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Physical intimacy is one of the things that keeps a relationship feeling close. But for many couples, it slowly fades, and it can be confusing or even frustrating. There are some common reasons why this happens.

1. Stress and Busy Lives

Life gets hectic. Work deadlines, school, kids, or family responsibilities can leave both partners drained. When you’re tired or stressed all the time, it’s hard to feel like being close or intimate...

2. Lack of Communication

If you don’t talk about your feelings or what you want, misunderstandings build up. Sometimes one partner feels rejected or unnoticed, and neither says anything. Over time, this can make being physically close feel uncomfortable.

3. Emotional Distance

Being intimate isn’t just about touch—it’s about feeling connected. If you’ve been drifting apart emotionally, cuddling or kissing can start to feel forced or empty. Feeling emotionally close often brings back physical closeness too.

4. Health and Energy

Illness, hormonal changes, or even some medications can lower desire. Things like depression, diabetes, or high blood pressure can make it harder to feel in the mood, even if love is still there.

5. Routine and Boredom

Doing the same things over and over, both in life and in the bedroom, can make intimacy feel boring. When things feel predictable, the excitement that fuels closeness can fade.

6. Lingering Conflicts

Old fights, resentment, or hurt feelings don’t just stay in your head—they affect the bedroom too. If you feel hurt or ignored, being physically close can feel unsafe or unwelcome.

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Remember, it’s normal for intimacy to dip sometimes. What matters is noticing it and caring enough to try again

Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

They were not ready for marriage

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

No romance without finance?

Or people's eyes are finally opened in marriages that they cannot be bought again?

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

true yarn oh no money no love

Wen women concentrate on dia phones, they don't have time for anybody, including doing house chores, even taking care of their children, they press phone till 3am and wake up 10am, the father will be the one to prepare the kids for school.

Finance is the number one reason.... when a man struggles to provide for his family add to a nagging wife, his libido is non existent

SammySammy1011:
Wen women concentrate on dia phones, they don't have time for anybody, including doing house chores, even taking care of their children, they press phone till 3am and wake up 10am, the father will be the one to prepare the kids for school.

Any husband who tolerates the above should just be wearing skirts and lipstick cos no need for him to pretend to be a man again

youngsahito:
Physical intimacy is one of the things that keeps a relationship feeling close. But for many couples, it slowly fades, and it can be confusing or even frustrating. There are some common reasons why this happens.

1. Stress and Busy Lives

Life gets hectic. Work deadlines, school, kids, or family responsibilities can leave both partners drained. When you’re tired or stressed all the time, it’s hard to feel like being close or intimate...

2. Lack of Communication

If you don’t talk about your feelings or what you want, misunderstandings build up. Sometimes one partner feels rejected or unnoticed, and neither says anything. Over time, this can make being physically close feel uncomfortable.

3. Emotional Distance

Being intimate isn’t just about touch—it’s about feeling connected. If you’ve been drifting apart emotionally, cuddling or kissing can start to feel forced or empty. Feeling emotionally close often brings back physical closeness too.

4. Health and Energy

Illness, hormonal changes, or even some medications can lower desire. Things like depression, diabetes, or high blood pressure can make it harder to feel in the mood, even if love is still there.

5. Routine and Boredom

Doing the same things over and over, both in life and in the bedroom, can make intimacy feel boring. When things feel predictable, the excitement that fuels closeness can fade.

6. Lingering Conflicts

Old fights, resentment, or hurt feelings don’t just stay in your head—they affect the bedroom too. If you feel hurt or ignored, being physically close can feel unsafe or unwelcome.

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Remember, it’s normal for intimacy to dip sometimes. What matters is noticing it and caring enough to try again

Can you comment on the effectiveness of anal sex in revitalizing a dead relationship?

youngsahito:
Physical intimacy is one of the things that keeps a relationship feeling close. But for many couples, it slowly fades, and it can be confusing or even frustrating. There are some common reasons why this happens.

1. Stress and Busy Lives

Life gets hectic. Work deadlines, school, kids, or family responsibilities can leave both partners drained. When you’re tired or stressed all the time, it’s hard to feel like being close or intimate...

2. Lack of Communication

If you don’t talk about your feelings or what you want, misunderstandings build up. Sometimes one partner feels rejected or unnoticed, and neither says anything. Over time, this can make being physically close feel uncomfortable.

3. Emotional Distance

Being intimate isn’t just about touch—it’s about feeling connected. If you’ve been drifting apart emotionally, cuddling or kissing can start to feel forced or empty. Feeling emotionally close often brings back physical closeness too.

4. Health and Energy

Illness, hormonal changes, or even some medications can lower desire. Things like depression, diabetes, or high blood pressure can make it harder to feel in the mood, even if love is still there.

5. Routine and Boredom

Doing the same things over and over, both in life and in the bedroom, can make intimacy feel boring. When things feel predictable, the excitement that fuels closeness can fade.

6. Lingering Conflicts

Old fights, resentment, or hurt feelings don’t just stay in your head—they affect the bedroom too. If you feel hurt or ignored, being physically close can feel unsafe or unwelcome.

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Remember, it’s normal for intimacy to dip sometimes. What matters is noticing it and caring enough to try again

are you single or married?

Fact

Experiencing it currently. After a hectic, chaotic day and preparing to go face the next day, where person wan see time and feelings for za oza room?

Na story be this oh! We are enjoying it.

Alusiizizi:
Can you comment on the effectiveness of anal sex in revitalizing a dead relationship?

what type of relationship are you talking about here?


if it is boyfriend and girlfriend or hook up or same sex or fwb relationship

just forget it

it is fornication, short and simple

Also no light to on AC. The heat is too much.

youngsahito:
Physical intimacy is one of the things that keeps a relationship feeling close. But for many couples, it slowly fades, and it can be confusing or even frustrating. There are some common reasons why this happens.

1. Stress and Busy Lives

Life gets hectic. Work deadlines, school, kids, or family responsibilities can leave both partners drained. When you’re tired or stressed all the time, it’s hard to feel like being close or intimate...

2. Lack of Communication

If you don’t talk about your feelings or what you want, misunderstandings build up. Sometimes one partner feels rejected or unnoticed, and neither says anything. Over time, this can make being physically close feel uncomfortable.

3. Emotional Distance

Being intimate isn’t just about touch—it’s about feeling connected. If you’ve been drifting apart emotionally, cuddling or kissing can start to feel forced or empty. Feeling emotionally close often brings back physical closeness too.

4. Health and Energy

Illness, hormonal changes, or even some medications can lower desire. Things like depression, diabetes, or high blood pressure can make it harder to feel in the mood, even if love is still there.

5. Routine and Boredom

Doing the same things over and over, both in life and in the bedroom, can make intimacy feel boring. When things feel predictable, the excitement that fuels closeness can fade.

6. Lingering Conflicts

Old fights, resentment, or hurt feelings don’t just stay in your head—they affect the bedroom too. If you feel hurt or ignored, being physically close can feel unsafe or unwelcome.

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Remember, it’s normal for intimacy to dip sometimes. What matters is noticing it and caring enough to try again

Financial issues, to me, is number one killer of physical intimacy.

Baronthecelebri:
They were not ready for marriage

Even those that were ready got factors that changed the narrative at some point.. Life no get manual.. Ready ko,get ready ni

How did you arrive at this statistics?

What's intimacy without money

Love is sweeter when money enter

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

It suppose be number 1
Truth be told that the main and only reason

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

Na this your 7th problem cause problem number 1 gan gan....

If I nor kñàck now na when I don old I go knàck?

I don't understand what this OP is talking about, nothing can stop me from kñacking.......Minor issues must come but na still kñacking we go use settle am. I don't joke with my sxx life.

Rubbish
Non of this when have money I mean real money u go enjoy intimacy
Forget communication

Wives are trophies
D real enjoy na with sidechic

me dey enjoy my nacking o, every time is so heavenly

Is intimacy a must? Why?
Define intimacy

Walezy2020:
true yarn oh no money no love

Money doesn't promise intimacy. Otherwise rich married men would not patronize OS

This is getting interesting

I think APC is the greatest cause, with Tinubu contributing over 80% of the problem.

The great Tinubulation


in the land

You failed to add one more cause....no.7 Tinubu

Juliette5803:
Finance is the number one reason.... when a man struggles to provide for his family add to a nagging wife, his libido is non existent

Gbam!
Gbam!!
Gbam!!!
You go school my brother 🙏

My marriage would have been a victim of these reasons but thank God my wife always come to my rescue... She has always been the one calling me to order... Thank God I did not marry a liability... A responsible married man living below 200$ with kids during this Tinubu era must have a wife earning at least 150$ a month to balance life...
Please don't marry out of pressure oo... If at all u have to marry then marry a partner who works... Don't marry LIABILITIES