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Contrary to the claim of some ladies that they are fine remaining single even why approaching menopause, a lady has said no one can be fine at 35 or 40 as a single girl irrespective of your achievements.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnJPpHqCDO4

Even as a man, it doesn't look okay to be single at 35 to 40 years not to talk of woman

That's why you'll see alot of them in that bracket, COPING online by forming independent feminist, clocking it with their selves to support anyhow behavior of their fellow gender and generally insist that "men are skuum" - because MISERY LOVES COMPANY.

What they do best at that age is to deceive themselves and other unsuspecting young ladies.

I love honest bannies like this and I won't mind exchanging my heaven's ticket with her just for her to make heaven on the day of rapture

The painful part is that some of them had the opportunity to learn from the mistakes of others but their love for chopping men's money blindfolded them . Imagine dribbling men during your youth as a woman, forgetting that your youthfulness has limited time . Only for you to end up being tossed around by wayward men when meno-stop finally remembes you

I wonder why Pope Leo hasn't said anything yet about these categories of ladies

Being single has it's perks, being married has it's perks too. Know what you really want and decide.

Some are married but want out
Some are out but wants to marry
We want **** and we are ***
Glory be to thee oh Lord.

Proserpina:
Being single has it's perks, being married has it's perks too. Know what you really want and decide.

Some are married but want out
Some are out but wants to marry
We want **** and we are ***
Glory be to thee oh Lord.

Know what you can bear and choice the side you belong

brotherMeigma:
What they do best at that age is to deceive themselves and other unsuspecting young ladies.

Deceiving themselves give rooms to lesbianiam yet the pain of singlehood still remain inward

Lovelink1991:
Know what you can bear and choice the side you belong

Exactly!!!

Some people are not marriageable because they are not marriage centered or family oriented but traditions and culture force these people into marriages they don't want. Let people choose what they want.

Men interested in marriage has reduced drastically due to the economy and situation of the country.

There will be more single women within that age range if they dont reduce their expectation and work properly with the men already in their lives.

To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving.

Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer.

To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. But suffering makes one unhappy.

Therefore, to be happy, one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness.

Merry100:
To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving.

Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer.

To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. But suffering makes one unhappy.

Therefore, to be happy, one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness.

Nothing good comes easy easy.

As a Nigerian born married man, I would honestly say that Nigerian marriage favor women more than men, and you know why?

1.) As a married Nigerian lady, you stop worrying about shelter or accommodation, your husband takes care of that.


2.) You stop worrying about feeding expenses because your hubby takes care of that


3.) You stop worrying about security because your hubby also takes care of that.


Let me stop with the three basic human needs above. Now tell me why a Nigerian lady wouldn't want to get married with the above marriage perks already waiting for her?

franchasng:
As a Nigerian born married man, I would honestly say that Nigerian marriage favor women more than men, and you know why?

1.) As a married Nigerian lady, you stop worrying about shelter or accommodation, your husband takes care of that.


2.) You stop worrying about feeding expenses because your hubby takes care of that


3.) You stop worrying about security because your hubby also takes care of that.


Let me stop with the three basic human needs above. Now tell me why a Nigerian lady wouldn't want to get married with the above marriage perks already waiting for her?

Many men are now sharing the responsibility different from this your above mentioned

Lovelink1991:
Many men are now sharing the responsibility different from this your above mentioned

I said I am married, my wife earn big but I take care of my family's financial responsibility up to 98% or more.


My wife only spend her income on herself, her family, relatives. I still take care of her own personal needs. This also applies to many of my married friends and family members. I have friends in America too that cater for their family up to 75% despite having a working class wife. It is like a norm for most Igbo men anyway, except the man is seriously struggling financially. We Igbo men derive joy and pride in being the sole provider in our marriage. It could be a bad practice based on today's norms but that's how most of us Igbo men are wired.

franchasng:
I said I am married, my wife earn big but I take care of my family's financial responsibility up to 98% or more.


My wife only spend her income on herself, her family, relatives. I still take care of her own personal needs. This also applies to many of my married friends and family members. I have friends in America too that cater for their family up to 75% despite having a working class wife. It is like a norm for most Igbo men anyway, except the man is seriously struggling financially. We Igbo men derive joy and pride in being the sole provider in our marriage. It could be a bad practice based on today's norms but that's how most of us Igbo men are wired.

So long you are not complaining because you have what it takes to meet up to the needs of the entire house it is welcome. If it is the other way around then one can complain

Everybody dey form relationship expert online. Isn’t Tinubu’s regime wonderful? Another four years of this.

eepeepook:
Everybody dey form relationship expert online. Isn’t Tinubu’s regime wonderful? Another four years of this.

meobizy, where is your senior brother (kobojunkie)? I want to show you both something very crucial.🥱🥱

franchasng:
As a Nigerian born married man, I would honestly say that Nigerian marriage favor women more than men, and you know why?

1.) As a married Nigerian lady, you stop worrying about shelter or accommodation, your husband takes care of that.


2.) You stop worrying about feeding expenses because your hubby takes care of that


3.) You stop worrying about security because your hubby also takes care of that.


Let me stop with the three basic human needs above. Now tell me why a Nigerian lady wouldn't want to get married with the above marriage perks already waiting for her?

You are absolutely right 👍
A man is just a means to an end and not the end game.

franchasng:
I said I am married, my wife earn big but I take care of my family's financial responsibility up to 98% or more.


My wife only spend her income on herself, her family, relatives. I still take care of her own personal needs. This also applies to many of my married friends and family members. I have friends in America too that cater for their family up to 75% despite having a working class wife. It is like a norm for most Igbo men anyway, except the man is seriously struggling financially. We Igbo men derive joy and pride in being the sole provider in our marriage. It could be a bad practice based on today's norms but that's how most of us Igbo men are wired.

Are you saying your wife does not contribute anything to the house? That she spends her money on herself and her family, while you spend your own money on her, her family, yourself and your family?

marlow1962:
Are you saying your wife does not contribute anything to the house? That she spends her money on herself and her family, while you spend your own money on her, her family, yourself and your family?

Did he say that his wife makes no financial contribution to running the home? Please read him well. ....."98% ....". There is a 2% outstanding. Don't you think so?

zoedew:
Did he say that his wife makes no financial contribution to running the home? Please read him well. ....."98% ....". There is a 2% outstanding. Don't you think so?

Oga the 2% might be house chores. You can't expect a man paying 98% of all the house bills to be sweeping or washing for you. I'm talking about bills.

marlow1962:
Oga the 2% might be house chores. You can't expect a man paying 98% of all the house bills to be sweeping or washing for you. I'm talking about bills.

Exactly the reason you are wrong! The discussion is within the context of the financial. We are talking about money here. That much is clear from a cursory reading of the thread.

marlow1962:
Are you saying your wife does not contribute anything to the house? That she spends her money on herself and her family, while you spend your own money on her, her family, yourself and your family?

I am glad doing that, it's what I cherish, it's what I prayed for and God answered me and made me more than capable to take care of all my family responsibilities with or without my wife's contribution.


She invests for her kids, our kids, that's enough. I don't need her to contribute, she has asked to take up some responsibilities and I told her there is no need for that since I can do it effortlessly, that she should channel her income towards assisting her family that trained her, and investing for her kids for future.


So don't pity me

franchasng:
I said I am married, my wife earn big but I take care of my family's financial responsibility up to 98% or more.


My wife only spend her income on herself, her family, relatives. I still take care of her own personal needs. This also applies to many of my married friends and family members. I have friends in America too that cater for their family up to 75% despite having a working class wife. It is like a norm for most Igbo men anyway, except the man is seriously struggling financially. [s]We Igbo men derive joy and pride in being the sole provider in our marriage.[/s] It could be a bad practice based on today's norms but that's how most of us Igbo men are wired.

This thinking is archaic and absurd. No wonder Igbo men die earlier in marriage due to stress.

Marriage is a business partnership. Share both the financial and other responsibilities

Kaido:
This thinking is archaic and absurd. No wonder Igbo men die earlier in marriage due to stress.

Marriage is a business partnership. Share both the financial and other responsibilities

But I said and I quote:

"don't pity me", I carried the cross myself and I am glad carrying it as long as God permits


....and I didn't said every man must practice same....we all are different and we do things the way it pleases us....being the sole provider of my marriage gives me ecstasy, joy and peace

franchasng:
But I said and I quote:

"don't pity me", I carried the cross myself and I am glad carrying it as long as God permits


....and I didn't said every man must practice same....we all are different and we do things the way it pleases us....being the sole provider of my marriage gives me ecstasy, joy and peace

Chai! Okay 👍

An Igbo man was very angry with wife cuz she innocently paid the fees of their son, when the husband travelled. This caused a very serious wahala. Well, I felt he was just a traditional man basking in stupidity.
But now I see things differently from another angle

Kaido:
This thinking is archaic and absurd. No wonder Igbo men die earlier in marriage due to stress.

Marriage is a business partnership. Share both the financial and other responsibilities

Lol

Such cannot work with most Nigerian men, let alone Igbo men raised in the East. The current arrangement fits both parties. The problem is that many Igbo men marry women with too many siblings, and as a result, are compelled or cajoled to take care of their wives' siblings. Also, they go on to have too many children while relying on their incomes.

They live and breathe around men

Meanwhile, we are OK movement

Obi-Kwankwaso

At 35-40, you shouldn’t be looking for a single man but a married man you can share or snatch.

That’s the mistake most make!

Was thinking she would elaborate more about why a single woman isn't okay at age, 35 or 40?

Lovelink1991:
Contrary to the claim of some ladies that they are fine remaining single even why approaching menopause, a lady has said no one can be fine at 35 or 40 as a single girl irrespective of your achievements.

Watch


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnJPpHqCDO4

30 ṣẹf. 35 po ṣẹf.

30 sef

Ṣeun come and complete the rest o jàre.