete all her picture and just Dey your Dey, done ever ever call or text her


Few weeks later nah she go find you come trust me. This is a shitty test she’s given you to know if you are a real gee or just a pvssy ass nigga.
Don’t fall for it.

Mariangeles:
Behave yourself so that you don't keep getting blocked.

Sucre6:
You are one Monika I respect here , let’s keep it that way Abeg, no girl has broken up with me, u know why, because I expect less from relationships , before u go tell me say u need brake I don already wake, no question ask and I don’t even need you to explain why you are leaving,. Life’s too short make person come Dey wait for person way no sabi wetin dem want.

Opetejeje:
I'm just confused like why is he liking my status, I expected her to block me. I feel she doesn't knw what she wants and one guy might have been scoping her.

Mariangeles:
I felt your comment was quite harsh, and coming from a place, then again, my apologies.

Opetejeje:
Hello my fellow Nairalanders!

I met this young undergraduate girl earlier this year, in January; she had just turned 20., I am 29. I asked her out and she agreed. She's respectful but can be cosy and stubborn at times. I always try to correct and guide her, but sometimes she doesn't listen. We go out together and even to the gym, and she feels jealous if she sees another lady around me. Fast forward to March, we became intimate; she was a virgin. Recently, she had been misbehaving and giving me the silent treatment, not calling, but she responds if I call or text. A few days ago, she messaged me saying she didn't want to continue with the relationship. I asked her why and what went wrong, and she said, "Everything felt wrong, I lost my true self at some point. I did things that are not my real personality." I felt I might have pushed too hard or applied pressure at some point, so I just replied, 'It’s fine, I'll give you space.' Since last week, she hasn’t texted or called, and I haven’t either. Do you think I should give her the benefit of the doubt by checking in with a text, or just leave it? By the way, she liked my WhatsApp status the second day.

Sucre6:
Apologies accepted mam 🤗, I can’t stay mad at you, your page is my most visited because of your mouth watery food recipes 😅