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Hello all please I need your opinion on something that is bothering me because I’m really thinking of giving this a chance but before I do hear my story

I stay with my friend, we are roommates. She has this boyfriend who is a very good guy. Her boyfriend takes care of her very well.He sends her money, buys her things, checks up on her, comes around often… the kind of guy every girl wants to have as a boyfriend

But the way she treats him is something else.

She talks to him anyhow, ignores him when she likes, and behaves like everything he does is not enough. Meanwhile, I know she has cheated on him twice. I’m not guessing, I mean I know. And she still acts like she’s the one doing him a favor in that relationship.

To be honest, it has been bothering me for a while, especially when I see how serious the guy is.

I even thought of telling him at some point, but I didn’t want to put myself in trouble where I’m living.

Then something happened recently that I didn’t expect at all

My friend travelled home to go and visit her parents then her boyfriend came to the house . I was even surprised. I asked him if he didn’t know she travelled but he said he was aware but he came to see me .

I was already uncomfortable, but then he told me he knows everything. He said someone told him and he also confirmed it himself. According to him, he is done with her and doesn’t want anything to do with her again.

I thought that was all, but he now said something else.

He told me he has been noticing me for a while, the way I carry myself and how different I am from her. Then he asked if I would be open to dating him.

I didn’t even know what to say.

The truth is, I like him too. I won’t lie. But I never allowed myself to think in that direction because he was with my friend.

Now everything has changed suddenly.

I feel like it’s somehow wrong to go for my roommate’s ex, but at the same time she didn’t treat him well at all and even cheated. I also keep thinking what if I miss a good person because I’m trying to be loyal to someone who wasn’t even loyal herself.

Another thing is, I don’t know if this is just him reacting out of anger or if he really means it.

I haven’t given him any answer yet, I told him I will let him know in a week’s time.

Please, I need honest advice. Should I give him a chance ? Would I be a terrible person if I do ?



https://community.escortafrik.com/d/148-should-i-give-this-a-chance

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If u like miss out cos of one fuulish friend..na u sabi

na your husband be that...

I broke up with my ex..but then we were still close...one day she posted her friend..i know that babe already....i come say this babe fine oo..besides have always known this her friend to be caring and all cos my ex has always been saying good things abt her...i just like her low key sha

as she post her picture...i come like the photo on whatsapp...na so she chat me dey query me...i say if you no gree do normal ....your friend go do normal...ehn ..make i no ever date her friend oo blah blah...

i say see this one ...Life no hard...cos say na your friend na ...you wan block her blessing.... u know if na me and her, God plan together.

wicked pple.... esp some Ladies....dem go dey misbehave with you....but no go want make you switch to their cool headed friend ....

She's just a room mate and you already like the guy as he likes you... So if you like, let your roommate/friend stop you from finding the love of your life you hear

Tell the guy to really take things slow with you, if he truly loves you. Start out with him covertly as just friends, then take time to study him and be sure his intentions are pure. It won't make sense losing the roof over your head, only to realise that the gold you thought you had found, is just a normal stone. Don't bother about your friend, she's living on a fantasy island with the mindset that good men abound.

The guy is playing on your senses, why did he wait until the girl travelled


Wait until the girl comes back, then observe


Have you asked your roommate about her guy

Has she told you they're nomore together.

Don't be desperate and create a big scandal.

I know what we are capable of


Stay away.

People quarrel and reconcile

ALL I CAN TELL YOU IS THAT THEY'RE STILL TOGETHER

DON'T BUY INTO THOSE LIES

ITS EVEN SHAMEFUL FOR YOU TO EAT WHAT YOUR ROOMMATE VOMITED,

WHERE IS YOUR CLASS

capnies:
The guy is playing on your senses, why did he wait until the girl travelled


Wait until the girl comes back, then observe


Have you asked your roommate about her guy

Has she told you they're nomore together.

Don't be desperate and create a big scandal.

I know what we are capable of


Stay away.

People quarrel and reconcile

ALL I CAN TELL YOU IS THAT THEY'RE STILL TOGETHER

DON'T BUY INTO THOSE LIES

ITS EVEN SHAMEFUL FOR YOU TO EAT WHAT YOUR ROOMMATE VOMITED,

WHERE IS YOUR CLASS

Abeg which class you dey talk? SS1 abi SS3? The roommate no even love the guy to begin with. That's life for you and there's nothing new under the sun. If na you go dull yourself..

Your eye don first dey since. And you are not considering dating him because you genuinely love him o. Because he gives her money,he gifts her goodies,he is always there..

These things he was doing is the reason why the girl was never in the relationship with him. You can be all good as a guy to a girl. You have to pepper her sometimes to keep the balance.

Even you will get tired of him being a good boyfriend,and you might do worse of what your friend did.

Ladies don't like a guy being all good to them over time. It bores them.. they love plenty drama,so as a guy give them drama.

Shall know say you and your friend will forever be enemies. She fit nack una juju sef,she will claim you stole her guy,and forget she pushed him away

You should, hopefully he notice someone new and dump your ass.
Are you even thinking? Jezz
Your friend was behaving that way because they are best of same feathers. Lmao unless you want the money, gift then you are not actually looking to be loved.

EmmyMaestro:
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Take a Chance on Me

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ABBA

Gen Z couldn't relate.

Tales by moonlight

If she's considering giving him a chance, she should move out first and then confess everything to her roommate through a text.

Because she doesn't know how she'll react to the news.

Are you sure you really need my advice?
This story get different views but I go patiently give you some insight make you choose.
1. The guy may just hit you and run, make E pain the ex girlfriend, that's if he don breakup with her.
2. The guy may date you just to get back at the ex, not really because he loves you.
3. This same guy may date you because he genuinely loves you like he's saying. So number 2 and number 3 are 50:50 percent chances
4. Make you also know say this guy may date you but you no go see am doing "father Christmas" again like he did for your friend. So if you love am genuinely, better for you.
5. Before you open leg give am, make sure say both of una don define wetin una want. I know say you don already love the guy, hence you're as wet as river zambia but keep sex off the table for now and define wetin una wan start.
6. Remember say your friend go village, so be careful make dem no send you to 6ft all because of preeq. Broke girls no dey joke with their source of livelihood. 😁.
7. Try relocate from that compound before Una start anything serious.
Make I stop here for now sha, I go make am 10 when una don marry and the guy needs advice on DNA test.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test