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No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

[quote author=ebubeson post=139149451]No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.[/quote
True true u b ebubeson

If no sex before marriage, then no spending or billing of any kind before marriage. Case closed.

Seriously, blissful marriage is for serious people...

No sex before marriage, no expenses before marriage; i take accountability of every kobo.

stan4b:
If no sex before marriage, then no spending or billing of any kind before marriage. Case closed.

Na broke people you fit use that one scare.

stan4b:
If no sex before marriage, then no spending or billing of any kind before marriage. Case closed.

That was what me and my husband practised.
We dated for 8 months.No sex, no spending.

It's greedy and broke ladies that can't agree to no spending.
I was working and contended.

We have 3 children now

IamAsiri:
Na broke people you fit use that one scare.

And greedy ladies who are not contented.
When I met my now husband, I told him NO SEX and he said NO SPENDING.
Perfect!
We maintained it like that.

We got married 8 months later.

spiceadole:
And greedy ladies who are not contented.
When I met my now husband, I told him NO SEX and he said NO SPENDING.
Perfect!
We maintained it like that.

We got married 8 months later.

I'm surprised you were not angry with his clap back because once a man says no spending, ladies immediately blackmail them and say 'if you love someone, you'll want to take care of the person'

spiceadole:
That was what me and my husband practised.
We dated for 8 months.No sex, no spending.

It's greedy and broke ladies that can't agree to no spending.
I was working and contended.

We have 3 children now

Is 8 months not too soon to date and get married. I feel a year and half or 2 (max 3 years) is okay.
So many ladies can be on pretence mode for that 8 months or 1 year.

marlow1962:
Is 8 months not too soon to date and get married. I feel a year and half or 2 (max 3 years) is okay.
So many ladies can be on pretence mode for that 8 months or 1 year.

Depends on the situation. If the lady is desperate and the guy is undiscerning, 8 months is not too short.

Julibet:
I'm surprised you were not angry with his clap back because once a man says no spending, ladies immediately blackmail them and say 'if you love someone, you'll want to take care of the person'

Why should I be angry?
I had met guys who didn't agree to "no sex" even when I accepted they should not spend on me.
Finding someone who agreed to my condition was perfect.
I was working and spending on myself.
I didn't just want to be passed around in the name of relationship.

spiceadole:
That was what me and my husband practised.
We dated for 8 months.No sex, no spending.

It's greedy and broke ladies that can't agree to no spending.
I was working and contended.

We have 3 children now

What if you were not sexually compatible?
Were you a virgin?

marlow1962:
Is 8 months not too soon to date and get married. I feel a year and half or 2 (max 3 years) is okay.
So many ladies can be on pretence mode for that 8 months or 1 year.

6 months is more than enough to date and marry for someone who wants to marry.

It's different from people who want boyfriends and girlfriends.Those ones can go on with their 5-10 years or more relationship,studying their partners like undergraduate and master's degree combined.

Good luck to them

Negroid001:
What if you were not sexually compatible?
Were you a virgin?

In my opinion, there is nothing like sexual incompatibility for adults who have no medical /health issues. Fornication does not confirm sexual compatibility,it's a mindset thing.
Men will say they are testing sexual compatibility by sampling different ladies ,then turn around to shame ladies for having high body count.Lol

Secondly, I wasn't a virgin. Despite, maintaining sexual purity all through my teenage years till early adulthood,I lost my virginity in my final year in university in a painful and heartbreaking manner. It took a great toll on me and I had to see a psychologist.

Thankfully,I was able to overcome the bitter experience and graduated.

I met a lot of guys who didn't agree to "No sex, No spending" and after few weeks of talking / hanging out (which I always paid my bills to avoid them feeling entitled to sleep with me),the friendship will die a natural death...and I will move on quickly...No tears,you no waste my time,you no chop me.

ebubeson:
No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

Manipulation 101 🙌, You know the matters 😂😅🤣

spiceadole:
And greedy ladies who are not contented.
When I met my now husband, I told him NO SEX and he said NO SPENDING.
Perfect!
We maintained it like that.

We got married 8 months later.

That Gee really wanted to marry you 😍 but dude was relieving elsewhere 🤷🏿.

marlow1962:
Is 8 months not too soon to date and get married. I feel a year and half or 2 (max 3 years) is okay.
So many ladies can be on pretence mode for that 8 months or 1 year.

I won't waste time to divorce sharply if you trick me

spiceadole:
In my opinion, there is nothing like sexual incompatibility for adults who have no medical /health issues. Fornication does not confirm sexual compatibility,it's a mindset thing.
Men will say they are testing sexual compatibility by sampling different ladies ,then turn around to shame ladies for having high body count.Lol

Secondly, I wasn't a virgin. Despite, maintaining sexual purity all through my teenage years till early adulthood,I lost my virginity in my final year in university in a painful and heartbreaking manner. It took a great toll on me and I had to see a psychologist.

Thankfully,I was able to overcome the bitter experience and graduated.

I met a lot of guys who didn't agree to "No sex, No spending" and after few weeks of talking / hanging out (which I always paid my bills to avoid them feeling entitled to sleep with me),the friendship will die a natural death...and I will move on quickly...No tears,you no waste my time,you no chop me.

I feel sad reading this, very unfortunate incidence 🫂

Gotocourt:
That Gee really wanted to marry you 😍 but dude was relieving elsewhere 🤷🏿.

As long as he was not using me to relief himself.
Because even if I allowed him to, he would still sleep with others if he wanted to. Then , if I catch him, he will proceed to rub it on my face, boast about it and mock me.
Shame and low self esteem will finish me.
I will begin fighting other ladies .. "Leave my man alone" gang
All that drama,not for me please.

ebubeson:
No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

For a virgin yes
But for none virgin NO.
Before you give over used pussy after marriage

No Sex before marriage is ideal. 👍

But in life, things are rarely ideal.

Until you say I do nothing has been done

NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE =
NO MONEY FROM ME BEFORE MARRIAGE

ebubeson:
No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

💯% if they're virgins. Otherwise, don't expect me to carry any of your responsibility.

ebubeson:
No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

Well, this is like cheating. Telling someone no sex before marriage and going ahead to have sex with someone else. It's no different from telling the person, he or she is a fool.

Any woman who use her mouth to tell me that nonsense, it's the surest say for me to tell her to get lost. She's not serious. Period.

Only valid if the lady is a virgin. The option you are saying are for the non-virgins who want to pretend to be a good person.

U can not scam me with " no sex before marriage" especially these days that many ladies have sold out all their eggs for money or is it after several abortions u come and tell that rubbish talk abeg carry that mentality and go and sit down.

U are not ready to be a wife

Na Monday Morning be this oh

Two of you be doing yourself. You'll now come and he disturbing us with DNA test in few years and why men are this and women are that. Make una carry una wahala comot. Two can play the game 🤡

I have no problem with no sex before marriage.

That's the default pattern for human beings.

But she has to match my own standard too. Which is virginity till marriage.

If she is not a virgin, she should check the next street.

How I go know if we're compatible? You don ever get this crazy feeling about someone, and after sex you just don't find the person attractive anymore?

How about if this no sex thing before marriage turns out like the above?

There's a saying "a man doesn't know if he loves a woman until he has cum" You better believe that statement